r/EntitledParents - YOU COULD'VE ENDED US...

hey everyone and welcome back to another video on the good night reddit channel and the r slash entitled parents subreddit where today an entitled parent almost kills someone and their friend and then gets livid over it which if you don't know just means angry alright so i'm starting from the very beginning so that this actually makes some sense my friend we'll call him caleb and i were hanging out one day i was browsing next door since i was looking for work like lawn mowing and babysitting and i came across a post of a lady needing two holes dug for a swing set each hole would be four inches times six inches times three feet we decided to take the job for future reference i'm 5'9 and 180 lbs i have severe asthma so i can't exactly do too much physical activity without needing an inhaler caleb is about five foot six and around 160 pounds and much more muscular than me he has no underlying health issues he's a very nice guy and not the type to yell or get angry easily the job was about two miles away from where we were so the lady will just call her jl for job lady arranged for an uber to come pick us up it was about 90 to you know 100 degrees fahrenheit out and we went to the house and dug a bit out of the halls but then it started to rain at this point my mom was home from work so she came and picked us up to go home we came back the next day and finished the job i didn't exactly realize this at the time but jl paid us 20 short not exactly relevant to the story just kind of annoys me she also refused to call us an uber home my mother was at work this time and we didn't want to wait another five hours at a stranger's house so we reluctantly walked home keep in mind it's a hundred degrees out and my house is about two miles away through heavy traffic we stopped at seven eleven on the way to grab sodas and continued on our way we were crossing a road on a four-way intersection not a very busy one when it happened a car white minivan came barreling down the street facing parallel towards us we thought nothing of it as the car didn't have turn signals on and we were crossing perpendicular to where the car was going the cars were super freaking fast to the left though the cars left and almost actually hit us i saw my life flash before my eyes and if i hadn't gone to the bathroom at 7 11 i probably would have pissed myself out of rage and shock i just yelled use your freaking signals you dumb bad very australian word at the woman behind the windshield ep caleb looked at me like i was crazy and immediately tried to apologize ep was livid which is another word for you know fuming ep gets out of the car and slams the door with the strength of a thousand men ep what the hell did you just say to me caleb oh i'm so sorry me i said use your goddamn turn signals you also bad word you could have freaking killed us ep how old are you me that's none of your business caleb is silent this time eyes wide as crap ep it is my business you're verbally harassing me blah blah blah stuff goes back and forth you little crab this and i'm gonna see you that we call the cops stuff gets sorted out and she got arrested driving with a suspended lysis i think and i got off with a warning tldr ep almost runs my friend and i over and gets arrested oh that's a first well i'm quite surprised that the entitled parent actually you know got um arrested that's new but yeah i guess they were a little bit right there with the language it wasn't entirely necessary it could have been sorted out peacefully but hey in the end she got prison time so there's that so i'm a 29 year old disabled female about to turn 30 and i'm a c4-5 incomplete quadriplegic i could have kids naturally if i chose to but at a risk of my body but i don't exactly want kids which has nothing to do with my disability i was pregnant when i was 17 and i lost it but hey that's another story for another day this post isn't to justify my decisions as i know i don't have to i just really wanted to share in 2015 my pap smear results started coming back irregular and mid-2018 the results were coming back even more irregular this was enough to worry the doctor so in early 2019 i got a biopsy done on my cervix and the results came back as the hpv virus my doctor knows one of my family history of cancer which worried him even more one of my aunts had had cancer five times oh my goodness another is in remission for breast cancer my dad and both his two brothers have had skin cancer and one of my dad's brothers has just gone through his fourth round of chemo needless to say i was worried so i started the process of getting on the waiting list for elective surgery to get a hysterectomy i went through many doctors and underwent many more tests until i was approved for the surgery around september 2019 i finished and submitted the necessary paperwork to be put on the waiting list for the elective surgery this is when the question started and is the reason i no longer tell people i know a friend of mine 50 male was the first person who voiced his date in my decision let's just call him gary the conversation went something like this i can't exactly remember how the conversation came up me i'm getting a hysterectomy gary what why but you won't be able to have kids me i know but i don't exactly want kids anyway gary and what if you change your mind me