Ultimate GUIDE to Becoming a HIGH LEVEL MAN | Justin Waller & Axel Axe

one of the biggest Parts about getting out the Matrix is actually to free your own mind anybody that believes that they can't be successful because they have a child is a coward so Justin I want this episode to be like the guide for any young guy that wants to level up their life and know how to handle money success women fitness I think everything begins with the ability to make money I think for a guy like we can talk about a bunch of other things but if you don't have that down like you can advance I come from a third world country my childhood was really difficult and I think that made the biggest changes in my life in general I want to know your take on that and how do you think about money especially when you're young and you're dirt poor how do you make that first deal that first breakthrough that puts you in a position to then level up I would say in addition to what you said about money I would actually put Fitness I do put Fitness in front of money interesting and the reason I put Fitness in front of money is that if you have a healthy body in mind it makes business so much easier and in addition to making business easier for you to think out and figure out your decisions you need to make you get a certain level of respect when you walk in a room so if you walk in a room full of men and you're trying to get a deal done let's say let's say like the one we were talking about before at the restaurant about getting the development deal together a guy is going to trust you with his money and trust you with his deal or trust you with the contract that he's responsible and he's subbing out to you or whatever it is on a higher level if he gets signs of discipline from you and fitness is a very good way to show that discipline there's studies out there that say that people assume that people that are in shape are smarter might not be true but that assumption is real perception is reality perception of discipline is real actual discipline is obviously real as well and that's just one of those things that you can't fake in this world so you have a clear mind your your body's been shaking up all the cells in your body have been moved around you can think more clearly you've you've had sweat come out of your body like you've really got the whole engine running so your top optimal level physically ideally and then the respect that you Garner particularly from other men is really going to help you in business it's going to help you in leadership as well I think I think being in good shape makes business substantially easier is it fair no is it true absolutely when it comes to being a young man making money I think it's more important not to focus on the money but the system that gets him the money so I was recently asked on a podcast is they said Justin what should I do to get my first hundred grand and I said to them my friend that is the wrong question the right question is how can I build a system that will spit me out 100 Grand a month and so for me personally when I was a young man I was always thinking in that way it's like you know man if I could just get ten thousand dollars saved up I could do this XYZ when really it should have been if I can put a system in place that I can do every day I'll be making ten twenty thirty thousand a month and focusing on the actual system and then Nick Saban would call it the process do you know Nick sabanus no he's an Alabama football coach but he keeps winning national championships year after year after year with new players and new coaches because he works on that process so much he messes with the gears of his business that it spits out winning results every time so really if a young man is trying to get some money he needs to get to 30 000 feet and be able to look at that business and all the pieces and parts that make that system work in order to spit out the result because the money is just simply the result of something that's previously been done so managing the gears and the systems in the business is what will give you the result of money and then everything else is just accounting really so that's what I'll tell a young man is to focus on learning how to build systems and and that will pay you no matter what you do Building Systems in a business whether that's around people or what have you is is definitely the best way does it matter the industry and like the field they're going into like if yeah yeah I I genuinely think you could take two entrepreneurs and put one in an online Tech subscription based business and put one in let's say Trucking and this guy is gonna look like Steve [ __ ] jobs and this guy is is probably not going to do as well they could be the same entrepreneur can be the same person so yeah I do think the business model has a lot to do with it looking back I didn't pick the best business model but it was only Consciousness I had it was the only thing I knew to do you know maybe if I'd have been born here in La I might have wanted to be a director or I might have saw an opportunity in the movie business so a lot of times it's your Consciousness but one thing I would say is that generally now I'm not interested in anything that you eat what you kill you haunt and you hunt and you get paid you hunt you get paid now I want to return on investment of my time and I want it to continue to pay me so real estate's a great example of that you know I buy a big apartment building it there's a lot of work there's a system to make that happen right I buy the property but now it pays me forever whereas in construction I built a system to win projects but I do that one project and then I'm right back out hunting whereas in real estate it pays me forever I I made a tweet earlier this year I said that real estate is the OG of the subscription-based model and it's completely true and it comes with your appreciation and everything else yeah you're right that's that's something I'm trying to build in my field so as a director you work kind of the same way like you do work you try to get a project you need royalty projects right yes I need projects that now as a producer I'm in a different position and now in my future what I'm going to do is I'm going to go into distribution so as a producer when I did my first movie that got distribution and got into Apple TV as an artist and as a filmmaker I was like I made it like it was very difficult it's almost like you building your first like big building it took me two years to build that movie I did it on nights and weekends I would wake up like at five in the morning work on that movie then I would go to I was working on a TV show for Apple TV at the time do a full day 12 hours there come back home do a little bit more work on my movie and then when I finished it and it got distribution like the day the agent called me and said like the movie's going on Apple too like it's all it's live right now yeah dude like I got teary eyes I was driving like I was driving we were scouting a location like I got teary eyed and I feel like wow I made something amazing but I do not control the distribution for that movie the platform is taking a 30 cut then the agency is taking another cut so like I'm making 25 cents on the Dollar on that deal I'm still making money and if I if that movie blows up in two years I could make five million dollars or I could make zero money like it's in a way it's up to me but I'm not controlling every step of the process and that's what I want to get into in my future I want to have not one movie that I'm making it takes me two years I want to go and find 10 directors acquire their movies and it's almost like you going and acquiring property so but I think the hard part is as a young guy like the way that I think and that I am right now is very different to when I came right out of right out of film school I just needed to put like food on the table I was married I had two kids I wanted to do all of these businesses and real estate and like I've always been business minded but it's very difficult so what would you say to that guy that you know it's 24 and he needs to bring in some money and he can't yet he can't think about how can I make a deal that is going to make me money like passively yeah how can I bring money right now yeah for sure so what you went through is something that I went through in construction is I realized where I was in the food chain you were way low in