Black Men Don’t Cheat

come on everybody because God it's a great [Music] [Music] if you believe it come on and clap your hands even now come on clap your hands if you're grateful he covered you this week he protected you this week he kept his hand on your life this week I want you very quickly would you break into circles of three no more than four people I want you to make a circle right where you are on three no more than four people hush as if you let our worshippers gain entrance into the sanctuary we believe in the power of agreement the Bible says if two or three are gathered in my name there I'll be also river quickly just first name would you just introduce yourself to whoever's in your circle just first night now that you've shared that I want you to share with your circle one thing you need God to do this week one thing you need God to do this week those of you who are part of our cyber sanctuary I'm your partner I want you to put your name on the screen I want you to put your prayer requests on the screen even now now that you've shared that if two or three are touching and agreeing if they ask for anything in my name it shall be given unto them for one minute I want you to turn that circle into a prayer cell all over the room would you open up your mouth and start praying for the people in your circle pray for their concerns for their issues for their circumstances their stressors their triggers [Music] [Music] come on pray for because God is the highest power we can't be defeated if God be for us who can be against us the prayers of the righteous they avail much his ear is not heavy that he cannot hear his arm is not short that he cannot say we're believing that God can we believe that he will and those of you your faith comes into agreement with those who are in your circle loose those hands and begin thanking God for answered prayer I said thank God for answered prayer I said thank God for answered prayer and whenever you smoke is coming to pass if he lines up with the will of God it shall be yours those of you that believe it open up your mouth and give God a shout of Thanksgiving [Music] God has entrusted you he's entrusted you with the gift of encouragement you have no idea your strength is helping somebody else iron sharpens iron I want you to get out of your comfort zone I want you to go find three people you don't know I want you to prophesy to them and tell them something good is going to happen to you this week come on come on go tell them something good something good [Music] because God [Music] [Music] give God a cheer right there give them a cheer you may be seated let's go to work we put out a challenge that we were going to be a blessing to the Atlanta metropolitan community what even four weeks ago we said that we were gonna collect 2,000 pairs a brand new back to school shoes for children who need a step up in the right direction going back to school new birth I hope you'll get excited with me of it in just three and a half weeks we have collected 3500 pairs of shoes come on y'all a shout and good [Music] we're thankful for those of you that have mailed the inches would you clap your hands for the 97 pairs of shoes that were mailed in I was preaching in New Orleans Louisiana on Tuesday the lady walked up to the altar brought me four boxes of shoes I said I don't have no room in my bag for this she said find away so I'm thankful I need you to help me thank God for Jarrett's jewelers Garrett sent us 50 pairs of shoes this week I'll come on show your love [Music] all right right now let me hear from Android let me hear from Android let me hear from Team iPhone t my father team iPhone is presently ahead and thank you wait a minute hold on thank you yes all right I want you to help me thank God for brother Kyle team iPhone just bought a seed of $1,000 [Music] would you make some noise for Justina bridges team I found $1,000 all right both of you team and George you bought shoes this morning bring them over to this side they need your help team iPhone come on this is our last week we got to do it come on come on would you clap your hands for those who are given those who are sharing over 1,800 young people have already registered to be recipients on Saturday somebody give God a hand clap of praise the fastest-growing demographic are young people who are in the elementary school I need you to pull out your phone I want you to screenshot what it is that you see on the screen very quickly I want you to apply it to social media because now we've got almost 4,000 pairs of shoes we got to give away I thought y'all would be excited about it let me try it again I said we got 4000 pairs of shoes we got to give away on Saturday and so I want you to please get that I want you to repost it on all of your social media platforms so that we can get the word out I ask that they will please register at new birth or Oh hold on hold on [Applause] my team you win [Music] [Applause] y'all see Android and playin fair all right it's one two three four and Droid ditches porch all 130 paisa tennis shoes all right okay I don't feel good alright it anybody else got shoes I need you to hurry up and bring them if you want team iPhone if you Android take your time amen we're grateful for all of you we're appreciative for all those who have shared and for all of those of you who are apart but now we've got almost 4,000 young people who are coming on Saturday to be a part we need an army of volunteers to help us an army of volunteers to help us on this coming Saturday immediately after service in the chapel all of our volunteers we need you to please and meet us there so we can give you some direction and and some industry and some instruction and so we need minimally four hundred volunteers five hundred to make us feel good but esta - please come we only want volunteers who operate with grace amen you you really are going to be an ambassador of the gospel in representing Jesus Christ in large measure to families who don't necessarily go to church and you're going to be their first encounter with what the church looks like amen and sounds like and so we don't need you to be parole officers and air traffic controllers but amen we need you to please operate with your optimum level of love and grace as we try to represent Christ in the earth realm how many of you got enough faith to believe that on Saturday with four thousand young people somebody gonna get saved on Saturday I can't hear about how many of you believe somebody is gonna get connected to Jesus Christ on Saturday so I want you to please I've make haste and become a part of our volunteers if you would some amazing things are happening and I want you to be a part of it and not miss anything of what it is that we are endeavoring to do if you're using that Post ask that you use the hashtag in the shoe drive and be your shoe drive we wanted to go viral this week out why because so many people talk about what churches are not doing we wanted say that new birth is on the front line grinding it out amen how many of you love your church you're proud of what God is helping your church to do I want to believe my faith that God has given me to usher us into a place that the more you give the more it's giving back to you hallelujah the more you give the more it's gonna be giving back to you next Sunday I'm beginning a brand new series but I wanted to pause because I believe that there's some wealthy women that go to new birth that's that's what I believe how many women in this room how many sisters believe that God has given better to raise up your assets I want that this is sanctified hot girl summer is sanctified it it's a sanctified hot girl summer I saw something online that I want to share with our sisters this morning all of our sisters would you go to the place in your smartphone that allows