r/NuclearRevenge - I Served My Cheating Wife Divorce Papers on Christmas Day! - #468

hello and welcome back to another kcc video i'm rob and today we'll be jumping into nuclear revenge before we start please hit that subscribe button and click the notification bell so you know when the next video goes live our story today comes to us from kermit d-frog fooled my cheating soon-to-be ex-wife into thinking i was cheating then thermo nuclear shinobi ghosted and served her christmas day let's jump right in i hope you've got some time and a snack because this one is going to be super long as the events that follow span from late 2019 to last week as per the rules all names are altered herein okay so here's the story my soon-to-be ex-wife was my high school sweetheart we started dating in 1992 when we were both 17. we're both 45 now and have been together ever since she's the only woman i've ever been with my entire life we married five years later at 22 fresh out of college a year later we had our first of two children both boys 22 and 17. 23 years i gave to her built her a house worked my butt off to give her the life she wanted sure we had rough patches but what marriage doesn't even in the worst of times we found a way to pull through and come out the other side better which made the discovery of her affair that much more jarring flashback to march 2020 when i first got the feeling something was off for a good two months prior we were in a funk i was on the mend from reconstructive knee surgery blew out my acl fall of 2019 but still lacking in movement at the time i only had about 55 range of motion on my knee this took a toll on quite a lot in the house i was out on workers comp as i had been injured on the job and i was unable to do my usual household duties so a lot got backed up my sons would do what they could but tasks only i was capable of doing had to be put on the back burner or my wife had to do which she wasn't pleased with things also crawled to a standstill in the bedroom between us it had already slowed down prior to my injury but in the state i was in at the time it completely stopped during these months she will call her sue was spending more time hanging with co-workers after work between november 2019 to march 2020 it was a regular occurrence for her naturally i thought nothing of it i've never in the 23 years i'd been with her had any reason to worry or not trust her she has her friends i have mine and we have mutual i'd go hang out with my friends all the time and there was no issue it was all above board it was around january of this year that i noticed something odd sue started getting noticeably distant with me sure we were in a funk but she'd never deny me affection to that point the usual hugs and kisses she'd give me came to a halt her phone was attached to her hand long before my suspicion grew but she'd always share and show me things she discovered on the web diy ideas and recipes on pinterest memes all kinds of stuff but she was now being guarded about her phone even her interactions with me became more snippy as if she couldn't be bothered so we're now in march covet has arrived and new york city is locked down our chosen careers fall under the essential designation so neither of us have to work from home i'd just been recently cleared to return to work after five months on the shelf and i was eager to get back after it as five months on my butt rehabbing my knee and not being able to do physical stuff drove me nuts for context i enjoy physical activities i'm an avid martial artist and i'm typically in the gym four days a week on top of all the home projects i did within a week or two of the lockdown my soon-to-be ex-wife alerts me that she's going to have to start putting in extra hours again i think nothing of this because of her field of course i was under the assumption it'd be every other day but no it was every day and not just an hour or two she'd come home three or more hours later and go straight to the shower spend a little time with me a little time with our 17 year old 22 year old lives with his girlfriend across town and then go to bed as i'm able to support myself on my knee better we started getting intimate again but as you'd probably guess she wasn't mentally or emotionally present for it which i noticed quickly so by april the picture started getting clearer to me all the signs were pointing to the idea that she was having an affair that's when i decided i needed to find answers so i scoured the internet on things i should be looking for signs of infidelity in one's partner and sure enough she was pretty much taking all of the boxes on such behavior so then my search inquiry advanced to how i find proof i started with her social media looking at her facebook entries from months prior it's pretty much the usual pics of us and our sons picks with her and her friends and more than a few pics of her nights out with co-workers in these pics it's a mixed bag of her closest friends from work and a couple folk i've never met from her work but i see one recurring thing in a number of these pics one guy in every picture he's in he's rather uncomfortably close to her his arm is around her shoulder or his hand on her lower back way too close for a guy i've never personally met needless to say that put a sour taste in my mouth but that wasn't the worst of it no no no the worst was the fact that apparently this dude is a friend of hers on facebook and follows her on instagram so i go to look up his facebook account and wouldn't you know it i'm blocked why the hell am i blocked from seeing this guy's facebook account but he's friends with her on facebook yep now i'm in batman detective mode at this point i wasn't even trying to deny it i knew she was cheating on me with this guy my mission was to find out for how long and over the course of april and may that's what i did oh i never had any clue the depth of info you could secure from phone text and email records up until then