the food chain right there that's okay I was low on the food chain when I was building metal buildings because you had to understand there is the the owner at the very very top or the investor and then they hire an architect and then the architect hires a contractor a general contractor that I was a subcontractor so I was way down the food chain myself what you realize in that moment is that hey I need to go up the food chain and hire a level of these guys that were doing what I'm doing and create systems to be spitting money all the time and the terms of your agreement will probably give you the royalties in the end so a lot of times in business if you find that you're passionate about something you have a goal and you want to go into an industry understand where you are in the food chain accept and take the money I still make a lot of money in construction a large amount of money and I take that money I make it I try to protect it from taxes legally only and then I try to make it grow by putting it into real estate this special episode is brought to you by a plus creation Studio they are a design firm in Los Angeles so if you need any architectural work for residential or commercial check out their Link in the description so if I were an individual and I made a movie and I understood where I was in the food chain much like you did you've already done this you've already identified this pattern I would take the money and then go put it into something that will pay me forever and do my best to be able to do that and another thing you'll be able to do with that is once you start buying equipment and everything you're making this residual money but you get to depreciate the the equipment and everything against the money that you're making whereas in your situation before when you made that quick lick you really didn't have a lot of places to put it like for me I could depreciate trucks and things like that in the business but those aren't going to put an impact and when if you're making millions of dollars profit a year so for a young man I would say that take advantage of the time where you have Unicorn Blood and you're willing to work 18 hours a day and you can run through a wall and you don't even need to sleep and you can cut your arm off and it would grow back you know what it's like to be a very young man yeah I very much remember that and uh except where you are that's okay but understand where you are in the food chain and what it would take to get yourself in a position where you would get a return on investment on everything you do for as long as possible and I think when you're paying attention to a model that's important and then also I'll tell a young man that if you think you want to go into industry pick the guy you think you want to be when you grow up and take a very deep close look at his life not only from a work perspective but a personal perspective what kind of health is he in is he getting to spend time with his family does he have true Freedom what's important to you on that path because I can almost guarantee you that it makes more sense to assume that you're not special and assume that whatever that man or group of men that are doing what you want to do or doing that you are not going to be able to put a trick on the game in a way that would not leave you in the same position that they're in so take a hard look at your mentor's life take a hard look at his workload take a hard look at his stress level his personal life doesn't get to leave whenever he wants and then ask yourself the question do I want to work 10 15 years to put myself in his shoes or will I be stuck when I get there so very important things to consider yeah I think everything that you're touching on is probably the basis of everything because if you don't know where you're going the actions that you're taking like make no sense a lot of people end up painting a prison around themselves I'll see it all the time man you got business owners man they think they want to own a business some of the most successful people in the world are employees you know entrepreneurship got super super glamorized you know I guess back 10 15 20 years ago maybe and now everybody wants to be an entrepreneur man but I think you can if you get in there and you and you become really really valuable to somebody you'll probably end up on average making more money as an employee than you would an entrepreneur I'm not trying to distress anybody from being an entrepreneur um how would you measure that or what can someone do to realize whether they can do that or not I think they got to get it out their system and then they just have to be truthful with themselves if they go to quit and they're okay and you're okay with it then maybe it's not for you but that doesn't mean that you can't go play the b-roll somewhere and make a bunch of money sometimes it's just the pressure of like your whole life is on the line and your identity is on the line some people work better as employees I know I have people that probably wouldn't want to own the businesses that I own but they're very very good with stress inside the business because at the end of the day it is my responsibility to make sure the company performs and for that reason they have the freedom to use that extra Hardware to really push hard for me and they get compensated very well and I compensate them with No Ceilings on their bonuses so in a lot of ways they have a business inside of my business and this ultimately always my goal for for an employee is try to create a way where they can take ownership in the business and that there's no cap on the amount of money they can make because I feel like ultimately that would demotivate me so why not amplify their motivation and their fire and their drive and their buy-in by creating a bonus structure that doesn't have a ceiling On It Go Abra I hope I hope I'll pay you a quarter million dollars I hope I pay you a quarter million dollars this year yeah that's what I love about capitalism man yeah bro I hope I do because if I pay you that I know what I made and that's good for everybody and and I I think that being a good boss is setting people up to be graceful number one based off of whatever talents that God gave them I do think that there's certain positions in companies that take certain type of personalities or certain type of attitudes or certain type of age even dude I even think about um man woman what age what period are they at in their life I think about all those things when hiring and I think one gift that I truly have now that took me a long time to get to is really understanding how to place people to be graceful and then Empower them to do their job and create a structure in which they can get excited about coming to work because they know that if they hustle and they bang that day their life is just going to get better because I'm not capping their pay so it's there's a lot to think about when it comes to entrepreneurship and there's like me and Tom talked about today I mean you have to be able to solve all the problems in the world be a good leader be graceful when other people are not and set people up for Success so it's not an easy thing to do and um it doesn't mean that you're not going to be good in business if you don't own a business maybe you just need to have a position in somebody else's business with No Ceilings and you can go to the Moon you or take that company where they're trying to go I feel like good bosses will recognize that so now you always talk about something that to me is very interesting and it's this concept of appreciating the men that are actually Outdoors building shed they're not doing a crypto pump they're not building an online store touch on that because I think we have at least for me as a young guy living in the US I didn't grow up here but I came here about 10 years ago and now everything that I see on social media is 21 year old kids driving G wagons and they're telling you about their Amazon store but you have a complete different take on that that I don't think anyone I haven't seen anyone else talk about that what does it mean to be a man and build a country right now and what's your take on that well it's to me it's not even about me at this point it's about the men that get up and go to work every day like look out there bro look at all those buildings there's cranes in the air there's concrete trucks going down the road all the things that make