Let's talk about those
details that men notice the first with women and what
they find the most attractive. Basically those little small details that they pay attention
the first when they meet a woman for the first time. I think it's good for you
to be aware of these things so that you can make sure that
your details are on point. Welcome back to my channel
my dear elegant ladies. For those of you who
are new, my name is Anna and I run an online finishing school where I teach women about
high society and elegance. Make sure to visit www.SchoolOfAffluence.com to start your transformation today. For this video I have done my research, I have asked around my
affluent male friends. I mean we know what we
usually like to look for when we see men for the first time. But it's a little bit
different for men of course because they're different. So let's jump straight into number one. And it doesn't necessarily
mean that this is the number one thing that they look for, but I know that the smile is
incredibly important to men, like really important. It's something that makes
them connect with you, it makes them feel like you add this positive value to their life. Of course there are some
men who are into more complicated ladies who
perhaps don't smile very often but the majority of affluent men do find a beautiful smile
incredibly attractive. And sometimes the girl doesn't have to be very attractive if she
has an attractive smile. I hope that makes sense. So for those who do not know, I'm actually a certified matchmaker. I know that in media, they keep calling me this billionaire matchmaker,
which actually is not true. I didn't end up working
with matchmaking in the end, just a little bit as a side thing but that's not something that I do today. But I did get certified
and I did the training to become a matchmaker. And one of the things
that we got trained in was of course online dating
and online dating profiles. And that's something I'm
definitely going to teach you more about in the future. But there was one thing that
was incredibly important when it comes to online dating, is what pictures you have on there. And one of the crucial
pictures a lady must have in her online dating profile, that is a picture with her smile. That's how important it is for men, because a smile really sells. A smile can really get
a man easily hooked. If you do it naturally,
if you have a beautiful smile, if you also have beautiful
teeth on top of that. These type of things men
really get hooked on. Now, evolutionary psychology
does speak about things that men notice the first at women. I'm talking about long,
healthy, thick hair. So I unfortunately do not
belong to the category of women who have naturally
long and thick hair, I'm the opposite, I have
very fine hair that breaks. So I have to wear extensions. Extensions can be a substitute if done well, styled correctly, then yes, you can fake it 'til you make it. But those who really have this naturally, they tend to have a little bit better advantage in this department. Because long healthy hair signals health. That's why men love it. That's why their
subconscious go on alert mode when they see beautiful hair on a woman. And beautiful hair has to be shiny, it has to have a bounce,
it has to be thick, luscious. If you are blessed, make use of it. It's going to score you so many points, even though perhaps long, thick hair can be a little bit frustrating
to maneuver at times but you know what? It's going to be worth it. The majority of men instinctively prefer longer hair on women, as long as it's not longer
than you know, elbow length because then it's a little bit too long. But if you are somebody who is like me, who was not blessed, make sure to either, invest in a hairstyle
that really works for you, and perhaps go to hair
extensions if you need. Now let's continue with some
evolutionary psychology. We need to speak about the skin. And the reason why skin is important is because of the same
reason as with the hair. Skin has to be healthy looking, skin has to be acne free,
damage free somehow. Of course we are humans after all, we may have wrinkles,
we may have this or the other imperfection so we're not
here to look picture perfect and nobody wants a picture perfect woman next to them in reality. Like no man actually wants that. But we do want to look
the very best as we can and skin is really, really
important to invest in. You want to have that healthy glow because a healthy glow
signals good health. And for men that signals
a good mate for them to carry their offspring. That's how psychology works when it comes to how men pick their women. At least at first impression. They think about these things. Their instincts push them
in certain directions because it's in a way, human
survival instinct right? You wanna pass on your genes
and that's how you do it, with the absolute healthiest partner. If you pick an unhealthy partner, or you know, someone that
looks a bit unhealthy, then of course the survival
rate for your offspring is going to be lower. Don't blame it on men,
don't blame it on me sharing this information with you. This is how we are built. So let's just make use of how
we would benefit from the best. Improve your skin,
you can actually do that. You can have full control of your skin if you really invest in it. Same goes with everything else about you. This is what I teach in my
online finishing school, this is what transformation is all about. It's not only so that
you have to fit in to some stereotype, but it's actually for you to have the best success on your journey so that you can really achieve your goals. That's why transformation matters and that's why I have
developed this formula that I teach in my online program because I know that you're going to have better results than without it. Ladies before I continue with this video, of course I have to tell you
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of a sensitive topic and a bit uncomfortable topic as well. I'm sure somebody in the
comments will now ask me, how many times a day is
it elegant to shower? Ladies, do not go in extremes here okay? I really don't want to
advocate for extreme thinking but you really have to think about, first of all, are you being
lazy with your hygiene or are you being adequate? When I did my research
and especially when I had my little one on one conversations
with my male friends, you know they go on dates,
they start being intimate with somebody and they
realize that even though the woman might be
beautiful or she looks good and things like that, but her hygiene might not be up to standard. And some people are much more picky when it comes to cleanliness. Some cultures are much
more picky with that. For instance, Japanese,
Middle Easterners, Italians. Some cultures, some countries,
they're a little bit more concerned when it comes to cleanliness. So you also have to
consider who are you seeing, what is their culture,
where are they from. Maybe you have to think a little bit extra upon your hygiene. I'm not trying to say that
you have dirtiness with you or anything like that. I'm trying to really explain
that we are not really aware of our body odor, we are not really aware of our smell from the mouth. We might not notice our
fresh our skin, our hair actually looks like. We might not notice some of
these small little details but especially our smell. Smells are very important. And ultimately that's how you are going to be partnered up with a mate, a mate that really appreciates your smell. I just don't want you to
be one of those ladies who you're really investing in yourself, you're doing everything perfectly fine and then forgetting
something that is so basic. Maybe you know, having those
