10 Tips for you so that you can look effortlessly expensive and put together. My dear elegant ladies, I need to talk to you about something that I think a lot of you have experienced. I personally hate those days
when you wake up and you realize that, you know, I don't have a single clue
of what I'm going to wear today at all. You might even have a look at that
pile next to you, full of clothes. You might walk into your
wardrobe and you see everything, but then you tell yourself,
I don't have anything to wear. And you might even feel quite bored
with all the things that you have, even though you're sitting on abundance
of clothes, just waiting to be worn. This is fully normal, ladies. And I think every woman on the planet
earth has at some point felt this way. But what do we do on such days? And how do we quickly snap out
of that type of funk? Ladies, there are tricks
and hacks that you can do for a quick wardrobe pick me up where all you do is just adding a little
bit of spice to your existing look. This will instantly make you look better,
make you feel much more confident, and ladies not going to
hold back anymore. Let me share those
10 tips with you right now. Tip number one, add a belt to your look.
And ladies in particular, if you wearing a dress or a skirt,
wear a belt kind of makes sense. You see, sometimes dresses or skirts can look a little bit dull if nothing is added to them. And when you feel like,
I just feel like this dress is so boring. What you do is experiment with belts. A great tip is to really try and
collect belts in all kinds of textures, colors etc. Like that, you really have a lot of variations to
experiment with on those days you feel like your dress or skirt
needs a little pick me up. What I really like about adding about
is that not only is that an accessory, so it adds a little bit of
kind of flavor to your outfit, but it also adds a lot of femininity.
It creates a silhouette of a woman. It accentuates her
waist, and this is great, great way to dress yourself. But if you have a body shape
that is more of an oval or apple, then this is not going to be
suitable for you. Tip number two, don't wear what everybody else
is wearing. I'm talking about don't wear what all
the plain Janes out there are wearing, ladies. You know, clothes that are so
incredibly common that when you wear it, you look like every other Joe out there.
Okay? So we don't want to look boring. We don't want to look dull. That's why we avoid what
everybody's wearing. And I'm not talking about like interesting
trends or, you know, classic pieces. I'm really talking about
what the masses are wearing. Such clothes can be
as an example, skinny blue jeans or skinny blue jeans
paired with ankle boots. You can also have some
cheap looking jackets. You can have some kind
of relaxed tee shirts or leggings. There are also like many other things
such as like the mom jeans or the kind of Levi's style shorts. The reason why I'm giving you these tips
is because I want you to look better than the average Joe. When you look a little bit different,
a little bit better, that's when you going to look
more effortlessly expensive. And you're also going to look very
put together because the general mass, they don't look like that. So you're
going to have a benefit there. It's really that simple. Tip number three, wear a hat. So you know, those days when you have a bad hair day
or you feel like you look so boring, you have no idea how to add a little bit
of flavor to yourself. What do we do? Well, we add a hat to our outfit. Because a hat instantly adds
glamour. As you can see, you can have an outdoor
hat for fall or winter, or you can have more of
a summer beach hat for daytime that you can wear to the beach club for a nice lunch. You can also have the option of wearing
something a little bit more dressed up. Let's say to formal events, you can have a little fascinator
or a pillbox as your hat. There are also like some
very elegant headbands, or you can add a little
ribbon as a detail. Most people forget to
accessorize up here, which is why if you do that,
you're going to first of all, stand out. But you're also going to discover this
very quick hack of how to just throw something on your head and instantly,
you look more glamorous. Tip number four, wear a sleek and stylish coat. Now let's say, you're wearing
something really simple, but you want to add something to your
look that will elevate everything. What would such item be, ladies?