Society work are generally go into these hard-working people that have to go in the Sun every day that have to create a hell of a skill you know being able to erective metal building for example it's a very dangerous trade you make one mistake and the whole building could fail in inspection or the roof could leak or if if the slab is poured and and they don't meet the formula for the concrete then they can fail a slump test or they could pour it in this concrete could crack and somebody could die I could cave in there's so many things the electrical everything about this world that makes our life what it is is generally built by very hard-working men and women but mostly men in the sun Building Society man and I just I think that there's a true inequity in the world around how construction workers get paid and how truck drivers get paid and like just across the board the people that make this world go and um I wish I wish there was something that could be done to fix it I often say that and I would never run for president I'm just using this as an example but if I ran for president I'd make certified payroll a deal tomorrow and make sure everybody in the country was getting paid correctly you know and I wanted I would want it to be in line with the actual actually how valuable it is to the world because I always talk about like there's a girl on Instagram that can shake her ass and make more money than the guy that laid the road for us to get here and I have nothing against the girl shaking her ass and I don't have anything against only fans girls I just simply have a heart for the men to build this country and not build anything anywhere because everybody else gets to live this really plush life because of these people that get up every morning before daylight work all day in the Sun and go home and don't even get appreciation for it so I just I just want to salute those guys every chance I get I've been there and I've done it but more importantly I have guys that work for me that do it and support their families doing it and I just simply understand how hard it is to get something built and and in a place where you can actually get entry into a building you know get occupancy and I don't think the average person understands that and appreciates the guys wearing hard hats and in this country so um I'll never come off of that in fact I was been planning to do this but I want to start a campaign every time somebody sees a guy in work boots or a hard hat and they're in a grocery store or trying to buy their lunch in the middle of the day I always try my best if they'll let me to buy their lunch or other 12-pack of beer on the way out and I challenge anybody that follows me to start doing that I'm I'm gonna make the campaign called buy the man a beer because I just don't think they're respected and and treasured enough and they build the [ __ ] world and uh without construction workers man you know this this world just doesn't run and not just I can't talk about that enough so uh challenged everybody if you see a guy that you can tell has been working working hard in any kind of job either where there's construction uh driving a truck septic tank trash guy any of these guys police officer buy the man a beer or buy his lunch or whatever you can and for God's sakes tag me because I will repost it on my channel I do not care I want nothing more than these guys to get the respect they deserve it is a hard hard life out there for these guys building building the society so yeah that's my thoughts sorry for the rant no man I I love it I I got my start in like professional big Studio films as a location scout and as part of the locations team like we're the guys coming into the building at three in the morning to set up the trash and where the restroom trailer is gonna go and yeah Mark all the trailers on the street and like we work with the transport captain and like the I know the part of production that nobody else sees like everyone sees Hollywood and like the Billboards and all of that but products a lot like a construction site a hundred percent like a lot like a construction site we work with the city to pull permits to close the roads off yep yeah man this for the cameras all of it yeah yeah and we have guys like the the transport captains are hard guys that have been driving trucks and like yeah doing all this and I remember bro like I was like 24 I think at the time and I was in Atlanta and I had to shut down eight blocks of downtown Atlanta to shoot for two weeks for this big TV show and permits traffic control yes it was and I I felt like a kid and I had to go to talk to to the transport Captain yeah and he's like Landing 18 wheeler trailers in this parking lot and it's like three in the morning and I have to tell the guy like how to do it or like where to put it because I know the permit that we pulled and like but to me I felt so honored to work around those guys because they were actually getting [ __ ] done and without any of that there's no Hollywood there's no way to like get the lights on or like put the cameras on so I respect them and I'm part of the 399 Local Union that is the teamsters with the drivers and the location and all that so I've been around those people the thing that I I agree with you we need to find a way to give them appreciation and respect because they don't get it and I don't know how to fix it because when you think about Hollywood's and movies and TV shows the lead of a TV show is never the construction guy no you know it's the Wall Street lawyer is the tech startup guy is the hot guy that is a model yep or you have the the other side of the coin which I'm interested to see your perspective on which I hate when I see it is the dad that doesn't even know how to tie his shoes and he's like funny and dumb and he can barely make any money but hahaha is funny and he likes thank God he has a smart wife he has [ __ ] yeah yes so I hope that with the films that I make I get to change that and I get to make badass movies where guys are like killing a bunch of people and like blowing [ __ ] up and like doing ratchet you know yeah so what's your take on that because I love Hollywood more than anything yeah and I don't think there is any like evil plan to to do this but I see it time and time again with the shows and the movies where the the dudes are just like pitiful yeah this has been going on for quite some time man even when I was growing up there'd be sitcoms where the dads like very clearly incompetent and I think by and largely that may have started out as just to be funny and then maybe as feminism has increased maybe it's more glaring but truth is that I remember when it was cool to be a competent bad at like when Rambo and Jean-Claude Van Damme and all these movies when they were really action heroes and I I believe that the reason that guys like me or guys like tell you get so much of a following is because they've taken these characters away I was just sitting with Andrew this house in Romania and I had a photo sent to me by a young man and it was two posters one of me one of Andrews side by side on the wall framed in a quote I said a quote he said and I said look at this and he goes dang I said bro you know what that used to be Rambo and he goes I know and it's because in a lot of ways I feel like they've taken taken superheroes away from young men and I think that they would immediately say this because they think it's toxically masculine and all these other things but the truth is and even though it's repetitive I think young men need to be masculine and like Peterson or whoever else would say they need to also be capable and also be capable of danger and be violent if they have to be and that's not wrong as long as they can love and protect the people around them that they should be caring for and most of those and I would say all of those movies from the 90s 80s and 90s it was a good guy doing bad things to protect and provide and take care of people that he cared for and I I think that that's not a negative thing for a young man to see at all so I'd love to see them put real action heroes back in the movies it seems like they're just redoing a bunch of comic books but man I'd love to see one like fresh out the gate new script not another Rambo movie like make a new superhero well my my guy for that is Mr John Wick you like WIC I love I've never seen it you have never seen John work no man I'm not a big Keanu fan