You Dumped Me Over Text | Eating With My Ex: Conor and Sam

why did you do it overtaxed rather than make the effort to at least speak to never phone in phone ok tax no go [Music] and that's a I think it was five and a half years ago now the relationship was brilliant when it was good it was absolutely fantastic he was in London and I was in Yorkshire and did Perth a bit of a problem I couldn't really afford to go up to see him at the time we were just slightly University he had a full-time job the auction wasn't really there far Connor took come visit which wasn't his fault but it didn't stop me reason this sound dumps me via text a week for my 21st birthday and blocked me on everything I don't regret doing it but I do regret how I did it I want some answers out of this mill and I want to see you know if we still have that spark quite nervous about having this chat with Connor because I'm not quite sure what he's gonna come out with he is sorry much better loo she was so no matter I'll buy I don't know comes looking Goods he always looks good though to be fair right did we have a good sex life Connor you know like when we first met like I wasn't that experienced I was still new to this this this world I was learning about what I like and what I like doing it was just stupid okay okay yeah nice come on Jesus Christ keeps them up to yourself it's kissing really cheesy right yeah ideas kiss someone else next I immediately told him said I'm sorry we moved on from it yeah kissing is definitely Gian you agree I don't even know what to say about it like I just feel like at the time we spoke about it that's not what broke us up okay that's that's one thing that I've thought about a lot like was that one of the reasons why he didn't wanna be with me anymore he definitely didn't help be about honestly do you think we would have still been together five years from then but you lived in London and me living in Leeds we were still together now anyway no he knocking beer I hate the fact that I've put someone through that obviously it's so nice that he's under styling and he's forgiven me but it's still something that I have in the back of my mind that I've done something wrong and if that could have ended the relationship his face told her a thousand words it's not nice just to see someone you care about girls said why did you dump me it was a mixture of things the distance did person issue wasn't ideal circumstances the unfaithfulness we'll call it so it wasn't reason then I never said it wasn't everything I said he wasn't the reason why did you do it over text rather than make the effort to at least speak to have a phone in phone okay tax no ago I'm gonna be really honest fee right now and you're not gonna like for when I decided to endo I couldn't be on my phone well you know how off so I sent the text bars worker mmm well I couldn't use my phone myself so you didn't write that well I did write it I dictated but I was writing down this alone well I don't want to say that if you'd had respect for me you would have at least written it yourself or at least given me a phone call him telling me that the message wasn't written by him pissed me off disappointed of course it obviously is hard hearing it but I do forgive you okay I feel like Sam does regret what he said and what he done to me I could see it in him what's next for us I would get back with you it went yeah after today I you know it's difficult because you don't know what do you wanna say I would I don't care about you okay I'm ready to in the future if the north is an option for you then welcome to farmers build you know I made dinner has benefited me in a way of knowing that we are actually capable of doing it again it's just wet so would you like to come fun drink with me after a while it'd be rude not to really wanna know yeah my cat's not tonight maybe [Music] you

Channel: BBC Three

Views: 631,841

Rating: 4.7699599 out of 5

Keywords: dating, eating, ex, cheating, love, questions, interview, dinner, restaurant, awkward, documentary, date, bbc, bbc3, bbc three, bbc 3, relationship, boyfriend, romance, food, how to speak to my ex, how to get back with my ex, dating my ex, should I speak to my ex, bf, text, dumped, heartbreak, phone

Id: p_ZwHnDBlaA

Length: 5min 30sec (330 seconds)

Published: Tue Feb 12 2019