you to take notes I want you to have this please for all of our sisters all of those of you that are raising daughters I want you to have that those of you they have a significant other she's not here today I want her to be able to get the sanctified hot girls summer a setlist amen sanctified yes thank you I want to run it for you real quick thank you sir yeah my comrade professor K put this on ly another day I said I gotta take this to new birth this is an uber for gum gum blow this out the water here it is this is our sanctified hot girls summer goals number one save a thousand dollars save a thousand dollars pay yourself two hundred dollars from each paycheck for the next five paychecks and deposit that money in an interest-bearing account don't put it in your checking account you can't trust yourself number to invest in five stops invest in five stocks open a Robin Hood account choose top five brands that you own look at the sister beside to tell them I like them shoes research the company see if it is publicly traded and if they are by one to ten shares of the company you wear the most I want you really flossing and baller number three bone by ownership in a REIT are e I t's on your screen screenshot it readers are defined as a real estate investment trust number four I need y'all to get this please I need y'all to get this number four pay down one credit card I really want you to pay it off elbowed assistant besides telling girl you can do it you can do it increase your credit card payment by $100 for two months never pay the minimum you a maximum woman number five create at least one additional stream of income I told you last year you did favors this year you're doing business I want you to write it down whatever you are anointed to do you can get paid to do y'all dismissed that I said whatever you are anointed to do you can get paid to do figure out how it is that you're gonna monetize your skill set number six this is easy you start this one right here in church number six tell another sister you want to see her win and mean it did y'all hear what I just said I said tell another sister you want to see her win and meaning we got to break that demon of jealousy number seven start towards working towards a seven hundred credit score if I got any sisters in the room that do credit repair would you stand any sisters that do credit repair stand I'm giving you a easy shout out right there all right be seated I did not endorse any of them I don't know I hope it works out none number eight by every liability you want with passive income you need to write that in caps about every liability you want with passive income from an asset you own want you to screenshot it please I told you in this class is alright for you to cheat on your neighbours paper I want every sister would you get your wallet your purse your checkbook I want you to lift it above your head please I want to pray for you I want to pray for your finances I want to pray for your business I want to pray for your idea I want to pray for your independent wealth I want to pray that you gonna break the generational cycle of poverty I'm gonna pray that God will break off illegal financial codependency I pray that every idea that God gives you he gives you the resources for you to accomplish it I pray that your daughters will never know your financial struggle I pray that your granddaughters your nieces your goddaughter your best friend's daughter will be able to walk in a place of wealth I pray that your greatest assets will not be on your back but will be in your bank account I pray that God will bless you to be a giver and not just a taker I pray that God will give you business savvy and he'll give you wisdom that you never got in a classroom I pray that God will put you in strategic positions I pray that God will whisper your name to influential people I pray that every dime that is old to you will come back to you one hundredfold I pray for the years you had to sacrifice God will return it in the next six weeks and every sister that has that kind of faith will you give God glory for financial success can I can hear you as I give God glory for financial success I need every sister to give another sister and embrace and tell them I'm excited about your financial future I'm excited about your financial future I'm excited about your financial future [Music] you get ready to see something that's give me to be radical and revolutionary in our community you can receive something that's gonna be radical and revolutionary in our community the enemy does not want to see black men and black women work together are y'all didn't hear what I just said but you get ready to hear a sound from men in this room who are not jealous insecure y'all ain't say or threatened but they are excited about the wealth their women are give many to walk into men make some noise for your wives your sister your daughter your girlfriend your granddaughter come on there is power in unity there's power in unity and God has given many to raise up the entire community last week we would have celebrated the birthday of dr. Marcus Garvey who said lift up your head mighty people accomplish what you will this is the hour that we're gonna accomplish everything that God has for us last year your biggest issue was money by the end of the year your biggest issue is options [Music] Oh y'all didn't hear what I just said huh how many of you want the hard part trying to decide what you want I want all of us because we're moving towards us being a debt-free church I just said something we're moving towards being a debt-free Church the Bible said that the oil flows from the head and whatever's in the head goes down to the skirts of the road I can't expect God to make me debt-free and my church is financially struggling how many of you want to see your church operate in its optimum capacity in financial responsibility not just hearers of the word but we are doers also a great vast Exodus is happening in our churches why because too many of our churches are focusing just on emotional exercise with no intellectual challenge God is calling us to be critical thinkers I think therefore I am Amen how many of you believe God has committed to anoint your thought process anoying how it is that you evaluate how it is that you consider where it is that you go is gonna be different than how most people are able to comprehend God loves what kind to Giver I can't hear you what kinda Giver I'm glad to give cuz I got something to give how many y'all remember when you ain't have nothing but in spite of not having anything God still bless you and gave you the desires of your heart our Usher's are moving now I don't want you to look at it in terms of you making a donation I want you to see it in terms of an investment I want you to begin looking at what I give to God what I give to the church is an investment pastor why you calling it an investment I'm calling it an investment cuz I read Malachi chapter 3 when I read Malachi chapter 3 it says give watch this and it's gonna be giving back to you but the return is always gonna be greater than the investment how many of you know you can't beat God's giving no matter how hard you try it is only in Malachi chapter 3 that God gives us permission to test him he said test me in the area of your money and see if I don't exceed your expectation and outdo what it is that you've done I want you to get a tithing envelope in your hand those of you who are watching online I want you to run through the house go find where your purse is go family your world it is I want all of us giving at the same time last Sunday in August is going to be our demonstration Sunday last Sunday and August is gonna be our demonstration Sunday all of us are gonna tithe on the exact same Sunday those of you have never tapped before