actually I love him because of the Matrix I'm a huge fan of the Matrix I was watching the major I watched The Matrix for the first time when I was in Romania she was gonna make me watch it and uh what did you think about the Matrix this is interesting I had no idea I was going to talk to you about the Matrix it makes perfect sense bro yeah it makes perfect sense like I understand why Andrew calls it the Matrix yeah so um you know funny thing about the Matrix huge fan I see I watched the three back to back every year at least once a year I really like those movies when I was in Cuba I grew up in the Christian Evangelical Church all my life and the funny thing is that my first few times as an adult watching that film I thought that the entire thing was just Christ it was Jesus Christ he's the Savior he's the one and that entire like narrative made total sense then when I came to America I went through a whole transformation of my beliefs religion all of that and I kind of let go of believing in all of the norms and all of that and then when I watched The Matrix again after that it took on a completely different meaning so now watching it like I agree with you and Andrew and all that you guys take it I think I think Andrew take said to a higher degree of heightened Narrative of this big conspiracy to controllers I don't believe that is by intent I think that just happens it happens because we're humans and all of these humans are like doing their thing and if you will always have enough people that think a certain way so they will do their actions over here and these people will do it over here they're probably not connected at all and I get into arguments with my friend Abraham about this all the time because he's a big believer in like big conspiracy theories and I'm like Hudson had a rough are you a Hatter yeah so to me it's like bro we try to organize these things and they don't work yeah like we have massive companies trying to be organized to do things and they don't work so I don't give the conspiracies as much credit but I do understand and agree that we are in some sort of web of things that happen and work and we need to kind of like what you were saying of taking a view a high level view of everything and being able to see all those connections and then make different decisions to me that's what it means to break out of The Matrix so yeah I agree with you completely so the real answer is freedom always and and one thing you have to do yourself one of the biggest Parts about getting out the Matrix is actually to free your own mind because if you don't free your own mind first you'll never be able to create the Financial Freedom you'll never be able to get out of the Rat Race trap of how poor people or trapped people think so you have to first free your own mind take the pill and that takes some digesting by the way it's not just pop the pill and then oh you're good it's going to take time to like unpack a lot of old beliefs you had thinking poorly like thinking that money can't flow to you abundantly thinking it takes money to make money thinking that you know only rich people can can live a certain life like you have to unpack a lot of these things maybe female nature maybe you're super super blue pilled and you can't hold a relationship because you're sending flowers and poems too much and she's like disgusted by you because you're just all over her you don't understand frame so you yeah let's talk about that because like I'm a super romantic guy I love the whole letter flower all of that yeah so let's move now into that I think we cover money and all that cool let's do it so the first video I watched of you was your interview with Tristan where you have the the text and the song yeah like I'm sorry I come to this so much I'm going to miss yeah yeah I had never had to do that until that time when I watched that video and I was going through a situation in my life that it required that a hundred percent but part of me is like I never got to experience that where you have to completely cut ties with a woman like automatically because it doesn't it just doesn't match or fit with your life I think for young guys that's very hard to like understand and maybe they won't even understand it until they have lived through it so what would you say is the biggest like the first step for a young guy to be able to go on that path of knowing how things really work with women I think there's a series of podcasts in a series of books that any young man would benefit from reading so you could watch red pill content I would just do it with a grain of salt and understand that not all women are bad you were seeing the most exploited version of of women and those are not the type of women you're going to want to marry anyway so I would understand that but what they are doing is highlighting some hypergamous nature that would be more subtle in the real world will be more subtle in your interaction with someone else the other thing I would understand is that as a man you should take responsibility of what your girl does and so what I mean by that is a lot of men don't understand it but they get cheated on or they get broken up with because they didn't properly hold frame you know and they didn't create an atmosphere in which she would not want to leave him where she would get addicted to him and want to stay and he's doing everything right so like I said the red pill con content I think that reading all of Rolo's books are are a really good idea for any young man and I think it's really important that young men don't focus on getting women in their 20s but they focus on understanding women in their 20s or when they're young because what they should be doing is working on their cells while they're understanding so by the time they do get in a position where their high value or doing quite well for themselves they don't get raked over the coals by a woman that would have stayed with him if he would understood her in a different way and I think that's what's most important I really want to emphasize the fact that I think there are really really good women in this world but also think you could take one woman and give her the guy a and she'd be cheating on him talking to guys and DMS and give her to God B and she would wouldn't even dream of it he has her passwords like she's like I'll delete it for you and a lot of that's going to be off a frame and the man that you become and that's why I think it's very important that a young man study and understand female nature not in a hateful way but an understanding way because if you really love your wife you're going to game her forever you know I believe in something called Dark love so a lot of gloves okay yeah this this is new I haven't heard this yeah so it's basic my thoughts on it if you if if it's not me and you against the world we're gonna do things different with me you know I'm traveling a lot you know there there might be girls all these other things but if it can't be me and you against the world if I'm in competing battle with your [ __ ] girlfriend that's in a relationship that she's not even happy in I'm not the guy for you I love you I'll let you go um but dark love to me is is what I would tell my girl like me and you were going to the dark side of the moon you know the world could hate us the world could be burning down and we'd be slow dancing in a burning room and if I can't have love like that then I want to love it all to all my Emojis even Rose Blackheart Rose Real Love is dark man real love is holding hands with two skeletons you know real love is getting buried by each other you know Real Love Is you know she'll take a charge for you not that I would have somebody but she'd also kill for you it's dark man the the realities of the world is dark so why why would the the most important thing in the world love not be dark as well in reality Real Love is dark you have to be able to love people um through every situation and be ride or die because when you have trust a lot of these people that are even married I don't even think they love each other I think they got married because it was time anyone that's around me is like like you need me to delete Instagram you need me to do this you need me to you know talk to this guy and get the scoop bro real low Stark bro yeah yeah and I think every woman wants to be on a ride like that yeah I agree with you 100 and I was married for about 10 years and then I got