r/Trueoffmychest My Husband is a LITERAL PSYCOPATH

welcome to R true off my chest where op discovers that her husband is a literal psychopath our next Reddit post is from okay willingness I've known my husband who's 27 since I was eight when he moved in across the street he was like an older brother to my twin brother and me because we had no other siblings my dad was gone a lot because he was a lineman the only person I really had was my mom I was kind of rebellious as a teen and I'd sneak out all the time at the time I never had a boyfriend because everyone was afraid of my brother when I was 15 I snuck out and went to a party I don't remember what happened that night but I woke up in the back seat of my car covered in a blanket and my jacket over my head I was hurting and confused but I continued with life as normal a few months after that I went to the school nurse because I wasn't feeling well and she gave me a pregnancy test and I told her that was impossible because I didn't didn't even have a boyfriend the test was positive and I cried because I don't remember ever doing anything like that they called my mom and the nurse told me to tell my mom because the nurse felt like she shouldn't be the one to tell her I told my mom that I was pregnant but I've never done anything to have a baby my mom took me to a doctor and they told her that I was too far along to abort they told me how far along I was and I told my mom about how I woke up in the back seat of my car that one day I had my daughter a few months later and she looked exactly like me my green blue eyes my blonde curly hair and she even had my full lips we weren't dating at the time but my now husband started to come over more after my daughter was born and he was so good with her so I started to see him as more than a friend he bought her clothes shoes and toys and he made sure that she had everything she needed even though he was a college student when my daughter was around three we started to date we dated for like six months before he asked me to marry him at his graduation party we got married four months after that and I got pregnant with our first son soon after everything was perfect but as my daughter grew I noticed how much she started looking more like my husband oh no oh no my husband always says that she's his daughter not his stepdaughter and he would get mad if someone tried to correct him oh no oh no I thought it was sweet that he was protecting her from not knowing who her father was I recently did a DNA test to see if my gut was right it turns out my husband is my daughter's father oh my God I don't know what to do I don't even know what happened if I ask him if he remembers how will he react he's always been so loving and care airing he told me I was his dream girl and he'd give me the entire world if he could it's been a week since I got the test results and I haven't said anything my life is so perfect that I don't even want to ask about it okay op adds an update I told my husband that my father's daughter doesn't want to be in her life and he left it at that my mom told me to tell people that so it doesn't seem like I was sleeping around me and my husband didn't have intercourse while we were dating his family is really religious so he told me that he saved himself for marriage and didn't believe in giving his body to someone he didn't love his mom was against us getting married because I had a child but she eventually came around the time that I woke up in my back seat wasn't the first time that happened but I stopped going to the parties after the time that I woke up sore I called him a few minutes ago and asked him why he insists on telling people that he's my daughter's father and he told me that he's been there since she was a baby and even if her father decides to come back into her life she will still be his daughter he's already off work and is hitting home okay my guess as to what's Happening Here Opie doesn't mention alcohol at all and I think that if op we're drinking to the point that she got blackout drunk she would know that she would know that it was because she you know got super drunk but she didn't mention it which makes me think what happened here is that this guy drugged her party after party after party but he couldn't build up the courage to go all the way with her passed out body but then one day he did build up the courage and that's when she woke up sore so um I think this was super premeditated this guy has been doing this to her for who knows how long months I guess before he finally did the deed also Opie clarifies that her husband is two and a half years older than her so if she was 15 then he would have been 17 and a half then Opie posted another update we sat down and talked and I asked my husband if he remembers the last party that I went to in high school and he said not really he said that he remembers waking up on the bathroom floor of his friend's guest room and I was in the bed and when he tried to wake me up I told him to leave me alone he said that he didn't want to leave me in some random friend's house so he carried me home I asked him if he remembers what I was wearing and what he was wearing he said that he thinks that I was wearing a dress or something he asked me why I was asking all these questions I told him that I was trying to figure out something and that this would help me and he said okay I again asked what he was wearing he said that he vaguely remembers asking his friend for some pants because he had vomit on his I asked him if he knows who the father of my daughter is and he said no I guess the guy who got you to stop partying and I said that there was no guy I said that I stopped because I was kind of scared since I didn't remember that night and he said that a lot of people at that party didn't remember after and he was one of them I told him that I didn't remember who my daughter's father is and it happened at that party he seemed surprised and he hugged me because I looked like I was going to cry he offered to take a paternity test and that he's pretty sure that he's not my daughter's biological father so he's scheduling one tomorrow what okay um look this guy's okay Opie oh gosh op um down in the comments everyone is saying this is above reddit's pay grade and don't let random people on the internet decide your life for you oh man I'm not going to take the easy way out on this op what this guy did to you okay this guy's a psychopath he's an actual clinical psychopath he basically saw something that he wants you and decided I'll just take it no big deal I'll just take it this guy performed acts so vile I can't even say the word on YouTube and then he trapped you he manipulated you and gaslit you into raising his child so he could go off and go to college enjoy his college days going to parties and drinking with friends and getting the education that he feels that he deserves while you raise his kid I'm pretty sure he drugged you on top of all this consistently Time After Time After Time unless you really did get blackout drunk but if you did get blackout drunk did he keep taking you to the car over and over and I guess one time no I think it's drugs I think he drugged you I'm very confident that this DNA test that he's agreeing to is gonna get scammed or something's gonna go wrong or he's going to give you a fake sample or he's going to intercept the letter or something to oh man this guy's pissing me off op you need to um you need to remove yourself from the situation in my opinion this guy is proven let me put it to you this way okay your husband has proven himself to be an r word IST a pathological liar