those of you have fallen back a little bit you can raise step back up to the plate so that all of us will be on one Accord touching and agreeing I'm believing that favor is debated arrest over this house and has get ready to rest over your house how many of you believe that God's got away that he can send checks in the mail to your house money you didn't even expect it's get ready to be released I don't want you to say nothing if you ain't got no money tied up but if you need some money release that got your name on it God said this is the weakest get ready to make an investment I want you to be a high level risk investor I'm not playing it safe I'm giving it to God why because I'm letting God know that I trust him I'm giving this over to God because I know through my own life's experiences I can't beat God's giving no matter how hard I try he said based off of where your faith is when it is that you give I am going to exponentially multiply in some of you in the next seven days are going to see a 20 percent increase I can't hear anybody summer y'all are gonna get a 60% increase here's my last booth this is my favorite group and there's a small group that's gonna get a 100 fold increase on what it is that you give I believe in that God is gonna do it we're gonna put God to the test I'm going to get that seed in your hand I'm mindful that we're moving towards a cashless society as a consequence many of you I didn't bring any cash with you to bring some of your writing checks do it now write it out - new birth others of you are giving through cash app others of you are giving through key give the fire push to pay text to give whatever apparatus you have I want you to get it in your possession now that you have your offering in your hand you should have your offering in your hand at this time you should have your offering in your hand you writing a check for a million dollars take your time don't let me rush you amen those of you who are watching worshiping with us I want you to please share with us if this is where you're getting your word today I want you to tithe right here read Malachi chapter 3 it gives us the prescription for our success is that we give 10% of all of our earnings back to God because God has been lavishly good to all of us how much did you get that seed now that you have it what you lifted above your head I'm gonna thank you new birth on last week for being a blessing to Greater Cleveland Church in winston-salem North Carolina because of your giving last week we were able to help them and send the seed of almost $8,000 to another church who had lost their building somebody give God glory for that that seat is lifted you're giving electronically lift up that phone for me please repeat after me Lord thank you for what you did last year for what you did last week for what you did yesterday but the seed in my hand is in expectation for what you're gonna do before this week is over amen bless the Lord ours are gonna move amongst you they're gonna receive your giving as is the culture of our church if you'd like to give for yourself and so it at the altar the altar is open and available for you to be able to do that and that you would give your rapt attention to your closer screen so that we can share with you this morning's announcement [Music] thank you for your shoe donations it was a hard-fought battle however the Apple users are now in the lead the shoes will be distributed Saturday August 3rd at 10:00 a.m. doors open at 9 a.m. you must register online to receive shoes also children must be accompanied by an adult to receive shoes there will be entertainment free food giveaways and vendors we will be giving away 3000 pairs of shoes because of your commitment and will need your help volunteers and organizations are welcome eternities sororities businesses neighbors and families represent your group and register to volunteer at the shoe giveaway just log on to new birth dot org slash event slash shoe - Drive thank you new birth mark your calendars our group therapy returns Tuesday August 13th at 7:30 p.m. dr. Bryant's message series will be it's hard to believe the difficulty of faith invite a friend and let's study together until then enjoy the rest of our sabbatical and we'll see you at Sunday worship God is going to do exceedingly and abundantly over what we can ask or think through our campaign 235 I just can't shake it out of my system Psalms 23 and 5 your cup is going to run over I'm urging you please get on both 2:35 because every Tuesday August and September our church is gonna be alone liquid fast and I want you to be a part of it something amazing is getting ready to happen in this ministry and I want to walk with you all through it every Tuesday and August I'm gonna be praying for you and with you that you'll bump into Psalm 23 and 5 let your cup will run over I need you to get this cup because we're going to drink together to begin it and to believe God for something supernatural to happen get ready the table is already set also we will have a weekly 2:35 conference call on Tuesdays at 6 a.m. beginning August 6 the conference dial-in number is seven one two seven seven five seven four three eight standard long-distance rates apply and new birth we have an alert for you friend requests DMS and any solicitation for donations for Kenya or any other solicitations for donations from Pastor Brian are false and fraudulent and not authorized please report any fraudulent pages or activity to the appropriate site what is it like to literally help save someone's life if you donate one kind of blood you have the potential of saving up to three people who are facing a life-and-death situation please join us for the bail memorial blood drive Saturday August 3rd from 8 a.m. until 1 p.m. Sunday August 4th from 8 a.m. until 2 p.m. and check this out our Book of the Month for August is miracle equation by how elrod now available in our bookstore join us for our mass baptism Sunday August 25th baptism takes place at 9 a.m. sharp before our worship service please visit Newberg or to register and for more information and that's gonna do it this time new birth bless the locum on gift gone a Handclap of praise I want to ask our first-time visitors if it's your first time visiting new birth would you stay in first time visiting new birth I want you to stay and give God a hang clever phrase come on come on make them feel welcome y'all glad to have them to see all of you we appreciative for all of you allow me to thank God for two of my mentors who are here Reverend Nelson rivers won't you please stand on this beautiful wife won't you all stand from South Carolina pastor Solomon Butler won't you please stand thank you so much pastor Butler we're grateful for you pastor Conner did I see you past the counter yes staying out past O'Connor I'm glad to see you all the way from Texas give God some praise we get ready to step into a strategic moment for us we're going into our campaign 235 I was praying to the Lord about the direction of our church our ministry and he directed me to Psalm 23 verse 5 but it says my cup runs over how many of you believe that you give ready to live in the overflow I'll come on y'all don't believe it how many of you want to go from just enough to more than enough I'm believing that God has given me to the position all of us strategically to get to that place a beginning on August the 13th we are every Tuesday in August and September every Tuesday August in September as a collective church now we're going to be on a liquid fast every Tuesday August and September amen now on that liquid face no milkshakes amen I'm gonna be telling you about Sunday or one of the requirements at yet I'm asking that you'll please get a 2:35 cup because every Tuesday August in September at 6 a.m. we're going to be praying together 6 