divorced and I thought I would never like open up to a woman again call for the divorce I did did you why we were completely different people we were not aligned in our goals and what we wanted what does she want she wanted a simple life and I did not want that and she wouldn't support you she would support me but not come on the ride with me and there was this constant like I think women are supposed to bring you back a little bit to the home and you're supposed to be pulling always to go and conquer and I think that healthy pool is needed and then you get a good balance where you're always pushing and going and conquering and like doing your thing and then she always finding ways to bring you home but she didn't value the the my goals the same way that I did and she didn't have the goals for her that she had when we first met we also got married when we were like 21 right and very difficult yeah so I never thought I was going to find myself in a in in a position again to like go for that ass deep because I I'm like you like if I'm gonna do it I want to do it like 100 yeah and it's funny like all the things that you're saying about love being dark and all of that like my current partner cheese like that and like she's like I'll kill for you yup I'm your ride or die like I'll do anything for you and it was funny like whenever I heard you guys talking on the videos about the Instagram this and and the passwords and the leading Instagrams and all that like I never felt the need to ask for that before and it was funny like this woman that I'm with right now that I love like we were dating I think for like a week and she was like oh you can put my Instagram on your phone like you can like have the password like do whatever and she has like a massive Instagram following like massive and she's like no no I don't care like you you know why why because truly women that can allow their self to get feminine and really really care and love for a man they can't even see another man what she really wants to do is give you that control of the relationship so that she can get that position with you in return when a woman truly loves a man she's not worried about other [ __ ] she's not worried about you know you being like working she already believes in you like she wants to know that she is the queen and for me and probably for you knowing that a woman is that loyal down with you ride or die no matter what and would so openly want to give you something like that or or to like give her be selfless for you in the cause there's nothing more attractive it's beautiful it's a beautiful thing and it also makes it that much more fulfilling to take care of her or take her on vacation or go by her you know a dress or take her to a nice dinner or whatever that shit's not simping simping is an unequal exchange of value when a woman is in love with you like that you can give her the Moon and to be quite honest it's not worth loving somebody or doing all that work if you can't give it to somebody who's ride or die Dark Side of the Moon with you does that make sense 100 so it doesn't surprise me at all that her that she gave her the password of your handsome ass because what she's trying to do is is sealed that and that's what you want you know what you ought to get her to do go ahead start getting her to hand Journal experiences between the two of you say that again start getting her to write and journal entries about experiences with you I'll tell you the subjects later I'm not going to say I'm online yeah yeah I'm happy to report that that has already happened good Brian good bro did you did you uh instigate it no but you need to though you need to leather bound binder that wraps like very detailed number .00 pin this color like get her really into it and then you need to give her the subjects okay and then make sure she's erratically detailed in it when she writes it it's so in that and if you really believe in the love at is actually like dark like that some people say oh that's psycho [ __ ] that's that's um how do you say this it's uh it's insecure to have her Instagram no no no no when she really loves you she wants to create that Bond as much as possible she's not trying to get away from you she's trying to be right up here against your chest right creating the atmosphere for her and making her life that Carpet Ride taking her through time and space you know like there's nothing better than if a woman has already done all those things is it's nothing to her and it's certainly nothing to you but if it's this new thing where she has all this risk and there's all this excitement she has a lot to lose and she's doing all these things and and then you're taking her on on a journey then the love just gets deeper and deeper yeah you know yeah I agree with that yeah and so don't I think I call it dark love but it's really just old school game bro and it's not even gay like it's not pick up game it's frame yeah and you know to me to be honest bro like I haven't watched any videos on this bro I don't yeah I don't study games at all it's hot it happened I also I think honestly that I got really lucky and I found the right woman right that wanted that because I also been with other women that were the opposite from that I think most I think most women want wanted you know one thing that I you know the reason that I think women want to get married and they want to get a ring so much is because they want to be claimed like he says I'm mine you know what I'm saying like how what other way could you make a woman feel special and like she is [ __ ] mine Boomerang or whatever and and I think in this the scenario that you're in right now is like she wants to be claimed by you and that is a beautiful thing it is it doesn't have to be negative you know in 2023 it could be framed however somebody wants but it sounds like it's just a healthy relationship where she looks up to you she supports you she believes in you and wants to give herself to that cause and I think that by and largely if most women could get themselves in a position when they were in love like that then they would be substantially happier than going out and competing in the marketplace yeah it's really sad for me to see so many people talking about the complete opposite of what we're talking about where it's like pushing women to sleep with as many guys as you want just go have fun on your journey make all of this money and let's focus on making money or focus on like attracting all of these guys or being the hottest one it's like the sad thing is that the women that I have seen that are deep down that path they can't even find happiness even if they have those things which is really sad like I've been around like models and actresses and like the most beautiful people you the most attractive woman you could think of and they could have any idea they could want and even when they have this guy and this guy and this guy there's still like something there that if it's not fulfilled by this one man that does the thing that you're saying where this is ride or die This Is Us yeah I think without that we're we're not completely happy which is very interesting like we kind of need to have that need of connection like met some way somehow like in in my case and this is what I was telling you in the car like I decide and I like the fact that I'm choosing this one woman and I'm gonna give you all my attention romantically I'm deciding to give you that attention and it's a show is that I have and I wanted to talk to you about that because everyone has like different ways that they live their life and I'm open with anything but to me it's curious why people decide to not do it that way and in my experiences that's kind of my inclination to do it that way it doesn't mean that I can get women like I could get any woman that ever I have no doubt I have eyes too Cowboy I see I think you can get women so proceed but I think it's more valuable at least for me I find more value in deciding that I want to choose her and her alone sure and I'm going to be loyal 150 percent yeah beautiful so no rebuttals from me cool yeah so now what about the other side of the coin where we have so many guys talking a video after video after video that you need to have three girlfriends and you need to have like all of this rotation and right I get that I do think it's important for a man to be in a bonus of choice I do think that if a man becomes too common he can start