Are You a Man ?! Very Powerful Speech ! Mohamed Hoblos

[Music] [Music] can i kindly ask that before we start inshallah please no one to be recording so i can already see some of the brothers they're holding their phones trying to hide it please if i can kindly ask inshallah to put your phone away don't record not audio not visual and i'll tell you why because once your phone starts recording your heart stops recording there's no point in your phone benefiting and you and i were not benefiting so please can i kindly ask the brothers to not record inshaallah that's the same for the sisters as well may allah reward you guys as well also only before i start yesterday i didn't get a chance but i wanted to thank shahab the salem and brother rabia and the committee of measured the sunnah for opening their doors and inviting me may allah reward them and bless them and put nuri in this mission you know this is a it's a beautiful sign when when when doors are opened for muhammad for unity so ask allah to bless the shaykh and to bless the brothers that are involved all praise is due to allah subhanahu wa ta'ala the king the master the sustainer the creator of the heavens and the earth and we send peace and blessings upon his beloved muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam [Music] there's a lot i want to mention and i ask allah that he makes it easy but i ask for your undivided attention please please for your undivided attention you know many of us we come to a talk please brothers no pictures please brothers no pictures no recording [Music] many of us we come to the talk or you come to a friday khudbah or you come to a lesson and there's this sickness where you come to see how will the shaykh or the speaker or the imam how will he entertain me or how will he inform me of something and therefore you find a lot of times today people go shopping for speakers that they like this is very very dangerous because this will limit your benefit the reality is a muslim goes to any gathering we should see in that gathering asking allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to open our hearts and you benefit only according to how much you want [Music] that's why depending on where you are with allah subhana wa you will take something from the message you know sometimes you learn something from the speaker that the speaker himself had no intention on teaching you [Music] sometimes you learn something from a speaker the speaker himself had no intention on teaching you that particular lesson but that was based on your relationship with allah that was based on your hunger your sincerity so allah will teach you things you know sometimes allah will teach you from means that you that you never thought possible allah sometimes allah will teach you by watching an animal sometimes just by watching two animals allah might teach you a lesson that you could never find in a book based on what you want so tonight based on what you want allah will give you see my brothers and sisters [Music] every single man regell in arabic every man is a male but not every male is a man every man every rajal is a male but not every male is a man and there's a very big difference between the two you see most of us we like to think where men reject speak to anyone and tell him brother are you a man or a male and instantly you will see a reaction in him almost as if brother are you questioning my abilities are you questioning my honor and my dignity every man is a male but not every male is a man you see being a male my brothers doesn't make you special being a male doesn't make you special because you were born that way allah subhana wa and in fact even that you know yesterday you didn't even have to be born a meu yesterday you didn't even have to be born in you could go and get a surgery and become a male [Music] today you don't even need the surgery today you just have to think you just have to feel that you're a male and legally the law will accept you and protect you and give you the rights as a male regardless of what you are based on a thought based on a feeling so being male doesn't make you special but to be a man to be a gel there's no surgery for that my brothers [Music] there's no hormones for them to be rejected that's not a feeling that you can claim in your heart and then all of a sudden you become a reject that's not how it works [Music] to be a man that's not something you can get tattooed on your arm [Music] see many of us we like to we like to look like we're tough we like to present ourselves that wish to be a child that's not something you can get tattooed to be a jail to be a man you see look even in the quran whenever something is of importance whenever something is of high regards allah addresses men whatever it's something general it's something that is not overly important allah says distinguishing that there's a big gap between the two and tonight my brothers i want to ask you and i how will you stand in front of allah as a zakar or as a reject as a rakar or as a reject which one you see who determines who is the rigel who what is the criteria of being a man [Music] unfortunately now our society is pushed by social media it's pushed by media movies entertainment industry is now shaping societies and unfortunately even muslims practicing muslims have taken the traits of jahiliyyah and tried to make it deep so if i was to ask anyone here brother what makes a region what makes a man if we're honest tonight if we're really honest tonight in our society today where we live there's a lot of honor and respect and glamour given to the one that knows how to fight have you noticed this anyone