we have a family plan cell phone package and i was able to pull up quite a bit of data my soon to be ex-wife's data history was telling the two most frequent numbers she had interacted with from october 2019 to april 2020 was my own and a number i'd never seen before take a wild guess whose number it was a quick check on google and i confirmed it was the dude from the photos who blocked me on facebook we'll call him pos because that's what he is again the picture becomes even clearer at this point but a lot of their messages and texts were just jointed she was deleting a lot of them i knew she was cheating on me with this guy but nothing in the data could serve as a smoking gun i needed more evidence it's at this point that i tell my best friend oz what i had found he asked me did i confront her with what i had and i said no because i felt like it wasn't enough that's when he told me about an app that i could download to apparently spy on her communications in real time i won't say the name as i don't know the rules of that on here i got it installed sync up my data plan and waited within days of doing so i finally saw it a text string between the two of them talking about how much fun they'd had the previous night and making plans to do it again that weekend boom gut punch to say i was completely devastated was an understatement i guess that moment counts as my d-day and for the next two days after i was just broken i actively distanced myself from her those two days immediately after d-day which she was noticeably shaking by she tried to console me and ask me what was wrong but i'd brush it off and leave her presents i couldn't even look at her this woman who i gave 23 years of my life to who i have given everything i could and more to as a husband and she stepped outside our marriage for a guy just five years older than our eldest son by the third day i wasn't even sad anymore i was pissed i contacted oz to let him know my suspicion was confirmed and he asked me had i confronted her yet my answer was no and i told him i wanted payback i didn't want to just divorce her i wanted to destroy her and i wanted to leave her life in shambles and effing ruin her it was going to take time to do so and i devised a plan in my readings and research on infidelity i had seen a quote that resonated with me that went the enemy of infidelity is unpredictability or something to that ilk that was going to be the basis of my plan i was going to make her life hell on wheels well also secretly planning my exit strategy so now we're in early june and i've still got the app installed pretty much every night i'm gathering as much data as i can seeing their back and forth messages they're talking like it's a full-blown relationship they're in sexting lovey-dovey romantic stuff nudes the whole effing bag at that point i had stopped looking at any of it i was just collecting info and cataloging on my private fps server meanwhile i started doing things out of the ordinary i started going out at odd times i started coming home even later than she does in her presence i'm on my phone a lot more than usual and when she asks what are you up to i just simply say just stuff and put my phone away i'd also changed my login info on everything so she couldn't access any of my stuff mind you for our entire marriage we'd never hid anything from each other but right around i'm assuming the start of her affair she'd changed her password on facebook as well as on her phone stating she had to because of the security breaches in recent months yeah really nice cover for hiding your affair from your husband anyway i'd clued oz in on my plan as well as telling my older and only sister and two more of my closest friends what was going on these are people i trust with my life and i swore them to secrecy for context oz and i have been friends since we were kids the other of our friends joey and nina we've known since high school make note of nina she comes into play down the road july comes and my soon-to-be ex-wife is in full paranoia mode she's texting and calling me a lot more frequently now asking me if i'm going to be home when she gets home when am i coming home while she is and i'm not asking me what am i up to the works i can see the seed planted in her head the month prior is starting to sprout especially in her communication with pos she's confiding in him her doubt and confusion telling him that i'm getting cold and distant the effing nerve of this woman in the interim of these interactions with pos she suggests that maybe they should stop meeting up at our house because she has no idea if i'd just show up confirming that yes she'd had this f-wod in my home thanks sue pos asks her in that specific communication was she worried about me potentially cheating on her which actually pissed her off i can't even begin to describe the level of joy and how many laughs i got out of reading that exchange my cheating wife arguing with her affair partner over if she's mad her husband could be cheating on her oh the effing irony now bear in mind i'm not hooking up with anyone when i leave i'm usually at oz or joey's throwing back some booze watching fights and spending time with my bros or at my big sister's house hanging around with her and my brother-in-law who's like an older brother to me my sis is 52 and her hubby is 58 she had told him about my soon-to-be ex-wife's infidelity but not of my plan couldn't risk it as he's a bit of a blabbermouth we'll fast forward now to october that's when things seriously pick up i've been in my faux affair for three months now and sue is hyper aware of the fact that i'm actively pulling away from her it's been as long as the day i enacted my plan until the day she confronted me october 20th 2020 that i'd even touched her no hugs no kisses no initiation of intimacy nothing not like she needed it she was still effing pos just at his place or at motels so that afternoon she calls me at work which wasn't rare before all this