to get not taken advantage of but um start to lose respect and start to lose value to a woman if he's two and I think that's in any relationship yeah to me I'm never gonna promote men going and getting a bunch of women I do think there's a lot of negotiating power and being a hot commodity it's no surprise to me that you're a hot commodity with women what you choose to do with that is completely up to you what I would focus on is making yourself scarce or to create what Rolo would call passive dread passive passive dreads what does that mean um it's basically if girls are dming you maybe say baby look at this would you get these hoes out of my inbox you know what I'm saying and she'd be like what the [ __ ] you know yeah just [ __ ] like that um I would never I would never promote manipulating a girl though you know I wouldn't do that at all me in my particular case ideally I like women that like women you know and that way you know we can have it can be a group activity you know so you and your wife play cards me and my wife might play blondes so I don't you know um but again it goes back to to what I always say is like what I want for anybody that would ever ask me a question like the one you're asking what I want for you manage choice I want you to be happy and you to do what you feel like is right in your heart and nobody's going to be able to answer that but you and so as long as it's good in your heart and you're not drawn or haunted by in you know the situation that you're in you're doing the right thing man and your heart's going to be undefeated in your life so I would advise that if it feels good to you keep doing it beautiful now let's talk about breakups might do it right friends do it because for breakup a week bro I break up a week I'm full of [ __ ] no Tristan has to break up a week I have a really good retention rate actually my retention rate's strong again the first video I watched from you was that one video yeah yeah it has like a million something views yeah that is some harsh [ __ ] to pull and like now I feel like like what's hard to pull the one text and then completely done forever forever and ever I learned my lesson I got my vaccine of that it only took one time I think I will never struggle with that ever again like right now I'm in a place where like I don't want to ever end my relationship that I'm in right now but if you ever come to that I know a hundred percent I could send that text and be completely like bro it's crazy I introduce that song to them and we started talking about it and then Andrew started singing it in Jules house satorials house in Dubai and I'm like they really like this song and then we started talking about it more and now today after all of this I get at least one text message a day of a screenshot of some dude telling some girl somewhere in the world I'm sorry it's come down to this there's so much about you I'm gonna miss and then they send a PIN to Cheyenne Wyoming I'm like yeehaw Cowboy could somebody get me in touch with George Strait please I feel like I watched I watched this video the other day on YouTube where it was like every comment was George Strait singing still make Cheyenne and he's like Jay water sitting here Jay Waller sitting here George what's up bro we gotta do a pod man we gotta talk about this foot it definitely happens everybody blow George straight up and tell him there's a cowboy in Louisiana that wants to talk about still May Cheyenne but yeah man it's so true I think that's one of the most beautifully written songs I think there's that song means a lot to me it's one of my favorite songs of all time I have a country music called G country music playlist and I'll let no sump songs in there in fact I thought about doing a channel called The Gospel of country music and taking all these songs and like unpacking the lessons in it and Cheyenne would probably be number one damn the first one I would do man because if you look at that song you know telephone rang about a quarter to nine she heard his voice on the other end of the line and wondered what was wrong this time this man is living on the road he's like these guys that we talk about that aren't appreciated this is a truck driver this is a guy in the construction business this is a guy out on the road trying to build build an empire for his family to have a legacy every man's got his own Rodeo you know she wondered what his cause might bring with a cowboy like him it could be anything I was a cowboy just still cowboy just chasing these jobs all over the country man you know um and of course it goes It goes into the other parts you know where she's like I found somebody new and he's saying sure ain't no Rodeo Man you know and so right there he has a decision he can either argue and bag and all this other stuff or he can leave that phone dangling off the hook give it one last look and just walk away and that particular part is the part that I assume that you're talking about and that my friend takes what we in the War Room call it iron mind at that point in the relationship if that boundary is crossed you can not emotionally say what you have to say and say listen it's either going to be this way or it's not and a woman is either going to have to respect you or lose respect for you and that respect is going to be held within whether you can hold your ground or not I've done it and I've lived through the pain of it and you just have to ask yourself whose will is stronger me or this hundred pound woman who is naturally genetically more emotional than me am I going to let her beat me at a at a game of Will and strength of the Mind when I know that she's naturally more emotional with me that and understand that if you start contacting her blowing her phone up or watching her stories or phoning her mom and doing all these things that are emotional actions she's naturally going to be less attracted to you and you're going to push her further and further and further and further away until she lands on something you don't want her to land on and that's the Dude down the street right so you you have to know that it's going to take an iron will in mind to be able to do this because there's no pain greater than heartbreak but you're not doing yourself a service by begging a woman to come back or catering to her breaking the rules of your frame because she's not going to respect you if you can't be strong enough to have her be inside your frame so I do believe respect equals love and it's in any man that wants to go into respect for a woman particularly in a breakup needs to be able to leave the phone dangling off the hook just walk away yeah catch that Rodeo Cowboy because guess what in a few years when you win the rodeo the phone's gonna ring again then it's up to you what to do yeah and that part is really sad uh at least in my experience it was sad because I still was the worst part yeah I still care about her and I wanted her to be happy yeah but there was no going back right right and you can shock a woman that way you know I've had conversations like that it's like you know what I don't even act like a hard ass I'm really gonna miss you you know I'm really gonna miss you take care and she's like wait what that's it cold got to be a g bro that's the game the hard part about this world is like people complain about women but I think being a man you actually have a better shot because a lot of times women they get all of their value at early they get Beauty and and that's that is a currency in this world beauty is a currency so you get all their value at an early age and they get this beauty but as a man you're not guaranteed to ever have value but you have the opportunity to rule your own world and what's tricky and harmful or hard for women I believe and why I feel sorry for women sometimes like I don't think women have it easy is because they can go conquer the same things that we went to conquer except they've disqualified themselves from Men a woman that makes a bunch of money might as well be six foot four like she she puts herself out of the Dayton pool because of hypergamy wants you to go to a cross or up so the more financially successful she gets the harder it is to find a date to prom because she's taller than all the boys yeah I'm not saying that's fair I believe women in the workplace are [ __ ] phenomenal I'll be the first one to say that I feel for them because they run into that scenario and that particular young