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You may be seated. Hello Your Honor. Hello, Ron. This is the case of <i> Perry v. Davis.</i> Thank you. Good day everyone. AUDIENCE: Good day. Ms. Perry, you claim to have a daughter with the defendant, Mr. Davis. And now, you wanna prove that he also fathered your one-month-old son, Adonis. Is that correct? PERRY: Yes, Your Honor. JUDGE LAKE: Mr. Davis, you say any trust you had for Ms. Perry went out the window once you learned you were not the only man climbing through hers. Yes, Your Honor. JUDGE LAKE: All right, you say you're 1,000% certain that you are not Adonis' father, and encourage Ms. Perry to go find who is. All right, so Ms. Perry tell me, why you feel Mr. Davis is denying your son? Because he's too busy hanging around with his homeboys, getting into every other woman he can find, and just too busy to take care of his responsibilities. JUDGE LAKE: Is that true, Mr. Davis? No, Your Honor, it's not correct. JUDGE LAKE: Why are you denying it? Does she want me? I mean, you know what I'm saying, it's always, it's never about the kid. It's always about, "Oh, do you wanna be with me?" or, "Let's date." That's a lie, that is a lie. Nobody wants you. You wanna think that everybody is about you. It's not about you at the end of the day. Regardless of what happens between me and you, it's about our kid. That's all I ever wanted from you. If you don't have no money, then spend time, that's all you got to do. I never made it hard for you to see your kid. Don't try to play me like that. Don't try to play me. I can't stand it. I, I, I'm, it's hard right now for me. It's like, yes I did care for him, I did. But till I found out his true colors, that all went out the window, you know what I'm saying? I was always there for him, he cannot say that. I don't know, what type of vendetta he got against me. I never done nothing to him, you know what I'm saying? I always wanted to be there. DAVIS: She's depressed about our relationship. It's not about you, man. It's not about you. JUDGE LAKE: <i> You say he just doesn't have time</i> <i> 'cause he's running around with his friends.</i> PERRY: Yes, he's got a girlfriend, he's got a baby mama, he got this one, he got that one. They're both claiming him. So which one are you with? I'm not gonna be a part of that triangle. You think you're really that good? You're not that good, man. What if it don't prove... You're not, you're not. You're not, you're not. You're so high and mighty, I don't know what they see in you, but obviously, yeah, I was young and dumb. DAVIS: We're here for a reason. I learned my mistakes. I learned my mistakes. Honestly, it happened twice, I know I can't fault him for everything. We're here for a reason. But at the end of the day, it's just not right. She don't know what she's talking about. I'm not gonna be sitting in this little love triangle that you have. So I have never been there for the baby? I have, I have. You have, Your Honor, he's been... Have you been there for the baby, Mr. Davis? Yes. Yes ma'am, I have. He was there for her for, like, the first six months. He started slacking off. He'd come every now and then. Every two, three months he'd come, pop in for about 30 minutes, she'd cry and have a fit on the floor, then he'd leave, onto the next. Why, why sit around for a kid who's gonna cry? JUDGE LAKE: I wanna understand what's going on here, 'cause it's obvious there's a lot of water under this bridge. How did you all get together? DAVIS: Oh, we met... Social media. DAVIS: We met on the Internet. PERRY: Social media. We met like that. It was a friends- with-benefits situation. I see him, he sees me, we're gonna blah, blah, blah. Yeah, I started caring for him, or whatever. But you know, that's just me, maybe I was just missing something and I felt like he was that missing person that I needed. You met on the Internet? PERRY: Yes. And you all, what, talked over... For about a week. We probably talked about a week, then we met up. Did whatever we did, which was about two times, and the next thing you know, "Oh, I'm pregnant." After, "Oh, I'm pregnant"... But you know it just takes one time, right? Yes ma'am, I do, I do. We both had a child prior to meeting each other. Three months before we met each other, we both had a child, which is the same age. So you both came into this relationship with children? PERRY: Yes. Then you met on the Internet site and then you all start sleeping together? DAVIS: Yes. And that's when you got pregnant with Skylar, your older daughter? PERRY: <i> Yes ma'am.