mints handy in your purse, because perhaps you need it or maybe going to the
hygienist to clean your teeth every three months instead of once a year. Maybe you should wash
your hair every second day because it does start smelling otherwise. Or maybe you should change your deodorant because maybe the one you're
using is not efficient. I mean there are these small things. And of course, you should shower once a day but that's given, I hope. But I actually still
hear about some people who cheat with that. Don't cheat on showering once a day because that's when you start smelling. Anyway, my two cents. But I just want to give you
a last example on this topic because I really had
this proven for me once. I really still remember this occasion. So I met this woman in high society and this was pretty much in the beginning. I think this was during my
first year when I was 19. And I remember that for me,
I wasn't used to high society and all that, and I remember
that when I met her, there was this really,
really, fresh aura around her. Not only was she of
course perfectly groomed, but it wasn't necessarily only that. I remember when leaning in to
give her kisses on the cheeks, she had this extreme
fresh smell about her. And it wasn't only her perfume. Of course you could feel
a little bit of perfume. It wasn't something overpowering, it was something very subtle. But it was this aroma of freshness. It was a mix of her hair smelling so incredibly clean and fresh. Probably she had some wonderful shampoo. Then most likely she had some body lotion that smelled really nice. And then you know,
the mix of her probably body and her little, little smell of perfume plus the smell of her
mints she had in her mouth. The whole kind of mix was
just so incredibly fresh. She really inspired me since that day to always think about the details. To really try and tap in to all those small little points because in the end, it paints the overall picture
that you really, really, should take with you everywhere you go. Okay since we are at the
this more superficial point don't forget men are a little bit more visual than us women. They pay more attention to the visual so of course one of
the things that they're really going to pay attention
to the first time they see you is of course your body. And I call it the three B's, butt, breast and body. Because some men are into
breasts, some are into butts, some will look at one
thing first and maybe the other second or some
will just look at one thing. Men tend to go for women who
are more of normal weight. Although in some cultures,
actually more voluptuous women are preferred but that's some cultures. I would say in just
general, western world, then yes, you should
definitely work on being fit and being toned and slim. Then you should definitely
work on having a body that is not overweight
because you are going to achieve more success that way. If we do our research with men, this is how they think. I cannot change that. The only thing I can do for
you is to say it how it is and then you take it from there. I hope that this works
as motivation for women to stay healthy, rather
than see it as something that is hurting their feelings. In the end, I think we
have to be realistic in what society we live in, what are the rules and if
we want to have success, we need to play cleverly by the rules. This is really a matter of preference. I really don't think women today should be thinking that I
have to enlarge my bust, I have to enlarge my bottom so that I can attract more men. You will only attract a
specific group of men this way. Sometimes you will actually
manage to hook a man who is into a totally different body type than what you have but
because you have so many other interesting qualities,
he will still be hooked on you and he will have to compromise. So it's not really set in stone with what you have going on there. I think the most important
is to keep the body healthy, then what size your bust or bottom is, or I don't know, what weight you have, I think that a bit less important. And I really don't think
that you should obsess about those things too much. I think there are far
more important things to first work on and then if
it's really, really important for you, definitely go for it. I'm here to support you,
whatever you decide. But I just think that,
that's actually not what seems to be the most important, from the research that I've made. Okay I'm realizing that this
list has been very visual and I'm again coming to
another visual point here. Now, the eyes The eyes are very much
a thing men do notice, as much as with the smile and the rest. Now the eyes are more
something that you can really use to your benefit if
you want to trigger men with your mysteriousness. You have a charming, kind of
Princess Dianna type of eyes, then you can definitely
hook a man this way. Or if you have more of
Angelina Jolie cat eyes, then that will hook
them in a different way. So there are many different ways and many different eyes
how you can actually trigger a man with just your look. But you know they say the eyes
is the window to the soul. Because today we've spoken a lot about basically physical things, and in my online finishing school we do cover a lot, the grooming aspect. Because the grooming aspect
is really important. Beauty makes you look perfectly on point, just like high society women
tend to present themselves. Ladies, one last thing now on my list. And actually I'm finally
going to move away from all the visual
things that I've listed. I do want to really vote for confidence. And I know that that's one of the things men do also instantly notice in a woman. Not necessarily you know, you have to be overconfident. Sometimes overconfidence
can lead to a very masculine energy that
might not necessarily attract a partner that you want. But there has to be
some form of confidence, no matter what style of confidence. There are different styles of confidence. You can be a little bit
more provocative confidence, you can be a little bit
more feminine confident, gracious confident, there
are different variations. But the most important is that you carry yourself with confidence. Because oftentimes a man will spot your for the first time,
maybe when you're walking into a room, maybe you are
walking around somewhere. Maybe you're just standing
up and holding yourself. But having that posture,
that confident walk, the confident way of being comfortable with yourself and not like, you know becoming a little mouse or feeling like you shouldn't be there or something like that. I mean that really puts people off. You have to just be proud,
be comfortable with yourself and really that's a quality
that men get drawn to. Well actually not only
men, people in general. People always get drawn
to confident people. So ladies, it's really
all about the confidence and if you can add confidence to whatever transformation you're doing, you're going to really score it big, I can promise you that. So if you are feeling like there are some other things you want to add to the list, use the comment section below, discuss with each other what
have you heard from men saying. We don't want to rely
only on what we think, we actually want to rely on facts. So if you have any facts to provide, leave them in the comment section below. And don't forget to download
my free cheat sheet, Where to Meet Affluent Men. You definitely want to
save yourself some time and the headache by visiting www.MillionairePlaces.com because this cheat sheet is free of charge and it will really save you some time. Now ladies, make sure you watch my video, How to Get Noticed by Rich Men. Now I will see you in that video ladies.