a.m. we're gonna be praying together a prayer line in the on social media I'll be live I ask that you please do it and we will have our first cup of water together at 6:00 in the morning so that we can pray together for internal cleansing for purity and for strength for where it is that God is collectively taking us at the last Sunday in September is gonna be our 235 at Sunday it's going to be our 235 Sunday collectively corporately our above and beyond our tithes and offerings we're gonna raise collect five hundred thousand dollars in one Sunday are we gonna do it in one Sunday because we are aggressively moving to shift who holds our mortgage our mortgage lender has not been gracious or christ-like towards us and I am of the mind don't be with nobody who don't want to be with you amen and so I figure to make us a lot more attractive if we can show a lender as a church the health of our church that we can collect and raise a half million dollars in one Sunday they ought to be competing for the privilege to be in business with new birth y'all ain't saying nothing to me believing that God is gonna do some strategic and some monumental things on next Sunday I'm gonna be giving out to you pledge cards I want our entire church to be in agreement and in lockstep for the direction in which God is that taking us you can't afford to miss a Sunday at new birth it's always something poppin always something going on and new birth oh man how many you all know your church is exciting it's always something and it's taking place in our church this Sunday we've got a guest psalmist and I'm appreciative to have them with us on today I'm gonna ask Minister Tiffany bone to introduce our guests on today and after it is that you would have concluded as that you're ready your heart and your mind and your spirits for the word of God before we go on that next place you pray today for your neighbor you prayed in your circle but how many of you need prayer for yourself you need prayer for yourself I want to do this if I can on Tiffany just one moment before it is that I guess almost comes I just feel something pulling on me today but those of you who just are going through something hard something daunting something that's really pressing you stretching you they're stressing you out wrapping your your sleep and you need God I need you all to play place I'm in the old school for me he'll help me right there and I need I'm gonna open up the altar real quick for prayer for those of you who just need to talk to God for yourself do me a favor please I want you to pray and then go right back to your seat but I want to give you an opportunity to just touch God for yourself hallelujah I feel the whole lot of people are carrying weight today I need [Music] after you would have finished praying you can go back to your seat me now [Music] to Tiffany that's good but I need y'all to slow it down for me I feel old school Church on me right here would you just lift up that hand come on I need the aw come on everybody [Music] [Music] [Music] Oh to [Music] come on lift up their hand and he he or no music [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Music] Oh [Music] [Applause] come on URL Adam [Music] [Music] tell them yeah I thought y'all came to have Church yeah [Applause] [Music] come on one more time yeah [Music] [Music] [Music] yes yes come on open up your mouth just beginning to bless him we bless you come on Dana tap into him come on this come on clap that hand and open your mouth oh come on Lord put a man Daytona oh what a man Daytona embrace somebody as you go to your seat [Music] [Music] about heat away [Music] you come on lay your hands on yourself and say he brought me out [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] very well [Music] like jungle watch Oh God [Music] what y'all some food on the table Wow [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Music] [Music] somebody God this morning the set Somali sir he's a mighty God this morning yes Lord yes God we bless your name god [Music] yes Lord I'm here to introduce our guest artists we don't try to do this but the Lord is here [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] I guess artists this morning is the great Tyler little is from the city of Chicago he gained his nationwide following from the ever popular TV show BET's at its best the 19 year old at the time raved fans every week with his soldiery gospel sound since then Tyler has evolved into a songwriter and landed a deal with the dream label group capital Christian Tyler's debut single we come to praise Hilton dropped in November 2018 and has gained nationwide momentum since you're already standing on your feet or you not mind clapping your hands and giving Tyler little a grand new buzz welcome [Music] praise the Lord everybody come on don't stop praising I got on my account come on give God praise all over the road I don't know about you but I came to thank them and bless them this morning God has been faithful even when I was unfaithful God was yet Jesus I'm a singing I'm gonna get out the way I thank God for being a new birth - pastor Jamal bar and thank you so much for having me you please put your hands together for the man of God - my sister Tiffany I love you - you you and you the children of God the Spirit of the Lord is in this place the Bible declares they were the Spirit of the Lord is there is Liberty and I came to bless them from a place of Liberty today hallelujah grace is that faithfulness you can worship right where you are Oh God our Father no shadow of turning with thee hallelujah bow change is not thy Compassion's fail as thou have been forever will be I like this verse pardon for sin and a peace that endureth the new presence - cheering - God strength for today glory to Jesus and bright hope for tomorrow blessings are with 10,000 B he said great is thy faithfulness great is thy faithfulness [Music] new mercies [Music] [Music] the Han temple bad so crazed laughing [Music] [Music] [Laughter] [Music] [Music] is that faithful dense anybody thank you for being faithful great is that faithful - hallelujah [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Music] so great is thy faithfulness so great is their fate great is me and it's flowing from my shoes god I love you for for your faithfulness and its flow wings now [Music] the shoes [Music] he is faithful day Oh [Music] here's faithful [Music] [Music] if you think God truly for being faithful to you and carry you from one end of the week to the next I need you to open your mouth real quick and lift your hands up and say god I thank you for being faithful thank you for being faith thank you for being faithful I messed up but you were faithful I messed up but you were faithful I gave up but you were faithful I dropped the ball but you were faithful hey thank you for being faithful thank you for being faithful faithful God [Music] my heart put your hands together he's thankful God bless you I love you now silly with a praise would you get your Bibles in your hand meet me at first John chapter one first John chapter one as is our custom would you stand for the reading of God's Word first John chapter one I want us to illuminate and critically examine just one verse and that's a versa night first John chapter 1 verse 9 you'd have thought me and the psalmist had a conversation but his selection lead to write us into our scripture today 1st John 1 verse 9 once you found what you say I got it if you can't find it say lord help me first John one person that we're going to read it together with uplifted voices everybody come on let's declare it together if we confess our sins amen I want you to personalize it and put if I come on to everybody if I confess my sins he is faithful and just and will forgive me of my sins and purify me from all unrighteousness I want