It sounds like friction is something you're very familiar with. It's a word, just I feel is like- Yes.
Cast above us right now in bold face highlighted,
underlined letters. Friction is growth, yes. Friction, like you're up in the morning, and I imagine David Goggin's
going to the coffee maker, stretching out, good morning sunshine, and you're telling me from
eyelids open, there's friction. Yes, and that is the thing that people, they don't fucking get, the
biggest misunderstanding about David Goggins of all time. Whether you believe in God or not, I do, he put this lab rat, which
is me, on this planet, and said, "Let me fuckin'
see what a beat up, "abused kid, who can
barely learn, barely learn, "who has a twisted body,
messed up genetics, "sickle cell, this and that,
let me give him everything "that pretty much disqualifies
you from the military." But back then, it wasn't [indistinct]. "And let's put 'em in this
and see what comes out of it." So to do that, friction, you don't wake up in the morning time and go to the coffee maker. Matter of fact, sometimes
you don't even sleep. What it requires is when
it's 2:00 in the morning, and my brain is thinking
about a fuckin' drug, and I got to get up and look in my book to see if that drug is how I remember it, and this is every day of my fuckin' life. That's why when I train a
fighter or I train someone, I'm like, "You have no fuckin'
idea how great you really are "because you are using such minimal, "minimal of what you have." And if people can learn to
focus, this is what's possible. While it may not be pretty... Like people who want to
do a documentary on me, I go, "No, I don't want you
to do a documentary on me," because I will have normal
everyday people picking me apart. "Oh, his life as miserable.
Who wants to live like that? "It's crazy how he, it's
almost like he's sick. "He's psychotic." The most frustrating
thing in the world for me is when normal people
judge a man like myself on what it really takes to
extract greatness from nothing. It takes every bit of who you
are if you choose that route. If you don't, merry Christmas,
do what you got to do. But yeah, all these things
for me, like I told you, and I'm going to keep it real. I'm not coming here to talk
about perform without purpose. 'Cause I go through,
when I write these books, I go through, I try to
dumb down David Goggins. How can I give normal
people, and I'm normal, but I found something that
most don't want to find. How can I speak to people
and give them something from this crazy psychotic
brain that I've developed, how can I give them that? So I sit down with Jennifer for years and write down, "Perform without purpose. "Callous your mind, armor your mind, "the cookie jar, the
accountability mirror," shit that people can
fuckin' use in their lives. No, no, I'm glad it helps you, but the barbaric life that I
live, that you have to live, the almost obsession that
you must have to be great, you can't put that shit
in a fuckin' book, bro. You can't put in a book, you can't. You can't write about it. It has to be experienced.
It has to be experienced. And you can't even,
after you experience it to write it in a book, it would seem like he
needs to be locked up. Too gory.
It's too gory. It doesn't make sense for a guy that every second of the day, he is trying to extract
more from something. He's constantly thinking. He's constantly disciplined,
never going off the path. Whatever is injured on
him, he figures a way. It's a conqueror's mindset,
and very few people, if any, can really understand what that is. I'm almost 50, and I've been
this way for almost 30 years. What do you do for fun? These questions, I don't get 'em, I don't understand 'em, so yeah. I get asked that sometimes,
what you for fun? I start listing off all this stuff, like podcasting, reading,
working out. [laughs] But, so some of that resonates, but I think what's so truly unusual about what you're
describing, your process, is that from go, it's hard. And I have to ask, was being 300 pounds, I'm using the words you've described- No, do it.
You've said it before. You had a tendency at
one point in your life, early on, tell lies, try
and get people's approval. Lied my ass off.
Crazy haircuts, attention seeking and yet, all
of that triggered something that now is extraordinary. Do you think those
hardships were necessary to flip the switch? I don't know if they were necessary, but it was something that made me feel, I didn't feel good, it was easy. The brain that I was given as a child, it was easy to go home and think about how do I want to be a freak today? How do I want to show up to
school today and be a freak? It didn't require me going
home and opening a book up and saying it's going to take me all year to learn this fuckin' page. So instead of learning that page, I learned how to become a character, and maybe that character that I created, that 300 pound, insecure guy that used to
fake-it-till-I-make-it type of guy, let me become your friend, let me lie to you until
you like me type of guy. When you have any kind of,
any manhood, womanhood, a human being, a soul, a
spirit, any, I had no... I must have had just this much pride, 'cause that's exactly what
opened the door for me. 'Cause every day you were a character, every day you were a clown, every day you opened that Spanish book or that science book or English book, and you looked at it, it
looked like a foreign language. And you're saying, "Where do
I start? Where do I start?" And obviously, it was necessary, the more I talk about
it, it was necessary. 'Cause what happened is I became haunted by the mere fact that
this is my existence, and you got to live with that, and I lived with it for a lot of years, until I sat back and
said, "Okay, all right. "I know what this takes,"
and when you sit back as fucked up as I was,
and I had a laundry list, a table like this of what I have to do to become just a human being
that can make ends meet, that can make a thousand dollars
a month just to get there was like, oh my God, dude. I'm 16, 17, I can't read, I can't write. And oh my God, I'm so
behind the power curve, and my brain is about being
depressed and my dad beat, my mom's not home and kids are
calling me nigger at school, and I'm like, "Oh my God,
man, what the fuck do I do?" And it wasn't like someone
came around and said, "Hey man, you can do
this." This is all me. Some people want to know
where's this cold man come from? I'm not trying to be cold.
It's the reality of my life. It's the reality of a
lot of people's lives. And so, yeah, that had to
happen for me to be haunted, to be haunted, to pull out, to extract the guy that I am today. That haunting is something
that's still there today, because no matter how much you improve, no matter how much you change who you are, it's not permanent. You'll just wake up and say, "Oh my God, man, you're David Goggins. "You break records, you
do this, you do that." People want to know how are
you able to just be so hard? Because I never turn
the fuckin' thing off, because once it turns off, I go right back to the
David Goggins that is, and that's the guy that I'm
constantly fighting every day, and it's a choice. And that choice makes you
misunderstood, it makes you crazy. That's why I hate fuckin' social media. In 2013, people wanted
me to write my book. I did it in 2018, took five years. And the reason why I didn't do it, I sat at a table and Jennifer was there. This is before she started working for me, I started dating her, whatever, and all these people were
there and they're like, "Man, you got to go on social media." And I was like, "Fuck you, man." It's poison, it's poison, because I knew what I
did to get where I am, and I'm going to have these people, these normal everyday people, fat, lazy, exactly who I was, judging me, 'cause I know it, 'cause I was once them. All my hard work, all my dedication, I'm going to have some normal
dude get his little brownies, little Ding Dong, Ho Ho, Twinky,
sit there with this coffee picking me apart, "Oh,
he must be unhappy." Do you know how hard it is to put these shoes on every damn morning and I'm going to have you pick me apart? So yeah, there's so
much that goes into this that I was like, fuck this, I never wanted anything to do with it. [MUSIC PLAYING]
