Al-Adab Al-Mufrad Part 2 | D01S04 | Sheikh Assim Al-Hakeem

valera Hana Rahim and hamdulillahi rabbil aalameen so allahu wa sallim wa barik alaa Abdi he wore a suit I mean nabina muhammad wa ala aalihi wa sahbihi ajma'in so we move on to the following hadith this hadith has a number of points that are important for us to learn one of them is the virtue of making dua to your brothers in Islam and we've highlighted this slightly in the beginning who used to make duaa for whom every single night a man I met used to make dua for Imam Shafi and Imam Shafi'i was older than Imam Ahmed and Imam Ahmed was proud to say that I've learned so much of Imam Shafi however Imam Shafi'i used to say I learned a lot from him a muhammad though he was junior to him but he learned a lot of hadeeth knowledge from imam ahmed even humble this soft one even of the low happiness of one was married to a Durda her father was about their death the why is companion of the prophet Aristotle Sam he is known to be a man of wisdom so the man visited his mother-in-law but he did not find his father-in-law so she said to him I heard that you're going for Hajj this year and he said yes so she told him to remember her Endora and she said to him that the prophet alayhi salaatu wa salaam told us that the supplication of a Muslim for his Muslim brother in his absence and this is a condition that your supplication must be in absence so if I come to you and I say may Allah forgive me may allah azzawajal give you wealth may Allah give you health in your face there won't be any angel saying and to you as well why because when I say it in your face usually I'm waiting for some appreciation from your side but if it's in your absence no one knows about it this is between me and Allah and Allah Thanks this action for me by appointing an angel what is the position of this angel is to say may Allah grant you like that and he would say I mean one of the brothers was talking on the phone to his friend and this friend was having problems trying to get married and it's difficult for him so the brother was saying may allah azzawajal make it easy for you to get married i mean before he finished his sentence he got a smack from his wife just why what are you doing see they do you think I'm ignorant I know that you're saying this so that the angel would say I mean and for you as well this why you try your level best not to teach your wife everything you know very dangerous but you can relate this to the beginning of the course of avoiding doubt and suspicion the sister should have looked into it in a more positive way so in a short this hadith is extremely beneficial for us now if the angel says Ameen and for you as well does Allah accept this Dora so what prevents you from making a lot of Dora for your brothers in Islam without them knowing because you come after five years and say I hid I've been making Dora for you for the past five years it's gone it's not in his absence anymore so you make duaa for your brothers for your sister for your aunt for your uncle for your neighbor for your coworker in absence without showing them without wanting any appreciation from anyone for the sake of Allah Azza WA JAL and you will find the benefit from that insha'Allah now some scholars say that it is not recommended some say it is not permissible for you to ask others for Doran why they say this is lack of tobacco on Allah and they coat the hadith 70,000 of my Ummah will enter Jannah without any reckoning or accountability or torment who are they there are the people who do not ask others for rupiah and they do not future eyes and they do not believe in bad omens and they trust and depend only on Allah so some people look at this hadith and said ah they do not ask people for Rukia so this is similar then not asking other forum and there are scholars who said this this hadith clearly responds to that because OMA Durda was a companion so when she said to her son-in-law don't forget us from Eudora and he met Abu Darda in the market who was a companion and he approved of that not only that he related it to the Prophet array salatu salam this clearly means that it is permissible is it highly recommended or not this is an issue of dispute because if you ask someone to make dua for you as if you're relating your heart to him and I'm dependent tomorrow I have an interview please make dua for me tomorrow I'm indulging in a transaction financially inshallah it will have benefits for my business please make dua for me tomorrow I have an exam please make du'a for me if I'm dependent on Allah truly I shouldn't have this but it is not Haram but if I by asking you to make duaa I want you to benefit so that the angel would say I mean and for you as well this is totally permissible I don't need your drug at tomorrow's interview I don't need your door I'm good in the interviews people like my personality I always pass hamdulillah so I don't need your but I want the angel to say I mean and for you as well so I want goodness for you from the door of the angel in this case insha'Allah it's a win-win situation there is a famous hadith I don't know if you have heard about it or not when Roma Robin hobb was going for a rumba what did the Prophet say to him do you know the hadith you don't know the hadith haleh's it's better why do I say this it's not authentic in Arabia a lot of the people code this hadith Latins and I mean do I akia oh hi oh my brother do not forget us from your Dora but the hadith is not authentic so that's why we do not say it so if you don't know it keep on not knowing it the following hadith the hadith is related to something so beloved to our souls that is the salutation of the Prophet or upon the prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam it is one of the greatest deeds in Islam and the most stingiest of Muslims is the one who hears the name of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and does not offer salutation so the salutation on the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has great reward wherever you offer salutation once to the prophet alayhi salatu salam allah the almighty and the angels will offer salutations upon you ten times but what is meant by a solid solid in Arabic means dois linguistically so supplicating to Allah this is Salah technically speaking when we come to pepper and jurisprudence what's the technical definition of Salah it is certain sayings and actions inaugurated by attack beer concluded by a Salam this is salat technically speaking so when we offer Salah tation to the Prophet as some do we bow and prostrate so what is meant by salutation by asking allah azza wajal to raise and elevate his status and we know that his status is the highest among all of Allah's creation this is our salutation to the prophet alayhi salatu salam so how does allah offer salat upon us whoever offers a location to the Prophet Isis Salam Allah would offer salutation upon him 10 times and how is this possible ullas salutation is by praising you among the Angels the angel sanitation is by seeking Allah's forgiveness for us so once you say Allah masala wa sallim ala muhammad allah azza wajal would mention you 10 times with the angels and the angels would seek Allah's forgiveness for you so shall we do it once a day ten times a day a hundred times a day you do it countlessly whenever you hear his name sallallahu alayhi wasallam you keep on praising him and said so are there any certain