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Please, be seated. Good morning, Your Honor. Good morning. This is the case of<i> McGowan v. Martin.</i> Thank you, Jerome. Good day, everyone. AUDIENCE: Good day. Ms. McGowan, you say, after the death of your husband, you were trying to find your way but ended up finding a man on the Internet, had sex with him, and two weeks later, you discovered that you were pregnant. Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: Now, you claim the defendant, Mr. Martin, is without a doubt the biological father of your 8-month-old baby, Cayden. <i> Is that correct?</i> MCGOWAN: <i> Mmm-hmm.</i> JUDGE LAKE: Mr. Martin, you say, there's no way you're Cayden's biological father. And you claim to have a mile-long list of doubts, that will clear your name today, in court. Yes, Your Honor. JUDGE LAKE: One main reason is that you believe the man she's currently living with, who will join us shortly, <i> is Baby Cayden's biological father.</i> MARTIN: <i> Yes, Your Honor.</i> JUDGE LAKE:<i> So, Ms. McGowan.</i> So, you say, he's done nothing for the child. Nothing at all. JUDGE LAKE: Absolutely nothing. MCGOWAN: Nothing at all. When I met him online, he misrepresented himself. He told me he was a good man, he was a good father, he was into church and everything. JUDGE LAKE: Baby Cayden is eight months old. MCGOWAN: <i> Yes, ma'am.</i> JUDGE LAKE: <i> Any diapers?</i> MCGOWAN: <i> Uh, he tricked me over, the one time,</i> <i> and said he has diapers for the baby,</i> but he didn't have any. (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) No, he didn't have any. JUDGE LAKE: Mr. Martin? Yes, Your Honor. You've done nothing for the child? No, I did nothing. JUDGE LAKE: Why? Because some facts, um... The first night we had sex, the first day we met each other we had sex. And, um, the reason why I don't believe it, believe this is my child, is because she's very promiscuous. And when you have sex with a woman... You're having sex with a woman the first day, that's a red flag anyway. JUDGE LAKE: Did you use protection? No, uh-uh. "No, uh-uh?" So, if you have sex with a woman on the first day, and you don't use protection, you understand that if it's in the window of conception, you might be her child's father, right? JUDGE LAKE: No matter how... Yeah... No matter how promiscuous she may be. MARTIN: Well, first, um... As far as my sperm count... As far as my sperm count... It says low because I have sickle cell, and it's hard for me to make a baby anyway. And as far as the sex thing? When the passion goes, it goes. And you ain't got time to be doing all that, but when you're in the heat of the moment... JUDGE LAKE: Are you suggesting you don't have time to use protection? I'm clean. I'm clean. I'm clean, I trusted that she was clean. It ain't that much trust in the world. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) I'm sorry. So, you can do all that. All that. MARTIN: Well, Your Honor... And not do anything for a child you possibly created? Only reason why because, after the fact we had sex I went through her phone. When I went through her phone... Yes, the first night he went through my phone. I went through her phone, and I woke up and see... Saw a man just came over the other day, and gave you sex, and was sending her texts. But you had just met her! MCGOWAN: Thank you. MARTIN: Yeah. MCGOWAN: Thank you. MARTIN: But, I had just met her... The first night, you... Wait... MCGOWAN: He went through my phone. JUDGE LAKE: The first night you're with her, you have sex... Mmm-hmm. Then you're looking through her phone. You don't use protection... MARTIN: Okay. 'Cause you ain't got time for all that. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) MCGOWAN: Crazy. That's ludicrous. (AUDIENCE AGREEING) Explain to me, if this is, in fact, is the sexual encounter you've had, <i> as irresponsible as it is,</i> <i> it's done now.</i> After it happens, MARTIN: Mmm-hmm. and then there's a baby on the way, I need to understand how you can doubt. Because there was other men involved. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. But wouldn't you then be one of the potential men? Okay, out of one of the potential men... JUDGE LAKE: All right. There's others. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. So, therefore, I cannot be... I cannot be that one. I cannot. You know what I'm saying? JUDGE LAKE: What math are you doing? MARTIN: What math am I doing? In your mind. 'Cause if you are one of the potential fathers <i> how do you exclude yourself</i> <i> from the number of men that could potentially be her child's father?