A Path to Unity | The Etiquettes of Differing - Abu Usamah At-Thahabi

so we are happy we feel blessed anytime we get an opportunity to come to this Masjid to try to continue to do what we've been doing over the past few years and that is to spread the Sunnah in this community not just the people who come to this Masjid the people who built this Masjid but to spread the Sunnah to the other community the other Muslims in this community as well as the non-muslims as well so that they can get a bird's-eye view from us what is a reality of our religion as opposed to taking that narrative from our enemies who are in control of the mass media so we ask a large element to put it in the magazine of the hasanat of everybody who made this possible I was given a topic which was the etiquettes of an empty life the etiquettes that the Muslim has to have as it relates to having different opinions from each other we just prayed salat and muttered and when we pray salat to Margaret everybody didn't pray salat to love it the exact same way the Adhan of ann-margret in this masjid or the Akama may be made one way in this masjid has made another way in another masjid there because there are different ways of doing things in alice name and their different ways of understanding things in Al Islam so the topic is a serious Pattabhi I don't want anybody to sit there and when we talk about the etiquettes of ft laughs you're thinking about the FT laughs between a hadith and Braley's ft laughs between a hadith and do Bundys if they laugh between a little hadith and the might to DD people that's part of what today's talk is about but it's more general than that it's more comprehensive than that there's not a person here except that has FD laughs with people who are even close to him we have FD laughs between the elders and the youngsters we have FD laughs between the husband and the wife we have empty life because the life is natural normal can't get away from it and this is why this topic is a critical topic those of you who are aware the marathas of an already is in Birmingham there's a lot of empty life if the life that exists between the people of that marques that sometimes doesn't allow Islam to move forward or the community leaning forward I'm in a new community not too far from here when I took the reins of that community there was a lot of effort Elife there still is a lot of history laughs if tea laughs that is so bad that it leaves the Muslims stuck on stupid we have some serious challenges and issues in this country as Muslims serious challenges and issues with the challenges that we have our children stand on the deen the policies that the government is trying to pass to shut down this land not 10 years 15 years 20 years five years from now Allahu Alem Islam as we know it is going to continue to change if we don't do something about dealing with these the ADI act okay so my point here is the FT laugh exists between the Muslims in a way that the family can't move on it will cause the quality of a person's life to be affected adversely because the people involved in the afterlife they don't know about the etiquettes of an empty life they didn't get an understanding about an empty life and as a result of that as a result of that I have nothing to do with the drama the beef the static that exists between my mother and my aunt I have nothing to do with that but I'm born into it and I inherit it but because I'm ignorant of my religion what Allah said what the Prophet said so I'm ignorant so what I do is I become part of the problem and the circle of the empty life it gets bigger so today's talk honey is a really important talk this message it dismissed it right here it's going to be empty life do you people stay stuck on stupid to the point where the Dower is prevented from moving forward because because you don't know how to have FD laugh and this is why we say to the Muslims over and over and we say to this community we have to take the Quran and the Sunnah no doubt about that but it's not enough for you to say that the Companions of the Prophet read wanna lawyer la image main they are an integral part of this religion they're not nice stories of people who made a lot of sacrifices that's part of what they are and who they are but the Companions RA runs of the Deen their symbol of the Dean there's no salat no zakat no song no Hajj there's no Aslam without those companions read the alignment so don't look at the Companions as mush allah the companions nice stories no they're more than that they're more than that you have to understand and take this Quran the way they understood in where they took it the Sunnah the way they took it away they understood it and they are her job honest they are her job Delille against us how why many ways the Companions wrote the olan who just like us they had a lot of empty life they empty life before al Islam was a shed than ours they had some serious things that kept them apart the Arabs so the religion of lsland came and it ordered us to do a lot of things and prohibited us from doing a lot of other things in order to take care of this issue of being United but not United just some Kelly Matt Farah well if you heard a little had unity unity nope we're not here calling to that just as we're not here calling to and Khilafah el Khilafah el Khilafah hey you establish the he life in your house me I have to establish the Khilafah in my house I'm the mutant meaning in my house and I'm in charge of my wives and I'm in charge of my children let me be fairing Justin upright and then if I establish in my house and you and your house and you in your house Allah Allah heath I'm gonna be laughing with Allah he he's gonna establish it in the earth so it's just cuz I'm fat it when people get before the mic and it starts screaming Alec Iloilo Khilafah establish the key life in your house everybody here so we don't want these empty slogans al jihad jihad and jihad is important the key life is important unity is important but all three of them they have their correct understanding they have their correct understanding so what we want to do here today in shower and shed some light on this serious massive issue we'll begin by saying honey as a relates to the issue of unity which is the opposite of an empty life and that the photo having these differences that split us up being people who are together and the same understanding is one of those really critical messages of Allah slang no one should allow himself to be the reason why Muslims are having empty life you don't want to be that person you'll find individual Masha Allah is the days of an Muharram he's going too fast I sure ah and he's gonna fast the 9th of Ashura and there was no problem form because he always fast Mondays and Thursdays he's gonna do that he makes the event exist in the first row he makes jihad to do good things in his land but although he's doing those things that are the sooner you'll find him a big problem when it comes to he's one of the reasons why the community is divided not realizing it's we're cheap to be united and it's Haram to have 50 laughing at the rock where we split up it's one of the big sins in lsland so we have the Companions of the Prophet salah salem showing us luckily how we can unite so a number of ayat Allah who tada mentioned in the Quran in alladhina further la cadena who mcconnell shia less the men whom fish a yam Holly those people who split their religion and their different groups different groups you have nothing to do with them that's not the religion you brought you have nothing to do with them at all it's one of the many ayat of the Quran well at akuna minal Adina Federer - Dina who McConnell Shia Kulu husband be melody him ferry hoon this ire of the Quran shows our reality he said don't be like those people who are the mushrikeen the religion of the mushrikeen don't be of those people