places to offer salutation upon the Prophet as salatu salam we offer salutation upon the Prophet Allah solution in our prayers allahumma salli ala muhammad and this is known as what a salat and Ibrahim iya people call it the route Sharif I don't know where this word comes from probably from Persian durood shareef or from or do it is well known but this is not related to Arabic it is a Salah to ibrahim iya this is the longest and the most perfect the shortest and does the job is you say allahumma salli wa sallim ala muhammad that's it but if you want to have the perfect salat-u-salam o salli ala muhammadin wa lillah in camisole later Ebrahim or other a libre him in naka Hamidah machine this is the perfect salat upon the Prophet we say it in the salat and what's the ruling of it in the last tracker some scholars say it is a pillar some scholars say it is recommended was to have no problem in leaving it and the most authentic opinion is that obligatory if you leave it intentionally your prayer is invalid if you leave it out of forgetfulness or ignorance your prayer is valid if you remember within the prayer you offer two suits aho if you don't remember until you go your prayer is valid but it is obligated then you may offer salutations upon the prophet alayhi salatu salam after hearing the Adhan and the Prophet said you say are they so some repeat after the event and then offer salat ation upon me and then ask Allah for me what l waseela because it's a degree that can only be given to one man and I wish and I hope that I am that person do we give as an and then give the salutation publicly on the microphone like they do in Turkey do do it here oh you don't have it here handle oh yes or no yes this is Sunnah the more than say you know how solely Allah Mohammad in what what are you what are you doing they do it in Turkey they do it in some parts of Egypt and so this is all innovation bitter why share isn't this something beautiful to offer salat yes but to offer salutation where it is recommended not where it is innovated imagine someone sneezing atchoo alhamdulillah was salat wa salam o allah rasool allah even Omar may Allah visit them what was once there someone sneezed and said this hamdullah wa salatu wa salam wa rasuluh he said and upon your mother a salam as well the man was struck what but what does my mother have to do with this I said what does the Prophet have to do with this this is innovation so she said oh you guys don't love the Prophet Ali salatu salam said why because we are offered sanitation and you're fighting us it's it okay when I come out from the bathroom I say go frolic allahumma salli wa sallim ala muhammad no this is inappropriate to shake why is it inappropriate you follow the footsteps of the Prophet that is a lot somewhere he tells you to offer salutation go ahead but when he doesn't you refrain otherwise you will be doing bitter unless you know more than him this is a different issue if you know more than the Prophet and you say what law we have to do it here tell us so that we can know exactly if you do or not so part of the things that we are recommended to offer salutation upon the Prophet SAW lulara Salam when we enter the Masjid and when we exit from the Masjid so when you enter you say bismillah allahumma salli ala muhammad allahumma what correct I didn't hear anything a lot of money I'm attic oh Allah open the gates of your mercy you're entering message it you're asking for mercy not asking for money when you go out bismillah allahumma salli ala muhammad a lot of meanness alchemy public now I want mine now I want your grace now I'm going for dunya dunya I want something but when I go to the Masjid the whole world is behind me Allahu Akbar I throw it behind me some of the scholars say but this is not true because if I'm gonna throw it behind I do this but this is not the takbir I do this that mean and to this extent not like the people say Allah Akbar why are you torturing yourself why do you pull your ears then end up like game problematic anyhow also you must make salutation to the Prophet al-assad Salam when making dua the Prophet said alaysalam every door is blocked between the heavens and the earth until you pray until you offer salutation upon me and there are two types of dora prescribed types we don't say salutation so if I want to say Robin a Tina for dunya has an over here it has an open area but not must I say alhamdulillah - Salam Aras will then ask this know these are prescribed wah as it is I would say it say you do is still a far Allah and terrible a Allah Allah and corrupt anyone Abdul do I have to say Alam like empathy empyema salut salut Muhammed no prescribed want to be recited as it is but a Dan is given I'm in the Masjid I did my Sunnah it is 10 minutes for Salah what should I do make Dora raise your hands allahumma forgive me al no wait wait wait wait praise Allah offer salutation upon the Prophet Isis Salam then make your door otherwise it is blocked the people are using their fans because the air conditioning is turned off humans are like this in winter they say we wish we had the fruit of the summer in summer they wish they have the fruit of the winter likewise in summer we turn on the conditioners can we have their condition and so on we don't want people you know I'm hot I'm always hot no I'm fine I'm sitting him I'm relaxed you see anyhow what else on the day of judgment clothes on the day of Friday and then the night of Friday Allahu Akbar the night of Friday meaning Thursday night people are indulged in her arm watching movies listening to music gatherings rarely you will find someone saying allah muhammad wa ala muhammad this is your prophets instructions illallah wa sallam he said offer salutation upon me a lot on the friday night and the day of Friday because your salutation is displayed to me how is it displayed to your debt the profession of debt do we have to go there is a prophet dead or not our life is dead allah says in hora in naka militant were in no mood to be there all done this life ends with your death but you move on to what albers aha this is phase two and in alberta is he alive of course he's alive is he alive like us no he's not it's so totally different world that we cannot even imagine things are not measured by the physics we know of no time no location nothing's totally different ballgame in the night journey is Rama Raj the prophet as Salaam went with gibreel on an animal called Al Brock they went in like flash lights like lightning so quick he says I passed by the Red Hill where Moosa is buried and I found him praying in his grave he went to Jerusalem he led the prayer and Moosa was there he went ascended to the seventh heaven and he found Moosa on the fourth heaven uh-huh what is this this is a different life altogether to what we can understand the martyrs are inside the lungs of green birds hanging on the trees of Jenna but they are alive in their graves but that isn't it's a total different like you cannot understand it so you believe in it the Prophet is alive in his grave a life of a bizarre not of our time because if he's alive like us the appropriate thing to do is take him out solves our problems but this cannot be because no one can come back to this life the Prophet said is awesome I wish I can fight in the cause of Allah and die then be redirected and die and then be resurrected and dying all in the course of Allah but this is not possible you know