lady will probably have to go so high up the pecking order that once she finds a guy that she can submit to like that he's probably going to have multiple women is it fair no sir it's not fair is life Fair no sir it's not she'll also break a bunch of hearts of men that tried and tried and tried and tried on the way up it's quite it's quite the predicament that we're in in 2023 but I don't think there's a good or bad side in the situation but as a man need to be able to walk away you need to be able to keep your respect for yourself and you need to go work on you because begging a woman back or catering and negotiating will never work and it's just simply a [ __ ] to us that you will lose in and uh I have no hate my heart for women I genuinely believe that it's been my experience yeah now I know you have family I'm a father too I have a boy and a girl nice and I was listening to you talk about like the future when they're teenagers yeah yeah that's hard man what is just thinking about what that is going to be like raising teenagers yeah it's like I don't have a plan I know you have kind of a plan that you're gonna like I don't have a plan I almost don't even worry too much about it I think it's going to take care of itself like at that time I know I'll be able to handle whatever it comes so with kids specifically the one thing that I wanted to talk to you about is for the young guy that doesn't feel ready like I didn't feel ready when I had my son I was in college in my sophomore year I have been in America for like a couple of years and then it happened and I was happy but I'm also crazy I come from Cuba like we have kids like we were three kids and three brothers and like we had nothing so we were like yeah kids just like but now I encounter like young men and they're afraid of having kids they're afraid of the financial burden they're afraid of being trapped by like the woman they're afraid of so many things and to me like being a father is one of the best things I've experienced in my entire life so what's your take on that fatherhood so it depends on where you are um are you asking me the question based around well I'll just answer it both ways if you're a young man and you get a woman pregnant at an early age and you're not ready financially it's not the end of the world here's the good news for you and this is what you need to hold closely to your heart if you succeed in business the price of a child will be [ __ ] pennies like my kids have everything you could possibly have and I don't even look at it like yeah cool a baby thing 700 bucks and give [ __ ] whatever like so if you actually hit your goal that child is not going to affect your life in a financial way and I think that's their biggest fear is financial and support two yeah I agree that a young man should not set out to have children until he has set his life up I like to believe that at least wait till 30 ideally 35 would be the age I pick and that's age I picked um to conceive so it's not always going to go as planned everybody has a plan until they get punched in the face but anybody that believes that they can't be successful because they have a child is a coward yeah that's [ __ ] yeah oh you know I had these kids and I got these bills I'm like bruv you're gonna have problems in this world you didn't succeed in abundance enough where a child and a light bill was nothing to you and so for any young man that has a girl pregnant right now or is freaking out because he's got a kid on the way or whatever it is listen brother you can go out earn having 20 kids you just have to go down the path and go do the work and go be competent where people need you and create value and you'll make enough money to where if your girl got pregnant tomorrow you'd be like okay cool hope it's a boy winking face whatever like it doesn't matter right and so I I would just I would just stress to anybody that's stressed about the subject or worried that if you're in that position listen man you could build a business in 18 months you'll be laughing being like hey we should get you pregnant again you know so that's how I look at it personally and there's a time in my life it would have scared me and I can certainly tell you now if I if I got pregnant with someone tomorrow I wouldn't be concerned with it at all I'd be like okay good let's celebrate yeah you know the one thing the only one thing I would add to that is whatever the stress the fear do when you have that kid yeah you don't want to you don't want to send it back that's for damn sure yeah like my son's beautiful thing isn't it yeah yeah and like my son had leukemia when he was two yeah and it was like hard like I was right out of college yeah he got sick my baby girl had just she was like about a year old it was like the worst time of my life it was really hard and even through those times and going through all of that bro it's like I wouldn't change anything I had my son when I was like 24. I wouldn't change anything I know like with the timing and whatever and I agree with you like you should wait until you're older you have a business like it makes everything easier but even if it's happening right now when any anyone is like going through it and they're super young and they don't know what the [ __ ] to do you're gonna be okay dude I think it's a blessing by the time by the time you're 40 something he'll be ready to step in and help yeah he's already helping bro a legacy yeah he's already helping like we did a podcast episode with him like he was here last week how old is he now he's eight yeah then I took him to Tom's house and he was like with um like looking at the video games and like designing his own video games like it's amazing so I'm super excited about him and I'm excited about the future for kids and young people and all that so I'm really excited about what you guys are doing with the war room with everything that you guys are putting in place so tell me a little bit about that uh I have been watching your content for a long time now and Andrew Anderson and I I was inside when it was Hustler University yeah I think you guys do an amazing job teaching people how to actually make money and like real skills that schools don't teach you right so tell me a little bit about that and what you guys yeah man so the real world is a place where people that are actually working in that business that are millionaires are helping you in real time develop skills that can get you out of your situation flat out nowhere else in the world are you going to learn how to make money in that business by a guy who's running that business that day with your particular problem 24 hours a day a group of people supporting you normally you can't cheat off your classmates in the real world your classmates are giving you the answers to the test and encouraging you to perform so not only are you getting the answers you need from somebody that's actually doing it unlike a university Professor who's not is not running a business in the real world certainly not on the subject you have teammates that help you so you have a Brotherhood camaraderie there's jokes there's a lounge room in there you have Luke which in my opinion Luke is one of the most underrated men on the planet Andrew's cousin he's one of the most intelligent wise well-read knows what the [ __ ] is going on people that you could possibly be learning from he's one of my favorite people now if I saw him I'd call him a slur name but for the record having Luke in there who lives in in what we call the metaverse where's Luke oh in the metaverse he's actually in his room type into some kid that's 16 years old making 20 grand a month on the internet so the War uh the real world is the best online learning platform there ever was and I would even argue it's the best college it's the best school that's out there right now because in the real world you don't get a report card you get a paycheck and like the real world yeah like the real world and like changing people's lives forever man so I do believe that the real world is the best product in the world right now for helping people it's very literal it's very Hands-On most of the time you get courses right and you watch some chorus and God makes a recording he goes away in the real world if you have a question you can go in 24 hours a day and ask somebody that's doing it right now had that problem an hour ago there's no other place to get the answers like there is in