are the mushrikeen those people who split their religion up into schism z' each group is happy with what it has so this one is said if he and he doesn't want to hear anything else and it hasn't even no set of here that one is a honey he doesn't want to hear anything except that diamond tab leaf he that one sufi this was a liberal that one is this and this one is that and the Prophet brought one book seller love while he was sending one Sunnah one Qibla and above all of that one ela colic and you'll find all of these groups being happy with what they had not permissible from those meaning ayat not one two three four five mini ayah Allah who taught I told the Prophet sallallahu wasallam white se mu bihabli llahi Jamie I'm mulatto for aku what Karuna Mottola alaikum it come to my dad for LF a beggar to do become for Spartan Bhanumathi he wanna welcome to my Reshef ah who frightened men Inari Bangkok you mean huh cuz I like eBay Yahoo like um IIT here I look under the door yum Holly you and your companions you and your followers hold on to the Rope of Allah all together and do be divided and authentic hadith came and explained what is the Rope of Allah what is the Hubble of Allah the prophet mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa ala ali was element quran who are Hubble London dude minister Maryellen Oh Fatima Tsukuba he said that the Quran is the Rope of Allah that extends from the heavens to the earth so hold on to it I do ilayhi Bernard you hold on to that Quran so be United all together and do not have empty life and remember the name of Allah upon you when you were once enemies to one another and you want the brink of the Hellfire about to fall into it but Allah saved you people by al-islam he saved you people in the hopes that you will be guided so Angelia Angelia the Arabs of the Arabian Peninsula they could never be United like for an example we're a family right here we're all brothers cousins uncles and we're one tribe this is our tribe it could be from earp or it could be whatever you want that tried to be from we're one tribe we have our elders and our youngsters in jail eeeh this tribe is going to break up at some point why because I'm not going to agree with what the Emir said I don't even want him to be the Emir anyone anymore so I'm gonna make huge me and my sons me and my younger uncle me and my older uncle we're gonna fight him and we're gonna make problems and that's why the Prophet told the people so a lot he was settling anyone who dies and he doesn't have the bay in his neck he died the death of a jellia because you have to give the bay out to the leader of the Muslims and it said if you come and the Muslims are united and two people they give the bay out to one and then another one stands up to get the bay out they should deal with that one why because he's working towards dividing the community so the point here is there are many many many ayat of the Book of Allah and many a hadith as for the Sunnah for HUD did will a cottage the Prophet told us in North India deed sallallahu alayhi wa ala aalihi wasallam your the lucuma lahu Thalassa way us to lucuma nasa three things Allah is pleased for you people he wants these things for you and three three three things he hates he doesn't want them first when he said and Taba do who well I - shriek ooh be he shay ah well enter NASA who man will of Allah who American when testing will be Hubble Eli hey Jimmy I'm what I tell you three things Allah loves is pleased and that is you worship Him and him alone and you don't worship anyone else along with him number two anyone who's the leader amongst you the imam the administration the husband the emir anyone who's in charge of the muslims you give him the free huh and there's a way to give him now see how you don't give the imam of the masjid naseeha in front of the people and you put him down and you talk bad at him and talk bad with the administration you don't do like that number three he said Allah loves or he has a robot he likes for you - he likes for you to be united and not to have empty life you know when I was lamb the most important action in lsland is the Salah most important action he says Allah loved what he was selling us a lot Hyrule mode lure for Minnesota a stick fearfully a stick there so that is the best thing you can do so anyone who can make a lot of prayer make a lot there is nothing more important than the salat and lsland from your physical actions the only thing more important then the salat is you are key than what you believe in you have the wrong IP de all the slot in the world won't help you it won't help you you have the right al Qaeda inshallah inshallah inshallah is going to benefit you but in terms of actions most important action is the salat he would pray at five times every day and before he would pray a were praying in the Jamaat unity unity and he went just get up and face the table SLO heart but he used to look down to make sure that the people were straight in the lines and used to say every day over and over again subtle of what he was selling them lad teddy fool for 34 book oh don't be divided in the way you're standing and if you are dividing it it's going to buy your hearts so you look at the army with the non-muslims the people in the army they know the importance of everybody being synchronised everybody being disciplined everybody being straight there's some benefit from that if our bodies are not together our hearts are not together this is one of the reasons we got a child best not to allow our kids to eat at different times but we have to make an effort of making jihad we want our bodies together a shared mental Quran the Prophet was safe so a lot ago seldom everyday like to study food don't have this empty life you're not even talking in the Salah don't have it alive in your bodies you have to be tolerant today for fudger I'm between him and him for Laurent between him and him file something between him and head for and on and on every day I'm like that so now with this being the case with this being the case I'm gonna start to learn my brothers who they are they gotta learn me one of them the Prophet used to tell the people don't be tough when you put your feet together Lilu they lay there Quantico take it easy and be soft and gentle but there's one person from the community you don't um rough guys put its foot all on your foot gotta do the Sunnah one of them kind of guys whenever he is on my side I know I just got to be patient with this brother and I got to be patient with that one and I got to be patient with this one because when he praises so my point here is my point here is this is one of the many practical ways of having unity in the religion then the love hat comes and the Met HAP says don't stand next to each other that's what the map says so whether you realize it or not the net help is going towards curry in every life creating hearts that are a problem although the Imam who came to the understanding we're not gonna throw him out and say he wanted ft laughs he's a baddie man and will come to those issues of the HD hide of the lemma before moving on in Charlotte honey the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa ala ante was selling bought a religion that put a lot of emphasis on unity and talked bad about it alive because there's a price to pay when we have empty life this community right here will suffer you guys are gonna suffer your religion will suffer as long as you remain stuck on stupid about those issues that Allah he are not all that complicated I'm not gonna understand everything you understand it you're not gonna look at things the way I look at everything impossible if we were to travel from here to Mecca I'm gonna have it D laugh with you people in the Dean of the dunya and you're gonna have XP laugh with me in the demon of dunya but we have a religion that answers those