</i> JUDGE LAKE: <i> Okay.</i> PERRY: <i> We saw each other, like, two times.</i> I found out little bit after... No. ...that I was pregnant and I told him that I was pregnant. And he said, well, he would need a DNA test 'cause he's been through that situation before. I said, "Okay, cool. "You can get one all you want to, but I'm not paying for it, "'cause I know, who my baby daddy is." After all of that, he just came to accept Skylar or did you have the DNA test? We never, he never paid for it, he came up, he didn't come when she was born, 'cause I guess he was working then. But when he came to the hospital, he said, "Oh she looks just like my other son." JUDGE LAKE: Did you ask for a DNA test when it came to Skylar, Mr. Davis? Yes ma'am, I did. JUDGE LAKE: You did. Yes. JUDGE LAKE: Did you ever have one? DAVIS: No ma'am. So that's true, you never got the DNA test. No, it's just that... JUDGE LAKE: But you accept Skylar as your daughter. Yeah, I mean that was my, you know what I'm saying, my first daughter, so I was younger, and more naive, I guess that'd be the word... PERRY: You still is. So, more open to it, you know what I'm saying? But if you had doubts, why did you say, "Oh I'm glad you're having my daughter"? DAVIS: Because I was young. If it was a boy, it would be a Junior, if it was a girl, Davis would be her last name, blah, blah, blah and now you wanna flip the script all of a sudden. DAVIS: I want to know, what's the reason, why this little boy, if you feel like that's my baby, why he ain't got my last name now then? Because I'm not gonna give no man... Yo, you have to earn to have a child, you know. My point proven. She got my last name. PERRY: My son has my last name. Hey, you have to deserve it, just 'cause you... JUDGE LAKE: Whoa, hold on now, Ms. Perry, Ms. Perry, take a breath. Take a breath. PERRY: 'Cause I got a lot to say, and I've been going through a lot. JUDGE LAKE: Look, I can tell you have, and I wanna understand it, but you have not taken a breath and I don't want you to skip too far in the story, so that I miss some important pieces as how two people, I can tell cared a little bit about each other. How you get here? You said, at first he asked for the DNA test when it came to Skylar, then you said, "If you wanna pay for it." He never paid for it. So then he just accepted, and you said you were younger then. So you were a little more open, you just said, "You know what? Okay." Who would do that? If you're denying it, why would you do that? Why would you agree to a child... JUDGE LAKE: But then I wanna get to the point where after you have Skylar, do you all stay in a relationship, are you still... PERRY: No. We was never, we never did... We never was in a relationship. JUDGE LAKE: So you didn't date at all? BOTH: No. So you all just went on back to your own lives? But were you having sex? Yeah, we were but it was never, it was just... JUDGE LAKE: It was a sexual relationship. Yeah. Okay, all right look, you both agree to that, so no one contests it. So you accepted Skylar, then you keep having this sexual relationship and then you get pregnant with Adonis. How do you tell him? I told him, I called him, I say, "I think I might be pregnant." He said, "Ha ha ha," and hung up the phone. JUDGE LAKE: When she says, "Hey I'm pregnant," why you got to act like a dog and just hang up? PERRY: 'Cause that's what he is. I don't think I'm the only one. JUDGE LAKE: So explain that to me. You hung up, why? Why would you do something so rude to a woman you've acknowledged is the mother of your older daughter. Because every time I come to see Skylar, when I come out, it's always her on the porch and a group of dudes. So one day, I come over, I come over to visit. And when I come, she runs straight to the bathroom. She runs to her room, then runs in the bathroom, she stays in the bathroom for about five, ten minutes. Her sibling runs out, he's like, "Oh yeah, oh yeah." He's calling me her ex-boyfriend's name. He kept calling, so I'm like, "Shh." I said, "Where he at? Where he at?" "Oh he just left." That was one reason. And you want to know something? One day we go to like a little music festival, whatever, downtown. So, she's holding the baby, we're just walking and taking, whatever. Her ex-boyfriend, she sees him, you know what I'm saying? "Oh!" Runs up to him, "Oh!" Putting her hands all in his face, arguing with him, you know what I'm saying? I'm like, "Oh that's a lot for somebody that you don't deal with no more." So when she starts arguing with the ex, you felt like, "Oh, maybe this this is unfinished business," that they still may be together. So when Adonis is conceived, was there anything going on <i> that would indicate to you that she may be sleeping with someone else?