My dear elegant ladies, I want to tell you those
seven elegant habits that truly are life-changing. And I based that, of course,
on my own experience. I went from having bad habits. I went to develop elegant habits
that really did impact and changed my life in ways I never
had actually expected. I'm going to share with you seven of those
so that you can instantly apply this into your life and see results.
Let's start with point number one. Elegant habit number one.
Think before you speak. And I really say this from my own
experience, because back in the days, I never thought before I spoke.
I was so all over the place, being vulgar, being rude,
saying inappropriate things, hurting people sometimes. When we don't take
ownership for what we say, when we don't take that pause
to just quickly reflect, what is it I'm about to say? All you need is about two or three
seconds maximum in order to just collect your thoughts, collect
yourself and think briefly, is it really appropriate that I say this? What consequences will happen if
I say this? Is it really necessary? Usually, people who take
that short pause of two, three seconds actually
sound more intelligent. So this is also a little tip for you.
Elegant habit number two, buy fresh flowers regularly.
Okay. So you might be thinking, Listen Anna, how are fresh
flowers going to pay my bills? How are fresh flower going
to solve my problems? How are fresh flowers
going to get me a man? Well, hold your gardeners, my dear elegant ladies. Because all
I'm talking about is that sometimes, some small elegant habits can
actually help us a long way. And why is that? Flowers are such a good example
for that because fresh flowers is actually an energy. Oh yes.
We draw energy from nature. We draw energy from animals,
from plants, that type of thing, things that come from mother earth. So when we put this type
of energy in our house, it fills us with all kinds of
emotion, feelings, energy, etc, As an example, what does
fresh flowers mean to you? And if you're allergic, skip this question.
So fresh flowers, as an example, can resemble elegance and
luxury to some ladies. So every time you have
fresh flowers in your house, you're going to have that energy. You're going to feel like it's a little
bit luxurious to have flowers or you feel more elegant when
you see those flowers. Other people might find flowers to
be incredibly calming and soothing, meaning that that's going
to give you another energy. So if you place these types of energies
in your home on a regular basis, you're going to absorb that, you're going to be filled with that type
of energy and that energy is going to be useful for you. And you can
use these fresh flowers as a tool. Elegant habit number three, take the
high road, my dear elegant ladies. And when I say that,
I mean, stay out of drama, pick your battles and really think
about what kind of arguments are really worth it. So we all have an X amount
of energy and time in our day and in our emotional depot.
And truly, you need to be very careful about
how you spend that time and energy. So you really need to think about, okay, is that petty drama or that stupid
argument really worth my time? Is it really necessary for me to
validate myself, validate my ego? Is it really necessary for me to
say b just because she said a, etc. Elegant ladies, stay out of drama as much as possible. As soon as drama is involved, as soon as a woman just keeps
seeking out drama all the time, she no longer is elegant. It's clearly that she has issues with
herself, issues that are unresolved. People who have worked on themselves,
people who have confidence, people who are intelligent, they know
that it's just not worth it. Of course, ladies, occasionally life just tends to bring us many more lemons than we expect to. And sometimes we might have drama coming from all kinds of ends in our lives and that's okay, I get it. But you know
what I'm talking about when I say, try to stay away, try to take the high road because you
are going to elevate yourself this way. You are going to come across
as more refined, more intelligent, more professional, etc, compared to those who are so petty and brings out the popcorn
as soon as they can. Elegant habit number four, elegant ladies run. And when I say run, I mean not only necessarily running, but any form of high intensity cardio
that gives you this endorphin release that is shooting to the stars.
Ladies, seriously speaking, I don't know many elegant
ladies who do not exercise. I think this is one of
the fundamentals in life. Every single person out there
need to do some form of exercise. But from my own experience,
I have really noticed how, when you do something that
really gets your pulse up, it actually makes you feel much
more happy, much more balanced, mentally well, it reduces
anxiety tremendously, and it really helps you
conquer any problems or any lemons that life might offer you. For this reason, I do believe it's incredibly important
to have this as part of your routine. It can be daily. It could be weekly, but as long as you try and do it a few
times per week, that should be enough. This is a happy boost. And I don't want
you to miss out on this opportunity, especially since it is
available for free to everybody. Everybody can
go out and do something. You don't even have to go to a gym to
do something like this. But oh ladies, I am telling you that it is
going to change your life. You're going to feel so much mentally
pulled together that when you don't have this as part of your routine. Elegance habit number five, not being so available.
And when I say that, I mean, for men, for friends, for work, career, etc. Ladies, do you
know that in psychology, all humans operate in a way that
if there is scarcity involved, we want it even more. And this
is why your time, your presence, your energy should have some
form of scarcity around it. It's not going to be just easily
available for anyone at any time, because what happens when it is?
Well, people start valuing you less. People start taking more advantage.
People start thinking that, "she's not that high value after all
she's desperate". And this is the thing, your personal brand
can never be desperate. It can never be doormat. Your personal brand should
be exclusive, high value, hard to get. And when I say hard to get, obviously I'm not saying now you have
to be so hard to get with absolutely everybody. No, just add a little
sprinkle of it. As an example, even if you are free, even if you
have all the time in the world, it's not healthy to continuously show it. Take this golden advice from auntie Anna, because surely this is
going to change your life. Elegance habit number six. Now this
one I'm going to demonstrate for you. Ladies, you need to stop doing this. You are on a date with a man and
the bill arrives. Stop doing this. No. I wish I had a third hand to
smack this down in your bag. Now, if you're somebody who wants
to go 50/50, don't listen to this. I am now talking specifically to my ladies
who want to attract a masculine man, a provider man, a generous man.
If that's the type of man you want, there's no way you should be showing
signs off that you are willing to pay because what does that
behavior tell him? Well, it grooms him to think that
that's normal. That's appropriate. You are a 50/50 girl
and that, yes it's okay. It's okay that she pays even
if you don't want to pay. Okay. Even if you're just doing that
pulling gesture just as a gesture, not because you're actually
serious, it's equally bad. I don't want you to do it.
Seriously, stop as of today. You have to really just stand firm on the
ground and accept the fact that, okay, he might think all kinds
of things about you, meaning that he might
think you're a gold digger, he might think of you as an opportunist,
he might think that you are, who knows what kind of labels society
wants to put on us. But honestly, if he thinks that then
he is not the man for you. That's something you have to
understand. Men who are high caliber, men who are affluent,
men who are generous, providers, masculine, you name it. They're not going to think that way
because for them it's normal that a woman never pays on a date. Elegant habit number seven. Well, if you thought elegant habit
number six was controversial, wait until you hear what I have
in my pipeline for you at number seven. All right, ladies,
last but not least. Elegant habit that is truly life changing. Botox. Ladies, a little disclaimer. You see, Botox is not something
that will work for everyone. So I don't believe that everyone
needs to get Botox. Also, it has nothing to do with
elegance or affluence. This is just something that has
worked personally for myself, which is why I'm sharing
this tip with you today. Always consult with professionals
before doing any form of procedures. Any lady who have converted from being
anti Botox to actually trying Botox, you know what they do? Hallelujah, it's worked and it's really made me
look 10 to 15 to 20 years younger. Why didn't I do this before?
Now, as you know, ladies, I'm all about looking
as natural as possible, but taking each other's
looks into consideration when we form an opinion about somebody is something we always have done
and something we will always be doing. In my next video, five feminine habits
of high-value woman, I'm going to give you more tips of
life-changing habits that you just cannot miss. So hop over to that
video because I will see you there.