issues we have a religion that shows us how to be so the FT laugh is a problem the life is a problem what's the problem a lot of problems come from it a lot they're very serious Allah who taught I mentioned in his book soup I know who what the island or the Prophet says sallallahu alayhi wa ala REO sudden I'm in the Mahalo command kind of Cocoon because that empty life in India even those people who went before you they were destroyed because of the empty life that they had against their prophets destruction destruction be destroyed it's not a joke no nation before this nation no nation remained in power as long as they had every life gonna be a problem it's gonna be a problem so there's a serious issue Allah mentioned in the Quran wati wa ha what wahooo well at the NASA roof a tough shuttle with Highbury Oh cold obey Allah and obey his messenger sallallahu aleyhi we sellem and don't have a new NASA don't be arguing and splitting up over issues between yourselves don't do that because if you do that if you do that you're going to fail and your strength is going to leave you your strength is going to leave you well Spiro nola Hamas are beating but instead be patient Allah is with those who are patient so now look what happened in the Battle of better because this is the action of the moon at 15 the Prophet is going to better better saw the loving son of his companions and the chief of the moon at 15 he decides you know what we're not going to fight with you we're turning around and he took a third of the army took a third of the army and they went back a third of the army in the middle at the time when you really need them a third of the army breaks off and they go to the other way weakened in the army weakened in the army that's what happens with empty life we don't utilize our resources whether they are monetary or whether they're in our minds this individual he is a blessed brother he's a professional he has a profession that will help our community but he can't get along with me Abu salmon I'm one of the board I'm sure a member so he goes his own way you go your own way and I go my own way there's a problem if de life there's a big problem so I wanna bring to your attention at honey Islam is a community religion it's a religion a communal religion we don't have this thing where you go and you worship Allah by yourself unless it's the real really time of fitna there will come a time where a man has to be by himself and he has to hold on to a tree and eat from the leaves of the tree because the fitness whole diet he has to make the event on top of a mountain by himself Hey and his sheep but this is not that time he told us a little of what he was settlement movement ready you heard it too nice well yes Peru Anna that home cradle minun minun levy now you hide it - nice well I guess Poirot Allah Adam the believer who mixes with the people he's sociable with the people and he's patient with what annoys him from the people he's better than the believer who doesn't mix with the people and he's not patient that's the description of the movement he says our love while he was seldom and men yeah roof were you left when I heard a female a ah no for that you left the believers a person who he connects to people and he accommodates them when they want to connect to him and there's no good in the one who doesn't take the initiative to connect and when people want to connect to him he doesn't reciprocate that's the sign of the movement he's individual he's gonna give him his lane and he's going to get away fits in and is going to try to bring good to the table that's what he's going to do he's not going to jeopardize the issue of empty life and unity second issue and this is critical second issue of what is that though an amiable Islam they used to put a lot of emphasis on the knowledge of an empty life there's knowledge of how to pray knowledge of zakat the fifth of is led how to perform Hajj there's knowledge or the Ficker of how to get married how to get divorced how to make this thick ball of the new child sick of all of that Fick of how to sit in the masjid there is the fickle and empty life the real Marvel Islam past present and in the future in sha Allah the real Imam of Islam they have a special position they are the water fertile anbiya they are the ones who inherited from the NBA and as a result of that they're not normal Allah asked a rhetorical question in the Quran that doesn't deserve any answer because the answer is clear Pole hallelujah Stowell Lavina yalla moon one led in Allah Allah moon are they equal those who know and those who don't know the man in his land he doesn't know his elbow from his ankle bone in the religion he doesn't know and here's a man with knowledge of the religion he sitting on top of a mountain and when people come to him with his knowledge and his insight he knows the fitnah before it even comes the people come to him and say share what's your position about this distance that he say don't do it don't do it he knows what this guy is asking about is gonna destroy the whole country it's gonna kill people the whole country everybody but the one who can't see except in front of his nose especially from the younger people that are away Vida and the Shabbat those people say no chef you don't know his scholar for dollars the point here is the real AMA of lsland they didn't leave any stone unturned for this Ummah everything you want to look up everything you want to research the scholars of Islam talked about it even issues that were not present back then you're gonna find from the canal and the fit of the dilemma that which will allow you to make chaos you can make ystem but from what they said and what they did for things that were not even present back then like this mobile phone Prophet Muhammad Salla loved what he was selling them didn't have a mobile phone you all know that right he didn't have a note anybody doubt that anybody here think the Prophet had a mobile phone three three or iPhone anybody think that and yet the Piranha Sunnah showed us the I dab of this mobile phone the I dab of the mobile phone and how to deal with the mobile phone if the people knew the I dab of the mobile phone this fitna with our brother Norman Ali Khan people would know what they do - shut up and stop being a part of a problem just shut up this is part of the muscular with empty laugh - many people who are talking who shouldn't be talking and as a result of that the issue gets more complicated so the scholars of islam scholars islam they wrote about the importance of empty laughs some of the greatest scholars they said that the very first scholar wrote about and Ft laughs was that Mahad death from the hi Nabila imam abu abdullah muhammad abu nasr and nor was he this man he was the business nitroglycerin he wrote a book he called his book sick and if t laughs after him all of the scholars came and they named their book this as well all of them all of them or many of them and imam muhammad IBN jarir al-tabari same book tremendous Eman in Ellis lamp even on moon they're the size of the book ki Tabata rebooter heap all of them used to write this even before them Imam Malik in his book and Moapa that book of them water is a book that contains for us the statements and the positions of the Companions that had empty life of the tabi ring that every life why am i mentioning this to you I'm mentioning this to you in Hawaii number one to let you know number one that the scholars of an Islam didn't leave us to be by ourselves to figure stuff out and when I say the scholars of Islam that doesn't mean that a scholars machine when someone says where's the DeLillo you say shaykh rabee say that ain't a Delisle the Delisle is what allah said what his messenger said what the companion said in big red wanna Waialae him the hawk is what allah said what his messages said and what and what the companion