always we say Jabbar and Abdullah ibn Abdullah who's jabbering Abdullah his name is Jabbar Abdullah it been Haram al ansari his father Abdullah Haram was martyred in the cause of Allah in the Battle of hood he died as a martyr so as a constant form of what what is the right word I forget my English my English is becoming very awful constellation the Prophet Aslam is saying to Jabbar do you know what Allah said to your father this is what I lost you to your father make a wish and your father said oh Allah I'd like you to bring me back to life his martyr I'd like you to bring me back to life so I can fight in your cause and die again Allah told him I have ordained it that no one dies and come back to life full stop this means that this life is over but the life of the prophet in his bursa in his grave is a perfect full life different than our soul you must try your level best the day of Friday the night of Friday offer salutation to the prophet Isaiah as much as you can one of the shortcomings of lazy Muslims are you lazy see here they said the prophet salallahu alaihe wa send them in earlier hadith they had read the word P did it was it wasn't it may be said it displayed in my iPad wrongly I don't know a lot of the Muslims are lazy they don't write the full salutation they write p.b.u.h huh I thought first that it was a courier service the seasonal UPS you're making a mistake so PBU in arabic they put sod some of them put solemn sallallahu alayhi wasallam all of this is disrespectful to the Prophet Allah so sorry you have to write the full salutation sallallahu alayhi wasallam and this is why the scholars of Sunnah are the highest paid by Allah because they mentioned the name of the prophet alayhi salaatu wa salaam and they offered salutation a lot during the day and the night like hundreds of times other than other scholars who never mentioned the prophets name erase a lot of Sam so they don't get as much reward as that finally a hadith the Prophet says Ali Saleh salaam whom ever my name is mentioned in his presence so he does not offer salutations upon me he misses the way and the road to Jinnah I said the Strongs there any a threat so whenever you hear the name of the Prophet is o Salaam do not mention him in your heart you have to move your lips by saying this does the job on the page how many of you did this how many times have you said no use I've made so many dua Allah is not responding well I I get people asking me this straight why does Allah do this to me Allah in this tone why does all I hate me what have I done to him what kind of a say a slave or a servant is this you think you're talking to someone who is similar to you do you forgot that he's your Lord how many of the likes of you on earth today seven billion allah azza wajal takes care of them or not and you're complaining why is he angry with me there are seven billions of you how many pregnant women 2 billion so there are 2 billion in the making on the assembly line they're coming soon who provides for them a large the agenda so what kind of mentality are you dealing with allah azzawajal you always tend to forget you are nothing you are a servant you're a slave compared to this Kuala Lumpur where we live if you take a chopper a holly copter and you go up can you see you so little go more up and look at Malaysia where is you go up to Asia can you be detected go up to the outer space to see earth oh where are you go to our solar system from here to the end it takes what 200 light years and how many solar systems in our Milky Way galaxy tens of millions only how many galaxies are there hundreds of millions where is you grammatically it's not right but okay we're army so you have to realize your position and size we are nothing but we are so arrogant we think that we are something to allah azza wajal with nothing you complain you shout and I have asked Allah Ayub who is a messenger who is a prophet of Allah 18 years in his illness he lost his wealth he lost his children only his wife is left all of his people are detesting him throwing him near to the junkyard because of his illness that made his body fall apart was he in despair was did he say why me no but after 18 years what happened Allah fixed everything for him restored his full body and health and an and wealth to the extent that Allah sent locusts and gold and silver coming you know these insects that come in swamps in hundreds of millions they came to him in gold and silver and he kept on catching them and putting them in bags and Allah revealed to him didn't I give you enough he said yes I love but I need your blessings and favours and keeps on taking bags and bags of them one bad for me would do subhanallah being patient being servant being submissive to Allah soldier so when a slave of Allah Azza WA JAL complains and he says I made a lot of supplication but I have not been answered he's hasty and when you're hasty this means that you are demanding from Allah that I want it now and this is not the way it works it you have to keep on asking Allah begging Allah yonis was in the belly of the whale for three days and three nights What did he say la ilaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu men of allah me this is Dora correct or not what is he asking for huh okay how is it Dora if he's not asking for I'll translate the Prophet said that is salat WA Salam there were two they known the supplication of the one of the whale meaning Yunus la ilaha illa and there is no God worthy of being worshipped except you subhanak all praise be to you I was among the wrongdoers okay where is the door hello show me the door this is a technical issue the Prophet says that is awesome in an authentic hadith the best of Dora alhamdulillah again where is the door scholars say dua is divided into two types dua of praising allah and do a of asking allah so when i say alhamdulillah this is dora because i'm praising allah Sojin if i say o allah forgive me this is Dora but I'm asking for a particular thing forgiveness health wealth a good job a good offspring this is something tangible I can ask for but the best of dois is when you praise allah azzawajal and you do not ask for anything in this is why scholars differ which best dora oldest IFTA inauguration dua in prayer which is the best some say the one that abu hurayrah narrates in solomon muslim he says o prophet of allah sallallahu seldom you see when you say takbir and before you recite the fatiha there's a pause what do you say he said o Abu Huraira I thought that no one will ask me except you I say Allah I bear it baby you obey ahah - I came about turbine and machinery oh Allah further between me and my sins as if you further between the east and west and the rest of the dryer you know so this is narrated by my Muslim so it's the highest degree of anticipate there is another door if I'm not mistaken written narrated by Roma may Allah be pleased with him where he says that the prophet sallallaahu l'm used to recite this duaa to inaugurate the salah subhana allah wa ham dick tabarak a smoke for college a Duke voila Allah have a rock so which one is best even al-qayyim says the first one though reported by Muslim the second one is better huh why he said the first one is asking Allah for cleansing and purification of sins so you're asking for something while hadith of Omar is only praising Allah subhana Allah humma hum dig glorify be to you and praise be to you tabarak a smoke blessed be your