who knows how to physically handle himself anyone who knows how to throw a few punches in our society this is admired this is love this is considered an attribute of a regel that if you know how to fight this is why now mma is such a big thing in our community boxing is such a big thing in our community wrestling in all of these physical contact sports sports that the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam clearly made haram because of the because of the striking of the face but really deep down we don't care about what the prophet really thinks we care about what does society think and now if you don't know how to fight then brother you're not considered as a man so we have this epidemic now and trust me this is not new muslims understand whatever sickness we're going through it's not new the habib the teacher the master he came to teach he came to cure the society of all of its sicknesses but unfortunately we're made to believe that the sunnah is 1400 years old brother we're living in a different time in a different place it's the exact same diseases so the prophet please i want you to leave this with me the prophet walks into the masjid one day sallallahu alaihi sallam yes walks into the masjid and finds the sahaba wrestling hallelujah [Music] so clearly they were wrestling in the masjid wrestling not the not striking the face wrestling in the masjid so he sallallahu alaihi sallam walks into the masjid and sees the gathering you know i i just i just because i have a very strange way of thinking let me think out loud with you and i'm not saying this is hadith no these are just my thoughts you know sometimes sometimes you're doing something with your friend and it's funny between you and him it's funny but then someone walks in and all of a sudden he goes from funny to looking very foolish have you ever had that you know sometimes your someone walks in halfway through the joke and doesn't see the joke and then you start oh yeah what an embarrassment this is this is how i'm thinking you know the sahaba they're wrestling in the masjid and then imagine imagine rasulullah walks in imagine imagine the honor of the man [Music] you know in high school whenever we were doing something the teacher was coming we had a code word [Music] scenario because in his coming it's coming well the principal knew what meant right because everyone says it so imagine now for sahabah they're wrestling and now the prophet sallallahu alaihi walks in so you can imagine what happens to the companions so they all wow embarrassing and then he asks he says what are you doing [Music] please please [Music] didn't the prophet know what they're doing [Music] honestly honestly tell me something didn't he know what they were doing [Music] he knew exactly what they were doing but the hadith is not just for them it's for every muslim to the day of judgment and they tell you islam is ancient habibi islam is contempt sometimes i will read or hear a hadith or read a verse and it's like allah said these words in 2019 march that's how alive the quran is people tell me it's old so he walks in he sees them wrestling he says what are you doing because he's the doctor he's the teacher and he's there to cure the sicknesses of societies so they said ya rasulullah we are we're wrestling then he asks why are you wrestling look at the salt now now the salt is straight to the wound [Music] imagine the sahaba allah who's going to explain why we're wrestling who's going to explain why we're fooling around so they said ya rasulullah we're wrestling to see who of us who amongst us is the uh who's the richelle brother has anything changed in 1400 years anything changed allah is exactly the same they're not doing anything haram rasulullah knows that that they were but he was worried about something far deeper so what does he say he said the reject the man amongst you is not the one that can physically put down the other any meathead can do that that's not how we determine who the reshell is imagine how the sahaba felt imagine when the prophet is telling him this is not how we determine men he said the rajal amongst you the man amongst you please my young brothers please [Music] don't fall for the fitna of the street man this deed will make a man out of you the street will only make a thug out of you he said the reject amongst you the man amongst you is the one who when i will see but when a calamity happens he can control his anger and his wrath he can control it he's patient this is the man [Music] go to the ufc gym and tell him this brothers are spending hours hours and it's fine tonight i'm not mentioning anything about halal and haram so don't come and say look one of the brother was saying it's halal and please my brothers this is kindergarten language kindergarten language we need to develop we need to move on we need to start having a deeper relationship with allah deeper the prophet is telling him deep depth this is not the man the man is when something befalls he's what ah he controls try this try it yeah i challenge everyone in the try and see how difficult it is understand why when allah mentions rajal there's honour behind the word today we say man to anyone anyone that can throw some punches yeah he's a man so we have another epidemic you might tell me no no no brother you don't have to physically fight what's the other epidemic we have in our community in our society how do we determine who's that a jail how big is he brother we have a steroids epidemic now muslims muslims [Music] muslims steroids but the sickness the sickness have you ever heard of the sickness called the small man syndrome have you ever heard