said and did don't be of those people what's the proof of that what's the proof of that an imam abu hanifa said that's not a Delisle ila cooling we want you to know number one the scholars the scholar the scholars if you find a up to Samir brand-spanking-new Muslim if you find someone in the community talking bad about the other man then you run away from that person the way you run away from a lion I know some of you are very inquisitive and if a real lion came in some of you will say wow look he is Lydia Wow and he says I think I just think I can touch him lion bite your head off you run away from that person the way you run away from a lion you're gonna be like me you're not gonna try to wait to see if the line is gonna cool out like cool out I'm going out the window as soon as you come in the door that's how you have to be with the one who talks bad about their animal is lamb and it's usually from these groups that are political the jama'at I see I see yeah they're the ones they got to put the scholars down so that they could put themselves up when the scholars are out of the equation now the thing is easy for them to do what they want to do second reason why I'm bringing through this is the importance of the issue of knowing the etiquettes of empty life and knowing what the scholars had Ft life in they said to Abdullah beauty must road about a man who was teaching he axed as the men have knowledge of the empty life between the people they said no he said he is destroyed and he's going to destroy other people if you have some knowledge about well this issue it has empty laughing this is the life all right he's doing this particular thing like the mullet of the prophets all of what he will sell them as an example this is an example I don't believe that the motive is permissible I think it's an innovation personally I believe it's an innovation and I'm with those scholars who said it's an innovation but I also know that early Marcille T le monde never knew Hajj or any Mammon no we another scholar said it was something that was okay the Delisle is not no we said abu hanifa said abu bakr said the Delille allah said his prophet said the Companions collectively said something red wanna lie on image main now when I know although I believe the molded is not right but I am I gonna call this brother you are deviant because you're doing the Moody you believe in the moly so you're a deviant and I won't give you a slant synapse and you don't love the Sunnah if I say that to him and I looked at him like that what am I going to do with those Imams who took his position doesn't mean that position is correct doesn't mean that I'm saying it's correct but if you're going to give him this ruling and you won't give it those Imams well what where's the fairness in that where's the justice in that so when the person knows the empty life he'll know how to deal with the people based upon their happy life that exists not gonna make a big deal goes into a message it where they don't say I mean after the imam ruiz surah fatiha they don't say it in that message it okay I know where they're coming from so I'm not going to go in that message and make trouble because I know the issue so that's the second point that we wanted to mention third point honey concerning this issue of F T laughs before we even get into the I'd add the different etiquettes of FB laugh we want to share this introduction with you the third point in my introduction first one first one the religion call for unit unity and it said if the laugh is a muscular and there's a price to pay number two the scholars of L Islam they talked about this issue and the real the real the real person was worth worthy he's worth his weight he knows he has some knowledge about what the real a marvelous lamb had ft laughs in he's a nice speaker he gives a nice hubba and that's his name with a colon which certain who knew Ali huh first double that's his lien no problem you gotta hat but he's not a Musti know the difference between the guy who gives a nice talk and the guy who share who you gonna bring your issues to share I want to get a house and the house is with the mortgage the mortgage I have an opportunity to get it from the Islamic bank or to get it from the regular bank what do you think I should do share don't go to any ordinary I'm gonna book it and Zayde from people to ask those kind of questions don't go to regular people those issues about your life those issues about marriage divorce blood private parts your money you go to people who know this religion this is one of the big problems we have everybody who can say something in front of a mic we put him there and he's talking especially here in this country and I was Shabab are being sent a stripe third point in this introduction and then we'll get into the issue this Shalala is that there are different types of ft laugh honey not all ft life is bad there is the FT laugh a levee and lahu al Haq definitely laugh came as a result of the truth it's not bad and then there's the FT life that came as a result of desires that's the extra life that's a problem there's the FT laugh that is mr. serve this SP laugh yeah we understand it although I believe the correct position the coda Raja I believe it's this one over here but the other opinion is most Assad we performed Hajj this year before the lillahi Tala and there are many lessons to learn from al Hajj many lessons we can deal with the issue of the a dab of empty life as a lesson from Hajj from the lessons of a hunch is that the Companions read wala ye alayhim they had a lot of different opinions about Hajj that Estella so many things happen with the Companions when they perform Hajj with the prophet salallahu alayhi wa ala ali was seldom well radi aallahu anhu ajma'in as you'll see in sha allah so I just give you a very quick example very quickly a person wants to stone the jamarat and in strolling the jama'at he has his father with him who's an old man his mother with him she's an old lady his wife is not feeling well so he wants to go and stone the three Jamarat on behalf of his elderly mother or father so he's gonna do for himself and he's gonna do for his father some of the scholars said when you do that you have to throw seven go to the next one throw seven go to the next one throw seven and then go back and start all over for the one you're doing it for other scholars said no surely you throw seven for yourself and then seven for that person and you do that with the other three whatever position you take in that issue is it a fifty laughs that's more tougher it's a nifty laughs you can understand because there's no iron there's no hadith saying do this or don't do that so both opinions they have their point of view don't be of those people who come in you and insists you gotta take it my way it's my way or the highway that's how some of the people are but the Companions renoir Malayalee him and the things when there was not any nuts and it wasn't going to be a problem for the community their chests used to be wider than that now we are even ABI Sufyan rugby alarm there those people who and this month after a few days on Saturday the Day of Ashura there are those people who there if the laughs of this religion is not acceptable by no stretch of the imagination can you curse the Companions by no stretch of the imagination can you add our towards any of the companions while we are any of those companions we're gonna say if t laughs Umatilla that's not a Rama that's our dad well I hey there's no HT that for that but on the 9th and the 10th these people are gonna come and they're gonna curse how are we even ABI Sufyan I'm here to tell you hey don't get it twisted and think that I'm telling you that we have to have a life with people we have to accept what everybody's saying how's their Naza there's no X T laughing that yata me cut them there's no X