</i> The window situation. Could I explain? JUDGE LAKE: Yes! All right so, one day, I'm too drunk to drive home, I left the club, so I called Keiara, once I get there, I'm sitting outside about ten minutes, "Keiara, can I crash here?" She's like, "Oh yeah, well, my mom, she's gonna have a problem with that, "but you can come through the window." So when I come in, the window was sitting down. When you break a window from the other side, from the inside out, you can't, it's not made for you to put the window back in, so the window was broken in an A, you know what I'm saying, in an A shape right here. This was bent, and it was sitting right here, and didn't have enough time to fix all that up. The window's already sitting there, means somebody had already jumped through this window. PERRY: First of all, I live in a neighborhood where the maintenance ain't even good, that's why the window's like that. DAVIS: All right, correct. JUDGE LAKE: Oh! So you thought, the way you got in, somebody else got in, too. Yes! Yes. JUDGE LAKE: But they didn't put the window back. She ain't saying nothing about it. JUDGE LAKE: Were you letting other men through the window, Ms. Perry? No, no, absolutely not. Of course not. No, no, no, no. What are you feeling right now, Ms. Perry? It's just, I don't know, like... He just makes me feel bad, like I'm less than somebody, because I really did care about him. So when you have somebody that you care about talk to you like that, it's just like, it makes me feel like I'm less of a woman, because I'm going through this situation. I have three kids, I'm a single parent. I go to work, I'm going to school. It's just, I don't have transportation, I can barely get them a ride to their doctor's appointments. It's hard, and for him to feel this way about me, it's not right, it's really not right. JUDGE LAKE: <i> And I can see it upsets you 'cause</i> <i> you feel like you let yourself down.</i> PERRY: <i> Yes it does.</i> <i> I never been in trouble in my life,</i> I've never done anything wrong, and it's just like now that I have kids, I've lost friends, I lost a lot of people, and it's not fair that he treats me like that 'cause I did nothing to him. I did not, I just want what was best for my kids. I want my kids to know his other kids. I want my kids to know his grandparents, and it's not fair because the baby mama he's with now, she gets all the attention. Her kids are the center of attention. Your family is cool with her. They won't even take a second look at me. I think his doubt around Adonis really hurts you. PERRY: Yes, it does. Because you all have been in this sexual relationship, on and off, for years now, couple of years. You're right. And now it's like his other children's mother, their children, then they get attention that you feel like your children deserve. PERRY: Yes, that's all I want. But see, when you lay down with a man with no obligation, in the dark, you can't be surprised that you come out invisible. He can't see you. You understand what I'm saying? If you are okay with being the take it or leave it girl, you have to understand that there is a chance, he's gonna leave it. Right? Right. JUDGE LAKE: So, sometimes when I see young women and I hear them talking about, "Oh it was just sex, "wasn't nothing to me, wasn't nothing to me." But they are so emotional and irate. And I know that comes from a place of you wanting to be more than what it really is. (APPLAUSE) So you say, he finally stepped up and he accepted Skylar. Does he do anything for Adonis? No, he's not, haven't seen him at all. I show him pictures, I message he pictures on Facebook. Skylar looks like him. The baby look like him. JUDGE LAKE: You don't think so? No ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: What is this that you are handing? Officer Ron, Ron would you hand me this evidence, please? On the left is the picture of Adonis, on right is the picture of my daughter Aubry. JUDGE LAKE: So this is side-by-side photos, on the left Adonis, and then on the right, your daughter Aubry. <i> And you believe they look nothing alike?