there are a lot of kids in foster care that need homes why would i want to add to that gary but you're a woman women are supposed to have kids me jeez that's incredibly sexist just because i have those organs doesn't mean i'm obligated to reproduce gary well i still think you're making a mistake though me no uterus no opinion not that i'll have them afterwards anyway gary but what if you change your mind me i'm not going around in circles with you look i'm sorry i brought it up gary but i cut him off having had enough of it and just wanted him to stop me my cervix might turn into cancer that shot him up real quick and i can't exactly remember what he said after this but i don't really care i'm doing this for myself and i don't need to justify it or explain myself to anyone not everyone wants the same things in life and i know that gary is allowed to voice his opinion at all but i think it's just the way that he went about voicing it came across as extremely sexist and misogynistic to clarify gary isn't my father but he does have kids a daughter around my age as well which might have something to do with his reaction well if that was in 2019 i can assume that you have gotten the surgery by now if you know you the waiting list goes quick enough if so then i hope that it went well for you and that the what was it cervix cancer was gone i don't know how surgery works or medical things so i'm not gonna say any of the pronunciations right but like i hope you're doing okay so i was a store manager at a discount retail store that specialized in clothing and home goods think like tg max but with more blue in the store we often had a lot of issues with returns and had a very strict return policy part of the reason is that the clothing was already high-end brands at a discount and our item turnover was usually less than a month we swapped imagery often and seldom carried things twice the clever business they have with how they get their items due to the prices rapidly changing and things being clearanced quickly people would try to buy on clearance and return for full price we also had a policy that you had to have tags and a receipt for a full price return because we did not have everything itemized in the computer in a way we could you know easily look them up it would have been millions of items a year all different and seldom repeated so this lady karen came up to the counter and dumped a pile of clothes on it stating she wanted to make a return none of them worked out i asked if she had the receipt and she handed it to me note items are listed vaguely on the receipt due to the many many types of items passing through i looked through the wrinkled mess and noticed that none of them have tags so i asked if she had them why would i keep the tags she asked i didn't know they would work so i threw the tags away oh i'm sorry i said but without the tags i'm unable to return them it's kind of store policy perhaps you still have them at home and would complete the return another time this is outrageous she yelled in a shrill voice do you know how much money i spend here a week i do not nor does it affect your return if you read the policy you would have seen the first bullet point for return saying the items can only be returned with tags and receipts it is clearly stated there you have to have the policy posted otherwise you're just making up rules i pointed to the large policy stated on the counter under a clear plastic cover there it is stated on all the registers and there pointing to the sign on the register facing the customer at eye level well i was so busy checking out so i didn't have time to read it it also says on the back of the receipt you took with you and on that website i then circled the part on the receipt and handed it to her there you go i said while handing her the receipt and a bag of wetted clothes how was i supposed to be expected to know policy i demand to speak to the manager at once i was reaching down to clean up my area looked up at her with a smile like i was freshly greeting her hi i am the manager how may i help you fine i demand to speak to the store manager she yelled hi i understand you want to speak to the store manager that's me how can i help you i said with a polite smile she huffed at me grabbed a bag left their receipt ironically and stormed out yelling at me the best part to end it was you know she tried to push angrily on the door it was a pull oh l and sort of bumped into the door multiple customers laughed loudly and my employees nearby seem to really enjoy it yeah i like that a lot that is a very interesting return policy because for me that would just suck because i always take the tags off but if it was stated there it was probably best to check that you know before you came in and embarrassed yourself karen but oh well i guess you guys are on intellectuals after all i don't give a damn if that's not a word it is now okay so first things first before we get into this this story is the first part to a second story and the second story is in this video it's just after this story but yeah i just thought you guys should know just in case so without further ado let's get into the story so i've been wanting to talk about my wedding in the preparations leading up to it since i first joined reddit however i couldn't exactly decide what to put in here what could i put in what should i