of this small man syndrome no you've never heard small man's syndrome is the small guy who feels like all the bigger guys never take him seriously so he starts doing things that are out of his character in order to show them that look i'm a man as well they call this what small man syndrome and kasum by allah 99 of brothers on steroids it's all small man's syndrome it's insecurities in the heart that if i don't look intimidating if i don't look physically strong and muscly i'm not a man so brothers will be pinched you know he'll bench press a hundred a hundred and twenty allah bench pressing he'll bench press amazing weight and it's recorded and snapchatted but the same brother cannot lift the blinker for fajr el was in the gym the same brother yet can't we have a steroids epidemic steroids now everyone's abhishak sheikh and you know what's funny you know what's funny everyone's on steroids but no one says it and we're supposed to all act like okay you know because you're not saying it and i'm not saying it so therefore it's not happening i see a brother today he's a pencil neck he leaves six weeks later he's got muscles on his ears and his nose [Music] you know because i'm the fat one and therefore i don't you know clearly i don't understand the gym brother abdullah i've been eating well baby what are you eating what are you what are you eating that's put muscles on your ears and your nose brother tell me tell me how now you know you know you know brother i've been eating tuna and rice [Music] [Music] syndrome to look big to look intimidating this makes me a man in the community uh just before summer comes now everyone hits the gym why so when it's a hot day and i go to the g you know and i go to the beach i bondi and i look how shallow we've become it's embarrassing but this is not new this is not new the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam please please leave this with me the prophet is walking in madina imagine walking in medina and he sallallahu alaihi wasallam he sees the companions that have gathered around the tree but you know these stories they [Music] so he sees them gathered around the tree so he goes to the tree sallallahu alaihi then when he gets there he notices ever heard of this name [Music] brothers told me brother i don't know what to name my son while i want to rip my hair out when people tell me [Music] so he comes to the companions and they've gathered around a tree imagine imagine so he comes to the tree and he notices hanging off the tree what happened was there was dates on the tree they said who's going to climb the palm tree and get us the dates abdullah ni masrud wasn't a very big guy in fact he was the opposite it was very skinny and he was very like he was very active he's very fit abdullah says look i'll climb the tree and i'll get the dates now you need to live this with me it was very common fashion for the sahabah that they used to wear the lungi you know the uh the long either [Music] this was very common fashion for the sahaba very very common in fact many of them this was all that they would and don't think that you know it's like today walla they had these nice under armour boxer shorts under them no no no they wore the izaar habibi there was nothing under there nothing under there [Music] so what they were laughing and giggling so the prophet came to allah and he said to them what are you laughing at remember remember you know sometimes you're laughing it's funny but when someone asks you brother what are you laughing at it's hard to explain so therefore the laughter is taken away and then it becomes very awkward he said what are you laughing at what are you going to tell the prophet of allah so he saw [Music] allah he looks at the tree and he finds out allah [Music] he said are you laughing at abdullah's legs they said yes look how skinny they are [Music] he said i swear by allah the legs that you're laughing at are heavier than the mountain of uh in the eyes of allah [Music] not determined by their ability to bully other people man but qualities so you might tell me no no no brother look this is the new age brother it's not about physically fighting and it's not about being physically big but in our hearts what determines who the ritual is this one bro we're obsessed with this the one that has money brother today if you have money one way you can take the spot of the shaykh [Music] 50 000 at our last fundraising dinner yeah so inshallah he's going to be leading the prayer for the next week but we love money we honor money we be money as as a reject mother i provide brother i i provide brother [Music] i've had grown men come to me and tell me brother my son has brought me great shame my son has brought our family great humiliation so i'm thinking what did he do he had a baby great shame to the family so i'm thinking uh it's awkward you know but what did he do he says my brother he's 30 years old he still hasn't bought a house [Music] this is deep down in our hearts so our ability my ability to make money determines how much of a reject i am [Music] i ask you sincerely don't answer don't answer rhetorical question the prophet of allah by the standards that we live in today [Music] is he a man or not don't answer [Music] don't answer by the standards that we live in today is here or not what a dilemma what an awkward position we've just been cornered into today the sister tells me i wish i was married to the prophet salallahu sit down in sha allah and stay on your facebook please or he she wishes she was married to the prophet salallahu [Music] this is all wishful thinking you know my ability to make money determines how much