why i don't want a girlfriend anymore

hey what is up guys welcome back to another video I'm hoping you guys are having a great day let me know in the comment down below how your day was today what you did today I had a pretty uh SW fantastic day swastic that's what we say swastic day I woke up at about like 700 I don't know went to work did School while I was working um did some YouTube stuff while I was working and then I just got off work I got off work about like an hour and 15 minutes ago just watched some YouTube 8 and I'm recording this video I I I really want to make this video for a couple days now just because um it's a it's a pretty big topic a lot of guys kind of um go through or think about or get stressed out about and um yeah it's about like getting a girlfriend and why I really don't care anymore you know ever since I was young I guess I always really wanted a girlfriend like since I was probably like I don't know like four or five I was a bad kid I watched a lot of bad movies when I was a kid like Friday the 13th and Disney Channel Disney Channel really screwed me up bro I'm not even going to lie Disney Channel Nickelodeon screwed us up but yeah I was um always kind of looking for a girlfriend which was kind of stupid when I was young like I'm in second grade bro like what's going to happen bro I literally bro I asked out the principal's daughter like six or seven times in second grade it was wild it was it was wild it was funny but um like getting older obviously like into High School Middle School I I was always like the nice guy that would kind of um that that girls weren't really interested in I guess but you know I'm glad I never changed myself cuz I could have easily changed myself became like a [ __ ] and and gotten one but don't change yourself stay who you are because you want to stay true for the one that's meant for you you know what I'm saying you don't want to switch up and then meet the one that's meant for you but then since you're not what you are you're like acting as someone else she's not interested and then you're like oh come on you know I should have just been myself you know but like honestly bro I really don't even care anymore like I just want to focus on myself I just want to focus on my grind my hustle get my bag grow something to where you know when I meet that person that girl that's right for me I don't have like I didn't waste my time you know on girls that don't really care about me you know that's kind of what I'm focusing on now cuz like a lot of my friends have girlfriends now and they they don't really like it they're like bro like it's not exciting anymore I I just get annoyed like you have to spend money some spend time on them and it's just a distraction bro and then it might not even work out you know what I'm saying so don't really change who you are don't switch up just kind of be yourself you know cuz think about it this way like why would you want to waste all your time and effort and money on a girl that doesn't really care about you when you can use that time and energy to build something successful and save your money invest it so that way when you meet that wife when you meet the queen when you meet the right girl you can just give her like everything like you don't she never has to work you didn't waste your time and money on Stupid Girls I don't really care about about you you know what I'm saying and um yeah it kind of took me a while to realize that probably until like After High School But like after that bro it's like not even worth it like honestly it's so much better just being single doing your own thing not really worrying about someone else and the best way to know about it is you shouldn't have to like chase them you know what I'm saying like you shouldn't have to play these stupid games like if you have to play games bro like are you really going to want to play games the rest of your life man you know like especially when we're so young it doesn't really matter like right now I really don't even have time for that bro I barely have enough time to wipe my ass like when I go take a [ __ ] on my break like by the time I'm wiping my ass I'm like my alarm's going off I'm like shoot I got like a minute left what how am I going to wash my hands and do this at the same time you know what I'm saying like I barely have time to school work YouTube wanting to go to the gym like I don't have time to waste my time on like a girl unless she's the right one obviously she's the right one then yeah that's when you're going to want to you know make sacrifices for it because that's when it's worth it but like you just got to wait for the right time man like honestly you know like God's timing is perfect you know like I'm so glad other things didn't really work out in the past you know like um there was this one girl I really liked and going into High School kind of like that's kind of when like I guess she completely just cut me off I guess and I was like hella depressed about that but it's good because it like came at the right time you know what I'm saying like it threw an obstacle in my way that distracted me from other distractions that would have been worse bro because because if it wasn't for that I probably would have like went out and partied a bunch and I have like a really addictive personality so like I definitely would have done a bunch of um a bunch of DS I don't want to you know flag the video you know what I'm talking about and then I I probably would have like toen way too much CU I know myself I take way too much of whatever I want you know but like because she was kind of doing that stuff it made me hate that stuff cuz I thought that was changing her a bit when also you got to realize it's like not everything is what think like I thought her friends were making her do that stuff and like I kind of like didn't like them and I was like dang they're making her hate me they're making her do this stuff she's changing but in reality she was the one making dub do that stuff she was the craziest one so like not all the time things are what you think you know try not to get too caught up in the idea of someone cuz you might like have an idea of someone and then when they're not that person you're like really depressed about it and sad but you got to realize like that's your idea of them versus reality so like well it took me so long to realize is like I was sad because she wasn't what I thought she was which made me sad which makes no sense cuz if she's not what I like you would think oh I just don't like her but I was sad that she wasn't what I liked you know what I'm saying cuz like she was changing you know but I'm glad that happened cuz that kind of distracted me made me not do stupider stuff that I would have regretted you know and God's timing is perfect like you know at the time you don't understand but then eventually you will like at the time I didn't really understand but now I understand like it's not worth it like I you know what I'm saying and I'm glad glad I didn't waste my time on that you know and now you know you can save yourself you can meet the right person and give them everything you don't have to waste resources on someone that doesn't really care about you you know and now that's all I want to do I just want to focus on you know working building YouTube going to school doing that saving my bread investing it you know and that way when I meet the right girl it's going to be perfect you