you to point to somebody around you tell them if you confess your sins he is faithful and just to forgive you and purify you from all unrighteousness you may be seated arm yourself with a writing instrument there are some points and principles that I want to share with you on today that I believe we're gonna serve you long after this ministry moment would have concluded if we confess our sins he is faithful and just to forgive us of all of our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness look at that first John chapter 1 verse number 9 Clause a if you confess your sins he is faithful I want you to underline that if that's your Bible if I confess my sins he is faithful I want to preach for a little while today using as a subject black men don't cheat I feel tomatoes coming at me right through here give me time for my argument now black men don't she Laurita need prayer at the halt all over again comrades I am clearly outright biased about my preference for hi phones however I have to concede that androids while an inferior device has a much stronger battery life most most owners of iPhones a court dragging around a white cord just recently I was flying when I landed I noted that my iphone was about to die as soon as I got in the car that was a sign to pick me up immediately requested of the driver did they have a charger past the charger cord back to where I was seated I immediately plugged it into my phone and across the screen of my phone who was plastered do you trust this device trust the device has access to your photos to your videos to your contacts your content and not to mention your text messages and your call history immediately appear on the dashboard I quickly push the option do not trust I didn't know this driver had never been in his car and I saw my last five phone calls right on his dashboard far too many of us have plugged into people before finding out whether they could be trusted or not because you allowed them to plug in they were able to clean some of your vision read some of your thoughts down low pieces of your heart and after they proved it not to be trustworthy they corrupted your emotional files before life's experiences you had a laundry list of what you wanted from somebody but at this point you really just want to know can I trust you not since Minister Farrakhan called for a million brothers to come to the nation's capital in 1992 has there been such a euphoric adulation when the summer anthem for brothers was released by comedian little Duval Charlamagne tha God entitled black men don't she under syncopated tones the lyrics Rumble no matter what they say or what you heard in the streets everybody knows black men don't she followed up by the line a lot of TLC but we don't ever creep black men don't she basketball courts two barbershops BMWs the song was left on repeat while the brothers were trying to harmonize and get into the vibe many of the women in our lives were rolling their eyes Chiara kelly writer for madame noir calm put ink behind the sentiment when she pinned hearing black men sing that song black men don't she leaves me incensed she wrote because it reeks of irresponsibility and absence of accountability for a trail of tears that lend empirical evidence that the statement is inaccurate a one-on-one interview with Kara Charlamagne tha God on The Breakfast Club gave redress immediately on the air responding to her concerns that the song is a way to speak positivity into existence wow that sounds good it cannot manifest until men are prepared to do the work of dismantling the main reasons why people change many of the reasons people cheat is loss of interests insecurity overcompensation lust and a lack of discipline former president William Jefferson Clinton was probed in an interview and asked why he participated in a flame with intern Monica Lewinsky and his response was because he could the real strength of your manhood is when you can but don't I want to put on record I want to put on record I want to put on record I want to put an exclamation point and change the font size I want to say it out loud so the people in the back can hear me it's not just men that cheap but it's a women also there are a lot of side chicks and side slicks who are keeping their position and don't even know it dr. Keith battle wrote a book called sidechick ology why it is that men and women elect for infidelity all this week social media was a play he's about Nicole Murphy and Antoine Fuqua caught in a series of photographs the question was asked of Nicole denigrating her womanhood why how could she do this when she knew the wife all of the conversations was about the lapse of moral judgment of Nicole but none of the conversations was about the absence of responsibilities of the husband who took the Covenant in the first place in the book the cheating culture why more Americans are doing wrong to get ahead the author argues that the current state of society is marred with inequality in every area of life from matrimony to business to law to even athleticism everybody is cheating looking for quick come home when Sears instituted a production quota for its auto-repair staff in the 80s mechanics begin performing unnecessary and costly maintenance just so that they could meet their quota and because they were meeting their quota they didn't see it as cheating overbilling is now a common practice for many law firms just for them to take the call you are charged for an hour's worth of service for five minutes of direction and hospitals you should be embarrassed and ashamed of how many people have gone through unnecessary surgeries because they have found a way to get kickbacks that has in fact been funneled from pharmaceutical companies that don't really want to see you cured but want to see you addicted I want us to be clear on one thing and that one thing I want us to be clear 1 and I want you to write it down cheating is a decision cheating is a decision in the book leading with a limb to decide here this to decide requires a death when I decided I am killing every other option when I decided I'm pushing aside every possibility for one thing decide means to cut off so from that word decide that root word you still get the word homicide from decided you get the word suicide from decide you get the word patricide every time I make a decision something else dies once you decide you are saying everything else that comes we'll be killed first Corinthians chapter 13 verse number 11 he says when I was a child I spake as a child understood as a child I acted as a child but when I became grown I put away childish things many of you should be cast as extras for the show groaning because you really are not adults you are just grown children because as adults you understand that there are consequences and repercussions to my decisions and I have to be held accountable for what it is I decide you cannot hide under the monologue of Flip Wilson that the devil made you do it at some point you've got to decide there are some things in me that are broken that I have got to redress that I've got to change that I've got to confront that I've got to deal with or else I will spend the rest of my life looking for a filling of a void that another person cannot fill but I've got to deal with my own deep-seated inadequacy in order for me to matura into who God wants me to be when the greatest barriers to becoming pastor of this church was the swirling question do we want to risk hiring a divorce pastor not because of irreconcilable differences but according to open court records due to infidelity I told the committee please hear me you can hear a lot of stuff about me and half of it I did [Applause] but the difference is I own my stuff I don't listen the worst mistake you can ever make is not learning from your mistakes but when