THE DEFINITION OF A QUEEN

[Music] Buckley Oh Shi Oh [Music] beautiful wonderful made heaven brings out so strong even inside all yeah I think that is because all women are Queens most are just unaware because no one has told them that they are so they are unconscious Queens but the difference between a conscious queen and an unconscious queen is that a conscious queen is intentional while an unconscious queen is just reactional she reacts to whatever life throws at her she makes adjustments to whatever life gives her but a conscious queen is intentional she she goes to the top intentionally she strives for excellence intentionally she wins intentionally she carries herself a certain way intentionally and when you look at proverbs 31 29 says many have done virtuously but thou xl's them all and one of the points we we make is that a woman can be below average has to do absolutely nothing to be below average she can become average just by mistake just you know just by mistake you can be average but any woman that will excel and especially excel them all is a woman of intentionality you never Excel everybody by mistake whenever one excels them all she excels them all because she is intentional she planned to excel them all she had a strategy to excel them all which is the mindset of Queens now when I took the word Queen and I have to give props to Bishop Clark out of Oakland California who helped me he's great with acronyms qu een Queen qu e NQ quintessential you she is the alt she's the quintessential woman you she has the ultimate presence e she has excellent character again she's empowered by in a no-nonsense approach to life quintessential ultimate excellent empowered no-nonsense there I believe you have four components of a Queens mindset or a Queen's makeup she is the quintessential woman which means that when you want to when you want to see when you want a visual depiction of the ultimate woman as God intended the queen represents the quintessential woman you know like in my neighborhood here I have which is awesome I have an eagle that lives in the neighborhood a seagull it's weird to be outside and to see an eagle flying over your head actually in my house at my house at my farmer house in New Orleans I had an ego that lived there as well but it's weird to be outside and just see an eagle flying and when an eagle flies through the neighborhood it's amazing how all of the other birds scatter it's like the skies get clear when the eagle flies through because the eagle is the quintessential bird the eagle is the quintessential bird and a queen is the quintessential woman he's the quintessential woman she is she is she is the woman that all of the women are measured by she represents the perfect example of a class or quality she's the perfect example of a woman the second thing it ultimately something else that we are going to deal with during the conference and and also in my book if you've not pre-ordered my book I would encourage you to do that as well this thing is just coming together as a powerful movement my book clean ology is up for pre-sale now we're going through the final editing phases of the book but it's up for pre-sale now and actually there's a special off if you go to Marcy Blake's comm website for the first 100 I don't know how many more we have left but for the first 100 pre-orders as a special offer but she's quintessential woman she has the ultimate presence what does that mean presence what does that mean we're going to we're going to unpack all of this during girls night in the world I'm just kind of introducing it to you today she has the ultimate presence what does presence become present speaks of more than just being physically accounted for when a woman has the ultimate presence she walks into a room and there's something about her demeanor there's something about her aura that dominates the space she's in she doesn't have to say a word she doesn't have to be watched as she doesn't have to be snooty and highfalutin or arrogant she doesn't have to be overtly sexual she doesn't have to have a dress on it's too tight or too short but there's something about her presence something that emanates from her that makes everybody in the room understand that the quintessential woman has just stepped into the room she has the ultimate presence Michelle Obama has that that when Michelle Obama walks into a room she doesn't have to say a word you understand that somebody's just stepped into this place every woman should aspire for that presence you can't buy presents off of a rag you can't you can't rub presents on your face presence has to emanate from an understanding of who you are why you exist and the confidence when you have when you have a presence see like the Queen has has an ultimate presence like a common woman an unconscious Queen has a presence you know that she's trying to appear to be confident and strong but she's weak in our mind because she does not understand and she lacks definition she's unconscious that's the whole purpose of Queen ology the whole purpose of the conference is to bring a generation of women into consciousness if the father/daughter talk which many of you have read if the father-daughter talk speaks to the to the broken little girl inside or the little girl inside of the broken woman Queen ologist speaks to the Queen inside of the broken woman and it's calling her to a place of consciousness where she comes clear with who she is and she makes adjustments to a crown she sits on a throne and she rules her Empire and she has a presence about herself when she walks into a space she dominates the space so quintessential she has the ultimate presence excellent