Hello my wonderful friend and thank you
so much for watching. In today's video we're going to be talking about what you
can do to get a girl to think about you constantly.
All throughout her day to be thinking about you and like how she feels
about you and how cute you. Are I have seven things for you today that if guys
do, it makes a girl think about him constantly because she's super, super
crushing on him. The best part is there are zero mind games, zero tricks, so it's
really just about being a genuine version of you and getting her to
totally crush on you and think about you all the time. So if that sounds like
something you'd be interested in be sure to keep watching. But before we get
started if this is your first time watching one of my videos, be sure to
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name is Melannie, I'm a Christian dating coach for men. I help men find and
attract their dream girl. And as I mentioned I have seven tips for you that
as you do these things, yeah it's gonna get that really cute girl to think
about you all the time. Tip number one is to pursue her. If you want a girl to be
insanely attracted to you then pursuing might just be the key you're looking for.
As a matter of fact when a guy pursues a girl, that is so much more attractive to her than
like, a lot. [laughter] As a matter of fact one of the most attractive things a guy can
do is pursue. It makes a woman feel feminine and safe and protected and very,
very drawn to you. I've done a video about pursuing before so if you have not
seen it yet be sure to check out the links in the description below so you can give
that one a watch. Number two is don't smother her. This is where a lot of
people get confused. Because a lot of people don't want to play hard-to-get,
and FYI, don't play hard-to-get okay? If you start a relationship on mind games
then the relationship will only last as long as the mind games do. That's not a
fulfilling relationship. So certainly don't play hard-to-get, however some
people go way to far the opposite direction and they just like,
smother her and want to talk to her all the time and always be
there and like it starts to feel really possessive, so don't smother her either.
Just be genuine and you and friendly. It's a little bit of a delicate dance
between not smothering her, and pursuing her. The biggest thing is to just relax,
take a deep breath and really just be you. So for instance, if you were playing
hard-to-get, you would time when you text her, and make sure you
don't text her too often, things like that. And if you were pursuing, you would
actually want to let her know you're interested. If you were smothering her,
you would constantly be texting her. So it's really about just finding a
delicate balance. Tip number three is to flirt / compliment her. People are
attracted to people who make them feel good. And if this really cute guy is
complimenting her, oh my goodness she is going to be thinking about that forever.
And she's gonna be telling her friends all about it and it's just going to make
her feel so amazing about you and around you. And so yeah, you're going to be in
her mind a ton. Same thing with flirting. Flirting kind of like feels like a
compliment, even if no compliment has actually been given, even if it's not
like an outright compliment. Anytime you're flirting, it's fun and cute
and engaging and it's definitely going to be on her mind. Tip number four might
surprise you, and it is to listen to her. Fun fact about girls, we really need to
feel like we're being listened to. As women that's how we connect with other
people, is we talk. And we need to feel like what we are saying actually matters.
So put your phone away and actually listen to her. And as you do that, she's
gonna feel connected to you dude. She is seriously going to feel like you
understand her and you get her and she's going to feel appreciated. And that means
a lot more to women than I think even we know. Tip number five is to be kind. I
released a video a little while ago about
the number one thing women want in a man, and if you haven't seen it I will put
a link down below, but research shows guys, that the number one traits she's
looking for in her man is actually kindness. Now this is not to be mistaken
and misunderstood for being a pushover, and being too nice, if you will.
It's just about being a kind and genuine person. Tip number six is confidence.
If I've said it once, I've said it a million times. Confidence is so, so attractive.
Period. Women are drawn to men who are confident. As humans were just drawn to
people who are confident. And there are many ways you can implement this. This is
actually something I cover extensively in How to Find and Attract Your Dream Girl.
So if you haven't checked that out yet, I'll put links down below to that as well.
That's my membership area, and I spend a ton of time talking about confidence. But
some of the things you can do to create confidence is your body language. I've
done videos on that that I'll put down below as well. But it helps you come
across as masculine and confident. And the truth is you just deserve to feel
confident. And a man who is confident is definitely going to be playing on repeat
in her mind. Tip number seven is eye contact. Kind of a surprising one, right?
When we make eye contact with each other, there's all kinds of research behind
this that I won't get into, but we are actually more attracted and more drawn
to people who make eye contact with us and who hold eye contact. Really she just
wants to feel like you're present. Like you're there. Kind of like with listening.
She wants to feel like what she's saying and doing matters to you, and
it will help her feel that connection. And when she feels that kind of connection,
yeah she's going to feel attraction for you. And she's going to have you playing
in her mind throughout the day because dude, she's crushing on you. So there you
have it. 7 tips to make sure that she's thinking about you all the time. The
truth is you don't have to rely on mind games and manipulation tricks. As a matter of
fact I know a lot of people feel like they have to do that to keep the girl.
The truth is, girls who need mind games to keep them around aren't worth having
around. If you're just truly genuinely you, and then know how to interact with a
girl in a way that's really attractive to her,
then you're going to be what I like to call attractive by default. And when
you're attractive by default, girls crush on you really hard, want
to get to know you better, and yes you will be playing in her mind constantly.
Because as women when we're attracted to someone, we think about them a lot. Like a
lot. Now real fast leave me a comment. Which of these tips surprised you the
most? And which one do you feel would be the hardest to implement? So that I know
what to do a video on in the future. Also I have a free guide for you.
17 Traits Christian Women Want Most in a Man. If you want to always be in her
mind and to get girls to totally crush on you then it's really valuable to know
what she wants most in a man. Because the truth is, the best way to get your dream
girl, is to be her dream guy. All you have to do is check the link in the
description below. Click on it, it will ask for your name and your email, as soon
as you do that, I will send it your way. Thank you so much for watching my
wonderful friend. Be sure again to subscribe and ring that notification
bell if you have not yet and give me a big thumbs up. If we're not yet friends
on social media be sure to check out the links for that down below as well. Thank
you so much again my amazing friend and have an amazing day. [bloopers] It just so happens that I have
seven tips for you they will help- [tongue twisted] Okay. [pause] Okay. [laughter]
I have seven tips for you today that will help you... [pause] do stuff. [sigh] Okay. When a girl likes a guy,
little insight into girl world for you, yeah we think about you like all
the time. It's cool, it's cool. [laughter] Oh I can tell this is going to be
an interesting episode already.