name what Allah said Duke and glorify be your might and authority and wealth ah Hawaii Rock and there's no God other than you did you ask for anything and the first one you did so this is why some scholars say this is better because it's all praising allah azza wajal and glorifying him so dua coming again is divided into two types number 1 praising allah azza wajal and glorifying him number 2 asking for something in particular hey there are etiquettes of duan and a lot of us neglect these etiquettes number 1 mentioned here do not be haste be patient ask allah azza wajal there are doers that a lot of the Muslims among us have been asking Allah for the past 40 years 30 years 20 years never give up because your du'a is always positive chef but I've been asking Allah for 30 years Allah responds when this is problematic do not ask when you may ask how okay how the Prophet tells us a little artist and when you ask Allah for dois Allah will respond to you in three ways oh Allah grant me one thousand ringgit I have a thousand ringgit oh I can Hampton someone walks in he says here's a thousand ringgit so color here let me rephrase or like ninety one hundred thousand ringgit unless generous so someone could be number one my dua was answered correct number two o Allah grant me a hundred thousand linkit nobody's coming did Allah respond yes the Prophet said Alice salat wa salam either allah gives you what you ask for or Allah deflects harm equivalent to it what kind so allah azza wajal ordained that i will have a major surgery that would cost me a hundred thousand ringgit so i ask allah grant me a hundred thousand ringgit this what allah has ordained allah deflects it i'm not going to go under the surgery i say o allah grant me five hundred Ringgits i'm driving down the streets and all of a sudden i avoided a car had I crashed I would have changed the headlights for a 500 Ringgits so Allah saved me from this this is not the prophet said of course not with the lights and with the major surgery but Allah willed afflict harm from your way that was destined for you according to it so I said o Allah grant me a thousand ringgit Allah doesn't give it to me Allah doesn't deflect harm from my way Allah will store it for me on the day of judgement so I come on the day of judgment I know that I prayed only few prayers fasted few Ramadan's gave charity and all of a sudden I see this huge amount of hasanat of good deeds I think there is a mistake this is not mine maybe you took me to the wrong place no no this is yours my GPS says it's right but to too many things I didn't do this ah this is your dora you you mean to tell me that the door I made Allah is storing it in to do many good deeds yes so what is preventing you from making the ask Allah for everything ask Allah to give you barakah ask Allah for your children ask Allah for your job ask Allah for your guidance of your spouse ask Allah Azza WA JAL to pay off your debts keep on asking Allah because either Allah will give it to you or deflect harm from your way also it for you on the day of judgment and the most weakest and stupid of all people is the one who does not make drawn I met a brother in Saudi who said to me I then I do not make du'a why he said in good times I don't make dua to Allah so when a calamity strikes or I have illness or need I say if I don't make it in good times I will not make it in bad times what kind of thinking is this people treat a lot in such a fashion part of the etiquettes of dua that you ask allah azzawajal in times of prosperity times of prosperity the Prophet says olestra - Salam whoever loves that Allah answers him in times of difficulty he must ask Allah in times of prosperity meaning now we have no calamities do it you must ask Allah a lot in terms of prosperity now because in few months time few years times they will come a calamity so if you want Allah to relieve you of it when you make dua then make sure that you continue to make dua now at the times of prosperity and when you make dua part of the etiquettes of Dura that you are certain a lot of the brothers make dua and the same let's give it a try what do you mean let's give it a try well I have this debt on me I tried to borrow from here and there but it's it's not being paid off yeah I have no other choice but to make dua maybe Allah will answer I don't know no if you if this is your attitude don't make dua Allah will not answer you when you make dua make dua with a certain firm heart that allowed answering not because you're imposing it because you're trusting a lot how did the Prophet Islamic Dora on the night of better tomorrow they're fighting in the morning the whole night the Prophet spent it at a salsa in his tent raising his hands standing up oh Allah grant us victory o Allah let us win oh Allah if these Muslims are annihilated and killed you will not be worship on earth until his cloak fell down and Abu Bakr is embracing him Oh prophet of Allah Allah will answer you don't worry and the Prophet is insisting but with confidence and with submissiveness and expressing his poverty and humility you want a lot to answer you yes yes I have one of my relatives is sick what do you do first I take him to the hospital I consult the doctor I give him medication I try my level best to do what's necessary to cure his illness afterwards then I make door so this comes the last thing your rupiah comes the last thing this is wrong trusting Allah means that you make duaa first you make Rokia first and then you go to the doctor so it goes side by side but my trust is not that the doctor will cure him it is Allah who will cure this person so you have to have certainty in your heart you must not transgress endure what do we mean by transgressing transgressing in dua the Prophet said Aristotle Salaam there will be in my Ummah people who transgress endora and transgress in wudu how do you transgress in you do this was OCD you go to make wudu wash your face five times seven times 20 times what are you doing your face is dissolving you don't have any notion I said yeah I'm always having these wires that I did not wash it properly and you have a problem this is transgression Moodle and what is the transgression Endora there are a form a different ways of transgressing into r1 to ask Allah for something Haram oh let me drink this bottle of wine and make it easy for me oh Allah make me have Haram relationship with my neighbor this is transgressing you're asking Allah for something that is Haram Allah will punish you for this you should know I'm making dua you know you go to hell - Allah make dua there a lot this is transgression also if you transgress and make dua against your son may Allah destroy you may Allah curse you or against your wife or against your wealth and I've seen people making dua against themselves in times of calamity in an argument may Allah kill me may Allah do are you crazy and by the way there are times that Allah will answer your drum I told you this last year I think maybe you told someone there is dairy in Jeddah his name is Abdullah banana this guy tells us his story he says I used to smoke and my father always told me do not smoke and once he came out of the home I was smoking I didn't see him so he said may Allah break your neck may Allah break your neck the man says so that day I went to he's in high school I went to school as usual and in the middle of the day five or six of the guys we jumped the fence and went to a