character you know I've been a fan of and I need you all to hear this I've been a fan of because sometimes you know y'all think that your your spiritual leaders or teachers are just which is always in the air and floating on clouds and speaking in terms I've been a fan of the Housewives shows since they started but I'm becoming less of a fan because it's getting more and more degrading of women it used to be a little drama but you could see you know women that were doing big things taking care of themselves you know little drama and all that but now it's getting ridiculous the language the fighting just a lack of character in most cases not all of them but in most cases just a lack of character you have these women that are highly educated making all of this money just behaving like just just just just just cut off I don't mean to put it that way but just behaving like God and and if you have anything if you know anything about reality television if you've had any dealings with it at all you realize that 90% of that stuff is staged so it means that they've sold their character out for a dollar but see you can't buy a queen because a character is is all it's all she has she's not going to let anybody ruin her character and she's not going to sell her character out you know for a hundred thousand dollars here two hundred thousand dollars there and I know that sounds like a lot of money to y'all but that money comes and goes so quickly and then you have to live with the footage of you deterring your own character Queens Queens don't put themselves in certain positions because they have to model excellent character a queen won't even allow you to have access or to be privy to her personal failures unless she chooses to use those failures as a teaching opportunity because she has excellent character you know she's not going to she's not going to put herself in certain position she's not going to allow herself to be seen in certain light she's not going to people's job and talk about meet me on the parking lot she's not going to sleep with someone else's husband even if even if she's struggling in her flesh and she you know she can't hold out sexually she's not going to sleep with somebody else's husband because she has what excellent character she's not going to be caught dragging for people throwing shade at people and pulling people down to raise herself up because she has excellent character see a lot of times now let me say this a lot of times we're praying for okay let me just go come directly at it women are praying for Kings when they don't even meet the standard if you praying for a king it means you have to be a queen and a lot of times you praying for a man that needs a standard that you don't represent huh praise the Lord so quintessential ultimate presence excellent character and then then it goes on to say empowered by and it leads into the last point but she's quintessential she has the ultimate presence how you doing good see you she has excellent character she's empowered by let's stop right there Queens empowered Queens are not weak little damsels in distress you got it you got to raise up out of that you know I'm just so weak there's nothing cute about that this is the wrong end time to have a little weak woman little timid woman no no you gotta be uh no no no no no no no you gotta be a strong woman you got to have you got to be empowered that means you got to know who you are you got to know what you possess you got to know where you're going you got to know what you can do you gotta know who's on your side you got to have your plan you got to be empowered you got to be educated you got to have your money right you can't wait around for a man to come in and get your money right you got to get your money right yourself because you have to be empowered I'm trying to raise up a generation of women who are empowered the kind of man you looking for he's searching for a woman that's empowered men and I'm looking for women they have to climb up into the tower and rescue men are looking for Deborah type woman a woman that's a judge or warrior a wife a prophetess an empowered woman some of y'all sitting around just feeling hopeless and helpless do something about it do something about it you waiting on somebody to rescue you rescue yourself you have the power to do it you have the power to do it this is what we're going to deal with doing girls night in the word I need y'all to go and register for anywhere around Houston I want it free cause absolutely nothing all you need to do is go to RNC Blake's calm and and register it's absolutely free this is what I'm gonna unpack this that night she's empowered by and in watch this finally a no-nonsense approach to life Queens don't have time for foolishness Queens don't have time to be sitting around gossiping they don't have time to be sitting around holding grudges claims do not have time to be playing around with people that are doing nothing running with women that are popping gum and making no money at all spending all the money they got on trying to look like they got some money and they know the dead broke Queens live with with the mindset of a no-nonsense approach to life love and business you ain't got time to play with no man it's not serious you don't have time to play around with folk Elaine taking care of business you wake up every day you about you your relationship with God you about getting your money right taking care of your children building your empire it's a no-nonsense approach to life it's a no-nonsense approach to life so [Music] [Music] by [Music] Oh see Oh

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Published: Tue Apr 18 2017