How Do I Get Him To Tell Me Everything? || STEVE HARVEY

let's start with uh Melissa where's Melissa hi Steve yes okay so I've been married for five years and my husband sometimes likes to keep things from me or withhold information I was on our computer that we share together and I saw that he'd received a message from an ex through facebook private message and he was corresponding back and forth and I asked him about it and he didn't think it was a big deal because there was nothing going on and to me withholding information is the same thing as lying so how can I get him to see that what do you think about guys withholding information so this is one that I deal with a lot it's not that I won't want to tell my girlfriend something but sometimes I'll forget to tell her things right hold on hold on conveniently forgot I mean like going out to have a drink with the guys after work and forgetting to text her call her right now with the other with the other stuff he said with the other stuff and then he look for help yeah I know I know where I look like you out there look we watch it oh hey we got you Collin what about you I feel like you have to work to build an environment of trust together almost where you want to tell each other everything I know that seems a little bit of a stretch because let's be honest women out there you don't tell your man everything you don't know your man mm you were at the gym oh you went to gym somebody was staring at you you were at the grocery store somebody said let me help you with those groceries you know what I mean like I always tell those things I overshare so I'm in and I'm with you that's uh in that that's kind of what I meant in terms of building the environment to trust like in my last relationship I wanted her to know where I was and what I was doing and who I was with just to make her feel that much more secure and it was kind of vice versa the same way so I think you kind of build that level of comfort together and then you know you both realize when you're deep enough into the relationship that trust is implicit in order to survive and get kind of move forward and that's all that areas to it really Adam you're married do you keep things from your wife I am married I tell her everything and I I I definitely feel like you know in a in a solid relationship it's important to have the honesty and have the openness that if if that environment is not there in that relationship then there might be an implication that something else is going on right no one you know another okay another thing too if you trust your man how you say you do you wouldn't have to know his every move because y'all built that and y'all establish that nothing to do with no but what it boils down to is just having that 100% communication they gotta be you know a1 if that's not intact then everything else is not gonna fall in place that's really important I have a girlfriend beautiful girl I don't tell her everything she don't tell me everything but we trust each other and it's a great relationship I don't think that the same thing as lying it is no no man don't look at it that way no yeah no no no no I get him to understand that it is basically my question okay listening to understand that not telling you everything to me and is not the same as lying I think personally that you cannot tell your mate everything that's what I think I think women know certain things you cannot share with your man cuz you already know who you married to I already know that if you take certain information to him the example you cannot come home and tell your man that this guy down at the office is flirting with you and you want it to stop because now guess what you already know he going down there tomorrow no hana mo damn job so you try to handle it yourself I mean they were communicating back and forth you should have just chose not to message back and that I wouldn't have cared but there was a whole conversation that took place well see I understand that it would have saved him a lot of pain and said hey look I was on Facebook my ex called me I just wanted you to know but what nothing to it yeah I'm just going it out there but ain't no man fitting to walk back into his house voluntarily right why no man starts a fire at his own house why is she texting you I just I just told she hit me up on Facebook but why okay baby I'm just telling you her Facebook is public domain but watch it now okay so to avoid that sometimes it's an omission sorry I'm so sorry I'm sorry is she still standing hey folks welcome ah thanks for checking out my youtube channel don't forget to click here to subscribe to my channel that way you won't miss a single hot new video some really good stuff and then I want you to click here to see more clips from the show right now

Channel: Steve TV Show

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Length: 5min 9sec (309 seconds)

Published: Thu Apr 21 2016