You Kept Our Relationship Secret | Eating With My Ex: Nikkitta and Ryan

it was competition so I was a competition had he have got your number it would have been a different story should I blame [Music] I met Ryan from working in the night clubs together my first impressions were that she was fun outgoing clearly easy on the eyes me and my mate had a competition to try and get her number and clearly I won so he didn't want anyone at work to know we were saying he slept with another girl but I couldn't say anything because nobody knew about us if made me feel like [ __ ] really I want to get answers to a few questions I had but yeah I I'm worried he's gonna say the right things and I'm gonna be like all right okay yeah good - thank you thank you I see that she made an effort personally that print isn't really my thing why were you so controlling actually offended why does that you have to know more location settings on my fame actually we've both agreed on that and that was a time when we were both insecure so why agree to that at that time because if I agreed and you got your way then it was saved me in an hour of hassle our hassle yeah constantly and hounded the reason I was so insecure was because the whole thing where you sleeping with another staff member and I was insecure then all the time you should what does I mean Rico just said this song work there's been to offer yeah but then we did been off and then we go back together every time we'd be back on we'd both be so insecure because we weren't sure what the other person who else they'd hooked up with in that time yeah but the the issue was is that I think this again was a maturity gap because that we would just chatting text him there was no loyalties yeah actually seeing each other like I was going to your house like every week like stay in your house like yeah just didn't want anyone to know he'd go out he was like this kind of player and I didn't know so I was kind of clueless the whole thing why was our relationship a secret I just think I wasn't ready for it at all maybe a relationship well maybe I was but maybe not with you you should have told me that in the beginning instead of letting me go through with it the fact you kept it a secret obviously made me feel like [ __ ] if you felt like you weren't ready for a relationship then you should have just said yeah that probably is on me probably percent oh what's up that's one mistake did you cheat I suspicious she cheated on me so today I'm sure we'll find out it came across maybe to me as if you were trying to compete with me don't never be the case we're competing I don't know it definitely wouldn't win I can tell you that for free you know when you went on holiday yeah I think you know this is going already don't you know what you can ask me yeah I gotta did you tell me I'm holy all night that's it yes that yeah just body languages I feel like and then you came back and lied and this is the first time he's a complete hypocrite for going in at me for the cheating because he done it start the relationship anyway I think all round you were more into it than I was because I would put more into it than you would ever would because you're selfish and you know you are you're fully selfish wasn't ready for it oh yes you were the one who came on to me you tried to chase me with one who came up to me out of mind I saw at that point you were looking for some sort of thing you know the story behind this it was yeah because you find one of my number but you wanted instead there was a competition so I was a competition did you begin with that makes you feel like [ __ ] I'm not gonna lie see them like you just sound like the actual worst person right now fact they're the whole two years no no I'm not saying that that's all yeah but yeah but you're trying to say that I was a competition from the beginning and it just so happened that we ended up together you don't out like this how my god some object had he you've got your number it would have been a different story sure black should have let him wow you really are an [ __ ] I actually hate him I never should have suggested the whole dinner and I feel like you're absolutely correct this fourth you're pretty arrogant and need to grow the [ __ ] up really so I'm off personally I feel that dinner went quite well from my point of view I came here single clearly living single and I hopefully won't be seen here again after this I am never gonna speak to him again our relationship is definitely closed [Music] you

Channel: BBC Three

Views: 590,626

Keywords: dating, ex, eating, cheating, love, questions, interview, documentary, date, bbc, bbc3, bbc 3, bbc three, show, relationships, tips, advice, secret, break up, disaster, dinner, boyfriend, girlfriend, awkward, how to speak to my ex, fail, funny, should i speak to my ex, competition, game

Id: Iq9VKfvLito

Length: 4min 57sec (297 seconds)

Published: Tue Feb 19 2019