guest home arrest home - with a swimming pool to play and you know eat and we don't want to go to school so he said I went for a swim and I jumped in the swimming-pool not estimating the depth so I hit my head in the bottom of the swimming pool and I cracked my neck and he was paralyzed neck down and he is taken on his wheel bed or wheelchair to messages he's a die telling and reminding people how to be close to Allah how to avoid sins and telling his story you make against your son or against your spouse or against your health and you don't know maybe this is the allocated slot for answering your dua that's why you're always obliged to be positive and ask Allah for positive things part of transgression in duaa is when you ask allah something that you know that allah decreed not to happen so i ask every night oh allah grant me the beauty of prophet Yusuf excuse me this is impossible CTO Allah can do it Allah can do it but Allah zillion had set rules you cannot say oh Allah make me walk on water or fly with weight without wings should all I can do it but Allah made rules that cannot be broken so this is a form of transgression that one must not say oh Allah make me independent so that I do not have to eat or drink or breathe underwater becoming a submarine what is it no all of this is Haram and form of transgression part of the etiquette of dois is when you ask Allah Azza WA JAL you do not shout if you go to ombres you will find groups of people coming making a scene Allah Allah humma and they are shouting that why are you shouting with all due respect so we're making dua yes I know who are you trying to make your dad do I heard for making dua for Allah do you think a less deaf this is inappropriate the Prophet said this is them all people take it easy upon yourselves you are not calling someone who's far and you're not calling someone who's deaf Allah is not deaf Allah is near to you and Allah Azza WA JAL is all hearing all see so when you make dua make it in secret move your lips and ask Allah Allah he is your dirham raising the hands we spoke about that and also selecting the appropriate time there are appropriate times for Dora yes between a van and the otama is one of the perfect times a lot of the Muslims neglect this read the Quran reading the Quran is good but this is time for da so try your level best you have a list of things yeah I made it in fire colors how many things you have few things only I've seen people righteous people the more righteous you are the longer the list is the more sins you have two seconds and handling haleh's yes you made dois what did you ask for nothing much Allah to forgive me that's it what about paying your debts what about having good health what about your spouse your children your relatives what about guiding those you know what about increasing your knowledge what about increasing your fear of allah azzawajal what what what oh sure this will take too long so how do you want to attain it look at him all I would send us from him no you have to walk the extra mile so that allah azza wajal would give you from his blessings and failures and generosity also among the most beautiful and favored times is the last third of the night righteous practicing Muslims have a habit of waking one hour at least before Fechter doing what this is the time when you pray and everybody else is asleep you pray only between you and Allah Azza WA JAL this is quality time this is when you show your poverty express your need and you ask Allah without selfies and praying brothers do this huh I've seen there is going to Makkah and here we are next to the black stone black stone and this is me yes we will meet make him do a lot and he's trying to do to the snapchat what are you doing I wish I can come out and grab the brother from this is totally inappropriate this is a bad that between you and Allah Azza WA JAL and you're making a scene out of it you're showing people that this I'm doing and this is totally not acceptable so the last third of the night is your honor the Prophet said I am the honor of a believer praying at night why is it the honor of a believer because there's no one to photograph to film to boast about it this is something between you and Allah the Almighty and this is why I am the lively Salam the RepRap the rabbi of the Jews he said when I heard of the coming of the Prophet that is a Salam I said I have to look into his face so he went to the market and he saw the Prophet Nahum he said the moment I looked in his face I knew that he was not the face of a liar he recognized that the prophets face is not a face of a liar and the first thing I heard him say was yeah au Hannah's Oh people up I'm open feed the food what's alone are ham and connect to your next of kin was uh no Bailey when naturally and pray at night when the people are asleep the officer I'm probably I forgot that whole genitive assalaam you will enter paradise in peace so the first thing that the Prophet ordered them to do is pray at night when you pray on the last third of the night this is when allah azzawajal descends to the lower heaven and says is there anyone asking for forgiveness so I can forgive him is anyone asking for something from me that I can answer him and give him so this is a time where you should ask a large you'll prepare your list and get ready to present it to Allah and you will win and gain what you came for for also parts of the times of a lot responding and answering your prayers and doing most is when you travel so a traveler's Donna is answered when the rain falls what do you do when rain falls open your umbrella and wait I wonder how the brothers who ride bikes when it rains what do they do do you have wipers on their helmets I never tried it but I think it's very dangerous so when rain falls this is time for two huh this is almost mercy coming to you to ask allah azzawajal we're neglectful and also in the last this is standard time for door at the last hour of a friday yesterday before sunset there is an hour in saudi i think here is the same if you go to the message you find a lot of the muslims sitting there raising their hands making duaa most Muslim countries especially before Maghreb they go and make du'a what lie I used to know a brother a friend who was so much in debt in the millions he was a businessman but he was ripped off by a lot of people he used to stay every single Friday from a sir till mother sometimes it's three hours he sits in the first row the lights are off everybody is gone and raising his hands making dua dua making do and I see him every single Friday and I say wallahi this guy is insisting and now mashallah Lakota he's a billionaire again Allah answers you when I record every time I see him I remind him remember the Fridays you used to sit he used to have this big Nokia like you know a shoe Nike shoe well he used to put it in front of dr. bloure and this was ages ago whenever I remind him he said wallahi sure hassan till date this is time I still sit from a subtle maghreb asking the larger though I have a lot of wealth and money but I still feel the need to ask Allah and pray to Allah to preserve his Nima his blessing his favour upon us so i pray to allah subhana wa ta'ala that he grants us the etiquettes of dua and that he grants us the door to be answered and that he grants us being patient and not being hasty and Allah knows best was all allahu wa sallim wa barik ala nabina muhammad why do I consider