</i> Because the next day she had sex with another guy. MCGOWAN: Oh, my God. JUDGE LAKE: Ms. McGowan, I'm gonna go to you. Thank you. I wanna give Mr. Martin a little time to process. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) MCGOWAN: Yeah, 'cause he's in La-La Land. He's saying, there are other men. <i> And you were here.</i> <i> And you're convinced he's the father.</i> MCGOWAN: <i> Yes, ma'am.</i> Did you have sex with somebody else the next night, after? No, I did not. Not the next night. He had all kind of men in his head. He probably... I went with the mailman, the milkman... It's in his head. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) 'Cause one minute he's nice, and the next minute he's not. But he is the father, no doubt. Why are you so convinced? Can you just explain that to me? Yes, because of the conception date and my son looks exactly like him. Exactly like him. <i> Even Ray Charles could see that.</i> (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) JUDGE LAKE: Do you have any proof... MCGOWAN: Yes, I have the calendar of the dates. You do, I'd like to see that. Jerome, would you hand me her evidence, please? All right. So you presented a calendar... Mmm-hmm. that outlines the date you were intimate with Mr. Martin. MCGOWAN: Yes, ma'am. And that's April 2nd. MCGOWAN: <i> Yes, ma'am.</i> <i> So, you're intimate with Mr. Martin on the 2nd,</i> <i> the doctor tells you you're conception date</i> <i> is estimated at April 3rd.</i> <i> Were you in a relationship</i> with anybody else at that time? MCGOWAN: No, ma'am. I was not. Did you have sex with any other men during the window of conception? I did. A couple of days later, I did. JUDGE LAKE: A couple days later. Mmm-hmm. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. Matter of fact, three days. JUDGE LAKE: Listen, this is court. I need you to be honest with me. That's why we're here. Is to get the answers. MCGOWAN: Okay. So, a couple days later, you had sex with someone else. Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: Would that be a couple days, as in April 5th? Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. <i> How about April 6th?</i> MCGOWAN: <i> Yes.</i> <i> The same person, though. It was the same person.</i> Would that be Mr. Brodie that's in our court? Yes, ma'am. So, why are you so convinced it's Mr. Martin's child, when you had sex with Mr. Brodie <i> so close in proximity</i> <i> to when you had sex with Mr. Martin?</i> Did you use protection with Mr. Brodie? No, ma'am. How do you stand here and just point the finger at Mr. Martin... Because... JUDGE LAKE: When you know that you were also intimate with another man without using protection, a couple days later? MCGOWAN: Yes, ma'am. Do you have a relationship with the other man, Mr. Brodie? Yes, ma'am, I do. JUDGE LAKE: What's your relationship? We live together. JUDGE LAKE: <i> You do?</i> MCGOWAN: <i> Mmm-hmm.</i> (AUDIENCE MURMURING) JUDGE LAKE: <i> So, you live with Mr. Brodie.</i> MCGOWAN: <i> Yes.</i> But you truly believe your child is Mr. Martin's? MCGOWAN: Yes. Wake up, really. JUDGE LAKE: But if your child is Mr. Martin's, that would negatively affect your relationship with Mr. Brodie? Yes. Yet, you're here to prove that your child is Mr. Martin's child? MCGOWAN: Yes. He don't want Cayden to be his son, 'cause he don't want to take responsibility for nothing. He got other kids he don't take care of. MARTIN: Well, I do. But, his sperm count's low, remember? Remember, he said his sperm count's low? (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) I mean... All my other kids have got sickle cell. Where do you get that from? Do he got sickle cell? Your son does not have sickle cell. JUDGE LAKE: <i> Who was at the hospital, Ms. McGowan?</i> MCGOWAN: <i> Mr. Brodie.</i> MARTIN: <i> Because you wouldn't have me come up there.</i> I called him, he didn't come. He didn't wanna do that. You say, you called him? MCGOWAN: Yes. Did you get that phone call, Mr. Martin? MCGOWAN: I texted him, matter of fact. She texted... He texted me three days later. My baby was in the NICU 12 days. MARTIN: Okay, well... At the hospital. He never visited the baby? MCGOWAN: No. I texted him before I went to hospital, he didn't come. And Mr. Brodie's been there for me, since day one. MARTIN: He's been dropping off money. JUDGE LAKE: So you said, since he didn't show... I will take the gentleman I'm with and let him support me through this. MCGOWAN: He just been supporting me from day one. <i> Since my pregnancy he's been supporting me.