SECRET KEYS TO NEVER GET A BREAKUP IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP - DR MYLES MUNROE | MUST WATCH!

now what when love is not working you told me this last time then what happens is someone's needs are not being met and ladies ships are broken down when one with those needs from another as some people fall apart if you feel that you had a broken heart or someone doesn't love you anymore what you simply saying is they are not meeting the list anymore when someone got stopped calling you I need to call you every night is for calling you you you know what they're doing is not giving you attention anymore one thing on the list goes wrong secondly there are including you anymore so you ever been in love with somebody and then they they choked you that's the word joke yeah they showed you and then you see them up with someone else how you feel I know some of y'all never had a problem because some of you have a perfect love all true but they're few of us who had that guy's a little boy in binge on having a girlfriend somebody never girlfriends I know but you're five years old you know you know we ain't no we talked about this like you know sudden she said in the class or someone else boy listen if you like picking up something killing somebody five years old what you doing okay that feeling you feel when you see that is this exclusion you're not included anymore in this circle that's what hurts and guess what you need to feel included that's why it's important to love yourself in case people to include you include yourself in your own circle I love me yeah okay rejection is the process the procurer of love let me put it another way write this down rejection cannot devalue you if you know where you are here's another one you must remember rejection will measure yourself love if you love yourself will be measured by what happens when people reject you some folks can eat no more they can't sleep they they just quit they even side my foursome eat too much after that they get upset because they can't go to work that's a sign that you are madly hating yourself if people reject you and you keep on moving that's a good sign that you have a healthy self love boy you know and the closing a few minutes I wanna show you something look at John a boy your Bible look at John I'll show some when I was 16 years when I read this I became a free man this is Myles Munroe 16 year old deliverance John chapter 2 hey one turn there this is deep stuff here 16 years old I'm reading the Bible through for the fifth time but cover the cover I'm just one verse stuck in my I never I was 16 years old when I saw this and I became free from all your 360 I never became a victim of people since here it is you gotta read this this is good stuff John chapter 2 verse 23 now while Jesus was in Jerusalem at the Passover Feast many Bohemians saw oh sorry people yeah many people saw the miraculous signs he was doing and they believed in me his name he got a lot of fans all right good in other ways people see your hairstyle they see your money they see your your position in the classroom they see and they attracted to hoo-wee he's wonderful she who they see they see your business going well whew they seem to have never the money they go hey buddy come on you they love support you and they see things watch Jesus it says but Jesus would not trust a single one of them see that he would not entrust himself then why he knew what was in every human y'all saying love me today and leave me tomorrow so let me love myself just in case you leave that's what this place is about right here I was 60 minute it set me free look at that for he knew Azure man he did not need man's affirmation wow he did not need man's testimony you know you good you know you grew I don't need to tell me I'm good read that he didn't need no man's testimony about him because he knew what was in human nature you tell me a lovely day crucify me tomorrow so let me love myself and protect myself I like what Paul says when Paul says encourage yourself in the Lord sometimes unifying no one did encourage you so stand the mirror and talk to yourself you're good-looking thing you you you're cute you're gonna make it through this problem mm-hmm you and I are they gonna be okay and then go to bed if you need other people to feel important you are wrecked you have this clear understanding of yourself love now let me just close with this one I want to talk about this year I want to get to this room this is good stuff here the most dangerous reason for love this is what I won't get it write this down if someone tell you they love you please write this down please everybody that's gonna protect you for the next 20 years if someone tells you they love you that's fine but here's the way you kill love I call it the death sentence of love every time someone tells you they love you watch for a word a list of words because the question is why they love you now if they ever tell you why they love you they just killed it please get this CD I'll say it again if anyone ever tells you why they love you the love just died for me please send me these please don't get this wrong I'm gonna say it again if someone tells you they love you ask them why if they answer that question you are in trouble write a list down number one first question answer this I love you because if they use the word because run I am not kidding this is dangerous stuff number two the answer I love you if run love is about to die number three I love you when run beep so time I just love you when you and then they fill in the blank question is what they gonna do when you don't do it number four I love you whenever I just love you whenever you will address what happened when I ain't get the dress on I love the way you pick me up on time every time gonna pick me up what happened listen never use these words you're about to kill it it's another one number five I love you every time you go that's dangerous stuff what happened when they don't that one time another one that's dangerous I love you as long as you and I fill in the blank dangerous stuff here's another one I just love the way you what happened when I don't do it that way here's another one I just love you're here Stan I just love your suit I love your physique your six-pack let me tell you something this list is what's causing you all your heartache you know you love a person because of anything or if they did something or whenever didn't something that thing is gonna change you first met her 36 21 34 five years two babies sixty all the way stop using your imagination okay yeah there he is man he's an athlete ran and Olympics that's my man that's my athlete muscle six-pack back page newspaper sports section that's my man no problem and so you get married to this image on your way from the wedding accident bomb paralyzed from neck down wheelchair you gotta push it now for the next 80 years your life so you still in love it what you gonna do when her breast hits her lap oh I'm coming off no worry we go right in a minute but I'm coming home we got this idea catch a catch a metaphor no Posse to get it home right away what you gonna do around his chest falling his belly he know pregnant if it back up you gotta sleep with that belly what you're gonna do what you're gonna