We Fall In Love With 3 People In Our Lifetime – Each One for a Specific Reason

we fall in love with three people in our lifetime each one for a specific reason they say love is just a word until someone comes along and gives it a meaning usually a person falls in love with three people in his or her lifetime before they know what love really means the reason for loving these three different types of people is also very different we all need these three types of love to teach us distinct lessons in life first love the love that looks right the first love usually happens when we are still in high school or sometimes even younger this love is somewhat similar to what we have read as kids it is the idealistic love we want to do it for the sake of society for our families mostly while trying to overcome peer pressure we tend to believe this love will last forever and even if it doesn't feel the most right thing we want to do it we are ready to ignore our personal truths but all we want is to make it work somehow because our heart believes that this is what love is this type of love feels perfect emotionally overwhelming and all-consuming we are ready to sacrifice everything to make it work because we are confident of its credibility why would we want to think of others when we are in love that's because this type of love makes us care more about how people look at us than how we feel about ourselves it perfectly fits into the imagination that we have about love the second love the heart love the second love can be called hard love the love that teaches us tough lessons the hard way going through this love one understands who they are and the need for love in one's life it brings hurt as most of the people are manipulated and lied to by their lovers in this type of love one encounters pain we still have so many illusions that need to be broken when we think we have learned a great deal and are meeting better choices but in truth we still opt from the need to learn the bitter truths of life despite the pain we want to work it as long as possible even if one relationship gets over we keep getting back to the same types of relationships and make the same choices every time we think things would be different this time but the end is worse than before making the wrong choices leads us to wrong people we end up getting into unbalanced relationships relationships which are unhealthy and also with narcissists as we still haven't developed the power of judgment that helps us distinguish between the right and the wrong people we get subjected to mental physical and emotional abuse but still we want to stick to such relationships there are such extreme highs and lows that one feels as if they are riding on an emotional roller coaster that prevents us from quitting because we are always ready to face the lows in the hope of the highest point in this type of love trying to make it last is what seems more important than if it should exist at all the third love the love that lasts and then there is the third type of love we have never imagined it and never thought such love could be right for us it destroys any ideas that we had about how long should be we fall into it so easily that it seems impossible we can't even explain the connection that binds us with the other person yet we are swept off of our feet because we had no plans to have such an experience in this type of love we just need this person and everything falls into place even without our knowing everything just fix this happens because one does not pink or rather remember that they must behave in a particular manner or any pressure to be other than what they naturally are we are accepted for what we are there is no coloring no makeup just our plain authentic self this realization reverberates deep within our souls never had we imagined that love would come to our lives in this way it does not follow any of the rules with God would help us to be careful and calculate this love removes any fixed notions we have in our mind about how it should be when love happens like this we may not be able to believe that it has actually happened but it continuously tells us and it has arrived no matter how much time they take to respond it seems the most right thing that has ever happened to us perhaps not everyone gets to experience this type of love for maybe we can't because we aren't ready to experience it the truth is we have to understand what does not mean love before we can know what it is it can take a whole life to learn the lessons of life or if one is lucky they grasp all of them just in a few years it could be that it does not matter if we are prepared for love but if love is ready for us so many times we have seen people around us who fell in love once under in as much love today as they were 50 years ago when they ended they're passionate love doesn't lose its Sheen until their lives end they make us wonder if we have any clue how to love at all most people believe they are lucky and indeed behind but people who survived all the failed relationships and ultimately make it to the third love are the luckiest here the ones who are tired of crying and their broken hearts make them wonder if there is something truly wrong with their way of loving there's nothing wrong with their way of mourning it's just that they haven't found someone who could love them in the same way they did so it boils down to this either we don't have the ability to love other than the way we do or we know no limits when it comes to loving someone anyone can stay in first love if they are happy with it because it looks so perfect and everyone approves of it they can stick around with the second one if we are able to live with the belief that it isn't loved unless we don't have to struggle to keep it or we can believe there exists a third love the love that makes you feel as if have come home but you can't prove it with a piece of rationale it doesn't feel as if you are forcing the storm rather it feels like the calm that surrounds after the storm has passed first love is special as the safe and loved that leaves a scar on our hearts is still in me but the third love is truly amazing because we never saw it coming yet lasts and lasts it reveals why the previous walls didn't the last that is why you should not cease to try because it don't know when you will find your final love they say they found parts of me I didn't know existed and he knew I found a love I no longer believed was real are you in love right now what kind of love do you think you are in let us know in the comments down below and don't forget to Like share and subscribe to our Channel [Music] you

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Published: Wed Feb 26 2020