You Were My First Love And Broke My Heart | Eating With My Ex: Tom & Franki

did you ever really love me [Music] I always felt like Frankie was the one that got away me and Frankie met in school I was part of the boys group and she was part of the girls group and I've always had a thing for her he was very loud and confident and he was very funny and he'd always try and make me laugh Frankie was very understanding she was funny she was always to think about one evening in the summer we spent the night together the next day there were rumors going around the school I thought that he told everyone from that day I just lost trust in him I felt that he was quite immature and I couldn't have a relationship with him when me and Frankie broke up I was devastated you know she was my first love the past seven years I've been thinking about and she may be the reason why I'm still not in a relationship because no goes to a match huh oh hi a tune what something to say have been good do I I've been doing a bit Brian on would be nice too though what sort of mind state you're in and what were you seeing anyone not at the moment well to be honest with you I've been sort of for having you as a as a key point for any other day what do you mean like you think of me like and you compare them to me a bit yeah I'll find it crazy that Tom has compared every girlfriend he's had to me I think it's a big compliment actually so like you're still thinking about me oh yeah of course do you think about me yeah did you ever really love me yeah like I have loved you but maybe not in like that way more like a really really really good friend yeah I know it's weird like but yeah I did like it just sounds like I like proper friends oh yeah what do you really love me them a bit yeah I actually loved her and to hear that completely broke my heart I hope that you haven't spent seven years feeling like I wasn't missing yeah no there isn't like you're amazing like you're wonderful you're funny like your talent aids you're creative like me like we have so much to talk about it was just like timing and age at the time you might not realise but yeah I wasn't that way more mature than you like now of Holly catching up I went into the date hoping for a good friendship and towards the end of the day I started feeling really confident about us and that thinking that maybe we could be more than friends could we give you another shot I think we could know what to say could we give it another shot yes or no I just don't think they would work because you're scared of getting hurt or having me not feel exactly the same as you know I just think where when I'm on a different path I just don't think it would work I just realized that we are very different people you make it very obvious that you love someone they sort of act like they do too until you then go on a day several years later and you find out that it's not the way you think it was I just feel like we're better off as as friends because I do miss you sometimes if you feel like that why would why would you say no I can see why you know we didn't work out I was quite shocked at how he took a u-turn to the whole situation I'm gonna go a lot easier to take it I think he might have just needed it for his ego after all these years of feeling heartbroken he might feel like now he's got one over on me it's a bit crazy to think that you know the past seven years I've been thinking about and sort could not get my mind off her I mean if it weren't for his dinner he's probably with another seven [Music]

Channel: BBC Three

Views: 2,562,777

Keywords: eating with my ex, first love, childhood, sweetheart, heart broken, love, relationships, dating, awkward, bbc3, bbc 3, bbc three, heartbreak

Id: fv4MXy3PQ9Q

Length: 5min 26sec (326 seconds)

Published: Sun Mar 10 2019