you're able to live and learn from your mistakes nobody can hold your mistakes over your head you can now place it under your feet please whatever you do don't let these church people fool you and act like they never fell short of his glory like they never made a mistake like they have never doubted all their eyes and cross all their T's that even if they want to be phony let me talk for everybody look at me I'm I'm a testimony I didn't make it on my own but somebody prayed for me they had me on their mind they took the time and I'm so glad that they pray be seated please you you gotta get to a place that the first step to recovery is admitting you got a problem many of you will never be healed because you don't claim your deficiency but if I can't be honest in church where can I be honest I need 500 of y'all who understand that there are some things in my life where I tried to take a shortcut but I realized it was the long route to where it is that God was trying to get me I need some of you who are not in witness protection but realize that that I went through some stuff and if I had to do it all over again I realize it made me better stronger and wiser and otherwise I never would have made it I can't heal nobody I need 500 of y'all that can be honest just say I didn't always make good decisions I always didn't make right choices I always gonna operate with my yourself but I thank God he looks beyond all of my faults and meet me at my needs I know y'all are perfect saint if I feel with the Holy Ghost speaking in tar fire baptized but for the rest of us that are saved and still sometimes stupid to the rest of us that sometimes I didn't do what God would have wanted from my life I didn't come to church cuz I'm perfect I can't cuz I'm forgiven and I'm grateful that while we were yet he died for us in it amazing how many people only apologize about cheating when they get caught and if it takes you get in court to apologize is it sincere and that's what God is saying today is that you know that every day you sin by thought word and deed but I can't ever get you to the altar to cry out to me until you get caught y'all ain't saying nothing it's oh you didn't feel bad while you were in the hotel you didn't feel bad when you were creating emotional ties with your work husband work wife you didn't feel bad when you were sending dick pics you didn't feel bad when you were watching pornography y'all ain't saying nothing you didn't feel bad when you were meeting up but when your spot beginning to blow up now you want to cry and hold yourself and say God if you ever get me out of this I promise I never gone Oh God is saying don't wait and pray and cry only after your period is late don't wait and cry only when you waiting on the blood test to come back don't wait and cry only when you got a court case but when your conscience kicks in you ought to be crying out to God God you should have killed me because the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life you wanna know why I shout in the sanctuary I shout in the sanctuary because I could have been in the mortuary he could have let me die last night but he woke me up another day so I can be better than what I was yes [Applause] he says in 1st John chapter 1 watch what he says he says if you confess I'm telling you I don't expect too many y'all to shout right through here if you confess my ex wife told me when she filed for divorce it wasn't a cheating that made me file it was the lying y'all ain't saying nothin to me I I could handle the cheating it's the line I can't handle my grandmother used to say if you lie your steel and if your steel oh y'all got the same grandma [Applause] and God is saying in no uncertain terms just don't lie to me confession is good for the soul something is wrong because now we are living in an hour with a 21st century Church no longer believes in deliverance we only believe in discretion so we really don't want to be changed we really don't want to be delivered we just don't want to be exposed and God is saying I'm looking for a church that will cry out to me say Lord I want to be like you create in me a clean heart O God and renew a right spirit within me I don't know who I'm talking to when I'm confessing I'm looking at my neighbor cuz it ain't none of your business but I will look to the hills from whence cometh my help some stuff you gotta get off your chest he didn't say confess it to your neighbor he said confess it to him and I'm talking to those of us who have fallen short of his glory and you come in church with your arms folded Ingle a scroll as if you doing God a favor knowing that you were in some trifling stuff this week that if God put your business on the screen of this church you would be running out of here with your head between your legs but I need those of y'all who are in this room that can say Lord give me one more chance I I wanna be better this week then I was last week I wanna be more discipline this week then I was says if you confess your sins ain't always about extramarital affair sometimes will you confess you lied on that application confess you know you are not qualified for the position confess you know you ain't ready for no real relationship yes their stuff ain't yours you showing on social media [Applause] he said if you confess your sins I need to look at closby first John chapter 1 verse number 9 Clause B watch how they describe God it messed me up we always hear about God being merciful and gracious and being in the blessing business but John does something peculiar he says if you confess your sins you get another dimension of his personality and his characteristics he is faithful a northern jumped you from the back in it amazing that many of us claim to be Christian and if we claim to be Christian if we break it down in an etymological understanding Christian means to be christ-like so now if I am a Christian man I am a Christian woman then it ought to be reflective in my relationships that I am faithful hallelujah I'm faithful watch this I'm faithful why because God's been faithful to me hallelujah and you ought to want to be like God in everything that you do that you are loyal and consistent I'll never forget it y'all please don't judge me don't judge me please don't judge me III try to be a scholar I try to read I tried to do appropriate research please don't judge me how but but but but I fell back I fell back last week I watched Jerry Springer don't judge me [Applause] don't judge me honey I know I shouldn't do that I know it's bad and I know it's a mockery of who we are I had no business watching Jerry Springer then yeah I'm in my hotel room I'm watching Jerry Springer y'all ain't don't believe it no woman is in there and crying on the stage 24 million viewers around the world she she's dating Luke she said like I got a suspicion he cheating on me looks at night cheating on you I promise you you know me i cheating on you Jerri says Luke you gonna take the light test let's see yeah i'ma take it they took Luke in the back after the commercial break Lucas back Jay got his flashcards so Luke I may ask you again for I read the results have you been faithful Luke look with a straight face yeah I've been faithful this that's my rider die that's my soulmate she always got my back what I look like cheating on her Jerry said I'm glad you so adamant that you ain't she the results from the lie-detector tests are back and according to the lie-detector test you have been unfaithful Supper times [Applause] cheated with her cousin next-door neighbor and her system girl friends look like a fool sitting on their couch she crying uncontrollably shakin losing everything humiliated embarrassed all of the crowd is Chim boo hey boo and Luke Jerry Springer messing me up he asked his sister what you gonna do she said I'm how much stay with