them Muslims we've just spoken about takfeer the question is why do you consider the nicest as being Muslims nicest is the non Islamic State of Iraq and Syria why do we consider them Muslims first of all because they're Muslims in order for me to say that they're kafir I have to be with them they say that all of us are kafir that's why we can they can kill us so I cannot go down to that level as long as they did not nullify their Islam they're terrorists they are extremist fanatics you call them whatever they do until they nullify Islam they're still Muslims but they're sinful Muslims and this is why I leave nabbit Allah may Allah be P I think we've had that lecture like this did we have a lecture like this in straight paths some decades or years ago this is why I live nabbit Allah may Allah be pleased with him when he said they said to him are the Huaraz go far are they in hellfire he said they are running away from her fire but they missed the road and they may dismiss interpreted the Quran this is why they fill in what they felt no they are not considered to be kafir they are Muslims but they are sinful and terrorists the companions may allah be pleased with them narrated upon what they have seen from the other companions that neither the prophet array salat wa salam the companion is saying in hadith that neither the prophet has nor the companions used to raise their hands in Friday khutba so who am I to know more if the companion is describing this and between you and me would I lose the hand or leg if I raised or allowed you to raise your hand is it my problem some people when you tell them that this is not from the Sunnah gets agitated and angered by this it becomes angry from me what why you come to kill the messenger this is not my problem I'm just a messenger so don't blame me for that another issue after Salam from for prayer the majority of Muslims raise their hands making dua and then wiping themselves some of them commit yanny bathing what are you doing he said I'm Baraka Baraka but at what what Baraka you are making my clothes dirty what he says no no no this is Dada ah hey you want to get closer to Allah you want to be with the Prophet and salatu salam let us study history did he ever make dua after Salah know all the dua was made in Salah so make your do on your suit make your dua after salutation before Salam he told us choose and select whatever dua you want between salutation and Salam he said the closest you are to Allah when you are in sujood so select Dora as you wish Institute after Salam the prayer isn't concluded you make thicker subhanAllah handle Allah but Allah Allah Allah Allah would you pull out alpha etcetera but not door so people come and make dua after every single Salah can you bring me any hadith stating that the Prophet used to raise his hands and neck dua after salah or any of his companions should know so are you doing a good thing or a bad thing today but everybody's doing it so if everybody's doing it does this justify doing it no if there is no evidence we are Muslims we follow the prophets footsteps as Salam what do I care if you raise your hands or not it's not my business raise whatever you want to raise your is your foot effusion it's not my concern I'm trying to reach with you the sooner you want the sooner you love the Prophet as a sinner then make as much do as you want in the 8th says day of Lahore every Cessna make dua dua do I do 8 times before Salaam make duaa as much as you but after Salam raising your hands if it's once in a blue moon no problem because after Salam after salat I'm going to buy a car used car so Allah me a good engine and a bad fuel consumption and a good transmission and this is once in a blue in a lifetime not every Salah raising your hands and wiping your face and you ask the people what are you calling what are you making Dora let me remember I forgot you see there is a sequence if I don't say it from the beginning I don't know what I'm doing so it's becoming as a habit you don't know what they're concentrating on therefore this is not part of the Sunnah and Allah knows best [Music] did I say Haram I say it's not advisable why it's not advisable because if you do it you are out of the 70,000 who will go to Jannah without reckoning or questioning or torment but you still a Muslim so in the hadith we are taught how to depend and rely on Allah Azza WA JAL fully don't come to me she'll have stomachache can you please make rupiah for me I have migrant can you do rakia for me I have gin I have possession I have evil eye I have black magic I get people coming to me a lot I can make a lot of money I can be rich with the people that come and say sure we'd like you to make roti okay 500 Ringgits for 15 minutes Hoshi are your sheep thank you I can make money but I tell the brother who wants me to make rookie okay if you have possession of vision if I make rakia my Jean would be more on you it will make your case worse who is the one who cures you do you doubt like who's closer to Allah me or you you share no no in Surat enamel Allah says ma you Gible Mutara era da hua Jack Shifu su algo como Dafa Allah Allah whom Allah who is it that responds to the one in distress to the one in need so Allah says who is it it's him who's in distress and I need you or me you so Allah answers you more than me so if I'm a crow clearer for you you're closer you're in distress you didn't need you make rupiah for yourself Allah will cure you however if you say I try to do it on myself it doesn't work this means that you're not certain you're doubtful no problem you come to a share to someone you ask him but you're out of the 70,000 you're not doing anything haram but you are taking the longer road to your destination Allah knows best [Music] [Music] take for me okay see the problem is that in order to identify a person whether he is knowledgeable or not this requires a number of factors one that the person possesses knowledge from the Quran and the Sunnah okay how would we know we're laymen we ourselves don't know if he's well how would I know share what you've taught us from the very beginning of the day till there now is is is correct you have to have certain amount of tools to help you know let me take it to another level you have a problem and you need to go to the hospital or your car has a problem and you need to take it to a mechanic how do you know that this mechanic is good first of all you have a lot of other mechanics other students of knowledge in mechanics telling you that this guy knows what he's doing this person tells you well I took my car and he fixed it he took I took my car he fixed it the engineering board says that this is a certified place because it's a good mechanic his degree allows you to likewise with scholars other scholars would say that this person is knowledgeable you look into the track record of the ship over the duration of years how many mistakes does he have well like the ship I know yeah he doesn't have anything right all is wrong then how can he be a sheikh know the particular shape I follow mashallah through the past 15 20 years I've been following him I've been listening to what other scholars say about him and the guys according to the Quran and Sunnah sound judgment is not fanatic he's not extremist he's not going out of the general tendency and rule of the Scot then you can tell but it is not a recommendation that people get from X Y Z and yes he's okay he's Holland