of a reject i am the prophet sallallahu alaihi and please don't misunderstand what i'm about to say what i'm about to say doesn't mean that we have to intentionally be poor no that's not what i'm saying no but this idea that being rich will bring me success that being rich will make me a man this is a sickness aisha is telling her nephew in the authentic narration she says to me oh the son of my sister she said i swear by allah we used to see the moon then the full moon then the full moon the sister that wants to you know you know the sister that wishes she was married to the prophet i hope you're listening i hope you're listening today the sister complains my husband hasn't taken me out to dinner in two weeks [Music] it's been two weeks we haven't gone to dinner but oh my god i would love to be married to the prophet aisha is telling her nephew we used to see the moon then the full moon then the full moon two consecutive months sixty days 60 days would go by and there would be no cooking and no boiling no flames no cooking and no boiling in any of the nine houses of rasulallah is here or not don't answer please don't answer don't embarrass yourself nine houses nine wives aisha is saying two consecutive months [Music] no cooking and no boiling is he a man or not look at the dilemmas that we live in [Music] when dean is no longer the the measuring stick when dean and allah and his prophet are no longer the ones who dictate when social media and and and and public perception is what drives us look at the calamities allah i've seen people they struggle when they hear what a brother what are you trying to allah it's in the hadith it's not me but we pick and choose what we want from deen we try to make the 21st century we try to make islam that look here with all of the habibi the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam said this deen started strange and it will return to being strange so glad tiding to the strangers yet every single one of us is trying to be exactly like everyone else my dress is like the non-muslim my food is like the non-muslim my schooling is like the non-muslim my appearance is like the non-muslim my house is exactly like the non-muslims my dreams and my ambitions of owning a house and taking my family on a holiday at the end of the year and driving every ounce of my body's ambition is exactly like the non-muslim my name was muhammad i changed it to mo my name was mustafa i changed it to steve every every ounce of me is trooping non-muslim yeah but [Music] the prophet says glad tidings honey and honey and glad tidings to the stranger honestly who feels like a stranger who couldn't believe his ears so he says o my auntie [Music] my auntie two months no cooking no boiling how did you survive she said to him dates and water is all we had for two consecutive months that's all we ate [Music] where's this no that's not sunnah brother this was [Music] the prophet went through difficulties look at look how sick we've been and not only look you know what it's one thing when the brother says me listen i have an addiction and i'm trying to deal with my addiction wallahi i will appreciate it look the man knows he has a problem no but i have an addiction and i mean denial about my addiction am i trying to use dean to justify my actions isn't that interesting so you might tell me look brother you know maybe the prophet was going through hard times on his deathbed on his deathbed he was going through sakura mold conscious unconscious in and out in and out so he lost consciousness then he wakes up then he says ignorations he says imagine aisha was 18 years old when the prophet died how old was she 18. and allah called her and the others in the quran allah called them the um of the believers meaning they have become haram on every man and once the prophet die sallallahu no one can remarry her 18 in a world and in a society where the man was everything imagine this 18 year old is watching her husband die at the eight and she has her whole life that now she knows i'm gonna be alone i can never remarry after him [Music] so he wakes up from his you know he was unconscious and says how much money do we have this one no one talks about please man put these stories behind let's speak about investments and stocks and let's speak about buying houses brother because in our hearts we believe that honor that money will restore the honor of islam [Music] all that we have is seven gold coins imagine a man with nine wives [Music] is he a man or not by the standards that we live in please don't answer don't embarrass yourself don't be a hypocrite by the standards that we live in is he a man or not today brothers have paid off their houses paid off and he's working to pay off the second and the third because brother i need to leave something for my children brother exhausting his life [Music] but tell me tell me when the prophet was dying and there were seven gold coins between nine wives is he a man sister sister you know the one i wish i was married to him what chanel handbag was he gonna buy you with seven gold coins what hair and makeup studio were you gonna go to on a for fortnightly basis tell me what restaurant were you gonna be fine dining in tell me tell me [Music] so he says to aisha take the seven gold coins and give them in charity now [Music] you see the sicknesses my brothers so he loses consciousness then he wakes up and he says what did you do with the seven gold coins [Music] seven gold yeah rasulullah leave him man let him be aisha 18 years old she's alone harambe and he leave her seven gold coins yeah they're not going to make her rich like it's no no but there's