do around that head of here flies away my question is what do you love what do you love some of you got married the guys you know I'm talking see it every day they know they love you you look nice they run after you you get married you had their baby their baby you had their baby all ten of them he put weight on you and then called you fat you should stop him then bring him to me let me finish it off if this guy in love you he loved this image and this what he does afterwards so you get a little bit plump from his ten babies and now he go outside looking for this image again he don't love you he loved this image and the image will change if they ever tell you why you're in trouble because the Y will become your prison you spend their life trying to keep the Y that's why some people get problems sick me some trouble disease if the pressure your wife says you look funny he was never in 20 years when I married you it wasn't that way 20 years ago what were you talking about so now yet you are getting 5 a.m. in the morning running down all dressed killing killing yourself you won't eat lobster she got even carriage what's the pressure for man she don't like the stomach all right let me give you some some clear instructions young man isn't this man okay if you did you think you love someone and you might marry them you think that okay okay yes I want you to do find their parents look at them you can sleep with that crap at that level that's it don't walk around with no funny ideas that's what you just get that's your future right there that's your mama that's your mama that man that's him right there daddy that's yeah that's the husband ready in 20 years that's him Paul head eye or bag in everything stomaching in lab I said don't walk around thing you think of straight away it is get rid of the reasons look at your future marry it you will not be the same way in 20 years okay here's the conclusion no matter write this down true love has no reason and that's it whoever there's a reason you can't have love anymore God never tells us why he loves us he simply says God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son the only thing we know but God's love is so so is all we know God never tells us why he loves listen carefully now I have read the Bible through four years there's nowhere in scripture from Genesis to the maps where God ever tells us why he loves us never told us because because we ever told us why he loved us we got to keep the why so he never tells us and then he says you love the way I love you no reason here's why it's important not a reason whoever there's reason there's a condition I love your long here but you better never cut it I love your chest you better never let it drop I love this shape you better keep that shape for every the rest of your life I love the way you got this nice job you take him in don't you ever get laid off or get fired see any recent creates the problem now so I'm gonna marry you because you had a good business things going fine are they still the same way when you lose your business whoever the second reason there's a condition and the condition leads to what expectation and this is where problems start and relationships when you disappoint someone's expectation tension arrives so if you want to get rid of expectation get rid of what conditioned expectation leads to disappointment you can now be disappointed if you don't expect something so the best way to protect yourself in disappointment is to reduce your expectation to zero I still after 30 years of marriage don't expect my wife to cook don't expect further I and my clothing I don't I am ready to iron any day I am ready to cook for myself any time so every time she does it I have to say thank you because I don't expect all disappointments come from expectations so if you're tired being disappointed stop expected and the way you reduce expectation is to remove conditions disappointments lead to division division leads to divorce divorce leads to death of a relationship so what kill the relationship number one the reason that's why I told you once you get a reason it's finished you'd love people because they have a good job let me tell you something you'd better get rid of that now love them for no reason at all because that job will go away that business will go through tough times whoever there is a broken relationship death then there's dysfunction in the family what child works dysfunctional families produce social decay kind of family falls apart and I get kids under stress you get criminals being created in the community you got problems of gangs and kids out under schools getting the warm stuff from one reason at the top and when there's social decay then you get community destruction the society starts falling apart a society falls apart you end up with a whole nation in trouble all because there was a reason for your love so here's your assignment for the rest of your life make a list of all the reasons you love people write it on paper include your spouse make a whole list and then I want you to dig a hole in the back of your yard I'm serious about this I did this years ago before I got married to my wife take that list and have a ceremony get a match take the whole lay hands on the list and say Lord removed this from me I cancelled this list in the name of Jesus burn it buried ashes in the hole covered because long that list exists the person you are lady relationship to is in trouble true love has no reason if I love you for no reason there's nothing you can do to stop me from loving you comprende say it again if I love you for no reason there's nothing you can do to stop me from god therefore loves you for no reason so sinning doesn't stop God from loving you matter of fact God says even while you were yet sinners Christ died for you he don't love you because you are good or because you're obedient he has no reason it's so ought you to love one another let's pray father forgive us for all of our lists remove our list today help us to be honest and help us today Lord to love without a reason to love alone dissemination to mother not expectation teach us how to do that father we give you praise let love be shed abroad in our hearts today by your Holy Spirit those who don't know he was the Lord Savior let them come to your love you don't want them to change to come you love them just the way they are and then come and receive grace those who have been struggling with rejection and hatred and feeling abuse Lord let their forgiveness go toward the person who hurt them and let them love another reason and let that love bring healing to their hearts as well forgive us father for offending other people help us to go to them make it right so we could have our prayers answered in the name of Jesus amen [Music] you hi thank you so much for watching please remember you can support our work on our patreon page and you get access to exclusive content and full videos and please hit that subscribe button if you haven't done so and click the notification Bell to be the first to receive newer content please don't forget to like and share this video with your friends to be a blessing to them [Music]

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Length: 17min 25sec (1045 seconds)

Published: Mon Jun 03 2019