Be Inevitably LOVED | 7 Rules to make anyone fall in LOVE with you | ( Must Watch)

love is the most beautiful emotion in the world it connects us and binds us it can lift you to the skies but it can also drop you to the ground in an instant if you love the wrong person you will never find the true happiness of true love it is like a double-edged sword that can shatter your world if the person you love doesn't value your love it's become an addiction you chase them more intensely to get their love ultimately that leaves you more empty and more broken the more you crave the more you lose your dignity and self-respect you love them from the core of your heart but they neglect you insult you and make you unimportant but here's the raw truth you don't need to be a prisoner of this craving it is time to flip the script in this video I will tell you seven brutal psychological strategies to flip the coin so that they will beg for you rule one don't give your attention away freely let them earn your attention at some cost don't just hand out your attention it's valuable when you give it away to anyone and everyone they don't see it as something special you need to make them work for it your time your focus and your energy should be earned not just given away this isn't about being mean it's about respect respect yourself and make others respect you too if you're always there and always available you become common you want to be rare something worth chasing so step back a bit don't jump every time they call make them realize that getting your attention is a privilege when you do this you become more interesting and more valuable people start seeing you in a new light they understand that your time is not to be taken for granted and that's how you start to change the game your attention should be a reward not a giveaway rule two stop investing too much effort in relationships rather let them invest to keep going the relationship it's a two-way street you've been putting in too much effort and it's time for that to change you shouldn't be the only one trying the only one making plans or the only one keeping things alive it's exhausting and unfair let them step up they need to show they're just as invested as you are this isn't about playing games it's about having a fair balanced relationship where both parties contribute if you're always the one doing everything they get complacent they take you for granted pull back a little give them space to put in their share of the effort it's healthy for the relationship and it's good for you you'll quickly see how invested they truly are remember a relationship is a partnership not a solo project is about ensuring that the effort is mutual when you implement this you command respect and Foster a healthier more balanced connection rule three make it clear that you don't need them and you can live a happy life with or without them show them you don't need them it's a powerful move when you prove you're happy on your own you're not desperate and you're not waiting around for them to make your day you're making your own happiness that's attractive that's respect worthy you're not cold you're just confident you're showing that your world doesn't revolve around them this isn't about being harsh it's about being strong it's about showing that you're complete on your own when they see you're not clinging to them for your happiness they start to see you differently they realize you're not just another person dependent on them you're someone who chooses to be with them not someone who needs to be remember Independence is key show them you're fine alone and watch how they start to pay more attention you're not just another option in their life you become a choice they want to make rule four stop being too emotionally dependent on them no more relying on them for your emotional balance will give you super strength emotionally you need to be your own anchor depending on someone else for your happiness or to pick you up when you're down that's giving away too much control you need to be the master of your own emotions start dealing with your feelings on your own build up your emotional strength it's not about shutting them out it's about not leaning on them for every little thing you've got to handle things yourself first this isn't just for your own good it changes how they see you it shows you're resilient yourself Reliant that's attractive that's the kind of person others resp respect and want to be around when you're not emotionally clinging to them you become more than just a partner you become someone they admire someone they see as strong that's where you want to be stick to rule four it's about being emotionally self-sufficient do that and you'll not only feel stronger but you'll also be seen as someone worth pursuing rule five be ready to cut ties if you're treated as unimportant it's a tough rule but it's vital you need to set a clear standard for how you're treated and if they can't meet that standard if they make you feel like you don't matter it's time to walk away it's not about being harsh it's about valuing yourself no more settling for being a second choice or a backup plan you deserve better than that you deserve to be a priority and if they can't see that they're not worth your time this rule isn't just about making a statement it's about protecting your worth when you show that you won't tolerate being treated poorly you send a strong message it tells them and everyone else that you know your value remember the moment you're ready to leave if you're not valued you command respect you show that you're not someone to be taken lightly that's the kind of strength that earns you not just respect but the right kind of attention rule six stop seeking their validation and approval you don't need it your worth isn't based on what they think of you too many times you've looked to them for a nod of approval for a sign that you're doing okay it's time to end that your value your decisions your life they're valid because you say they are not because someone else does you've got to stand firm about who you are be confident in your choices your actions and your beliefs when you stop waiting for their thumbs up you start empowering yourself this change is more than just for you it shifts how they see you when they notice you're not hanging on to their every word not desperate for their approval they start respecting you more they see you as an equal as someone who's sure of themselves remember your validation comes from within not from them rule six is about self assurance about knowing your worth without needing others to confirm it Embrace this and watch how the Dynamics change you're not just stronger for it you become someone they look up to not down rule seven don't always show how much you love or care about them let them be desired to get your love and attention don't show all your love and care right away it's like giving away your power when you tell them everything about how much you care they start to take you for granted you've got to hold back a bit May make them Wonder make them want to earn your love if you give it all too quickly you're just another person who's easy to forget keep it a secret how much you care let them chase that feeling it's not about playing games it's about showing your worth your love isn't something to just hand out it's special make them work for it when you do this you're not just someone they know you become someone they want to win over remember when you don't show everything they get more Curious and the more Curious they are the more they'll see that you're worth it keep them guessing and watch how they start to Value you more you are at the end of the video before you go to the next video I want to ask if you are willing to be the prioritized loved person or a loser I dare you to write your promise in the comment say I will be the person who does not seek love and who creates his own happiness if you really want to get such unfiltered and unseed words of wisdom 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Channel: Words of Wisdom

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Id: W2fX2FZctFo

Length: 10min 23sec (623 seconds)

Published: Thu Dec 07 2023