</i> <i> And I had a hard pregnancy, Your Honor.</i> <i> My baby was born five weeks early.</i> His lungs was not mature. He stayed in NICU for 12 days. He was around the corner. <i> He could've walked to the hospital,</i> <i> that's how close he is to the hospital.</i> <i> He did not come.</i> (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) I think it's time we meet Mr. Brodie. Jerome, will you please escort him into the courtroom? JEROME: Careful, going up the step. Mr. Brodie, thank you for joining us, today. You're welcome. JUDGE LAKE: You know we're here discussing the paternity, as it relates, to baby Cayden. BRODIE: Yes, ma'am. There's been testimony by Ms. McGowan that you were in a sexual relationship with her during the window of conception. Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: So, you could potentially be Cayden's biological father? Yes, ma'am. Question to you... Uh-huh. Do you believe you are Cayden's biological father? Yes. Do you believe you are Cayden's biological father? Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: You do? I do. JUDGE LAKE: You want to be this child's father? Yes, ma'am. Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: Explain. Because I've been there... Tina and I, Ms. McGowan and I, had been messing around since February. I just pray that he's mine. AUDIENCE: Aw. I really do. BRODIE: <i> Now, because when he was born,</i> <i> he looked like me.</i> <i> He was a little, light-skinned, red baby.</i> He had my cowlicks and everything. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) And I was the first one to see that child in the NIC unit, when they took him from his mother, when he stopped breathing. I sent her the pictures of him. I was there. When Ms. McGowan was going through... Uh, she was borderline... Uh, diabetes. While she was pregnant with him. I took care of Ms. McGowan. I washed her clothes, I fed her, her feet were swelled up, I took care of her. I made sure she was at her appointments. JUDGE LAKE: That's wonderful. I took care of Ms. McGowan. JUDGE LAKE: So, did you sign the birth certificate? BRODIE: No, ma'am. Because one thing I say, is this, before I sign that birth certificate his real father... If I'm not his father, his real father should have the opportunity to put his name on there and have his son in his life. I left the birth certificate blank. I didn't put the father on the birth certificate. You have the birth certificate? Yes, ma'am. I sure do. Jerome, will you hand me that, please? So, this is Baby Cayden's birth certificate. MCGOWAN: Yes, ma'am. And there is... MCGOWAN: No father. JUDGE LAKE: <i> No father listed.</i> <i> And you did that purposefully.</i> MCGOWAN: <i> Yes, ma'am.</i> Explain. I did that because I weren't sure who the father was, but I thought I should wait and find out the truth before I put any father on there. But I think if Marcellius is the father, he needs to step up and take care of his responsibility. If he wants anything to do with my son, I think he should put his name on the birth certificate. Well, I did try to step up to the opportunity. BRODIE: No, you didn't. After the six-week checkup... After his six-week checkup... She called me, she said, "I've been going to the six-week checkup. "I have to come by." She came and spent the night, we had sex... Oh, my God! (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) MARTIN: We had sex after that six weeks... Six weeks? She was at my house. I took care of her! She spent the night at my house. Her and Cayden was at my house. No, they were not. MARTIN: Oh, trust me. At her six-week... I took her for her six-week checkup. No, she got her hair done... Her and Cayden. No, she got her hair done and came back home. 'Cause I done it! Roll and set, I done that. Oh, you done that? Her braids, yeah. You do a roll and set? Man, I took care of this woman! What he talking about? He don't know nothin'! He's sitting here runnin' off his mouth. You had fun, laying down with Ms. McGowan, but you can't have fun taking care of Cayden, if he's yours. That's your problem. Yeah! That's right! If I can do it, you can. He does nothing. BRODIE: 'Cause if he's my son, you better believe, we won't have to hear from you no more. And if he is yours, we still don't have to hear from you, because we ain't hearin' from you now. But you runnin' your mouth. You gonna hear from me, brother. You gonna hear from me, bro. Well, you better step up, or step out. Which one you gonna do? BRODIE: If he's yours you better step up. I wanna step up. That's what I did! MCGOWAN: Oh, my God! JUDGE LAKE: Let's get some order. JEROME: Let's chill out a little bit. MCGOWAN: Your Honor, you see his whole conversation about being with me? That's his focus, solely on me. He cares nothing about... He don't even know my baby's middle name. You see me? Right there. That's me. AUDIENCE: Aw. That's me and stinker, right there. That's stinker man. MCGOWAN: <i> He knows...