T laughing that then they be never dyed salallahu alayhi wasalam he knows that L know hey there's no any life in it there's not an empty life that is considered this now a little trouble someone comes some just imagine is just imagine this we all believe collectively hamid rasool allah saw the love water he was sending up some man comes from outside Europe in white man comes from outside and he's drunk he comes in here with a bottle of log and he says i'm rasool laughs - Mohan me gonna look at him nobody is gonna say okay this is issue of empty life we're gonna look at this guy and say hey we have to go and help him to find his mind he lost his mind somewhere let's go help him to find his mind so the point here is I'm not here telling you every empty life is considered there are different types of empty life the end result comes like that for certain reasons and the beginning of the fbi's for certain reasons again with experience with knowledge a person begins as he gets older especially he becomes more tolerant but when he's young when he's young and he's newly practicing it becomes a problem because his lack of experience and his lack of knowledge or Heda he's sincere so he'll come and he'll accuse the Imam he'll accuse the administration you people don't want to soon hey hey slow down and pump your brakes slow down and pump your brakes and relax so I just want to make it clear there is an empty lab that is natural the one that comes as a result of being the fitrah of allah the fitrah no two people are going to think the same and understand everything that seems not going to happen I love Utada mentioned in the Quran in surah hood he said in the quran subhanahu wa'ta'ala well osha arab Bucca la jolla nasa Matawa Heda well ayahs a luna moth - Allah more Ibuka with attica come upon him listen to this I had your Lord wanted ya Muhammad if your Lord wanted he could have made all of the people want everybody is on Islam everybody is on tow he everybody is doing the right thing he could even make the man that Iike where they don't even make mistakes had your Lord wanted me pay attention to this ayah he could have made all of the people one Allah but they will not cease to have empty life between themselves they will not cease to be divided except the one that Allah had Rama upon and for this reason they were created few things in this ayat number one number one the ayat shows people were created to have a healthy life to have a 50 life so as a father my two wives are not the same my children and not the same I got a deal with everybody in different ways this is a boy this is a girl this will older this right this one is easier than the setup can't deal with everybody the same way he's older he's been in the slam longer he's more knowledgeable this one is sick this one is challenged mentally he said because of that they were created he said they will continue to at Ft life in rahim or a book except that the one that Allah has wrought mapa and that goes to show empty laughs all my tears are AMA that hadith is fabricated it's not true the Prophet never said that salut a salut and this ayah set being United is the Rama and having every laugh is another the FT laughs becomes a Rama it could be a Rama in that the religion allowed you to do things certain ways in different ways everyone knows that you can make the Hajj of a tamato or you can make the Hajj of and a Quran or you can make the Hajj of a fraud that's a rama that you have a choice you have a choice you want to pray your sunnah prayers like the hanafis do after sellout there a shot some of them stay on their knees and they do those two raka you want to stay on your knees stay on your knees and pray those two rock us you want to stand up and pray stand up and pray those two rockets there's a Rama because you have a choice as for you say what you want to say I say what I want to say you think would you know this is that and the Arab Spring the Arab Spring is a clear indication that if t life is I that if t life is a dad when the bu sallallahu alayhi wa ala ali was sending them concerning this particular point as well honey he said North indicates Allah loved what he was selling them and Allah junudullah Ginetta my two are affirming ha telephone when I attend Akkad a minute elephant he said that the souls of the people are like trained soldiers in the army conscripted soldiers he said the Artois people's souls their souls are like trained soldiers there are some souls when they come together they harmonize and they mesh and you just get along and then there are other souls other people when they come together they clash he just doesn't like you you ask him why you don't like him he doesn't know he himself doesn't know some people know his skin is black don't like you know some people know but some people don't know I just don't like them and then their that is the person who you meet them you like me don't I know you from somewhere no did we just met but that's how it is you get along with them and I hope and pray those of you who are not married you get a wife like that when you marry your wife you're just like you have NC John like that you have industry jump it's like when the lights go off we all go to put our shoes on we don't see the shoe you put the shoe down you put your foot in you said it's not my shoe this is not my shoe it may be too small too big it may be my size but it's not my shoe whereas in the darkness the person puts his foot in his shoe he says this is my shoe some people like that very easy to get along with I mean even when they start talking you kind of know what they're about to say already you can finish the sentence because they're easy and the Middle's people were just very difficult that goes to show a 20 that's some empty life it's just natural and that's why we have and that's what we have pay attention I need you to understand this point that's why we have some of the best people have an empty life some of the best people our Father Adam had XP live with Musa so the wattle why he was salam whining hema they had a discussion and they both were bringing their hajeck Musa was saying you're Adam a lot created you with his own hands you're the father of the human beings Allah put you in the Genda he told them Allah it could to make sense did to you you got us kicked out of the gym now Musa said back to him are you gonna hold me accountable for something that was written on me fifty thousand years before the heaven and earth world were created the Prophet says of Allah do Selim he said Adam overcame Musa in his argument in the discussion the argument that they were having stood a man in the old the hadith in Bukhari and Muslim of the two ladies they had two babies the older lady put her baby down and the wolf came and ate and and ran off the younger lady put her baby down the older lady took that baby she said it's my baby they said no that's my baby notice my baby no that's my baby they went to dowload to the Father that get to judgment they told him the story he looked at the Delisle that the reel was in the hands of the woman who it wasn't her baby he said that's your baby he gave a ruling that's your baby it's yours because he asked a judge based upon what's empowering what was our baby when they left the room they came upon his son soon a man soon a man said okay just bring me a knife i'ma cut the baby in half I give you half I give you half that lady who wasn't the real mother said okay so right with me the other lady said no no no she can have the baby she can have it so they might say that's her baby the ruling of the Father was this the ruling of the son was that they didn't give the same ruling because circumstance has changed and that happens in the dunya with our ulema they say it was stuffy or aloof tea I see a little stuff tea the mufti is the captive of the one who's asking the question beware of