something far deeper so she says our prophet of allah look at our mother man she said i held on to them i didn't give them away in charity he says do you want me to die and stand in front of allah while i still own something from this dunya is this how you want me to stand in front of allah [Music] so you might think look brother that's that's brother that's rasulullah of the family not just muhammad muhammad and his family make the risk and the provisions of muhammad and his family the bare minimum i challenge you to make this dua [Music] if the imam made this dua you would throw a shoe at him from the back what's this [Music] because in our hearts in the sicknesses of our society a man is determined by his money the prophet alaihi wasallam sitting one day you know for me i just drives me crazy you know like you know when we say the prophet was sitting with jibril you know it's like brothers are sitting there just hearing it like have you ever thought about that you know sometimes you meet a celebrity you don't know who to show off to you don't know how many photos you can take from what angle so you can share it with the world that i had a moment with fulan or fulan and this celebrity or that single this actor i'm telling you the prophet was kicking back sitting down with jabril what was that gathering like what were they talking about [Music] and then an angel came and said to the prophet of allah do you wish to be a king prophet or do you wish to be a slave prophet come tell me ah yeah but brother you know that was the prophet and you know like he went through tough times and and [Music] did he have the choice or not were you asleep did the prophet have the choice on the angel is telling him do you want to be a king prophet or a slave you're still a prophet the prophethood will not be taken away from you do you wish to be a king prophet or a slave prophet [Music] be the slave good advice or bad advice can you see the dilemmas we're in brother yeah the theory says it's good advice but the practice says no very bad advice you know my brothers [Music] is not determined by his ability to fight or his physical or this that's not how a regime is determined a real man my brothers and allah we can speak for hours and i'm not going to cover what makes a real man there's a lot to cover but for me above or above or [Music] a real regen a real man is realistic and down to earth and understands [Music] that you can't have the pie and eat it too have you heard this saying it's an english saying they say you can't have the pie and eat it too and you can't have everything brother and we're trying to have everything one of the said that the difference between us and the sahaba you know what the difference between us and the sahaba was he said they only wanted jannah that's all they wanted we also want jannah you see the difference they only wanted janna we we also want jamba see what's happening you see a real man is realistic a real man is realistic a real man knows and understands that if i'm going to be a reject see to be a man like i said it's not a tarot it's not something you get to be a reject these are decisions you have to make the sacrifices you have to take and these are this is a lifestyle it's a lifestyle but you have to live and a real man in a real rogel understands that if i'm gonna be a man i can't be anything else with it it's either a man or something else where am i going with this a real man is realistic he understands that when i get married now when i have children that when i take on a job that when i give my word when i make a commitment there are sacrifices that have to be made you see today we're not men we're boys we're little boys that are stuck in big bodies that's what we are my brothers well he forgive me but if we're going to be honest here tonight we are little boys that are stuck in big bodies we like to think women we like to think women but when you go by the criteria of allah and his prophet we're very far from it and he's he's exactly what i'm saying about being realistic you see everyone here everyone here [Music] we love women or at least i like to think you like women challah you all like we all like women who doesn't like women bro a woman makes your heart dance bro me if i see a woman i'm gone for six gone for a seeks i know bro i know we love women but no one wants to be married you noticed we love the idea of being with a woman who doesn't like the idea we love women but no one loves to be married [Music] the commitments of being married the sacrifices of being married the challenges and the difficulties of being married is something a real man or a shell doesn't understand [Music] but we don't we're boys we love women but no one wants to be married [Music] that's why xena is widespread that's why brothers now they're getting married on the dhakis in secret you know these you know these secret marriages the brother comes to tell me brother it's halal please sit down yeah sit down stop trying to play with stop trying to play with the demon brothers are getting married to sisters with no no one there no one no one there to represent her no one there to do to acknowledge no one that nothing nothing but a phone call text messages brothers with beads they're marrying women in secrets why little boys he thinks he's a shell you're a little kid you're a little boy with hormones that's all you are you're not any different to me you're not any different to every man he who has the size that has shower but the difference is being a man or being a male being a boy anyone can get married my brothers anyone can sleep with someone but a real man a real michelle my young