My dear elegant ladies,
welcome back to my channel. Today, I want to do a sit down video where I'm
going to discuss the really important topic on why you should not show
your boyfriend on social media. A lot of people think that it's a big
warning if you're not showing your partner on social media. But actually, I advise all my elegant ladies to keep
your partners secret and I'm going to explain why in this video. If you've
been following me on Instagram, especially last week and you've
been watching my stories, and if you don't follow me on
Instagram, make sure you do that. It's School Of Affluence. I spoke about last week in my stories
because somebody asked me why I don't show my partner on social media. Why I never post pictures of
each other together and so on. And this video will definitely
answer that question, but I'm also going to touch upon the
topic why it's fairly common actually that women, especially women in high society, they don't showcase their
partners so much on social media. And actually, women get a lot
of bad reputation for that. People started assuming that all these
women that living a luxurious lifestyle, like they must be with really old
fat, bald, ugly men. Otherwise, they will be showing them
on social media, right? So do you want to talk about this?
Because actually, of course, there is a percentage of
women who do have bald, hairy, fat and really ugly partners, but actually a lot of women don't. So I really think it's important
to talk about the reality. So how will this be
applicable to you? Basically, I know that my audience
is quite widespread. I know that I have women of high
society watching my channel, as much as I have the beginner lady
watching my channel who has never even placed her foot in high society. Now,
I don't only teach about high society, I also teach about elegance. It's basically a lifestyle transformation
that it is that I teach about in my elite finishing school, but
also here on my YouTube channel. I think that regardless
if you're single, married, in a relationship or whatever
your relationship status is, I think it's just really important to
think about this particular subject. But I do want to point out that I'm not
talking about hiding your relationship in real life. I'm talking now only about hiding your
relationship or more hiding the identity of your partner on social media.
Okay. Let me start explaining why. There are basically two types of women, those who hide and those
who really don't hide. I don't think there's necessarily anything
wrong with showing who your partner is I think if that serves a purpose
for you as a person in your life, then why not? There's a lot of influencer
who like to include their partner, their whole family and so on. I am definitely not that influencer
and I'm sure it works for that person. I think that you don't
have to be an influencer. You don't have to have a large following. All that I want to talk about in this
video is actually applicable to you, even if you just have one follower. Women who are part of my community,
who are part of my program, who are perhaps watching my YouTube
channel, majority of you ladies, I'm sure you are women who desire to
have an affluent partner and some of you already have an affluent partner or
some are striving to have an affluent partner. And when you have
a man of a certain caliber, you do have to be a little bit strategic
because high caliber men oftentimes have a higher desire around them. Simply because they have higher status,
higher power in society and of course, more wealth. And you know,
when a man has a lot of money, the flies come out and
get attracted to him. So you do have more women who want to
have the high caliber man out there. Because of course, there's a lot of women who strive to
upgrade themselves and their lifestyles, exactly what I teach about
on this channel. But also, they know that the fast
track is through a man. So if your partner has a
lot of money and is somehow, a good catch, you want to
protect that catch, don't you? You don't want to fully expose him on
the market and say, "Oh, look at my man. He's so amazing. He's so fantastic. Look at everything he's giving
me and how he's treating me, and how handsome he is and all of that."
And then you just showing it bluntly on social media. You know, one thing that
I keep seeing this a lot, actually. There's even women who have situations
and partners exactly like I just described, and then they also
tag him on Instagram. Oh my gosh. I think that is probably one of the most, I personally think it's
absolutely stupid to do so. not because you cannot trust your partner. I'm not talking about the fact that you
cannot trust your man because I fully believe that you can trust your man.
You can absolutely do so. Not every man out there is a cheater
and not everybody is a bad man who will treat you poorly or leave you or
something else. I mean, again, that's such a stereotype. There
are good men and there are bad men. That's the reality. But life is also
unpredictable sometimes. And sometimes, life goes through phases and sometimes, we are in vulnerable phases in our lives. And if you're just kind of
making it so easy for let's say, mistakes to happen or
opportunities to happen, then I think that's a little bit stupid.
