Why Can't We Let Go? | Eating with My Ex: Jas And Ash

to be each other's numbers or get back together [Music] me and Jasmine was together for around three years I fell in love with ash because of the passive laxative he showed me a lot of kindness and we had a really big heart things officially ended between named ash when I started to develop feelings for somebody else I was hurt and I didn't want the relationship to end after that we could try and work on things but I wasn't the key never a little bit super v u unic since splitting up to - we have still remained in contact and I've never really had the chance to be able to move on from here we do message each other every day for right now I think it's 5050 if you cut ties or get back together [Music] why can't we label as you were my first love and you and my first serious boyfriend so break up four years ago but you've always stayed so close you're like my best friend and it it is hard to completely let go University I guess it also scares me slightly just before of never having you in my life I would say simply thinking because obviously there's things that you know that me that nobody else doesn't know well it would be that scary thing losing you totally I think deep down that we do still have feelings for each other and I think he'll always have a place in my heart are you always trying to win me back I'm always trying to win you back to you yes most time what time never know how it goes with it you never know I could win you back maybe not okay I'd like to started seeing somebody else but you don't like that when Jasmine first appeared in this gag it did upset me because of who the person was I feel really annoyed that ash has such a strong opinion on my love life because it doesn't have anything to do with hand now you don't gu right in it and I only know this because that's what you told me in it not to you right absolutely is thinking of a diplomatic Rachel and pescado if he hates him ash isn't fond of this guy for I think he's using her I'm a big girl I can look after myself and it's my decision I heard she's had in my life okay I'm just going off what you've told me no user the wonderf coming to me crying and upset people don't listen up to that every time I would feel lonely or if I wanted companionship I would always go back to him now would you send me to do that with the issues that you have coming to me what is a way to do so do you want me not to pant you for support when it comes to when it comes to him yeah when I see certain things then you get defensive yeah you get angry with me yeah cause I'm just telling you the truth farily yeah I get that and I do I'm not going to lie I do turn to you for support because at the time I just want something to talk to I guess and you don't want me to in the future then I won't it was difficult and you need to act a bit like a hypocrite thank you very much emotionally ash does confuse me because even though I feel in my heart that I'm ready to move on the lines of our friendship are very glad I was really good a little closure just so that I know where I'm going in this friendship or a relationship or wherever you want to call it so I asked like where do we go from here and I would is a chance I was getting back together or did an old tractor tool okay well like at this point I don't feel like I want to get back in a relationship with you and I don't feel like there is a chance for us to get back together in the future just because of how much water under the bridge there is I mean we've had other times but we've had a lot of bad times too and the lines of our friendship I'm very glad because like today I can say that for me I don't want to get backward in the future I'll say yeah it's definitely all now's the time to go our separate ways I elected to be friendly way Ababa that not every day that I really contact everyday messages not every day I don't know it just makes it a bit more right intently if we completely contact I will be her but as a letter live a life delete each of his numbers or get back together so to be shot with numbers I guess okay deleting ashes number just now at the table was really really hard I mean sit with my line mister asked a bit I can't just pick up my phone and contact her again knowing that I leave a number there ain't no other way of me getting it back like she said it is tough but I think this will finally be an opportunity for us to completely move on from the relationship we're not going to tackle hurt I could do it but on her part I'll see like seven face says that she will content I hope for both of us that should be history you [Music]

Channel: BBC Three

Views: 2,117,087

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Id: 28cON4yYXDI

Length: 6min 10sec (370 seconds)

Published: Mon Aug 21 2017