</i> JUDGE LAKE:<i> Oh, he's so cute.</i> MCGOWAN: <i> He knows no one else, but him.</i> BRODIE: <i> That's all he knows. He knows me.</i> I don't know who this is, so he don't know either. BRODIE: Your Honor, this past Father's Day, Memphis, Tennessee, saw it in them to award me with Community Father of the Year Award, JUDGE LAKE:<i> Oh, that's wonderful.</i> BRODIE:<i> In Memphis, Tennessee.</i> <i> The Mayor was there, the City Council was there,</i> and the State Representatives was there. So, Cayden will not fall short on a daddy, or a father, when it comes down to that. (AUDIENCE CHEERING) JUDGE LAKE: That is great to hear. I'm a single-father. I have a 7-year-old daughter, I've been taking care of. Since 2009. And when I was told she was pregnant, 41 years old, me. It just blew my mind. And then, when I saw him, in that NIC unit, with those tubes runnin' out of him. <i> That's my baby.</i> <i> He's mine.</i> I don't understand how a man can walk around here, and wonders about the mother, instead of what's laying in that basket, with them tubes runnin' out of him. He's so worried about Ms. McGowan, what has she got goin' on with me, it's not about Ms. McGowan and I. It ain't even about him. It's about that little baby, right there. It's not about money, followin' the money. I have no money. You know nothin' about me. But I got all the love, and I can make sure he got a roof over his head and food to eat. Make sure he get his education. That's what I could do. Ultimately, it really is about baby Cayden. MCGOWAN: It is. MARTIN: Most definitely. JUDGE LAKE: And that's why we're all here. MARTIN: Yes. JUDGE LAKE:<i> And I have the answers you all are seeking.</i> Jerome, may I have the envelope, please? MARTIN: Please do. MARTIN: And just note, if it is my baby, I'm stepping up to the fullest. MCGOWAN: Well, do that. And I hope you don't mind... Can you bring him to the house? Can you bring him to the house, to me? (MCGOWAN EXCLAIMS) Never! You give me some gas money, yeah! (ALL LAUGHING) MARTIN: I got you, I got you, I got you. You on the same thing I'm on. JUDGE LAKE: Do you all wanna argue? Or do you wanna get the results? I want the results. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. MARTIN: We'll get the results. JUDGE LAKE: These results were prepared by DNA Diagnostics and they read as follows. In the case of<i> McGowan v. Martin,</i> when it comes to 8-month-old Cayden McGowan, pertaining to whether his biological father is Mr. Martin, or Mr. Brodie... I want the results. JUDGE LAKE: It has been determined by this court, his biological father is Mr. Martin. (MCGOWAN LAUGHING) That's what's up. That's what's up. That's what's up. When I get my rights, I'm gonna spend time with my baby, and teach my baby how to be a carpenter. Mr. Martin, I just wanna tell you this. You've missed eight months. Just bring him over, I got the gas money. We don't need no more talk, conversation over. But, I do thank you for stepping up, buying him all that stuff. And I told her, when she came over to the house after that six weeks. I told her. I said, this man that did all this stuff, it has got to be his child. Because ain't no man in his right mind just gonna pick up and just do that. But you did. But you did. What kind of men do you know? BRODIE: That's what I wanna know. We see this... No, no, no, no. (ALL ARGUING) JUDGE LAKE: Hold on, Mr. Martin. (ARGUING CONTINUES) Mr. Martin, let me inform you. No, no. Let me inform you of something. I've seen plenty of men step up for a child, that could not possibly be their biological child. Because they recognize that an innocent child needs that. Now, you all trying to outdo one another, no. Instead of competition, work in concert. How about that? BRODIE: Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: That would be more powerful for this child. So, you three have got to get it together. I wish you all the very best of luck. Court is adjourned. (GAVEL BANGING)
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Length: 17min 32sec (1052 seconds)
Published: Mon Jun 10 2019
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