these brothers and this hulu of a jar with the ideal who don't have this Rama where you can have earthly life I don't have to follow everything shaykh rabee says or any share in the dunya don't force me to take the HT out of the anomalous now is that HT had so these brothers will say you're out of the Sunnah because you say that don't don't don't don't be like that don't be like that take it easy just relax there's if Tilak between the scholars a person comes and he says to the ship share what do you have to say about the person who did this this this this the Sheikh is gonna give us Fatah the Sheikh is the captive of the guy asking the questions because he's gonna give his foot to a based upon how the question was given to him and then that person comes and he takes that and he says chef's also said that this message in in Harrisville is a deviant message it he never mentioned anything to the chef about Huddersfield never mention anything about Harrisville but the one who has that disease in his heart so my point here is the end beyond the profits there is a hadith of the Prophet SAW a lot of cinnamon imam at-tirmidhi he collected in this authentic inshaallah from the hadith alcoci I love Tyler said to the Prophet sallallaahu Ali was sending me on Muhammad a teddy female Tassimo a letter Allah do you know why the angels were up above or arguing the angels are arguing do you know why the Prophet said I love Adam I don't know Elijah put his hand on the preface back in the dream so love love why he was seldom he said I felt the coldness of a law's hand and Allah has two hands their right hands they both fit his majesty he said I felt the conus in my chest and then Allah said do you know why the angels are arguing he said yes they arguing about the Dhiraj act and the kuffara they argued about those things that caused you to go up and cut their argue about the things that will cause you to get your sins taken off namely walk into the message it namely sitting in the message if from once a lot to the next salat namely making a good will do this word Atma Hazama and Maha Sabha in the Arabic language it means argument one group a person is saying something someone else says something back now the maniacae they don't disobey allah azza wajal but the maleic are given their points of view why are they making this mukasam a' between themselves why they having this thing so some of the Rama Islam they use this particular idea to go and show allah subhanho wa taala is the only one he's the only one who knows everything so as a result of that everybody and everything else in his creation they're gonna have different opinions about different things based upon what information came to them is going to be what they say what they do what they believe and that leads to natural 50 laughs because he heard something here or something else he believes some other thing he read it in another way so the FT laughs is something that is normal it's something that is normal don't think if t laughs is inherently evil no when we don't have etiquette this is when the problem is and these are things we want to speak about right now okay and there are a lot of etiquettes of after that first one that we want to bring to your attention in sha allah who tada is personal hallo just having good character as it relates to aunty laughs that's a general statement having hostile hope he says of allah wahda he were on I do cellular after Lucia filling means annyeong Luciana personal hope the thing that's gonna be in the scales heavier than everything y'all know kion is good character Salafi al-hadid unless Sunnah good characters from our religion the one who knows that allows al Bashir he sees he's a Sameer he's el Cucuy he's al Jabar allow him for him to parrot off this iron in this hadith but we don't see that reflective in the way he's dealing with us he's not gentle he's not crying he's not patient he's not clean he's not truthful but he's gonna stand up beating a drum said if he said if he I'm here to save Allah he said if he is the truth but what is the sin Afiya it's not my property that i come is my club my club i mean i'm not bro we do bundy know salafiyyah is taking that quran and the sunnah the way the companions understood him practices itself he what the media telling us a Salafi jihadi ax car either Boko Haram Shabbat these guys are the selfies no it's not sin Afiya Salafi is al-islam and will suffer that we shouldn't be shine embarrassed or afraid somebody say to me hey are you a Muslim I'm so scared I'm gonna say yeah no I'm not a Muslim I'm gonna tell you people no Muslim what kind of Muslim are you I believe you got it beyond the Kitab and the Sunnah the way the Companions understood those two sources that's what I believe call it what you want to call it should we run around beating that drum every day all the time putting emphasis on the Quran and not on the essence of the meaning no we have to put essence on the meaning and from the essence is the way we act if you're really an idea then work by the hadith and be gentle don't talk so much don't be hot don't be high said take it easy anyway when I say good character honey the arrogant person he's gonna differ with people because as high as his way or the highway the one who thinks he thinks I'm always right and everybody else is wrong that's going to lead to more empty life good character love for your brother what you'd love for yourself to have whose love London do you think he hates the sooner you think he took that position because just the bad guy hate this one may want to be a troublemaker he took that position because that's what he believes he believes that another thing from the ocean all hope is in allah slam you know islam what is big we make big was little we make little so I'm praying next to a brother who's leaving the message a right now he was moving his finger like this in the salon my finger after so loud I am I gonna grab his finger and break and snap his finger and say to him what are you doing I'm not gonna do that because what he's doing even if I didn't hear about leave if I didn't know it good hold oh don't be in haste coming axe the brother why do you do that what's going on just take it easy and be relaxed when people disagree with you the reason why I say that look at this few incidents happened they were the same happy with or not and another companion two other companions where the man was reading the Quran surah al Hadid in a way that our mob wasn't taught that Quran and I said I got ready to grab him when I heard him he was praying and he started reading sort of the Hadid I almost grabbed him I almost gripped him up but I let him go respecting the prayer after he finished praying I grabbed him thinking he's messing with the Quran he took him to the prophets of Allah he was settling yeah also Allah this man is reading the Quran in the way that you didn't teach me but mommy said let him go and my he let him go he told the man read it the man started reading the Quran read the Allah and he said now you read it I must started reading the Quran the Prophet told both of them seller loved what he was selling them kala Kumar listen both of you are correct one issue and both of you are correct correct so the Huq can have two sides to it or three sides or four sides but if you're arrogant and you think that you you you have collected all of the religion your Medhat collected all of the religion your Shaykh collected all of the religion you're going to be a problem you are going to be a problem so deal with people in a nicer way in an easier way don't be one of those people was real rough and tough my way or the highway they'll hack him for a sob fellow ed Ron when after photo a June why if a human being a much Dead Island he looks at an issue and he makes HD hat if he gets it right he gets two rewards if he gets it wrong he gets one reward