them whole crowd and Jerry Springer start doing with the crowd at new birth dose boo don't cave with them I'm looking at it for entertainment purposes only I'm laughing to myself my sermon I'm thinking is almost finished while I'm sitting on the edge of the bed God tapped me on my shoulder and said Jamal do you see me on this show so now I'll see you on this show he said I'm the one just cheated on I'm the one that's been lied on I'm the one that's been taken for granted and the Angels keep asking me what are you gonna do with a man and God said I'm still gonna keep them and you wanna know why are you gonna still keep up cuz I still love and I need somebody who's in this place then those God should have to me away buddy stare [Music] [Applause] be seated I'm coming he says if you hallelujah you gotta be like me and be faithful because if you are faithful over a few things I'm gonna make you ruler over many y'all I gotta get out of here but I gotta give you the last Clause of this verse it says not only will he forgive me of my sins but the Bible says in the New International Version he'll purify me from all unrighteousness the original word of purify is not purified the original word you'll see it is cleanse me from all unrighteousness I'm telling y'all some of y'all better shout right through here he said in no uncertain terms when I forgive you I stop cleaning off for you the residue of whoever touches you because I don't want any traces of them on your life I'm getting them out of your memories I'm getting them out of your spirit and I'm personal out of your system that's why a lot of people [Music] [Music] look at the Beyonce and some mistakes I drop the ball fail sort of this give them praise praise Him praise Him lift up that ham [Applause] I cheated on God this week lift up that hand softly Michels I cheated on God this week I checked the Instagram before I pray I read more Facebook than I did description I cheated on God this week eight a couple of meals before saying grace I cheated on God this week he made some ways for me and I forgot to tell him thank you but I'm thankful that he's faithful but even when other folk didn't forgive me God forgave me he's safe he's just to cleanse me from all unrighteousness lift that hand for me so all I need you to do is confess and if you confess it I'll fix it I want that hand lifted please sir please ma'am I'm asking you to turn to your neighbor cuz I ain't talking to them I'm talking to you we sinned by thought by word and by deed and you've only asked for forgiveness for deeds but not for your thoughts as a man as a woman think if so was he so was she first step to sin is in your thought process and your thought pattern talking to black men and black women talking to men in women that today I want you to begin your week of faithfulness you don't stick with nothing you don't stick with the gym you don't stick with the eating program you don't stay with the book you should have have finished two summers ago with the grant proposal y'all ain't saying nothin to me with the business you're supposed to say no wonder your kids don't stick with nothing they haven't seen you model faithfulness come on lift up that hand I'm praying that God will give you the discipline to cut off some stuff it's gonna hurt some people's hearts but it's gonna help you heal I need you to begin praying not for cars not for money not for clothes not for house God show me who I need to cut off it ain't healthy for me anyway I'm supposed to be show me here it is what part of me needs to be cut off you 47 still blaming your childhood well part of you needs to grow up blaming other people what i pray of every lifted hand that you'll brace them for hard decisions stuff that they don't know how to do give them the wisdom to do I pray dear Lord that even if they got to hurt other people's feelings in order to help their destiny I pray dear Lord that you'll have known I'm a fresh in a new thank you God because today we've lifted hands we're giving you a sign we want to be like you we want to be faithful to whatever we agreed to say we're gonna be a member to church we ain't coming once a month every time the doors open soon as Bible studies available I'm walking down the door god I want to talk to you every day not just when I'm in trouble god I trust you for it I believe you for it thank you for being faithful in the face of my unfaithfulness and those of you who lend your heart your mind and your spirit unto God you do me a favor would you just give God the sound of glory right now come on give them the side come on you owe him more than that I said you owe him more than that [Music] [Applause] I'm gonna open the doors of the church softly Mitchells I'll open the doors of the church hear me cuz I'm telling you if you confess your sins he's faithful he's just cleaned you all unrighteousness five-foot-three james baldwin from a one-bedroom apartment at Lenox Avenue said you can't fix it till you face it some stuff you're gonna have to deal with head-on you're in this room listen to me very carefully I want you to stop cheating on God he deserves all of you you don't move to Atlanta I still ain't found the church but you found a supermarket found a gas station I need you to get right with God I want you to do it right now I know you got a church back home but you don't go back home to go to the market you don't go back home to get gas this your new reality you're here in this room and you know God has been unwaveringly faithful to you now you need to get right with God you're in this room I need you to come meet me at this altar please I'm talking to you I'm talking to your neighbor I need you to come [Music] I want to be faithful come on come on come on [Music] new birth come on make some noise they're coming [Music] God is saying I'm tired have you treating me like you only want me in your spare time [Applause] I'm saying I don't want you to be in a place where you treat me like I'm your sugar daddy you only call me when you need rent only look for me when the car breakdown only reach for me when your children need something I want to be an integral part of your life I don't want to date you I want to lock you down I want you and I to be in covenant you're in this room come on quickly please I've done my part and I need you to help me I need you to be a faithful believer faithful believer wherever it is that you are faithful believer I want you please come on clap for this young man this coming you making my day problem you don't change the world it's what I need you to do every person in the room I want you to go find somebody who you don't know find somebody who you don't recognize somebody whose name you don't know walk right up on them and ask them are they faithful to a ministry are they faithful to a church if they're not I want you to please bring them to me I'm not looking for membership I'm looking for discipleship wherever it is that you are please come y'all they comin all the way from the back would you give God glory form after your friends who are watching online I want you to become a part of what it is that God is doing here at new birth go to new birth dot org right now I want you to join I want you to be a part of what it is that God is doing give God some praise I don't care if you live in Kentucky you live in Connecticut live in Canada live in Kenya you can still be a part of the new birth family new birth make some noise for those that are coming let me go get my five and then I'm done father y'all I'm waitin on I need you to come I'm grateful that you're here in the middle of July middle of a heat wave you still came to church and I want you to know if you think it's hot out there lord knows if you won't get saved if you don't find Jesus Christ with a partner your sins global woman will be a breeze for