know especially girls nowadays none of them really value themselves and you can't really blame them for that it's just how social media ruined D bro like social media is horrible dude like it it screwed everyone up bro and it was supposed to connect us but now everyone's so divided with it and everyone's comparing themselves and everyone's trying to challenge themselves and just get the most attention and likes and Views it's just like dumb but whatever you know don't settle for less you know don't settle for less you can still have respect for people you can still be their friend you know what I'm saying but like bro come on you know you know your type you know what you want you know just literally wait for the right person because like think about it like why don't you want to give the right girl that wife you don't want a girlfriend you know I don't want a girlfriend I want a wife you know which a lot of people nowadays don't want to date to Mary which it's like really what's the point of dating then you know what I'm saying like it's just [ __ ] to me makes no sense like people are just disgusting you know but that's themb you know I can't really speak for them I could just talk about my own experience and now I'm like so happy like I don't even care like I really don't want a girlfriend right now because it's just a waste of time like it's literally just a waste of time waste of money waste of energy and eventually you're going to get heartbroken unless you meet the right person which for that you will know like you you don't really have to fight for it you know what I'm saying like you shouldn't you don't have to play games you don't have to do all that crappy stuff it it will just come to you you know what I'm saying like you'll just meet them and it will just happen naturally you know and that's the best way to do it and then you'll know by their fruits you know if they're the right one you know you can tell by their fruits what kind of fruits they produce you know but I wanted to make this video because I know a lot of my audience is like a tad bit younger than me not a lot actually most of my audience is my age but I know there's some of youall probably a little bit younger but we all have different experiences you know this might hit you when you're 15 this might hit you when you're 25 when you're 30 doesn't matter how old you are bro like it's all good don't even sweat it man like you know what I'm saying I'm happy I've never had a girlfriend I mean I had some in like elementary school but those were like for like a day and one of them like she literally moved schools and we never talked again so that doesn't really count but yeah I'm kind of glad it didn't really work out and now I literally just don't want one I just want to focus on you know myself I wait I want one when it's the right time when it's the right person but right now I literally just don't have time for it like so many of my friends hate it because they're like bro it's a waste of my time like like they expect things they want you to do things for them all that stuff and then yeah I don't know but yeah guys I hope you know this helped you out let me know what you guys think in the comment down below comment section down below let me know your experiences you know this is just just a little quick video cuz I just felt this on my chest and wanted to get it out there cuz I realized I'm like wow yeah I don't have that burden really anymore you know like I genuinely don't care like screw all the other girls that didn't pay attention to me cuz like like you know maybe I'm not what they want right now I'm not 6 feet tall I don't have apps I'm not an e boy okay whatever but in like a couple years from now who are you going to want you're going to want the guy that was treating you nice that actually liked you for you and that you know built something you know not say has a lot of money but built something you know built something to take care of you your kids your grandkids take care of everyone or would you rather be with a guy that kind of burnt out you know what I'm saying like they just go for whatever is popular not all of them but I'm just saying some of them do and that's okay that's okay you know I'm not like really I don't really look like I don't really play the part for my generation like I'm I'm a little shorter I have a beard but whatever you know what I'm saying what really kind get them is I'm really confident and funny I guess but you know you know they're always going to make the wrong decision but that's their problem bro I dodged a bullet with that she never cared about me so like I haven't talked to them in a while and even if we were friends even though I was friend zone you would think they would hit me up like hey happy birthday hey how you doing we haven't talked in a while but no they don't so they never cared about me so good I don't care I dodged a bullet you know what I'm saying it's better to happen sooner than later you know what I'm saying bro so don't even sweat it man everything happens for a reason even that that one girl that like I was obsessed with for like bro for like eight years bro and um like I'm glad that didn't H that it didn't work out like the door got shut like she blocked me she cut me off at the time again I was upset about it but like everyone would say she talks bad about me but she would never say that she' always like say oh I don't or I'm sorry or whatever but she never really respected me you know if she's going to block me and whatever she never really respected me or took me seriously you know so I'm glad it didn't work out because yeah she never took me seriously that's her loss screw her not like screw her you know you know what I mean like it's it's not her fault I don't have anything against her you know I kind of annoyed her I should have stopped like after a year one or two but but it's all good you know what I'm saying but like they never really appreciated me or respected me so that's their loss and I dodged a bullet because someone who doesn't care about me isn't really in my life I don't have that fake friend anymore I don't have that fake person around me you know so yeah you know like just trust God you know at the moment right now you don't really understand it but someday you will and um everything happens for a reason bro like for real so um yeah you know that's about it bro just like focus on yourself man like especially now dayss we're so young like I know it sucks like in history bro people were getting married at like 15 16 20 but like whatever our generation's kind of a little screwed up so you just got to wait for the right time focus on yourself and make sure that when the time does come you're ready you know saying get yourself ready to where you're ready to take care of the right person the right girl you know so um yeah that's really going to wrap it up for today's video hope you guys enjoyed this quick little video oh man dude it's becoming night already Minecraft sucks so bad bro this video is 12 minutes I slept like a minute in the video why is it only 8 minutes a daytime like is it stupid like it makes me so mad but whatever I got to go watch some videos I'm rewatching like this old scary series I used to watch and I got to hit the hay cuz I got work tomorrow but yeah guys hope you had a great day and peace out

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Length: 12min 26sec (746 seconds)

Published: Sun Mar 24 2024