that's the right not Allah the look of Allah the apple of Allah gonna give the man a reward because he's qualified to make an effort he did the best that he could and he arrived to the wrong conclusion and he still gets a reward which goes to show honey every single FD laughs shouldn't be something that you wage war against it number two is just as important number two the regular people from amongst us don't talk so much don't be so opinionated in the Dean or the dunya don't be so opinionated look what I did not be taught upset Holly ruddy Allah I knew who the Prophet said about him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah Almighty Ali abullah batali he's the best party of this Ummah he's the best judge of this woman that's from his Casals Adi said carnal and look to them for death Allah female a sinner who for Sarah and an Arriba he said knowledge used to be just a dot but then people started getting to knowledge who are not the people of knowledge they started talking started writing started giving the opinions and then knowledge became very expansive and wide meaning what Allah revealed the ayat of the Quran all right man a lot of stoah when that ayat was revealed describing Allah the Lord of all the world's a black man is over his throne in the way that befits his majesty not a single companion said how why when we're not a single one they had nothing to say just it's this lamb they just submit it I told you the hadith see Allah came to the Prophet at nighttime when he was sleeping salamati was sullen touched him in the back he felt the coldness of that and his neck in his chest not a single companion said how why when where but now what we have with the Muslims is a rock man he came down he made his steel up it's the one the language it means this and that poet he said that and this that and if he comes down and he goes up and then what happens well that and you have to write an explanation of that and then an explanation of that explanation an explanation of that explanation and now we have all of the Quran and that's why they said that the Companions they had a few words but they had a lot of actions today we have a lot of Quran and few actions and that's why I remembered the island when he saw the man a man said yeah middle mo meaning you see that guy he said it's a good guy put him in your office put him he's a good guy he said you know him he said ya know you travel with him you sleep with him you do business with him did you eat with him he said no he said you don't know him maybe you just saw him going up and down in the message it and you think he's good I mean if we see him in a message it going up and down we have Hosmer one what does that mean you blown him money you don't know him yet no you have to get to know that brother so those people back then not a lot of Quran but a lot of actions so now now from the idea of an empty life the regular people the ignorant people shouldn't talk I come to this message a this community I'm brand spanking new I don't know about the problems that exists this community says to me you can give the hook but you can give the talk I'm going to avoid the issues because I don't know what's going on here and I shouldn't put my foot down in a place I don't know if should go there Allah said Allah for when I took for Miley Sulekha be I don't talk about that which you have no knowledge about that's the way of the munafiqeen especially as it relates to the community rahu tada mention those munafiqeen were either jam room and Hoffman and Emily I will hope that Ruby will not do in a rasul were in a doodle a many men whom dynamo who'll edenia stunt between the woman who well oh la la la cumbre matter hole at about to misshapen in la colina the moon i-15 if something happens to the community in the way of Public Safety or public fear the malai 15 are the ones who talk about it everybody they got something to say everybody got the opinion Allah said if those munafiqeen ignorant people if they just would have referred that issue back to the messenger sallallaahu i they would sell them and those who have knowledge then they would have put the best construction on this situation and if it wasn't for the rotten of Allah upon you were to follow shape on most of you except a few of you so this is in the deal I don't know much about the Dean why am I giving my opinion why am i debating I don't know much about the deep the do he is the same way that's not my forte that's not like the hustles these are not my people listen honey in this country as well as in Sumeria and in in Europe I traveled to Europe quite a bit and I deal with Somali communities in the Samadhi communities because I'm not Sumalee there are things that I did not touch on from the problems that they've had over the years because I'm not the man for that job it's too sensitive you gotta let fair or not talk about that they're sure you talk about that and I'm talking about the dunya it's not for me to talk about what's going on with the problems of the administration because I don't know and by giving my opinion and I don't know all of the angles I'm just gonna make more problems let the people will handle in the situation handled that's why I said about our brother that you people have heard about don't pass that stuff out to the next guy don't pass it out because you wouldn't want that to happen to you and where are people who are people of proofs not people of you know the way the newspapers are the Sun magazine so the issue here is from the etiquette of a nifty life is for a person to just keep his mouth shut and not to talk about things another very important issue from the etiquettes of every life Mourad and masada that you had to take into consideration the harms and the benefits of the thing that is on the table listen to this very carefully doing the hajj doing the he life of her mother or doing the hajj one of the hajj doing the he life of us man in Menna earth man he pray salat the world for a cot in minute all of the prayers are just too i got to be prayed at be a time for to raka at his time asset to rock i said his time and that's what you do in the days of minner you don't combine in minner earth man combine course man pray for raka after praying for rocket which was against the sunnah some of the youngsters went up to our blog me masud may allah be pleased and they say hey earth - man he played the whole thing for aren't you gonna say something aren't you gonna do something abdullah he must all said nam the Sunnah is to shorten and make - and what he did was a mistake when I connect he laughs sure he should have made - but this he laughs that you guys are doing is evil so if I get up and I start talking to earth man the Khalifa and the way you guys there's gonna be a problem so Abdullah being my salt he let that thing which was wrong he let it go because to try to deal with it with the way these people were maybe it's gonna leave to civil war it's gonna lead to civil war so we are in a Masjid and the elders they think a certain way elders sometimes as always say we're in a relay race I get the Pathan I'm running I'm running I'm running I gotta hand it to you so you're running and you get it from me and then that's how we do sometimes when you're running with the elder and the elders like this and he won't do this he just keep running you say shake us up let us up although he's tired he'll deal one pass it off he has to pass off the baton the same way was passed off to him by those who preceded him but I'm coming in I'm coming into the Masjid as a youngster I gotta take it easy I got a relaxed I can't clash with the elders they're the ones who built the message it they are the ones who purchased the message it we have to keep working in a nice way we have to be able to weigh the harms and we have to weigh the benefits I'm in a mess shape I want to get down with