brothers he gets married and understands that in marriage it's not all rainbows and lollipops it's difficulties yeah there's good times no doubt but there's hardship and that's why it's half your deen it's half your faith little boys we love women but we don't like to be married we love kids have you noticed i love kids [Music] we love kids but no one wants to be a father let me be a father what do you mean be your father you know why because in the sixth site yeah the same society that says this is a reject the same society that says this is the man the same society that says brother this is the bad that's the same society that doesn't praise fatherhood we love kids everyone loves kids but no one likes to be a father man [Music] that's why most of our so-called men you know the little boys that are stuck in big bodies he's married married with kids and one custom by allah three four sometimes five days a week he's hanging out with his mates in cafes until nine ten o'clock at night bro while his wife and his kids are at home waiting is it haram i'm not saying it's haram remember what i said in the beginning this is kindergarten language but your wife is at home waiting your kids are at home and where where is he two three four five days a week he's hanging out in cafes grown men will lie i see brothers with beards hanging at cafes on the corner sitting outside looking at women as they go and come [Music] but because he has a tarot and there's two three of them that he's a man [Music] but no one wants to be a father don't you ever think my brother that you having a child makes you a father don't you think that having a child makes you a man well he forgive me with all respect and all honor and all ranks you know the dog the kelp the kelp the dog the animal the dog sometimes has eight pups eight puppies in one liter does that make him a man does that make him a man no it doesn't make him a man your ability to have children doesn't make you a man your ability to raise those children your ability to father those children that's what makes you a man [Music] we love money [Music] but no one wants to no one wants to work bro we love money but no one wants to how much time do i have [Music] is that then now huh 12 minutes for the coma oh 12 minutes for adam we love we love what please my young brothers please tonight's talk is very important for you we love money but no one wants to [Music] no one wants to work bro that's why drug dealing and being a runner is so appealing to the young boy why because he's 16 years old he's going to earn 200 maybe 250 dollars a day as a runner and he starts off on 250 a day straight away he's earning more money than his father is so he's 16 his father's 40 something and he's earning more money so now it doesn't matter that it's haram income doesn't matter that this is money doesn't matter that this is going to earn the wrath of allah because all he sees is what in front of him is money and the very society in which he lives in is driven by money and wherever he goes it's all designer labels and designer names and brand names so this poor kid he's thinking he's doing the math he's thinking brother why so we all love money but no one wants to work the brother he's 20 25 i know brothers that are 30 he's telling me brother i want to retire by the time i'm 35 retired and i'm kicking back and i wish i wish he wants to retire at 35 so he can dedicate his life he wants to retire so he can indulge in dunya to the day he dies because work is taking him away from his love his real love dunya cafes and restaurants fishing trips fishing trips holidays vacations weekends see a real man understands [Music] when he was the amir when he was the khalifa he went outside and went to the market to earn his dollar even in old age the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam died with death so so so what's happening here we all love allah have you noticed wallahi go to the junkie go to a prostitute go to a brother who's a murderer tell brother do you love allah everyone loves allah but no one wants deen [Music] no one wants deen but how can you love allah but not have deen so now there's this sick culture have you noticed this culture but you don't know what's in my heart my iman is in my heart brother my relationship with allah is in my so now this idea of the heart it's very poisonous why because he comes through brother do you know what's in the hearts no i don't know what's in that but really he's hiding he's he's hiding his hypocrisy with this so yes everyone loves allah but no one wants thee everyone loves rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam brother please brother please when you say his name brother everyone claims they love the prophet but no one wants his sunna [Music] i mean eat on the floor eat with your fingers grow a bead [Music] live simple lives [Music] what's that what's that brother [Music] we love rasulullah while we sing his songs and who parade and we'll have big protests when something happens ah we show but no one wants we love gender we love janna but no one wants to die hey have you heard when someone gets cancer [Music] did you think you're going to live forever what's what are you we love janna but no one wants to no one wants to die tell me my brothers is this the quality of a man thank you this is not the quality of it regime [Music] a man is realistic a man is realistic a man is honorable you know what this ummah is suffering from my brothers trust me it's not knowledge ocean books books apps wallahi jump on youtube hours and hours and hours of talks and bayerns and khutbas and classes and knowledge is there it's