Ask Steve - Oh Lawd, This Is Crazy!

hi Steve hi Candace whenever I get mad at my boyfriend he tries to pretend like he's mad or stressed about something first for instance he'll come home he'll see that I met he's mad he'll start complaining about how hard things were at work how there was no more toilet paper left in a stall and he used it like whatever but I feel like he does this on purpose so I could feel sorry for him and usually it works and I really wanted to know how can I like stand my ground well I mean yeah yeah that's what we do if we know that our woman is mad at us and we know we got it coming we have a defense mechanism it's kind of it's called deflection because see men are taught early the best defense is a good offense so what we do is when we know you mad at us we create something for you to feel suffer oh I can't believe what happened to me today this has been crazy out here and then you sit over there but then the maternal instinct in you kicks in and you start going on and then you start wanting to nurture and fix and then he got you and that's it what you got to do is stand your ground when your man comes in and you mad at him and then he says something like oh I had a really rough day at work were you about to have a worst day at this house so train your man to defuse you let him know that that technique don't work so next time you come home he's gonna be coming house baby everything okay you need you need anything housing how was the kids today sure I wish I could have been here for you and it'll diffuse you so when you get him like that then you can talk to him a little more calmly and get your point across he said okay that works she didn't blow up so now he comes in the house with the big routine instead of their anger you gotta learn how to do man we all the same that's how we work but as long as you keep fixing it for him he come oh no I look at this is crazy no I'm crazy [Applause]

Channel: Steve TV Show

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Length: 2min 19sec (139 seconds)

Published: Wed Feb 13 2013