the real world and as you know from being inside the campus it's very well done it's very well organized it's broken up in a way the professors are world class and and make real money in the real world every day right alongside you and it can change your life I believe in it fully on the 14th they're coming out with an AI campus one thing that I heard Luke say when I was in the real world the other day is like listen guys AI is not going to replace you it's going to take a hard-working guy who's doing a lot of things manually and teach them how to leverage and double or triple his production being able to reduce his price a bit and then get more customers because of it and come out Rich so I'm really excited about the AI campus I know that myself and my team are going to be in the AI campus we have a spot already I advise anybody that's thinking about joining the real world join it now before the spots in the AI campus fill up because I'm telling you man this AI thing is the future I think it's going to affect economies I think it's going to affect War I think it's going to affect all business and social media it's the future it is a real real thing and I trust nobody more than Luke and the professors in the real world world to be on The Cutting Edge of that at all times and I'll believe that every young man that's in that AI campus is going to absolutely smash it it's going to change a lot of lives man I'm super excited about it so yeah looking forward to seeing it yeah so I I got a sneak peek at some of the the table of contents and the things that are going to be teaching and all that so 100 agree like that is like the next bubble that is about to like blow up yeah it's a generational thing man you know like the.com bubble was a thing right this AI thing is serious it is legitimately serious I'm excited about what we're going to be able to jump in there and do yeah me and Thomas talk about it all the time like bro I'm ready for it to go you know because we're going to take everything we're doing to the next place and double and triple in quadruple content yeah and be able to get our message out to the world um so any young man is thinking about it should really just pull the trigger for 49 a month there's nowhere on Earth that you're going to learn things you're going to learn in the real world for sure yeah now tell me about the war room and I think specifically I want to talk about Brotherhood and finding those strong men around you that it's lacking like right for so many people I'm blessed that I have my brother I have Abraham I have Reggie like I have like strong men around me but I know that that's not the norm so how did you find that and like how would you tell a young guy to be able to like screen people so they can actually build relationships because those relationships can make or break like your entire future right so the important thing about the war room for me is that not only is it the most powerful Network in the world but I know when I'm dealing with a guy from the war room I already know what his base morals and values are I can trust him in a way that I would not be able to trust a stranger in case in point I I sent a war room God 285 000 later last year to buy a mobile home park and I've never met him but I knew he wouldn't snake me because I knew he was in the war room it's like suicide almost so there's a certain loyalty and a culture in the war room that provides the ability to create trust and when you have trust in business you have speed when you have trust in Brotherhood you have speed when you can truly trust somebody to have your have your back and you already know what they're about that common understanding of who they are as a person because of the culture of the of the network that we're in in the war room it allows you to put so many walls down that you can actually just get to work and make some of that money people make money together all the time in the war room I laugh about it people are like is 79.79 to get in the war room I'm like bro if you don't make that money back in a month or so you're not using the War Room correctly it's the best network in the world it truly is and it's not just the money that you're going to make it's the it's the it's the mistakes that you're not going to make you're not going to get your leg blown off in a divorce you're going to have a frame rate you know you're gonna create strong loving relationships with not only women but other people you're going to be a better leader you're going to have a stronger mind you're going to be in better shape you're going to have better style you're going to understand how to shake hands like this is finishing school inside of a network of people that are on the same Mission it's a very beautiful thing I love everybody in the War Room they're all Brothers to me immediately and that's why I go to so many in-person events man because the Halls themselves the typing is hard for me so I'd rather just show up in person and be there with them and I'll make money with these guys uh I give them advice on their businesses free by the way you know and and I know that there's plenty of other high-level guys in the world I'm not the richest guy in the War Room by a long shot there's a bunch of [ __ ] ballers in the war room we have a room just full of millionaires like you have to be a liquid millionaire to be in this room and those are the kind of guys that are showing up to these events those are the kind of guys that are mentoring the younger War Room guys if I have to choose between two guys to Mentor they're both 22 one of them's in the war room one of them's not I'll tell you it's an easy decision because I already know the cloth of the man that's here this guy might be made out of clay but in the war room we're chiseling people out of granite we're taking that that that material we already know what he's made out of especially if he stays for any period of time so Forge each other and fire push each other to do our best it's it's nothing new but the war room is the greatest men's group on the planet hands down that's awesome man yeah man well Justin thank you so much for coming I have one last question [Music] if money was not an issue and time was not an issue what would you do what would you build what would be the thing that you go after probably the first thing I do is try to go help with like the water and stuff like let's get like there's people in this world still that don't even have clean water you know I would definitely try to put something out to be able to get at least America in a position to pay the Tradesmen more money like something that they could put into the construction specs that regulate how guys get paid you know like prevailing wage jobs things like that [Music] um and it would have to be in a way that all contractors had to do it so nobody could cheat you know because a lot of guys pay their guys cash and it just it gets on my [ __ ] nerves pisses me off um the next thing I'd probably do is figure out how to help the people that protect this country the veterans man I feel like veterans go to war whether I agree with the war or not they still did it and they did it for what I believe is the best country to ever exist and that's America and a lot of times they come back and and they fall on a life that there are many many years behind on and they're trying to catch up and nobody's really there to catch them in a way that I feel like is responsible for America to do so if I had all the money in the world I'd probably touch those things almost immediately and I just hire a big team and just try to handle it somehow um and it's not even because I'm trying to be a Boy Scout it's just [ __ ] that I can obviously see that could be fixed for people that super deserve it you know this isn't me being a good guy I just I see how hard the Tradesmen work I see what it takes for America to be free and I see that the World by and largely has the atmosphere whipped enough that nobody should go thirsty or hungry you know I'm not a great man for saying it I just think it's true so that's what I would do I love it well thank you so much really appreciate it thank you guys so much for watching if you like this interview check out this other one and I'm pretty sure you're gonna like it I'll see you on the next one thank you [Music]

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Length: 71min 30sec (4290 seconds)

Published: Fri Jul 14 2023