began but certainly hadn't happened in a while and asks me to come straight home after work saying she had something important to tell me i'm not going to lie to you all i half believed she was going to come clean about her infidelity but she of course didn't instead i get home to her asking me was i unhappy with her the effing nerve she cites the fact that i've been spending way too much time away from home i don't show her affection anymore and our sex life has completely died she tells me she's worried i'm pushing her away because i was resentful of how she treated me the months i was rehabbing my knee and then came the punchline she effing asked if i was cheating on her folks i fell out on the floor laughing hysterically and when i say hysterically i mean joker laughing gas hysterical on the surface it looked like to her assuming it was me laughing off the notion of being unfaithful but it was of course actually me laughing at the sheer irony of what was happening in front of my eyes i'm tearing up pounding on the floor in complete hysterics for a good two minutes before i compose myself enough to answer i sit up and look her in the eyes for the first time in months shaking my head but i don't give her an answer i stand up brush myself off kiss the top of her head and go about settling in for the night later that night as i'm in my office i decide you know what given the brevity of what happened i wanted to see what she was telling him so i fire up the app and sure enough they're actually texting in real time she tells pos i know he's cheating on me i asked him tonight and he literally laughed in my face he fell on the floor and laughed for like five minutes it wasn't five minutes obviously he doesn't even care how i feel anymore i don't know how or why but he's gone i know i've lost him this is karma i know it the smile i had on my face reading that must have resembled the cheshire cat she was breaking pos attempted to console her saying that if i cared enough for her she wouldn't have had come to him to give her what i wasn't giving her but the tone of her response told me she was having doubt now she had the nerve to step out of our marriage because i was unable to fill my role as a husband due to legitimate injury and kept the affair going for at that point nearly an entire year but the idea of her losing me to another woman was enough to make her waiver what an effing weakling now during all of this i was also exacting the second part of my plan for payback getting all of my affairs in order financially in september i had met with a family attorney to get the ball rolling on divorce papers with the mountain of evidence i'd piled up to that point new york is an at-fault state as far as divorce and the overwhelming amount of proof i'd gathered displaying sue's infidelity pretty much solidified i could nail her to the effing wall in a divorce case my lawyer instructed me to get all of my financials in order in preparation for whatever division of assets might come as a result i went one better than that secretly pulling all of my money out of our joint account and putting it in my personal account i also started shopping around for an apartment as part of phase two we're now in november and i've not changed my behavior in fact i've ramped it up this is where my friend nina comes into play for context nina and sue have never been what you call close i met nina freshman year of high school two years before i met sue even way back then sue has seen nina as a threat as she's my closest female friend there's always been an implied i don't trust her from sue regarding nina she's never addressed it directly but it's obvious to anyone who pays attention conversely nina's never been a big fan of sue early in me and sue's relationship nina called to attention to me how sue was pretty much imposing herself into our little square of friends whereas i didn't do the same with sue's set of friends that irked nina because she knew why sue was doing it her among sue's circle even now there are no male friends aside from pos whereas nina is the only girl in my square nina had been stuck overseas due to the virus and finally returned to new york city on november 3rd oz joey and i decided we were going to celebrate her return with a night at joey's house for dinner and drinks there was only five of us oz joey joey's wife who is also nina's sister nina and myself sticking to cdc guidelines we take the rhona very seriously nina being the evil mastermind she is comes up with an evil idea to trigger sue she suggested we take some photos in the same vein of the photos i discovered of sue and pos months prior and post them to my facebook and that's just what we did it wasn't until the 5th that sue got wind of it as i'm guessing a few friends noticed my updates and saw how uncomfortably close i was with nina this really aft her mind up because she still believed i was cheating and i can almost guarantee she wanted to accuse nina but she knew that nina had been stuck in europe for the majority of the year still didn't stop her from attempting to dress me down that night for being so as she said handsy in the pics i saw this as a golden opportunity to deliver the lead jab for my knockout blow i say so what about the pics with you and pos from last year he was pretty handsy in them but did you see me get bent out of shape over it dear in headlights it was the first time i even mentioned the dude's name throughout all of this the hamster wheel in her head started reeling in real time as she tried to explain away those pics to that point she hadn't even known i saw them that's how little i use facebook when i actually do post something it's like an event to people which is why the pics with nina specifically got so much traction among our circles and explain a way she did he's that way with everyone he's just a really friendly guy i can see how it looks but there's nothing there i'm sorry if those pics hurt you i'll delete them no