it's not meat share is halal certified halal no and Allah knows best Shia is the cult it is one of the 72 sects that the Prophet told the Saudis salatu salam that the ummah will be divided into rasool allah llahu allahu ta my ummah will be divided into 73 sects all of them are in Hell except one so they said who or which one or prophet of Allah he said those who are on my path and the path of my companions I thought you will bring me a new coffee but apparently not hang the left handle and this is a test from Allah or the third one come on Masha Allah fine so the these 73 sects are not Shafi'i Maliki humbly Hanavi it's not where you put your hand on your chest or under your belly or you don't put your hand at all this is 50 issues this has nothing to do with the 73 sects 73 sects are based on a pita on your belief in Allah on your belief on the day of judgment on the belief on the attributes of the of Allah and his beautiful names on the belief of the Quran etc so the Shia is one of these cults and sects why because they go way away from the straight path which the Prophet brought to us our installation their religion is based on revenge and hatred you cannot be a shear unless you hate the Sunnis and unless you want revenge from those who killed at the same what we have to do this no I won't lie I wasn't there yeah we still have to avenge him from whom from years eat like a whole lot of what do I have to do with this you have to avenge him with us doing what kill anyone I'm sorry this I cannot do so we they have this belief they are levels not to go to extreme like a lot of the Sunnis do out of their enthusiasm and love they say all Shia are Katherine again we go back to the issue of tech field and not to dilute the issue and say now all Shias are Muslim no it's not like that those who nullify their Islam their kafir so if I get a shear I saying Yahoo saying do this for me are ready then they're covered because they are calling other than if I get someone saying mother Aisha is an adulteress and she committed zina you are falsifying the Quran so rotten or Europe full-fledged kafir if someone curses Abu Bakr Umar Uthman and all the Companions of Allah who carried the sibling to us then you're a full-fledged kafir but if you don't do these things then you're not a she so our she asked after no unless they do what nullifies their Islam then they're careful without any doubt so you tell me that 45 and you tell me don't be a chicken be a man don't be afraid see let's let's look at it from Sharia point of view I always give this example you remember it from last year I'll refresh your memory Islam is a frame your life is the photo a real Muslim puts the frame on the photo cuts anything that comes out from the borders so that Islam fits 100% on your life now the question said it's impractical ah this means that you when you put the frame you don't want to compromise the bigger picture so what do you do you break the edges of the frame and put duct tape and use branches of trees and nail at the end of the day how would the end result look is this a frame of Islam this is a new religion going back the hadith is crystal clear I cannot play with it it's authentic it's in the Sahara the Prophet says it is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the day of judgment to travel with a market share but I have a job tough luck resign work in a job that does not allow if someone comes to me instead share I work in a nightclub as a waitress and they oblige me to wear miniskirts and a pony whatever the you know these whatever you know you know the picture and I have to serve alcohol and sometimes I get bad remarks and somebody may touch me inappropriately so it's not cooked okay I said no it's Harlem shake I have to do this what can I do it's impractical not to work I have to earn said earn a lot but what you're doing is totally haram coming back to why the Saudi Arabia and 45 years of age allow a fee yeah and you tell you mean to tell me that the sisters 45 and above they are expired no one will look at them what is this I stated before the more vintage wine is the older it is a more vintage but hamdullah we don't drink so we're not talking about this secondly is Saudi Arabia equals Islam and whatever Saudi Arabia does halal you crazy open the Saudi channel number one number two number 10 number women not wearing hijab music movies this Islam I don't know maybe it's a new version of Islam this is not Islam go and borrow from the banks do they give you interest like crazy they do Reba's halal I don't know the latest version of Islam 101 point to the update does it have River halal definitely not so what are you me what are you implementing what not implementing implying what are you implying Sheikh I say to you Saudi Arabia is like any other country they are the best in their effort to implement Sharia but they're not perfect they implemented 85% decreasing increasing depending on the mood but it is there we are the best we we claim the people that we claim to be the best in protecting Islam in spreading Islam in our message in our Quran distribution in haramein Mecca Medina insecurity in feeling that you are in a Muslim country with our shortcomings no one is perfect but it you'll be delusional if you think that whatever we do that is Islamic and we represent Islam this is one of the things that any person with little knowledge would know that what Sheikh Hassan does doesn't represent Islam so if I go out now and I do something Haram sinful I'm a human being but that's do I represent Islam voila awesome did it call us it's okay no Allah will question you on the day of judgement not according to what I say or what I do what Allah says in the Quran and what the Prophet says in his Sunna arias salatu salam this is what allah who will hold you accountable to so i hope this answers you or your question this is personal question because you're saying it in a easy way you know the mobile is here and I am NOT a fortune-teller this is something you have to clear out with your wife first of all second of all the issue of marriage we are any brothers and sisters well lie it is not an easy thing to do men think that who getting married flat he got married to a second but man you are a man don't you know that he will come on the day of judgment with his side tilted if he's not fair everyone will see him on the day of judgment he's not fair in his gifts he's not fair in his time he's not fair in his feelings what kind of a life is it is a responsibility another privilege I was married to two for 25 years I divorced my wife second wife four years ago after 25 years of marriage it was a rollercoaster I was trying my level best to measure things with a ruler give this well I I used to buy perfumes on the airplane and I never made one real difference 45449 no it has to be 450 trying my level best to walk well it was a headache it was difficult and you go to house number two she nags about your wife she did this she did that why don't you you spend so much time with them yes darling you go there is it you spend so much time with them you took them to the hospital you took this in that la ilaha illa ma it is a responsibility and you don't have the power to blame any of them because they are poor women are poor men are foreign you have the right to shout in scrip but you don't actually so it is not an easy right it is something difficult now if your wife is trapping you this is