put in was i even allowed to talk about it and so on so instead of putting in every little headache i just decided to write about the big stuff the parts that gave me a migraine also that focuses mainly on the parents even though even the non-parents also made it incredibly stressful however we'll just focus on the parents so that it actually sticks to the subreddit first off who's paying i wish i could tell you the crap show that was my brother-in-law's wedding sadly i do not have permission to tell that story however what you need to know is this in-laws paid for it therefore they disregard everything that the bride and groom wanted right down to who was invited and not invited they even totally disregarded their wish to not have a bar at their wedding i wish i so freaking wish i could tell you about how one of my aunts stole her cousin's wedding for a kid but again i don't exactly have permission her reasoning was that she paid for it so she has total control over everything even over who gets married so yeah me wifey and i henceforth known as xena for this tale decided neither of us are going to accept any money not even as a gift we agreed that we are going to make a budget stick with said budget and not accept any financial help needless to say our parents did not like this my parents didn't exactly take it too well either they had dreamed of helping me in some way with the wedding i told them that they could help me do research on the best deals we can get for everything and they were happy but i had to turn them down a few more times about money before they accepted it in-laws took it worse they were furious that they're not allowed to help with me paying for the wedding right off the bat they were telling xena how they wanted to help her pick out a catering and they would want at the wedding help pick out dresses and tuxes that they think would go well with their theme ideas they wanted to gift her money but of course it all had strings attached to them they wanted to decide who to invite or not they wanted to decide on food they wanted to decide on who was in the wedding party and the money would help them with that yeah no xena turned them down nicely at first then with anger they wouldn't accept that answer so they tried to go around her and try to order things for the wedding expensive flowers expensive food even an expensive wedding dress okay i hate to say it but xena faulted over the dress it was a dream dress it was so beautiful it was one of a kind and it fitted up perfectly she looked so enchanting on it oh and the price 50 000 american dollars meaning if she wanted the dress she would have to hand over the entire wedding over to them which means we would have zero say on whatever they did unless they took that beautiful dress back they would have the food they wanted the music they wanted the venue they wanted and the guests they wanted they would use that dress to get whatever they wanted it broke my wife's heart that her parents would use her dream dress to manipulate her however she stayed strong and turned them down she was so upset over this that they would do that to her she nearly uninvited them to the wedding personally i wish she did but in the end i assured her we would find a beautiful dress and we did it wasn't a dream dress nor fifty thousand dollars however but she looks so beautiful and angelic walking down that aisle oh that's cute well first of all congratulations and i'm i'm happy that your wedding wasn't ruined by these entitled parents and i think that's that's where we leave it but yeah there's a part too so this might not beat or yeah this might not be stonks hey so first off apparently the dollar store that is in biking distance is now selling syrup for one dollar also my children had discovered how to pour maple syrup into water balloons and they taught the other children in the neighborhood down to do the same anyways on to part two here invites xena my now wifey and i wanted to only invite a total of 70 people that is 35 people each a mixture of friends family and maybe a few co-workers xena was very strict with her parents about invites she only wanted close friends and family members and a few co-workers she got along with of course her parents wanted to use this chance to network people they wanted to invite only their co-workers and possibly future investors they wanted to use it like it was a business meeting obviously me wifey was against this idea 100 her wedding her rules well to be fair she did invite one of their investors but mostly because he and i got drunk at a bar once at karaoke night duke and hit a high note in take on me he's invited to parties for life her parents still tried to sneak in a few names on the guest list even trying to send invites behind her back but a few phone calls some yelling full-blown threats later her parents eventually backed down still that was loads better than my family i mentioned in other posts on here that i have an insane amount of aunts uncles and cousins we are living proof that abstinence only talks do not work plus combine that with the majority of the family being pro-life refused to let people adopt out plus being catholic in general and i have no idea how many family members i have it's insane and actually kind of stupid in other words i had a hell of a time inviting family and sticking to a small list my