- So let's talk about
procrastination right now and just have a conversation
about what it means. You know, procrastination basically means you are not doing what
you know you need to do when you know you need to do it. It's putting things off
because in the short term. It's easier, it's more
comfortable, it's more certain, it's more pleasureful to be distracted or to indulge yourself doing
something else, than it is to sit down and do the actual
work to create the outputs that matter when they are needed. And I know that every single
one of us procrastinates. Me too, so it's okay. The issue is can you set
yourself up so you do less of it? I believe you can. So let's talk about
procrastination in this way. Three brain hacks. Number one, simple. You're more likely to do
something if you have already prepared and stepped it through. You're already more likely to do something if you already prepared
and stepped it through. What does that mean? It means, if you wanna not
procrastinate on Monday, Sunday night I want you to sit down and do this simple, little thing. Project Plan. I know it's not sexy, please
don't make fun of me right now. It's not sexy, I know it's not sexy, and it will change your life forever. The day before the days
in which it's required that you really get stuff done, I want you to sit down and Project Plan. I don't mean tomorrow write
down your to-do lists. That is one element of Project Planning. But I want a bigger picture. I want you to be thinking
about the big projects that you have coming up. And I want you to have written out, these steps that it's going
to take, the big steps, that it'll take to
accomplish this project, and this project, and this
project, with a timeline for each of 'em and then work backwards from that to create
tomorrow's to-do lists. But here's what's funny. If, listen to this. If your mind can't see completion, if your mind cannot see completion, meaning you don't know the path, you don't have clarity on the path to fulfill or complete something. If your mind can't see the steps, your heart will ask to pause. If your mind can't see the
project through the completion your heart will ask to pause. Even if you're the most
passionate, dream-oriented, amazing, high-performer
in the world, but you yank away someone's clarity, you
know no goals no growth, no clarity no change. And so you find yourself procrastinating. It might not even, you
might be like Brendon, I hate myself. I procrastinate and I even know the next three things I should do. I go, not enough. Knowing your next three
steps is not enough. Your mind needs to see all the steps through to completion and that's what we call Project Planning. It's not super fun but it's saying, okay, this is the big project. Here are the big key activities, the big buckets of activities that would have to happen to get it done. Here's a timeline those big
buckets have to happen, okay? Then these big buckets of activities, those have to be broken down into tasks, and then into, ultimately, daily to-do's. And if we don't have that,
like it's just hard to act when you don't have a
complete picture, right? You're kind of like, uh, procrastinating. Let me give you a metaphor. You know they've timed people about how long it takes
them to complete a puzzle. So if I show up at your house and I give you a big puzzle box and there's 400 pieces in it, and we set it out on your table. And we watch how long
different time periods takes to complete it. You know the fastest, most productive time in which people are
putting puzzles together? The last 20%. I mean if you've ever
done a puzzle, right? You might walk by it three,
four times for a couple weeks, you don't do anything, you
put a few pieces together. But soon as the picture
becomes a little more clear, guess what you do? You hunker down and you
complete it, don't you? That's what's going on
with procrastination. Even if you see the first couple pieces, it's just like if you
can't see where it's going, your heart will go pause. I'm unsure. I'm scared. I don't know what to do. That's just how we think, right? That part of our brain
is trying to protect us. That part of our heart
that says I wanna do good, I wanna care for other people and do things with excellence. All of a sudden those are compromised when we don't do the most basic thing. So if there's an important project you've been procrastinating in, do yourself the greatest
gift I can give you today. And that is tonight, sit
down with your journal and step it all the way out. Even if you have to make it up. Even if you're like, I'm not sure this is
actually the big activities. It's not about having
the perfect Project Plan, it's having one that is completed with at least the knowledge you know now. Because then you're ready and go, okay, let's get into this and keep
making this thing better. But your brain won't get into it if you haven't Project Planned 'em. So this is really important. What I do to avoid
procrastination each week, is every single Sunday, for me
that's my Sunday review days, Sunday work days, I'll sit down and I'll literally step
through the entire week of all the major things on
my email, on my to-do list. I'll think about the bigger projects and I'll just kind of step