abundant what is this ummah suffering from more than anything [Music] the biggest disease the biggest sickness of the muslims the the biggest calamity in the ummah do you know what it really is there's no men [Music] and you know who suffers the most when there's no men you know who suffers the most women and children who suffers in english they say in english they say when the cat's away guess who come to play [Music] when the cat's away there's no cat when there's no return when there's no man when the cat's away who comes to play are the rats and the mice no man rats and mice look at our societies when there's no reject when there's no men you know and imam wants an imam true story i heard this with my own ears and imam wants you he was narrating his story please wallahi i will wrap it up but just stay with me these are the last very important moments imam said once he was preparing for friday he says i'm sitting in my office and i'm trying to prepare my khutba he said that my son he was four or five years old you know he's driving me crazy man every time i put pen to paper he jumps on me and he wants to play he's a little boy so the shaykh is thinking he's thinking you know look allah is kids driving me crazy uh remember but to be a man is to be a father also so for us we would do uh give him an ipad get him off your back yeah this is the father now this is the 21st century father yeah give him an ipad get him off your back so the shaykh is saying man look i need this kid off my back i need to prepare my hood but how do i engage the kid give him something constructive so the shaykh was saying the imam says he says i had a magazine i'm flicking through the magazine and i found the picture of her of the world a globe it was a picture of the globe so the shack said look let me rip this page out and i'll cut it into a little puzzle and i'll cut the countries into pieces and i'll give it to the boy and i'll tell him to put it together he's thinking this will give ya this will keep him busy at least for an hour get him off my back he said i cut the picture i gave it to my son i said to my son listen put the world put the world together so the imam said the boy took her i'm thinking her finally now i can gather my thoughts and put the khutba together he said within a few minutes a few minutes the boy was back and the world was put together [Music] how did you know where europe is and the americas and the africas and yeah yeah the kid doesn't go to school how did you know they said i don't know he said so how did you put the world together he said that on the other side of the picture there's a picture of a man so put the arms together and the legs together and the head together so the imam said what he said subhanallah you gave me my topic when man comes together the world comes together but question by allah as long as man is destroyed this world will always be destroyed [Music] regen who suffers the most when the cat's away the mice will play brothers come to me all the time and i'm going to wrap up with this and i'll try to brothers come to me all the time and they told me brother our women akbar our sisters all the brother what's this what's this our women have become ruthless there's no more there's no more you know our women are wearing whatever they want and they're carrying on and and you know what i genuinely i agree genuinely i agree i know what i'm seeing outside this is ridiculous but then i'm thinking to myself but okay so now who do you address who do you address have women lost their ways absolutely you know the other not the other day but a while back i was driving this is a true story i was driving here and i was in green acre what's that street called man you know the one that's in front of mr shawarma that there's so waterloo road and then there's this yeah yeah so so i'm on banksia and i'm coming to waterloo and it's a left turn oh sorry uh there's a no right turn you can only turn left and there's a sign as big as your head right there in front of you no right turn so i come and i want to turn left but there was a sister in front of me [Music] bro yeah so there's a sister there she's in front of me yeah she's wearing her nice scarf and her makeup and her claw nails and the music's on and she's got the window down i'm thinking [Music] look at this honor anyway so now i'm standing there and guess what she's doing she's got her blinker to turn right yeah what i'm seeing bro no right turn or laser sign like this no light run so i'm thinking man you know and i'm looking like this what do you do be patient bro i'll let you turn right you know but in my heart i'm burning i'm burning and i'm waiting waiting waiting but it's a couple of minutes now you can't turn right like it's very busy right there that's why there's a no right turn so i'm thinking you know you know i'm hobless looking like this you know if i beat the yeah it's very difficult man anyway after a few minutes remember what the rajel is he can control himself well obviously i couldn't control myself so i was very very sensitive well i'm thinking you know i left the boy see me after so i went like like uh yeah i touched the horn [Music] as soon as she heard the horn she looked at the review mirror like this [Music] she put her window down and said what [Music] [Music] this is our women it's our women so the brothers are complaining brother look at our women look at our women they've lost their way they lost their way and i say allah it's true but tell me something who do you blame who do you hold responsible because in one token yes our women unfortunately have lost their way but they look at the men look at the