you I want you to help me there are five other people who need to be collective rescued from the clutches of a destiny that would be inflamed I want you to please would you just do a spin 360 as the people beside you in front of you behind you ask them how they saved ask them do they have a church home ask them have they given their lives over to God I need you to do that for me please sir please ma'am [Music] yes hallelujah stretcher right heading to faith would you collect for this whole family coming yelling clapping good come on give God praise for right-hander faith those are you've been members of new birth but you don't gone AWOL today God is calling you back home he wants you to be faithful to your assignment you don't ride other places ain't no way in the world like new birth you just plain yourself today you renewing your covenant to your church into this ministry how much you to come I want you to come give us your hand but I want you to give God your heart come on back home come back where you belong there's a place for you give God some praise [Music] [Applause] here they come come on come on y'all oughta cheer like they coming back home y'all listening we're grateful for you all right stretch it right-hander Faith Church it right-hander faith repeat after me you're in the right place at the right time John in the right church serving only God and I know that's right show you're right come on if you're known right Big Ups to the Savior come on would you give it to him new birthday came as friends but they leave it as family would you give God a shout for all of our new family members I want to ask those of you who are here if you'll follow us out this way is some information I need to get from you is only gonna take you a few moments new birth come on make some noise for them real quick [Music] come on give him a big cheer come on give him a big cheer [Music] thankful faith [Music] [Music] [Music] you may be seated one is flowy [Music] ha [Music] come on if you were blessed would you give God a shelter Thanksgiving I'm finished I'm just not through I want to say just a couple of things how many you were blessed by the Word of God on today I'm gonna be dealing with it more intensely on next week but God dropped something in my spirit just now that Malachi asked a critical question can a man can a woman Rob God the answer came back yes every Sunday at 9:30 at new birth their tithes and offerings I want to do this very quickly is not a part of our program but those of you who know you have cheated God in your giving not being responsible and reflective as to how it is that he's been a blessing to you that you have been raised better but you ain't doing better I'm gonna stretch the elasticity of your faith very quickly even at the risk of people willing you with judgemental Liars but those of you who know you didn't give in accordance to what it is that God has given to you I'm giving you on the mouth cuz you know what it is that you owe him all I know is that the tithe opens up the blessing of God and those that steal from God are under a shroud of a curse and I don't want any curse to fall over your life I want both of you who know that I owe God more than what I just gave him today real quick is unscripted even for those of you watching online I want you to balance things out right in God's face I can't cheat goddess good as God's been to me and I want to say to you all of your blessings are not tangible you ought to thank God he kept you healthy today you forgot your medication I want those of you who know you Oh God you Oh God very quickly is only gonna take me 90 seconds those of you who need to give a Supplemental seemed to add on to what it is that you did earlier this morning I want you to bring it to the altar as quickly as you can as quickly as you can don't worry about the people around today don't need from God what it is that you need both of you are saying God I owe you for all that you've done for me I owe you for what it is that you've done for my child I owe you here it is for what you didn't give me I owe you for the doors that you shut that I tried to open I owe you the doctor was wrong the school was wrong the lawyer was wrong the real estate agent was wrong the banker was wrong I owed you the guidance counselor was wrong I owed you the test was wrong so that God I'm giving you Thanksgiving cuz I didn't have to receive as much as I did God you have been exhibited for me unfailing love for that I'm grateful for that I'm appreciative I want you right where it is that you are right where it is that you are would you just give God Thanksgiving from if we're good every perfect gift [Music] I'm thankful I need to really Express to you with all of the shoes that we have collected up thus far would you clap your hands for every person that donate it come on clap your hands for every person that gains the largest demographic of those who have registered for Saturday our elementary school children a lot of the sizes that we've brought in a high school but we are really running derelict over smaller sizes for elementary age children and half sizes if we could collect another 300 this week either by mail or for those who come in person you can drop it off at the church at any time Monday through Friday during business hours our staff will warmly receive them but ask that you are please please please we need another 300 or so of small sizes and half sizes because I don't want one child turned away on Saturday hallelujah how many of you are excited about what we're getting ready to do all of our volunteers ask that you'll make way to the chapel we need to share some critical information with you again we need some 400 volunteers on Saturday you're to thank God that you can serve and you don't have to receive a meant to tell you what I just said I said you ought to be grateful you can serve and you don't have to receive when I tithe it is not always my treasure it is my time in my talent and you got to give all three of those to the inner working of the body of Christ colder church as it you'll please stand to your feet stand to your feet please I'm a faithful take that neighbor by the hand Tiffani old song reach out in Turkey somebody's hanging come on everybody come on make this work yes you can yes come on everybody [Music] yes you can yes come on one more time real job some [Music] yes you can Saturday is gonna be a historic and a monumental day you know the child or a family who is in need of shoes sto that ricktum Newport org so that they can register I'm gonna underscore that the recipients don't have to be members of our church did y'all hear what I just said they do not have to be members of our church they just need to have a need do not bring your children here if you can afford to buy shoes that's greed amen as that you will make space for those who really are in need as we leave this place but never from God's president we learn from the Olympics you only lift your hands when you want I want you to lift that neighbor's hand why because your whole team is gonna win this week everybody connected to you is gonna have supernatural success as we leave this place but never from God's presence repeat after me walk with God and you'll walk with me talk with God and he'll talk with me listen to God and he'll listen to me love God because He first loved me lift that neighbor's hand as high as you can now went to him who's absolutely able to do anything but fail may God make you sleepless until you help somebody may God make you restless until you help yourself may God irritate you until you have enough sense to worship Him and may God bless you and he have to give stuff away here forth now and forevermore the blessed people of God said amen

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Published: Sun Jul 28 2019