- Hey Steve. I was married for 11 years,
been divorced four years now. So when I first got divorced, dating was like being a fish out of water. So now dating has picked up for me. But it's still kind of
tricky because now I can't, I'm still having to, like,
put three guys into one. Like I'm building dudes here. So let me tell you, My first dude, he works on my house. He's like my handyman,
he fixes everything. He cuts the grass..the second guy is like the guy that I can call and, you know, he can cash app
me a couple of dollars, so. And then I got this third dude, and he's like melting my heart. And he's a good dude and we pray together. My question is "How do I know when to
turn my player card in?" Do I keep all three or do I, like, try to, you know, just
settle down with the - Okay, I understand. So, you in essence, have built a man. - Yeah I'm kind of like - You couldn't find everything in one man. - No, no it don't work. - So you done classified to a one of them's a handyman, fix up stuff. - Yup the fixing. - Then the other one is financial. - [Woman] Kinda sorta, you know. - Kinda sorta he's financial. - I'm still independent, but you know - [Steve] And the other
one you don't really have a title for him. - [Woman] No, he's such a good dude. Yeah. He just melts your heart. - Oh I know what that is then, that ain't heart man, that's mandingo man. (crowd laughing) - No! No. - He the one no, he fry the bacon. - Steve no, it's not like that. - He cook the cookies. Yeah, he baste the ham.
The way you want it basted. He fry the chicken just like you like it. Extra crispy, 'cause see. Everybody else had a title.
You had the handyman, then had the financial man, then the other one melts my heart. That's (bleep) (crowd laughing) The other one in there
got you kicking lamps off the nightstand,
tearing wallpaper down. - [Woman] No, Steve
he's really a good guy. - The fitted sheets done
come up off the corner. That's what he do. Yeah - He's a sweet guy,
Steve. It's a little bit, it's a little bit more than that. He's a sweet guy. - So your trying to figure out which one you should keep. - Well, I'm starting kind of
feel like a little bit of guilt just a little bit. - Cause you got these three guys. - Well you know, the cat
out the bag now. But yeah. - Yeah I mean, you know
what I mean that's the game. You know, but you a woman. So how long can you do that? - Exactly. - [Steve] So, now lets talk about this. - Okay. - You got the handyman. - [Woman] Okay. He fix stuff all up around the house. - Yes, and that really helped my budget. - Right, but it's your house. - [Woman] Yes. - That he fixed. - [Woman] Yes. - Mhm. He don't have a house to fix, of his own. Hello. - Okay. - Then you got the guy
that's financially stable. - Well he's a good time, you know and I was married for
so long that you know, a sister need to like
go out and.. you know. - Okay, all right, aint
not problem with it. You ain't got to keep
explaining it, you good. - Okay, okay. - We know exactly what's happening. He ain't coming over
to the house for free. You know, he aint bringing
hammers and all this you know, he come in with
the hammer in his hand. - (laughing) - So then you got the
financial guy, he can help out. - Well you know I can invite my girls out. We go out, he gone buy drinks, he gone you know we gone have a good time. - So he, he paying for stuff. - Yes. - Yeah. Now the third guy, - So, the third guy. - Okay. Because his conversation is so inspiring, so motivating, like
I've started a business and, you know I'm cranking up some things. And so now its like, you
know I can just go over here and I don't need the handyman,
or the financial guy. So I'm thinking about, - Okay, so let me ask you this. What does he do? (crowd murmuring) - Well... He's in the whole sale business. - He in the whole sale. (bleep) (crowd laughing) The whole sale. He, he into whole sale. You know I done started my
business and everything, he in whole sale. So, - Import and exporting. - Importing, we know what that is. Ain't no popping fields
in Georgia nowhere. We know good in hell well
this importing and exporting. So now, this - [Woman] Uh huh. - It can not be the life you want. - It's not. But this
realization has just came about. Like, this is new. It
was fun, it was cool. - No, he, he going to jail. He's going to jail. That's not how this works. You got, El Chapo went to jail. Escobar got killed. What you want? You gone go to jail, or you gone die. That's the game. So you have to decide if
that's the life for you. - That's true. - The financial guy, is
really not your type. - No, not at all, how'd you know? - Because, cause I ain't stupid. (crowd laughing) If you meet a guy that's your type, and he financially set... What is the other dudes for? (crowd clapping) You done hit the jackpot. He paying the handyman,
he's not your type. - That's true. - The women, y'all real with it now. If y'all find the man of your dreams. He your type and he got money, what, and he want you? I want you too. How about this right here? You have not met him yet. (crowd clapping) - Okay. I can agree with that. (crowd clapping) - You don't have to pick, the lesser of the evils. - [Woman] Okay. When all three, is a evil - He can fix stuff,
but he ain't your type. He got money, but he ain't your type. He your type, but he finna go to prison. (crowd laughing) He finna do some time. He's not, then none of them are your type. Why don't you elevate? You seem like a nice sister. Why don't you elevate? Now, let me ask you this. If you could have the man of
your dreams, describe him. - So, I need him to know
what his purpose is. What he's gone do in life. I want him to have a
relationship with God. And, I want to have fun. Like, my thing is, I'm
not just a fun girl. But I don't want you be boring. - You just got to up
your standards in men. You got to decide what you want. Have a, two lists. You know, you got to have a list of
everything you want in a man, and things you will not accept. - Okay - Once the will not accepts
list starts overbearing the what you want list, take him out. You don't want an inmate for a husband. So then why you talking to him? - Mm. - Just up your standards,
change your lists. You should, you should stop
dating all three of them. Technically. - [Woman] Okay. (crowd clapping) - And start over. - Okay. I can do that. - Let's see it. - [Woman] Sounds good. - Thank you.