parents were no help here i just wanted to try and invite just those i was closest to and maybe post a video of the wedding online yeah no my parents were over my shoulder the entire time trying to talk to me about increasing the wedding parting size and telling me who i could and could not invite at all like seriously my dad didn't want me to invite one up because she owed him like 300 and she hasn't had the chance to earn the money back yet my mom didn't want me to invite an uncle because he made a pass at her father some years ago he only did that once and it was because he didn't know he was her father then there was the fact that they didn't want to slight any family members i had to really think about who i wanted my parents wanted me to go against my wife's wishes on keeping this wedding as small as possible and i started to get family members demanding an invite plus my parents wanted final approval they didn't want someone there they wanted me not to invite them and they wanted me to not invite friends so i can fit in more family members arguments every single day until me and wifey and i finally got the invites ready and shipped out i got a frick ton of phone calls from my family members that were really pissed off that they weren't invited and others who called about how they don't want to come if a particular family member was there or wasn't there for months i had to deal with harassment from everyone especially my parents about it it only stopped when my future in-laws brag to my parents about how they're handling the invites better than my parents were while i dislike how my in-laws handled it i have to admit it got my parents to stop bothering me about it and slowly i had family members stop hating on me until we made the announcement that we would have no children at the wedding honestly that's a good decision i might consider that myself because kids suck and i don't exactly want them to ruin like my biggest moment in life alright well either way i think there might be a part three to this story eventually if so like with previous videos i'll let you guys know hey so this happened about a year ago but i never got around to posting it contacts to have fibromyalgia and use crutches if i have to grab out on my bad days i hate using them but hey ho sometimes you gotta do things you don't like i'd been to the doctors that morning for a blood draw and since that always makes me go a bit funny and digging my crutches the plan was get my blood drawn get the bus down to my stop to drop my boyfriend at work and then go meet my dad at his work and get a lift home with that being said i went to see the vampires drop boyfriend off at work and message my dad that i'll be there in five he texts back that there's been a breakdown so he'll be around half an hour late out so i decided to get myself on ice cream and go sit by the river behind his work to wait for him chocolate ice cream acquired i find myself a nice bench to park myself on put my headphones in text my dad where i am and start scrolling through reddit my crutches while leaning on the bench behind me and next thing i know a lady taps me on the shoulder i pull out a headphone and turn around am i'm gonna borrow these she says picking up my crutches um i'm sorry my daughter fell over and hurt her ankle so i'm gonna borrow these um i'm sorry but i need those uh no you don't you're clearly fine and just using them for attention uh no i have fibromyalgia i do need them you just made that up you don't need them stop being a selfish brat and with that she walks away with my crutches towards a little girl who seems to be walking towards her just fine i'm really bad at confrontation and generally don't like to you know kick up a fuss as well as being ridiculously anxious so i just sit and watch as she tries to adjust my glued in her place clutches they used to extend every time i put weight on them so i gave up and glued them i watch her for a solid few minutes considering what to do next when my dad comes up behind me and asks if i'm ready to go i explained to him what happened and he tells me he'll sort it out and wanders over to her my dad is six foot tall and 350 pounds by the way so you know kind of a pretty hefty guy and this woman looked as if she was about five foot on a good day there was a lot of fuss the woman is yelling at my dad about how i stole my crutches from the hospital and i don't even need them how dare i take them from a baby who's broken her ankle and then she pushes him and says she's harassing her my dad just looked at her for a moment then he called her an entitled c-word pulled the crutches from her hands and walked away smiling at me nice well honestly i see this as an absolute win you got your crotches back in the end and your dad is a mega chad and kind of reminds me of a big grizzly bear but we're not going to get into that and that's it if you guys did enjoy this video please do hit that like button and if you haven't already hit the subscribe button for more videos just like this one and if you want to be first to see those videos the bell notification thing and majigo generally helps with that don't forget to tell me your thoughts in the comments below and i'll see you all in the next video bye everyone you

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Length: 22min 0sec (1320 seconds)

Published: Wed Jul 22 2020