up to you to decide even if she convinces you and you feel that yes why not if you don't have the real need and if you don't have the necessary tolerance the ability to tolerate to overlook to neglect well why you must not even think of getting married again marriage is not only the few seconds at the end of the night it's a full life responsibilities in-laws you have to keep good relations with your children to come you have to bring them in a fair and Islamic manner you have to select your second third and fourth wife according to the outcome when you get children off you don't want them to raise them to be bad children etc so think twice what is what this is not in your hand raising righteous children is in Allah's hands I do not know more than prophet Noah please be upon him and his son died as a kafir though he was the expert in Dawa we have no control over our spouses or our children or our loved ones we only do the message Allah told us give them dower treat them well give them and this is out of experience give you children unconditional love and affection muslims when they get committed to islam only thing they know is dues and don't this is haram pray don't wear this clothes fast don't what is this and we relate only to them according to what they do and what they don't and this is wrong your children need your love need your quality time they need to sit with you not to listen to your preaching like I'm doing now I'm just preaching preaching preaching peoples they're not benefiting but when there is a dialogue when your children let them speak to you let them open up to you at school someone approached me no let them talk give them solutions let them think there are someone said to me that the Quran is not true what did you say I told him so okay you logic with him let him grow up and think rather than Haram Haram Haram Haram Haram and at the end of the day a lot of dora institute and before salam not after salaam and a lot of doing in the preferred times raising your hands a lot of duaa that allah guides them and make them steadfast in in sha allah you'll be in good hands [Music] [Music] [Music] she wrote does not fall away from the tree and I get a lot of questions especially from sisters requesting the green light to move out from the house a sister who moves up from the house where her parents are living to move and live alone she's going to be mashallah in synagogue or in a church or she's gonna worship Allah no she will quickly deviate from the straight path now if your parents are caring and loving and going out of their way there's no test in it you have to be kind to them even if they're kafir if you're a Rivard and you're kafir parents are kind to you sending you gifts and doing all what they can to help you you're bound to love them and treat them well there's no test in it the test is when they are difficult and every time someone sends me a question like this I send them a template a cliche because I have hundreds of questions a day so what do I say to them everyone has a test from Allah this person's test is cancer and it's grade or level for this person's test is famine and route this person's test is in security in his country he's a refugee and killing and bombing and shelling is 24/7 this person's test is in his offspring the son is addicted to drugs and the daughter is in prostitution your test is in hard parents who are abusive and not kind to you which of the others would you like over the tests you have everyone is safe I'm okay with my parents thank you okay this is a life that Allah is testing you do you think that everything is go smooth masha'Allah the wife is nice and she proposes to her best friend for you and this cannot be and then you're doubting if it's a trap or not give me a break your parents are your tests you do well you gain paradise the Prophet said Isis Salam the father is the middle gate of Jenna preserve that gate or lose it and waste it you want to enter Jannah you have to be kind to your father the mothers also share the same value and status so you have to be tolerant you have to be patient share my mother always abuses me curses me say me Allah never gives you a husband may Allah never gives you a righteous offspring what do you say I couldn't tolerate this so I harshly responded you lose what should I do big smile never argue never reply back this is like bullying if you're a lot of the sisters a lot of the sisters write to me especially from the sub-continent because they have joint family so the sister is living with her in-laws and the in-laws have something in their chemistry that I have to abuse my sister my daughter-in-law because my mother-in-law abused me when I lived in her house so they don't learn from the mistakes rather they transmit it downwards so she says my mother-in-law is abusive my sister-in-law is always criticizing me putting me down what should I say what should I do I always cry I am always depressed I always think of suicide wrong whenever they say anything negative for you or to you smile and say that mala here mashallah the food was very nice today if she said yes but you are careless you never work she say you say yes well are you true sometimes I'm lazy but I will do my best to satisfy your needs after three four similar replies she will run out of gas I cannot attack you anymore the more you try to defend yourself the more you try to engage an argument she is fuelled by that once you block this by a big smile okay you're burning from inside but always smile yes okay don't argue don't reply what line that more than one or two weeks end of story you're a hopeless case you're like a cabbage no no point in talking to you you don't respond you're a vegetarian vegetation soda so they will never talk to you they will ignore you I can t let you live in peace so always with your parents treat them with respect be dutiful be obedient never argue never defend yourself they curse you they say your listen that's it tell us and it will end us out [Music] [Music] this is not a question that you can have one size fits all it depends on a number of factors if this sister has siblings and the siblings are in the same vicinity of her mother she is obliged to be with her husband not to leave the house except with his permission and if he approves it and this is the norm if there is no one to serve her mother at all but she can provide financial help to get a mate or a nurse then she must do that and stay with her husband because the priority comes to her husband and family now in a rare situation when the sister says my mother is totally cut off no siblings no children no relatives and I don't have financial means and if I don't go and take care of her she will die in this case she has one of two leave your mother to die or divorce your husband what do you choose you have to divorce not you she has to leave her husband whether he approves it or not because this is a necessity that is becoming an obligatory upon her this is not a communal obligation that if someone does it it falls upon me this is obligatory upon me there is no one else to take this responsibility except me she has to do it so I hope this clarifies it and Alonzo knows best sallallahu wasallam Barker and nabina muhammad in Hagia Sophia Jame wassalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh you

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Length: 93min 26sec (5606 seconds)

Published: Fri Apr 13 2018