no the pics aren't what hurt me the year you've been effing the dude whilst lying to me that you're working extra hours and hanging with friends is what hurt me but vengeance as lieutenant commander wharf from star trek the next generation so famously said is a dish best served cold from that night sue was being extra specially clingy and attentive to me like annoyingly so she's trying to initiate affection and intimacy with me and i'd stonewall her at every chance all the while i'm still archiving everything she's saying to pos mind you by this point i'd long since gone numb any desire i might have had to save my marriage was dead i checked out the day i enacted the first phase of my plan she's confiding in him that i've gotten worse that she doesn't know what to do and she feels like i absolutely hate her i do then comes the bombshell she says she can't see him anymore the guilt is too much for her and she feels like karma is suffocating her she can't risk losing me she says that she loves pos deeply but she's still in love with me and she has to save her marriage before she loses me no my dear you're about eight months too late for that pos loses his [ __ ] saying such lovely things as he doesn't love you the way i love you and you're making a mistake you can't just throw me away like this that text chain would be the last they'd have until about three weeks ago throughout the remainder of november into december sue is stuck in limbo she's trying to gauge where my headspace is and is still unable to tell if i'm actually being unfaithful meanwhile pos is steadily blowing her phone up daily but she's not responding to him i'd see her check her phone often then quickly put it away meanwhile phase two of the plan was now officially complete the divorce papers were done i'd found me a studio apartment in co-op city new yorkers will know the area and signed a two-year lease on it all of my money was in my personal account i was ready to throw my haymaker so we're now at thanksgiving my oldest and his girlfriend were hosting a small gathering of our immediate families so them her parents parents myself sue and our youngest we have a great night my oldest girlfriend is studying to be a chef and she did all the cooking herself the girl can effing cook let me tell ya as i had to keep up appearances of nothing being wrong between sue and i i initiated affection with her several times that evening kisses on the cheek cute little hugs wrapping my arms around her shoulders from behind the gestures didn't go unnoticed by her as she reveled in it bear in mind this was the first time i touched this woman since i kissed the top of her head the night she confronted me in october so just about two months not gonna lie i felt repulsed doing it but i had to i couldn't risk the plan and me being distant to her in the face of my boys my oldest girlfriend and her parents would set off alarms so my youngest decides he wants to stay over with his big bro for the night so sue and i head home on the drive home she thanks me for being so good to her and says i don't know what you're going through baby but i'm here for you i had to hold off busting out in maniacal laughter again and responded saying i know i just need time so for the first time realistically since springtime we had sex that night i figured f it with what i'm about to do may as well get some action before i delete her from my existence i won't go into detail but it wasn't love making when i was finished she was a lump of flesh laying there trying to figure out the direction of the truck that ran her over no cuddling or anything after i just got up showered and went to go to sleep in my office to her confusion though i used a condom first time two damn decades i did she was definitely perplexed by it but she didn't ask questions sure as hell wasn't going in raw knowing that she'd been doing so with pos for months at that point i wake up the next day and check my handy dandy spy app and for the first time in weeks she responded to pos dude went full novella he professed his love for her said she was wasting her time trying to rekindle a flame in me that died that she'd been in a prison with me for 23 years and deserved to experience the love and affection of a man who would cherish her mind you this dude is 27 effing years old five years older than our oldest son and he's that sprung on a 45 year old married mother of two what a grade a high quality simp she chose to blow up our marriage and destroy the home we'd built for this dude pretty boy with a soft side she responded saying pretty much the same thing she said when they last talked that she loves him and enjoyed their time together but she can't lose me i'm still the love of her life but she'll always have a place for him in her heart that they can still be friends if he chooses but the physical relationship between them is over he begged her to see him one last time that week and yep you guessed it she said yes one more for the road right who am i to say anything that's what i did to her the previous night of course i added all of that to the archive i'd compiled december 4th is when phase 3 the final phase of operation shinobi ghost started the divorce papers were in hand my new place of residence was set up now i had to slowly start moving my stuff out of the house but first i had to break the news to my boys i called my oldest to the house that friday night had them join me in my office and laid everything on the table not the specifics but that their mother had been cheating on me for over a year and i was going to be filing for divorce soon my 17 year old was especially shaken up by this because he himself had recently experienced his first taste of infidelity yep his first girlfriend had cheated on him just four months prior seeing his broken heart a second time at the idea that his own mother was capable of doing this hit him hard my oldest took it a lot better and suggested taking his brother in to live with