Attract Your Ex Back, By Doing These 4 Things

do you want your ex to change their mind about breaking up and beg you to take them back if so then you need to rebuild their attraction for you and that is exactly what I'm gonna be covering right here in this video so keep watching I'm Brad browning by the way and I am one of the world's most experienced and trusted breakup experts my comprehensive program called The X Factor is the number one best-selling guide to getting an ex back so after this video is over please visit my website breakupbrad.com and watch the full video tutorial to learn more tactics Akande and techniques they're gonna help you get a second chance with your ex ok so to begin with I want to make one thing very clear no amount of logic and reasoning is going to convince your ex that they should give you a relationship another shot instead you have to tap into their emotions and essentially make your ex fall back in love with you so that they'll ignore logic and give in to their feelings that folks is how you repair a romantic relationship and there really isn't any other way to win your ex back so what this means practically speaking is that you need to rebuild mutual attraction with your ex to the point where they decide on their own to take you back and when I say a no attraction I'm referring to both physical and emotional attraction so basically you just need to bring back the the spark that your ex felt during the early days of your relationship and of course the tips and techniques that I'm about to share will help you create this kind of natural organic attraction in your ex so tip number one is to disappear now I'm sure you already know about the no contact technique from watching some of my previous youtube videos so I'm not gonna bore you guys here by explaining how it works again but the first thing you need to do in order to rebuild attraction with your ex is to stop speaking to them now I know that you might be you know skeptical about why this can actually be possible so let me explain briefly why no contact can actually make your ex more attractive to you first of all when you simply vanish from your ex's life all of a sudden you're shocking him or her into realizing what life is like when you're not around and on its own this can actually sometimes be enough to make your ex beg for you to take them back and in fact you know this actually happened to one of my coaching clients this morning and it's something that I see regularly employing no contact gives your ex time to let go of the negative memories that may have led to the breakup and revive some of the happier more nostalgic ones it's just human nature to subconsciously purge negative memories over time so by ignoring your ex your allowing this to happen naturally and of course the result is that your ex is going to start to forget about the significance of the negative aspects of your relationship that led to the breakup and they're gonna focus more on the happy times that you shared together now this technique also taps into another element of human nature which is the desire to want what you can't have now I know this is a bit of a cliche but several research studies have shown that both men and women are more attracted to members of the opposite sex that aren't romantically available so you know by disappearing from your ex's life you're making yourself appear less available which helps to subconsciously make your ex more attracted to you and tip number 2 is to leverage jealousy so by using what I call covert jealousy you can make it appear to your ex that you're being pursued by other guys or girls and thus cause your ex to question whether it was a good idea to end the relationship with you in the first place now you do have to be a little careful and a little strategic when you're using jealousy to to rebuild your ex's attraction for you because there is the potential for this tactic to backfire on you if you're too obvious about it now that being said though you know jealousy is extremely powerful and it can absolutely help change your ex's mind and make them want you back for starters like I just mentioned humans have an ingrained tendency to want what we can't have and if your ex thinks that you're seeing someone new that makes you seem unavailable and thus more desirable in the eyes of your ex but equally importantly by making it appear to your ex that you're dating someone new or you're even just hanging out with members of the opposite sex you're also tapping into something called pre selection now pre selection is a scientifically proven phenomenon that essentially makes all humans subconsciously more attracted to people who are already being pursued by others you know in other words if I'm being chased by ten gorgeous women who all want to date me you're gonna naturally assume that I'm a great guy and that in turn will make you more likely to find me attractive which I'm sure you already do right now to learn more about how to safely and effectively use my covert jealousy technique on your ex please go to breakupbrad.com and watch my full free how-to video and tip number three is to make your ex feel FOMO so FOMO or or the fear of missing out can also help rebuild your ex's attraction for you and if you want to make your ex feel FOMO you can honestly do something as simple as post a photo of you doing something you know fun or exciting on Instagram or Facebook knowing that your ex is gonna see that photo sooner or later or you can also you know dropped subtle references to interesting stuff you've been doing since the breakup or even you know refer to new friend that you've been hanging out with lately the next time that you're talking to your ex now I actually recently made another YouTube video on how to use FOMO to Rhea tracked your ex so I'm not gonna go into any more depth on that here just head over my channel later and watch that recent video to learn more about how to leverage FOMO for now suffice to say that that leveraging phone will can absolutely make your ex attract it to you again tip number four is to flirt and build real sexual tension so one of the things that I've learned in my 12 years of breakup coaching is that almost everyone underestimates the importance of flirting see when you get to the point where you're talking to your ex regularly again and of course this is only gonna be the case when you've already finished employing no contact you really need to focus on to flirting and building sexual tension with your ex now that means that when you do hang out with your ex you need to be showing them a good time and just generally being upbeat and fun to be around there really shouldn't be any you know serious talk and drama or any bickering instead you really just want your time together to be enjoyable for your ex and you need to flirt with them like crazy as much as possible now for some people it can be helpful to treat these in-person hangouts with your ex like they're a first date with someone new the difference of course though is that you know you also have a shared history together that you can use to help crank up the sexual tension with your ex you know by dropping subtle hints at some steamy sexual encounters you previously had with your ex or by being you know playfully flirty by touching your ex and reminding them of the intimate connection that you shared you'll be able to quickly recreate the kind of sexual tension they will make your ex desperate to get you back into their bed in short ladies and gentlemen just don't underestimate the power of flirting and creating physical attraction with your ex these are essential things to making your ex want to take you back now for more free advice and proven techniques to help you get a second chance with this ex you know where to go right now breakupbrad.com my free video tutorial on the website there is the best place to start and of course please don't also don't forget to leave your feedback and your questions below the video in the comments I always read them all and I do my very best to answer any questions that you guys do ask in the comments within a day or two so thanks a lot for all your comments and for supporting my channel here on YouTube best of luck go there and I'll see you again soon you

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Length: 6min 38sec (398 seconds)

Published: Tue Oct 01 2019