5 ways to make an ex miss you

what's up what's up what's up it's your man Chazz Ellis once again and a lot of people ask me about exes I really kind of want my ex to miss me I really want my extra care that we broke up even if I don't want them back I still want them to miss me what do I need to do to make that happen now I know there gonna be some people who are gonna get in a comment section and say you don't need your ex to miss you don't worry about them we'll see that's why they asked Chazz Ellis they didn't ask you that's just a side note because I get tired of people trying to make somebody feel bad about what they want I do consultations for people all the time where the biggest hurdle that they got to get over is their friends and family members trying to tell them what they should want that's not your job if you can't help somebody get what they want then they don't need your help just keep it to yourself anyway so here are five ways to make your ex miss you number one right wrongs a lot of times especially on the way out you may have done some things that you regret and those things make it a lot more difficult for you going forward a lot of times when you did certain things like maybe you bust out some windows on a car maybe you slashed a tire maybe it wasn't that deep maybe all you did was spread a couple rumors or maybe you took some money out of the bank account that y'all had together and used it to finance your new life without saying anything to them it could have been anything right but a lot of times when you do these things in the moment it felt great but now you feel pretty bad about it because the moment has passed and it's haunting you and making it more difficult for you to move forward also in a lot of tech cases that becomes the last memory that that person has of you they're no longer thinking about the relationship that you had they're no longer thinking about how great things were they're no longer thinking about the love and all of that they're thinking about the last thing you did to them so what you want to do is write some of those wrongs you've got to actually do things to make the person hold if you busted out those windows you might have to go ahead and pay for a window if you beat up her brother right after you broke up you might have to apologize and maybe you might have to put some money in on a hospital bill I know it may sound tough to do but you gotta understand taking responsibility for your actions is one of the things that make you a worthwhile human being to other people and if you're unwilling to do that is there really a good reason for them to miss you I mean keep it real with yourself and when you do something to right your wrongs you cannot expect an immediate return this is the kind of thing that causes you to keep going up and down and go through that same cycle you do something because you messed up you try to do something to right your wrongs and when they don't immediately embrace you take you back love you all over again now you go back and do something else stupid so what you want to do is make sure that after you make a mistake you try your best to right your wrongs and don't expect to get immediate gratification from that number two focus on fun you got to start having fun again you got to start being out in the world again you got to start enjoying your life again a lot of times when you're doing this it says the environment to get somebody to miss you because you're not going to be constantly contacting new once you've righted whatever wrongs you may have made you don't need to focus on that crap anymore that's over you done what you could do even if you couldn't make the wrongs right you did what you could do and that's enough so now you need to focus on having a good time enjoying your life focusing on the things that you want to do going forward and getting out of the funk that you might be in after a breakup you would be surprised how much you being happy affects what the other person thinks about you number three unblock how are you going to know that they miss you when you got them blocked you got them blocked on everything they can't really reach out and contact you and a lot of times it becomes a out-of-sight out-of-mind type of thing because the fact they can't look at your pictures anymore they can't really see all messages and things like that they're blocked they're blocked you have to unblock the person to know that they miss you to know what's happening and I know a lot of people like we all want to reach out to them that's a discipline you have to have for yourself going around blocking people also shows that person that you care that you are still interested in them I know it doesn't sound right I know it may not make sense but when you're going around blocking people it shows them that you have some type of animosity towards them which really shows them that you probably want them back you probably want to be in some type of relationship with them and you just can't do it so that's your way of trying to throw a temper tantrum and be mad I'm just keeping it real with you people don't usually take blocking as personally as you think they do a lot of times people take it as a sign that you're still interested or that you're still feeling some type of way about the situation when you unblock the person it really cleanses the whole situation that says look I'm over it I did what I did you did what you did I'm not tripping off the situation anymore and now if they do want to communicate with you you can see that they want to communicate with you it's not a situation I was like I gotta block I wonder if they do want to communicate with me and now you're sitting around thinking about that all the time and wondering what you need to do to try to reach out to them number four be seen a lot of times when something bad happens a breakup happens people just go into hiding they out there you know kind of shack somewhere here wearing a wig and sunglasses feeling like everybody is clowning them feeling like people got something to say for like oh I don't want to run into my ex no where I don't want not even gonna go to a party Oh run into my ex forget it you're just sitting in the crib you know even when you try to have fun trying to have a good time you're like let's not go here because this person might be here let's not hang around this group of people because this person might be here let's not be in a circle that I'm normally in because this person might be around well how are they going to miss you when they never have any small interactions with when they can't see you out in public when they can't run into you on a humbug or by accident while you're hanging out in your normal circle living your normal life that is when they're most likely to see you and feel like you've moved on this is what causes a person to miss you people miss something because they've reminisce on the past when somebody sees you out of the place to choice to go to when somebody sees a picture of you on social media doing something that you used to do hanging out that is what brings the nostalgia and makes the person more likely to miss you going forward if you're sitting in a crib or you're avoiding them at all cost there's no way they're going to miss you because there's no way they're going to see you and out of sight a lot of times is out of mind especially when they're going to places that they normally go to and you're never there they start forming more new memories at those places that don't have anything to do with you but if you're just out living your life being seen doing your thing they will run into you accidentally because that's just how things happen that's like I probably made in the first place they'll run into you they'll see you even if you don't see them and it brings back some of those memories even if it's just a picture on facebook or Instagram or something like that they see that it brings back some of those memories and number five high ground you gotta take the high ground when you see somebody out in public when you talk to them when friends bring them up when situations happen take the high ground don't take every second that you possibly can and say something bad about that person oh well you know she's a anyway he's a dog you know when you do that all you're doing is starting the process over again now you feel bad you said all that stuff about them now you feel like you need to find some way to take it back or you need to find some way to get new information out because maybe your friend went back and told him what you say maybe they heard that she was out here talking trash about him and you feel like that ruined your chances don't do that don't engage in that when you fall down into despair with somebody are you getting the mud and roll around it may you both dirty a lot of times they get up and take a shower and you remain dirty that makes you less appealing to that person if you stop getting in the mud like that if you just keep taking the high ground not only do they miss you more but you feel better about yourself you start feeling like you know what I actually am a good person in a good catch I'm not whatever I might have done when this breakup first happening who I really am is starting to show sometimes you show glimpses of the type of person you were going to be in a breakup during the relationship and that made the person not be as interested in staying with you but taking the high ground and showing people how much you've grown and how good of a person you actually are makes them feel like maybe they miscalculated maybe they didn't see you the way you really are and you're actually somebody that they should have put more energy into and they should have stayed with all right hopefully I was able to help you out make sure you go to the Chazz Ellis project comm if you need extra help you can get a detailed question I also do profile reviews and I do consultation for really in-depth situations that you want to talk about also make sure you get some of my premium content about different subjects like all with depth on a lot of different things and make sure you like to subscribe and share this video with somebody else you

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Length: 10min 29sec (629 seconds)

Published: Thu Nov 14 2019