</i> No, I don't think so. PERRY: Here's the pictures right here, Skylar do look like... Let me see that please, Ron. He's a month old, his facial features haven't even come in already. They have the same eyes and stuff like that. My kids even look like his mother. JUDGE LAKE: <i> So, on this photo you have, side by side, pictures of Skylar and Adonis.</i> Now, Skylar, you say, is your biological daughter. DAVIS: Mmm. Yeah. PERRY: See. Yes. JUDGE LAKE: So you have questions, so this court has administered a DNA test for Skylar as well, since you never had one. DAVIS: Yes. JUDGE LAKE: Have you made an effort with Adonis? No, no. Has Mr. Davis provided financially at all for Adonis? He did, he did but... He did the first six months, and then he started doing like every other month or every other two months and stuff like that, back and forth. He didn't do it consistently. He came and saw her every two, three months. Show up, pop up for a little while and then leave out with his homies. JUDGE LAKE: Is that true, Mr. Davis? No, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: Have you spent quality time with Skylar and with Adonis? I don't, for one, when she had Adonis, I was out of town. I was in Chicago. In the midst of that, when I came back we got into a whole argument. Got into an argument with her friend, I'm not gonna come around if there's gonna be drama like that. JUDGE LAKE: Ms. Perry, I have to ask you, were you dealing with anybody else? He was, and you knew that. Yes, but it wasn't around the time I conceived, that was afterwards. No, no. That's... No. One day, we got into it. So, I just asked, "So who you been chilling with lately?" You know what I'm saying, just asking. One of my homeboys whispered something in my ear, letting me know something. So I just asked, you know what I'm saying, "Who you been kicking with lately?" "Well, I let this guy perform...on me, but we never did anything." I'm a man. No, that ain't happening without other thing happening, you know what I'm saying? It ain't going down like that. JUDGE LAKE: I wanna get this together. Yes, please. JUDGE LAKE: And I want to get you all the answers you need to be able to figure out how to move forward. 'Cause this right here, you're all getting nowhere. Ron, may I have the envelope please? We have two of them. Now, we have two sets of results. The first one is for Adonis. These results were prepared by DNA Diagnostics, and they read as follows. In the case of<i> Perry v. Davis,</i> when it comes to one-month-old Adonis Perry, it has been determined by this court, Mr. Davis, you... ...are the father. That's good. JUDGE LAKE: You said, "That's good." So you're happy your doubts are alleviated? Yeah, I'm happy to get that out of the way. That's all he is, is something out of the way. He still ain't going to do nothing after we leave here. Can we read the next one, please? JUDGE LAKE: Absolutely. Thank you. The next results are for Skylar. In the case of<i> Perry v. Davis,</i> when it comes to 22-month-old Skylar Davis, it has been determined by this court, Mr. Davis, you... ...are not her father. Got ya! Got ya. JUDGE LAKE: Let's be respectful. (CHUCKLING) JUDGE LAKE: You're not the father, Mr. Davis, of Skylar. What? He's not Skylar's biological father, Ms. Perry. DAVIS: Stressing me up. That was the only one... I mean, I wouldn't even lie about something like that. So, do you have any idea who Skylar's father is? I may have. Then you know that you was wrong. Because when I got pregnant with my daughter, the time period, I was not messing with nobody else. JUDGE LAKE: Well, you were. The DNA just doesn't lie, it doesn't, its absolute. What are you two gonna do? I guess, I stay out of his way and he can stay out of mine. JUDGE LAKE: But you gotta learn how to co-parent. You're all just not finished with one another. I mean, as disgusted as you may be with one another, you're not finished. You got to figure out how to get along, you gonna have to figure out how to be there for Adonis, and for Skylar, too, let's be honest, because right now, Skylar's going to be in a difficult transition. Just think, up until this point, she thought you were her daddy. But now you're her brother's daddy, and not hers. This is a difficult situation. You all gotta find your way through this, you all gotta take this seriously, quit with this petty back-and-forth nonsense that is getting us nowhere. I wish you all the very best of luck. Court is adjourned.
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Length: 16min 56sec (1016 seconds)
Published: Mon Oct 29 2018
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