Well, I told you already, a sleek coat. But what is such a thing as a sleek coat? A sleek coat for me is
a really well-made coat, a coat of a kind of sturdier material
where the edges are sharp and the cuts clean and very tailored. And the tailoring is actually
quite important in this case, because to some degree you could get
away with a coat from Zara or Mango if you will take that coat to a tailor
and just adjust it properly to your body. Then maybe a coat like that, which is a more fast fashion coat will
achieve a little bit of sleekness. But my suggestion for this is to
really invest in the mid range or designer coats. Because when you
wear such a big piece on your body, you're going to see how your
entire look is going to elevate it, even if you wear some really boring
clothes underneath. Tip number five, get a blow dry. Now, try and get a blow dry as often
as you possibly can afford. Because I really believe
that beautiful hair creates miracles to you and in
particular for your overall look. Now you could do your own
blow dry and sure, why not, especially if you are
on a budget. However, unless you are a professional or you have
learned the skills of a professional, it's not exactly the same as when a
proper professional does your hair and really it like really
nice and beautiful. At least that's how it
is for my hair, ladies. My hair is very difficult
to style by myself. I need to go to a hairdresser to
really get that perfected look. So that's something that I really
think is important to spend money on, even if it's not going to last
year more than let's say 48 hours. When you have a blow dry, it is
like wearing an accessory, right? Because your hair does so much to
your whole appearance and you can wear something really basic here,
but your whole hair when it's like, you know, a bit like that. It's just going to make you look like
va va boom type of thing. And ladies, if I could choose just one thing that
would make me look the most expensive, it will definitely be a blow dry.
When your hair is together., when it's not like dry, frizzy,
whatever, then you just look amazing. And you know one more thing, a blow dry is also an
instant boost to a mood. And this something that I personally do
when I want to kind of spice up my mood a little bit, you know, not feel so gloomy
and just pamper myself a little bit. Every time I'm in a bad mood and I go to
the hair salon and I get this gorgeous blow dry, I feel amazing after. So definitely well worth
the investment. Ladies, did you know that there isn't just
one elegant style personality? And you know, people often think that you can only dress elegantly
if you dress in a conservative manner,
but you know what? This is not true. Now I want you to find out what
your elegant style personality is by taking my Facebook quiz that I have personally prepared just
for you ladies, visit stylepersonalityquiz.com. And so your Facebook quiz today. Tip number 6, keep it minimal,
my dear elegant ladies. Now less is more, especially on days when
you have absolutely no clue what you are doing. Now, to tell you the truth though,
even if you know what you're doing, the minimal style has always been
a very favorable style by the affluent community in terms of
how they dress. Because you know,
less is more sometimes. But as a result, ladies, we have associated the minimalistic
look with looking expensive, which is why you should embrace
this because it's so full-proof, it's so easy to just put together
something in minimal. And it always works. Now, when I say wear minimal,
I'm saying one color, no prints, maybe even monochrome. Focus on clean lines in
terms of how the styling goes and also play around
mostly with neutral colors, because that's really what
makes that chicness come out. It makes a person look more expensive
with kind of minimal effort or knowledge on fashion styling. The really importance here though, is try to buy clothes that
are somehow of good material. Because when you wear that type of style, the material really gets put in focus.
It really comes out. So think about that. Tip number seven. So we just spoke
about minimal fashion and yes, it's really a safe bet to look
chic and expensive. But ladies, it's not the only shortcuts. If you're
somebody who feels like, you know, what, minimalist, neutral colors, it makes
me look wash out, it is boring to me, I'm a little bit more
flamboyant or a fashionista. And if you want to know
what that is, visit stylepersonalityquiz.com So for this reason, ladies, I want to give you this tip of really
adding color when you feel very boring or you don't really know what to
wear because you kind of lost in space. I personally love taking
my separate. Let's say, a pair of trouser or a skirt and the top, and mix and match them in different
colors and kind of play around with color combining. But this is a thing is that you can find
so many interesting color combinations that will add instant flavor
to your outfit and also kind of elevate it, making it
look much more expensive, just because it's a little bit different.
Now, remember when I said, do not dress like the masses, that's exactly what you do when you
start adding color to your wardrobe. Because the masses ladies,
they don't wear color like that. But if you wear color in a
sophisticated way, in the right way, by understanding how
colors can be combined, then you're going to look amazing
and not boring whatsoever. Tip number eight. We need to talk about hair again, ladies,
because it is that important. Okay? Now I told you that it's such a big
part of a person's appearance because I see hair almost like a helmet. You bknow, we're wearing
this helmet, right? And this helmet is like this accessory
that I just said. So obviously, if you want to look expensive and chic, you should take this helmet into account.
