Steve Harvey Sends 35-Year Old to Carnivale for His First Date

dan the only thing sweeter than revenge of first kiss 35 once you get on the bike you shall go faster I'm here to help we'll get through this together coming up next he's looking for love but too nervous to make a move have you ever really tried to ask a girl out can Steve bring this shy guy out of his shell so you got to get into the hunt you got to get into the game you know for a lot of me and asking a girl out for the first time can be pretty terrifying well my next guest is 35 years old but doesn't know how that feels because he's never been on a date in fact he's never even kissed a girl not a fear rejection has held him back his entire life take a look Steve you're always helping women on your show I even watched you help a woman who'd never been kissed but what about me Steve I'm 35 years old like a single my entire life I've never experienced the first date in fact I've never even kissed a girl before Steve I'm a nice genuine guy but as painful as it is I have to admit it I've got zero game when it comes to women I'm ridiculously shy and I have no courage I've always pictured myself as a family man and I need a woman in my life to get started my biological clock is ticking and I feel like I'm getting closer and closer becoming a real-life 40 year old virgin and that's definitely not one of the things on my bucket list so Steve please help me break out of my shell and step things up with the ladies bread my buddy you came to the right place I'm gonna be helping him out today now as you know one of the keys to confidence is feeling good in order to feel good I'm a huge proponent that dressing good is a huge part of that success I think it gives you a swagger so I started with a plan to get him suited up take a look that changes the game you're ready to see me in person please welcome black are you doing man yeah that's pretty sharp there you know you're the size of a Tom Ford model I wish I knew what that was now you're 35 you've never been on a date how come you know I'm usually an outgoing guy but it chooses when it comes to women you know I clam up and I'm just I become shy you know the only time I can remotely recall getting close to a date was when my nephew got married I took a liking to the maid of honor and we talked a little bit too before the wedding but I didn't want to do anything I had the wedding because there was enough family drama that could have happened so I waited till after the wedding to make my move you know but we emailed back and forth a few times but I wound up dying out and have you ever really tried asking a girl out I never grew up knowing how to do that you know I grew up you know in a household where you know I really wasn't encouraged to go out and meet people so I never really developed those skills okay is there a kind of woman you'd like you got a type you like Maria Menounos she's you've done what you gonna start she said it'd just be she said if I get 400 billion retweets of my day requests she might fit remotely considered something she said what she said if I get 400 billion retweets of my 300 billion yeah I got a shot right yeah yeah you got a shot yeah you think you don't wait a long time at 35 you waiting for hundred billion retweets papi yeah but seriously yeah I think you know I think everybody has a perfect girl and it's not I don't believe in perfection but I think everybody has a perfect person for them so you know I'm a sucker for a Latino girl you know the accent you know it it's like sticking me a bowl of ice cream out in the desert you know what did you know a bowl of ice community that's what he says like sticking you but I was going how do you feel about never kissing a girl it's tough because like I said I'm 35 Steve you know I'm not 15 I'm not in high school you know it's not your usual situation so you know I don't know what to expect from them and and I don't know if they know what they'll expect from me so it's a lot of new stuff that I that I'm need to go through and experience but you know it's left me nervous but I'm really excited how do you feel about being a 35 year old virgin it's tough but it's something I'm proud of you know because I I could have had chances to to not have been that but I don't want to give that up to someone that I don't see spending the rest of my life with I mean is is it where I wanted to be no but you know I'm just hoping you know I'm a 35 year old virgin in five years I'm not a remake of the 40 year old virgin yeah I mean I commend you for that let me go over the couple of things mail we first of all we got to get rid of this fear of rejection the fear of failure is the number one cause of failure see fear freezes you it causes you not to act so what happens is your fear of rejection causes you not to take the step so now guess what there's no chance of a date we are men we are created to hunt you got to do the hunt man you waiting on them to hunt it ain't gonna happen so you got to get into the hunt you got to get into the game you got to make that a part of your day-to-day but the only way you're gonna do that we got to overcome the fear of rejection we can do this man this is gonna be said because if you came to me I know how to take some steps so I set you up up next folks I want you to see how Brad did when I hooked him up on his very first date ever this is our moment ladies get a bigger prize coming up next when things heat up will he back down he's been waiting for his first kiss but will there be a second date you think you might go out again I'm back with my buddy Brad who's 35 years old never been kissed in fact he's so painfully shy around women that he's never been on a date until now so I set him up with a great girl for dinner and a little surprise on top of that so here's what happened it's gonna be my first date ever I'm nervous but I'm also excited Brad yes how are you great how are you good sorry these are for you okay I was walking up that can sense he was a little nervous I introduced myself and you know he was just holding flowers and forgot to give them to me I was super cute he seems like a good catch she's beautiful gorgeous and I like the Latin type girls was this table good free yeah I like it want you to be comfortable what do you do I'm an office manager for a construction company yeah I play tennis and I bowl and stuff like that I'm glad she kind of led the conversation because I kind of froze there a little bit up has no idea why he's so nervous can't let a lady drink alone do you normally drink wine have you ever had a part you know even not look 30 no wine is good and it's not too strong so maybe that I'll loosen them up it's a lot of fun yeah good times some of you have any special talents or interests I used to play the clarinet when I was like sixth grade what are yours I can grab my leg around the side of my back and then into my front of my head wait are you serious you want to take a pretzel oh my god oh my god I'm definitely feeling more comfortable as the night goes along I cannot believe you did the whole like stretched leg hip thing but you know super sweet and he has a great sense of humor I did one let the cat out of the bag this early but this is actually my first ever date Wow yeah I was a little scared to tell her Val you know that was 35 and then on my first day that's okay he's a great guy and it makes me feel so special that I'm his first date so how do you feel about this so far awesome yeah I have a weakness for black I don't know if you speak any Spanish Doka Doka thought and we and Mosul I don't know what you said but it was due the day is going awesome I couldn't be happier I actually have a little surprise for you actually have salsa dancing up there be serious I love salsa totally relieved that she still wants to hang out with me and continue the day so uh I can't wait start dancing I can't wait your forward on back a lot of bumpin on the floor she kissed me she made it easy for me took the nerve right out of the equation I'm no longer first time first aider or first time first kisser you're good huh I wasn't brat it was great it was the best first date ever see it yeah absolutely favor man don't touch your ass with your foot no mo here when I saw you doing I will the hell is he doing it it actually looks like you stepping out your own ass I Love You Man but do you know what that moment actually broke the ice definitely y'all want to meet branch date please welcome Christina ready bread Christina hi how are you I'm doing great how are you how do you think the date went it was pretty incredible absolutely one of the best first dates I've ever been on early Wow it was just like so much fun you know like I love to salsa dance so I got to teach him a little bit of that and the food was amazing and the company was even better you know something bread is actually a lot that a lot of guys who've been dating for a while could actually learn from you but if you go out on the first date man if you don't apply the pressure you just have a nice time treat her like a lady that could be the best time for both of you the better time she has the better time you'll have now let me ask you guys so you think you might go out again so we actually went out a couple times after that out of that you've been doing you've been out a couple times since surprise so if we send you out again what date would it be number 4b can watch tell you what once you get on the bike you show go fast you took the training wheels off yeah look it's been that a whole time man you just needed to meet a really nice lady she needed to meet a really nice guy and so we're gonna send you out on another date whichever one this it was we got to go and see date number 18 then we'll see how that would thank you both

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Length: 14min 27sec (867 seconds)

Published: Fri Apr 25 2014