him until this blows over to which i agreed we packed up some of his stuff and he asked me was i gonna be okay i told him yes son i'm going to be all right and so are you we're going to be all right i promise and then they were off the hardest part was now over and it was now time to arm the nukes over the next few weeks day by day oz would help me get a little of my most sensitive stuff out of the house gave him a list of all the definite stuff to grab while sue and i were at work and left him the spare key this was all stuff sue wouldn't notice was missing unless you told her it was gone i'd also gotten a new phone and phone number and told everyone who needed to know oz joey nina my boys big sis and my mother my new contact info meanwhile i'm keeping up the rouse with sue and she's non the wiser trickling bits and pieces of affection to her just to keep her off of the trail while she's still in contact with pos not to the extent that they'd been prior but there's still an emotional thing happening the fog is faint but it's still there all the while i gather everything and i do mean everything every bit of data i've archived since i started the plan call logs texts pics emails everything and start making printouts folks i must have spent over fifteen hundred dollars on staple supplies printer ink paper binders the works and i cataloged everything in order from the beginning of the affair until that last bit two weeks ago december 16th in the binders 14 of them i then put each one in a box and gift wrapped each addressing them to various people my mother my father passed seven years ago her parents her two sisters her brother her hr department did i forget to mention pos works for the same company and there's an expressed rule against inter-company relationships because of the nature of what she does several of her friends pos and pos's parents lugged all of those efforts to the post office and shipped them all out december 16th eta for delivery december 22nd to 24th perfect so we're now at christmas eve sue comes home around the usual time no idea if she'd seen pos i'd stop tracking her on the app the 18th figured i'd gotten all the mileage i needed from it as per usual she showers hangs out with me a bit i blow her back out on the living room couch i know i'm an effing a-hole and she turns in for the night the final phase was upon me at long last the nuke i'd been arming since june was finally about to be launched in the middle of the night i woke up and wrapped up one of the three remaining binders with the divorce papers taped to the inside cover and set it on my side of the bed with a note that said merry christmas on it next to it i left my old phone in the business card of my lawyer i packed up the remainder of my most needed things enough to fill two backpacks and i left my home that i spent 23 years in for the last time that my friends was one week ago to sue i am completely off the grid gone shadow ghosted she's blocked on facebook but still hasn't blocked me for some reason so i'm keeping tabs on the fallout it's absolutely glorious my packages have reached everyone i sent them out to and sue is getting crucified her youngest sister completely dressed her down both of her parents have condemned her my mom absolutely destroyed her like holy [ __ ] i know my mom has a mean streak but the thing she called sue were uneffing holy she's been frantically trying to find out if anyone knows where i am but those that do aren't saying a word all over her facebook feed she's desperately trying to reach me because i'm guessing she knows i'm likely looking but i'm not saying an effing word to her without my lawyer present that'll be the next time i share oxygen with her she's got no way of spinning the narrative to paint me as the bad guy because i've exposed her to everyone who matters to her and from what a mutual friend who works in the same company as her says she and pos apparently are being put on administrative leave as of tomorrow so yeah chances are she'll be going into 2021 unemployed as for the final two binders well one has been turned over to my lawyer as my final bit of evidence for my impending divorce and the last one i put in my storage unit to be burned in joey's fire pit when the divorce is final do i feel guilty about this no not even in the slightest 23 years i did right by this woman i gave her the home she wanted i gave her the family she wanted i gave her the life i felt we both deserved and i loved her unconditionally never have i faltered never have i strayed never have i even entertained the notion of breaking my vows when an issue came up that i felt was affecting our marriage i came to her and told her and we sorted it out as best we could she opted to find comfort in another man's bed rather than come to me and say she was unhappy with her sex life at the time she decided to step out with a young punk who gave her the tingles so no i have no sympathy for what i did or for her she can burn in hell for all i care the most i stand to lose is my house a car and maybe a couple hundred bucks a month in alimony but seeing as the divorce is filed under the statute of adultery and new york state is at fault that might get waved with the insurmountable amount of evidence i've provided as far as i'm concerned she's dead to me and i'm never looking back whoa what a story the hardest part of this one for opie had to be not showing his cards when he first found out i mean i can't imagine having to go as long as he did and keep it secret that he knew she was stepping out of the relationship i sincerely hope we get an update on this one and he lets us know how the divorce goes in the end thank you to op for posting this story in the nuclear revenge subreddit they are linked in the description below please go check them out check out one of these other videos and if you haven't yet please hit that subscribe button for more daily reddit stories 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