that message it as soon as I start saying alhamdulillah the people gonna say it's Wahhabi so I don't see I don't say I mean because saying I mean in that message is gonna create fitna does that mean that we're gonna let the string that die trying to please people no that's what the Prophet did so a lot he would sell them when he left the door of Mecca up when the kuffar age didn't wanna write bismillah ar-rahman ar-rahim and he let it go because there's a bigger picture so when it comes to the issue of the etiquettes of an earthly life the etiquettes you have a position and I have position we got away the Masada hey hey you want to marry a girl and your parents don't want you to marry her her he jabs you Bab gloves me cops a lot here on us she's a good girl I'm the Cena and she's beautiful but your mother and your father are not with the program why racism or whatever reason they don't want to marry from that tribe from that family you have to weigh the harms and the benefits how in the world is the girl gonna run off and marry this guy without her father or how are you gonna run off and marry them despite your mothering your father how you gonna do that you guys have xt life different opinions way what your father's doing is not right it's not right trying to force you to marry somebody you don't want to marry and not allow you to marry someone who may be the perfect girl for you what he's doing is not right but you're about to create a bigger problem when you marry without their consent and permission and without their support again at honey from the Atticus of empty life and this is one of the most important ones is we have to refer things back to the key table and back to the Sunnah the Companions all of them felt that the Prophet SAW seldom loved them the most he felt the Prophet loved them the most he felt he felt he felt so they were bragging he loves me more than you he said no he doesn't well I he loved me more they were bragging they said let's just go to him and let's ask him so they went to him they say who do you love the most he said Abu Bakr they said but but we don't mean that we mean from the women from the he said he said Aisha he said no that's they said that's your wife we mean from the men he said her father Abu Bakr so they didn't sit there fighting and arguing with each other no he loves me the most no he loves me no either and then we get into a fight go back to the kitab and the sunnah antennas are to be shameful do what Allah hear rasool in kuntum took my new Nabil a human after that it'll a rule I salute at wila if you people have a difference in anything refer it back to Allah and His Messenger that is better and more appropriate for the title the final determination look what happened in hijack wine and I'm almost done here Abdullah belie bias was making to wealth around the Kaaba with while we are a beam I be Sufjan whenever I went around the Kaaba he would touch each corner and make a tibur talk with each corner even a bass looked at him and said why are you doing that he said because the Kaaba is all of it is haram ah all of it is all of it is sacred he said but the prophet saw alot he would sell him didn't do that the Prophet used to touch the Yemeni corner if he could touch the Yemeni corner the one before the black stone if he could touch it he would touch it if he couldn't touch it he wouldn't wave out of it wouldn't do anything and then when he came to the black stone if he could touch it he would touch it if you couldn't touch it he will wave to it say bismillah he said oh yeah but all of the Kaaba is good he said but the Prophet didn't do that I say it's all good but that's not the Sunnah when while we heard that's not the Sunnah rub the o-line whom he just said yeah you're right and that's the way the companions were Abdullah I mean a lot I said that Salah to Doha put your hands up if you heard of salat to doís if you heard of it Salah to Doha salata Chirac adora everybody Abdullah ibn Omar said salato Doha is an innovation it's an innovation don't do it don't do it but when he heard the Delisle he accepted it and that's how the Companions work so I want to conclude here honey and we can mention a lot of other things but time is done on us every life is normal it happened with the best of the people the companions had every life and salah zakah a song al Hajj they had every life in the tafseer of the Quran I had left right and center they had every life they even had FB laughs and the most important issue and that is the RP de general speaking the FT laughter they had an IP des is small in comparison to the FT laugh effect they had Italy laughing a few issues just a few not many some said the Prophet SAW Allah some said he didn't see a lot some said the Hawara took afar some said no they're Muslims some said that it was sayad is that the job some said no he's not the good job some said that getting punished in the grave the one game in the grave will be punished by the crown of the one outside those companions that if they live in a few messiah ill he had the best of the people so you think that we're not going to have any life just have good our clock and relax and I end with a statement of an imam shafi'i he said any time I have an issue I believe that I'm right but I believe that I'm right and you're wrong but I also know that it's possible that you're right and I'm wrong but you have to prove that to me he's not a person who I'm not gonna listen to what anybody says anybody this is my position I'm saying no he said I believe that I'm right I believe I'm right and I believe that you're wrong but at the same time I believe that I can be wrong and that is possible that you can be right so already when you come to the discussion table he's open for discussion he's open with that type of mentality with that type of mentality and that's why when it came to XT life he used to have those beautiful positions his book key table on and on his student Rebelution a man and Moradi took that book and showed that feel after a mushaf you had with those other scholars from the three mother have been other than that and nobody makes a big deal about it except the people will mutasa boon the thumb concept is my method have in mind that that was the right one so honey in concluding just relax yourselves and Shila and learn the etiquette of earthy life have a chest and a breast that is open and remember remember we're living in a very tough time this is the worst time for the Muslims for Benny Adam this is the tough time where the knowledge of the religion is a little bit so people are gonna make mistakes from our Ummah where's the Rama who is Rama Alice Oona are the are Haman a spell help Alice unda had the most Rama on the people because they're the most knowledgeable people of the harlot a large into our lives forgiving a lot of pardons Allah loves the excuse you have the Sunnah why you so mean and nasty man why you so mean a nasty brother won't you go to his mother's his grandmother's janaza because she was a Braley I said are you serious he was serious who does that your grandmother can't read or write she can't read she can't write she's from the Iowa who we ask Allah Allah to have mercy upon her to put her in gender without any other boy he said she didn't know what she was doing so relax and take it easy okay honey we're gonna stop here and want to thank the administration the man for allowing us to give you these words of this important topic and we ask Allah who taught abyss me an album to continue to guide you brothers inshaallah by your no hace and bring you people closer ever so closer to the middle path and the way out of those companions ridwana ye alayhim ajma'in soprano : o abu hamed iike why shadow and ilaha illah a stockbroker atubu ilayh said I'm mad enough to love

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Published: Mon Sep 25 2017