men the same brother that's telling me brother look you know our women are out of control this is the same brother who takes a photo with his wife while his wife is in hijab with her red lipstick and her eyelashes tabarika he'll take a picture with her she's smiling and he's smiling and then he puts it on his whatsapp profile that's his uh this is his profile picture so now every guy that has his phone number when he's sitting in the toilet flicking through his phone he has exclusive access to his wife [Music] and he's smiling where's the honor where's the hero so yeah you know what it's very easy to look at the women and say brother but remember when the cat's away guess who comes to play there's no men where the men in the society i had a brother once i had a brother he came to me with his wife a brother came with his wife gave me salam and i'm thinking oh this is awkward bro this is again i'm not speaking about so he comes up to me he gave me salaam i'm thinking oh my god here's how i come i think this is awkward and then he gets me a brother this is my wife i'm thinking okay so she puts her hand there she gets me so i'm thinking do i headbutt you first or do i headbutt your husband or do i just do a clothesline and just knock out the both of you what do you mean brother and he's standing there look it's not because he's bad one it's not because he's an evil person but because there's no men in our society the very concept of honor has been lost have our women lost their way absolutely bro absolutely but who do you blame who do you blame [Music] who do you blame this sister that's leaving the house looking the way she looks where's her father where's her brother where's her nephew where's her where are they they're busy fishing bro they're busy at cafes they're busy chasing other women like little boys so yeah bro our women lose their ways stop laughing so what our women they lose their ways on our honor just just honor here is our shell it's not there so our brothers come brother what are you trying to say you know and wala niqab and sutra brother what's this you know is this again again brother is this this forget sunnah just where's your heart bro where's your heart you as a man as an honorable person where's your dignity the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam was sitting with two of his wives was sitting with two of his wives today today when we have barbecues my wife and your wife and his wife and the allah and we're all together and brothers are sitting having dinner having dinner he met his wife and me and my wife and i'm talking to his wife and he's talking to my wife and he's laughing and we're laughing and we're giggling and this is this is considered as what this advancement brother come on while other girls upstairs this is backwards this is backwards in our hearts no no it's not that it's backwards if there was a single shell just one reject you one he would never ask is this he would never ask whether he's disappointed or not as a reject the prophet salallahu [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] so the prophet goes to check it was up the library you know the man is sahabi he was blind you know abbas the blind man that came to us [Music] the man's blind [Music] so he gets up and he says abdullah and he says to his wives the lies on the door stand up the both of you and go behind the sutra go behind the veil [Music] so they said the prophet of allah is blind he can't see us he said yes but you are not blind you can see him so get up and go behind the veil [Music] tell your father this will slap you he'll slap your shaykh who slapped the masjid that you go to brother what's this backwards thinking please please the prophet of allah and this abdullah will lie with all adam and respect abdullah you know i i i really don't imagine abdullah being anywhere near as handsome as the prophet so really there's no threat and when you're married to the prophet of allah you're not going to look at anyone in any way but what it's honorable [Music] honor a real man has higher [Music] a real man has bashfulness today our women don't possess haya forget forget the men of the the men of rasulullah had higher you know just to understand the english language the whole english language the whole english language doesn't have a single word not challenge not a single word to translate the word [Music] that speaks volumes about its societies [Music] hayat comes from the word life say whoever doesn't have haya he might as well be dead i hope the sisters are listening today it's all about the platform the platform came to me came to me and said to me brother how come you don't have sisters in your videos how come how come you don't have sisters in your videos [Music] are you really asking me this he said yes brother yes we have a problem what's the problem you want me to put a sister in the video he said yes brother i said would you give me your life to put her into my video come on give me your life give me your life so i can sit and talk to her she talks to me and i laugh and she loves and we giggle and she giggles and then once the camera goes off i have a coffee without she has a coffee and yeah you know what don't worry about it it's all fine today sisters want the platform [Music] today if you if you stay reserved brother you're not a man a real man is loud he's noisy he's he's his [Music] we need to restore men this ummah is suffering from a lack of men my brothers [Music] ask yourself tonight [Music] are you a man we ask allah to make us men men whom he's pleased with [Music] foreign [Music] you

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