How does your helmet look like? So I really think that
in tip number eight, we should really see if your hair
type and your face shape allows play around. Well, okay, maybe not play around because we do
not want to play around with hair. We don't want to make any
stupid decisions up here, but try and see if you can get some
form of a more trendy hairstyle, but something that is easy to style. You know, I'm going to be
honest with you, ladies. I personally, hair is like one
of my weakest things. I have very fine thin hair that
I can't really do much with. And one of the things I wish I wish
I could have is this voluminous hair, you know, just like throwing it around. I feel like I'm throwing my hair out a
lot today, but that's because, you know, I don't have it. But yes, I am not
really a good advocate for this point, to be honest with you. Because I just wear my hair the same day
in and day out because I can't really do much with my hair. My hair type does not allow me to. But most of you, you will
not have fine and thin hair. So you can definitely try and see if
there is a hairstyle that is cool, maybe a little bit more fashionable,
maybe a little bit trendy. Even though, I know this channel is about kind of classic and timeless and elegance, but you know what? You can
mix and match a little bit. You don't have to be full on classic. You can actually add a little bit of
occasional spice to the mix. But you know, there are also many interesting
hairstyles that are actually timeless. So have a consultation with
your hairdresser to see what you could actually achieve. And the good thing is that when
you have this really cool hairstyle, it will really impact your
entire look because it will be the center of the attention. And like I said before,
you might be wearing something really boring, but because your hairstyle is so
interesting and maybe fashionable or something, it will instantly add
a lot of flavor to you. Tip number nine. And I know my petite ladies
are going to enjoy this one. I want you to elongate your silhouettes
if you feel really bored with your look one day. Ladies, this is how it works.
The taller the legs look, the more beautiful and
outfit tend to look. When we have that really long silhouette, think Victoria Secret really long legs. But the good news is for
all of the shorties is that you can actually fake this by wearing platform heels hidden
under your long boot cut trousers. This is actually one
of my favorite styling hacks. And I've spoken about this before. And I also said that Victoria Beckham
is a master of this hack, plus she's also petite. I love this in particular with dark trousers, but you can of course find
other colors to do this with. The point is that the shoe
shouldn't really be visible. There should be no kind
of accent on the shoe. The only exception though is
if you have a very pointy shoe, then that could actually look really
nice and even elongate the leg even more when the point kind of sticks
out underneath the trouser. So if you ever want to
wear really high heels, stilettos and platforms, then the only time I would really
recommend to do so is when you wear them
under such trousers. Because I would personally not advise
usually to just wear them out to the open like that because it's easy to
look a little bit tacky. Okay? But when they're under a pair of trousers, who cares? Just wear them. Last tip, ladies and tip number 10. I want you to immediately, after you finished watching all the
videos on my channel, of course, go and get rid of all your clothes, like clothes that are no longer serving you. We're talking about clothes
with the wrong color, that don't fit properly or maybe clothes
that even just as run their course. At some point, we have to say goodbye, even if we really liked
something 10, 1500 years ago. So to really answer your question
about how to look effortless expensive, and always put together is to get
rid of the stuff that makes you look unattractive. It's really that simple.
It's a science, I would say. Do not hold onto something or wear something just because you once paid for it. That is a very cheapskate
mentality by the way. And no elegance or affluent
lady everything's like that. So that belongs as the old you. We are rewiring our mindset right
now to step things up a notch. So that type of attitude is not going
to serve you, my dear elegant ladies. I know that you didn't have me back
then guiding you forward in this fashion jungle. But ladies, we are starting fresh now, new you, new wardrobe,
throw out or okay, donate, give away what is no longer serving you. I want you to look your best.
So if you're going to look your best, we don't afford having things in your
wardrobe that are currently holding you back just because it's sentimental or you've paid for it or for whatever reason. It's time to let go. And it's time to curate the wardrobe
that we know is going to elevate you. And from now on, that's the
only thing we're going to do. We're going to only buy clothes that
are aligned with the message of the new you, of the elegant you,
of the feminine you, of the person that you want to become. Now, ladies, I know its so sad. We're in the end of the video now. But good news is that if you
subscribe to this channel, you are going to get more
videos from me. And if you follow me on
Instagram @Schoolofaffluence, you are going to be able
to see my everyday fashion looks and maybe you will be able
to draw some inspiration from what I wear and this way be able to just do a total copycat Anna Bey
and also elevate yourself. I really, really want you to become
the best version of yourself. So keep on watching my videos
because in the next video on how to look elegant
without looking boring, I am actually going to talk about the
elegant style personalities that I just mentioned to you. So you can't miss that video
because I will see you there.