I don't think that necessarily, if your man is definitely
not a cheater type of guy, but there are women out there who are
capable to do anything. And you know, even just giving out the identity of
your man so that people can sabotage, maybe sabotage for your relationship
or sabotage for his career, or maybe sabotage for your
families, whatever it is. There's a lot of crazy people out there
and I think that a lot of people keep forgetting this. One thing that I keep telling my friends
over and over again is that you really have to remember one thing. There's a lot of unstable mentally ill
people out there in this world and all of these people have access to
internet just like you and me. So if you are going there all-in with
your identity and spread out on social media, tagging your partner, giving all the access that these
unstable people can have access to. Then of course, bad things can happen. And I've really seen it a lot in social
media and bad things have happened from everything, from cheating to
stalkers to you name it, really. So you just have to protect
yourself and your personal life. And that's really why I'm making this
video because I want you to be more aware. You know what I've noticed ladies? There's this type of women and I'm sure
there's a lot of you watching me right now Don't feel triggered. See this as an opportunity to maybe
start thinking instead. A lot of women out there want to validate themselves. And the great validation
way is through a man, especially if you have a good catch
of a man. If you have a handsome man, if you have a wealthy man, then wouldn't it give you so much pleasure
to just go and show him off on your Instagram, and show how much in love
you are and make everybody thee jealous. I mean, a lot of women do it and that's why
a lot of women decide not to hide the identity of their partner. But I
really think that's a big, big mistake. I really think that you end up losing
more than you're gaining. I mean, surely you're gaining a
temporary kind of satisfaction, kind of quick fix, kind
of, I made it, haha, look at me type of thing. But really, what you're doing is just you're
exposing your personal life and longterm, you can actually create more damage
rather than the instant fix that you got from showing off how good
things are in your love life. Please remember this. The more you invite people
into your personal life, the more they can actually have
access to you and can sabotage. And for this reason, you always need
to be at least 5 to 10 steps ahead. I know this because I'm an influencer
and you really, really learn. Some don't learn so some end up with
mistakes and I know that from fellow influencer friends. But I've seen so many crazy things happen
in influence friend's lives and also in friends like people
who are not influencers, people who have done certain mistakes. I'm talking to only social media
here and they have paid the price. So I definitely decided very early on
that I'm going to be extremely protective of what it is exactly that I put out
there, especially in my line of work. I am triggering a lot of people so
you trigger a lot of crazy people, first of all. So you really need
to be cautious all the time. Like I said, be always 5 steps, 10 steps, a hundred steps ahead. You have to always think through
everything and everything you post. I think that you should
really think about, "What would I gain if I
was showing off my partner? How will it benefit my life?" I think
the only time I can really understand if somebody is showing off their
personal life and partner, and all that is if they're making money
off it and fits kind of the narrative. Majority of the times, there's
really no purpose for it, unless you're like a family blogger or
relationship blogger. Perhaps then yes, maybe will fit a purpose
for you. In my case, I'm happy to be by myself on camera. You also have to think about another
thing and this is what I mean with giving people access into your life. And this is a thing that a lot of ladies
forget and then they kind of like, Ugh, maybe I shouldn't have had
keep getting those thoughts instead. What if you change partners? What if you go through some horrible
breakup or some miserable situation? I've seen influencer
partners die, for instance, on social media. I have seen
nasty breakups on social media. I have seen everything on social media
and I've heard so many horrible stories. So why would you want to show
that to people? I don't know. Do you really want people to know
when you have changed partner? Do you really want people to have that
access into your life, knowing that, "haha, they broke up or
Oh my God, what happened", type of thing. And like, "why is she with this person
now and wasn't she with somebody else yesterday and the month before she was with somebody else?"
Don't let people have access to your relationship life, to your personal
life, to what you're going through. I think relationships are so
personal and for that reason, they should be kept
very private. So ladies, some food for thought for you. I do want
to know, what are your stand on this? Do you show your partner on social media
or would you show him if you were in a relationship? Have you ever thought about things
that may happen if you do show him? And maybe some of you have actually
gone through the negative effects from having shown your partner social media
and how that can actually backfire to you many times. I want to hear from
you ladies in the comments. Share with me your stories because I'm
sure I'm not the only one who thinks that this is certainly the way to go and
you're just doing yourself a favor, and being smarter than
the rest by doing this. Now I have a free cheat sheet,
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because I will see you there.