an incredibly selfish worst of all he's doing these things to the person that he claims to love so I have to ask you is this the type of person that you want around your daughter and your son because if it were me that's a very clear crystal cut no absolutely not because if he's willing to do this to me then who knows what he's willing to do to my kids people in the comments are saying that you need therapy and I do agree that you need therapy but more important than that you need to run you need to take your kids get a lawyer get to a woman shelter go to the cops something you need to remove this man from your life because he is he's dangerous he's extremely dangerous like you say that your life is perfect and he's being a loving a loving husband and father no he's not he's he literally isn't there was no oh I don't really know what happened that night could have been anybody it could have been anything no this guy knows exactly what he did exactly he probably planned it from the beginning like apparently this guy is so drunk that he can't remember what happened but not drunk enough that he can carry you to a truck change her clothes and impregnate you Opie I want to warn you don't even try to confront this guy because I literally honestly do believe in my heart that this guy's capable of of murdering you murdering you and or the kids to hide to hide his past and to get what he wants because this guy he's a psychopath there's really no other way to say it you've married you've married a psychopath op our next Reddit post is from plaskkball our parents have been divorced since I was really young like two or three my mom had primary custody but we spent a lot of time with our dad and his side of the family too especially on holidays then at some point when I was between like seven and ten my dad started only picking me up and my sister Emily stayed behind at my mom's I don't remember if I asked why at the time I was kind of an oblivious butthole kid who only cared about video games and Emily and I didn't get along at that age so I didn't question it over time I found out that this was because Emily did something that upset the adults on my dad's side of the family so bad that she got banned from all of her aunts and uncles houses and our grandma told our dad to cut her off completely no one would tell me what she did but Emily had a lot of emotional and behavioral problems at the time so I figured that it was one of her Tantrums or stunts at school that finally broke the camel's back so to speak Emily hasn't spoken to our dad or anyone from his family in at least 15 years and her relationship with our mom never recovered from whatever happened back then either so until I started getting more mature and making an effort to fix my relationship with my sister she didn't really have anyone that showed her any family affection a few years ago I started to notice that Emily would get depressed whenever she knows that I'm going to see our dad's side of the family especially on holidays so I tried to do the hero brother thing and facilitate a Reconciliation it did not work out dad grandma and anyone else in the family I approached about Emily said there's no coming back from her actions but when I asked what that was they all got uncomfortable and said that it wasn't for them to tell me I took that to mean that I should ask Emily herself so I did but she got really upset and wouldn't tell me because it was too humiliating finally I gave up and asked Mom which ended badly to say the least this past Sunday was Easter and I went to my grandma's house on my dad's side for the usual big family supper I try not to mention anything when I go to Family Function so as to not try to make Emily feel worse but she's not stupid she knows what goes on during the holidays I decided to dip out early and surprise Emily with a drive to Dairy Queen but when I got home I heard her crying in the living room like I can't even describe it but she obviously thought that she was alone in the house or she would have never cried like that the sound straight up punched me in the guts I didn't want to embarrass her so I left again and texted her from my car saying that I'd be home in 20 minutes so I went and got some ice cream for us and came back she wasn't crying when I got back but it was obvious that she was before she mentioned that she came across some old family photos on her laptop and got kind of emotional I'm feeling like a pretty terrible brother right now to say the least my gut reaction is that no matter what Emily did she was only a kid when she did it and therefore cutting her off from our family was Overkill and I should be supporting her a hundred percent instead of playing happy families on both sides but at the same time I can't bring myself to ditch my dad's family and make myself an outcast too because they've always loved and supported me family drama sucks man I miss being the little self-centered butthole who had no clue any of this was going on alright down in the comments I'm going to read this reply from Delilah pixie Rose because this is exactly what I was thinking have you ever considered that maybe something happened to Emily and maybe she told an adult and was disbelieved and then banished because they didn't believe her yeah that's exactly what I was thinking I really try to come up with a justifiable reason to cut a 13 year old out of your life and the only thing that came kind of close to it was one if they had a drug addiction which seems really unlikely at the age of 13 and two of they literally tried to murder someone they just went completely crazy and you know tried to burn the house down with everyone inside but in both of those scenarios the solution isn't to just stop talking to them the solution is to get them professional help you know because she's your daughter and you love her really how angry can you be at a 13 year old well Opie said that it was between 7 and 10 so she could have been as young as Tim how responsible can a 10 year old really be for her own actions so my guess op is that someone on your dad's side of the family did something unspeakable to Emily then when Emily tried to blow the whistle they banished her because it's embarrassing to the family whatever the caseop um people might disagree with me but I personally think that you're entitled to know what's going on here like yeah it's technically not your business because it's between them and your sister but at the same time you've got relationships with both these people so and you're related to all of them so it's reasonable I think for you to expect to understand what's going on and the fact that they're hiding it from you is kind of weird so I would try to get to the bottom of this op but I'm 99 sure that whatever the truth is Emily is not to blame here how can a 10 11 12 13 year old possibly be responsible for such a heinous crime you know like I don't think she tried to burn the house down with everyone in it or was addicted to Crazy drugs because you know she grew up to be an okay person Opie's not saying her her life is a mess he just says that she's kind of depressed and I want to be super clear because I don't want people to Dogpile me even if that were the case it's still not appropriate to ban a 13 year old from your life because they're 13 man they need your help not your scorn that was our slash true off my chest and if you like this content check out my podcast where I publish the exact same episodes also hit that subscribe button because I put out new Reddit videos every single day

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Published: Sun May 14 2023