it all the way through. And guess what? I enter the week more engaged,
more joyous and confident, cause I know what he heck is going on. So if you keep procrastinating I promise, if it's not lots of worry
or it's not, you know, lots of randomness, it's you
haven't seen it through yet. Other brain hack. Very related, but a little
different and more immediate. And you'll love this one. So number two is this, and it's so basic, but I'm gonna test you and see how often you've been doin' it. And that is visualize. Remember I said you won't do it if your brain can't
see it stepped through? Well here specifically what I do to make sure
I don't procrastinate. I literally visualize and
affirm what I'm about to go do. So if it's Sunday and I'd say, okay, you know tomorrow in the afternoon, I've got all these things,
I can procrastinate because I'm the only one
holding myself accountable. And could say well, you know
what um, let's see here. How would I avoid that? I will sit down and I'll do this twenty,
thirty minutes a day, visualizing the next day. Of that morning I'll sit
down and visualize the day. And I'll just step it
through, Ill say, okay. Let me see myself going into the kitchen, gettin' my little green tea,
going over to the office, sittin' down at the computer,
opening up that blank page, happily typing along, sensing and feeling those great emotions of doing my calling as a writer. Let me feel the power and the joy of finishing a great day of writing. Let me imagine myself goin' to dinner, gettin' to sit down
with my wife and saying, honey, here's what I did today. I wrote this part of the book. Let me hear, see, and
feel that interaction with her happiness and her
joy that I'm doing my path. Le me imagine myself
going to bed that night happy, that you know what? I did what I'm here to do. Now I don't know what your calling is or what you feel like you should be doing, but for me that simple, little activity of just literally walking
the entire day through. Not just one thing. I do this with mega athletes all the time. I say listen, I don't want
you to just imagine the fight. I want you to visualize yourself on the way over to the arena. I want you see visualize
yourself getting laced up. I want you to visualize yourself on the walk down to the ring, entering the ring, your first feelings
walking around the ring. The sense that you will have
as you are in that fight. That sense that you have when you're gettin' beaten in that fight and how you're gonna
feel and respond to that. Because visualization is
not just happy-go-lucky. It's also like, okay, see yourself, what do you do when there's a struggle? So for me, okay, what do I
do when I get writer's block? How does the Brendon dealing with writer's block deal with that? And I'll see it, I'll imagine
myself gettin' back at it, and I'll see it through. How's it feel when you win? How's it feel after the win? How's it feel at the end of the day? How's it feel when you
finally lay your head onto your pillow and go to bed? That is a full-day visualization on the things that matter the
most for your productivity. And I want you to do that at least either the night before, or the day of, the morning of. And what will happen, these
two things together is. I know you might say
Brendon that's so basic, but okay, did you do it last night? Because I've found as a
high-performance coach, sometimes it is not the big, crazy things. It's that people aren't
doin' the fundamentals. And they want me, Brendon, change my life. I go, okay, let's change your life. Let's be accountable. Did you do these things last night? So don't tell me it's too basic. This is me challenging and being honest. Did you do these two things last night? If you did give yourself a shout out down below and celebrate yourself. Good for you. If you're not doing this consistently that is why you are consistently
procrastinating my friend. I know sometimes life
change can be so basic and you go, duh! Why haven't I been doing that? But those ones are rally
important as a coach for me to call out for ya
because I know a lot of people who could be so much more effective if they got back to the fundamentals. Let me show you this last one with you. So first brain hack,
Project Plan day before. Step it all the way through. Day before or the morning of, visualize the entire process of the day and you doing it well, even
if you meet uncertainty, fear, struggle, hardship. And the last piece is, the
other brain hack, don't forget. That not only do we need order, not only do we need the
creatively and the visualization, we're also social animals. So I want you socialize your
agenda with other people. Socialize your agenda with other people. What does that mean? Well, it's just the same, you know, at this time of year a lot of people are tryin' to loose some weight,
or tryin' to go to the gym. And what's the first advice everyone always gives them because it's proven by science to work over and over and over again? Get a workout buddy. Because if you got a workout
buddy, you'll show up. It's harder to procrastinate when your name, your integrity, your relationships, are on the line. And so you need to tell people
about what you have to do. You'd probably be annoyed
hanging out with me cause like if we went out to dinner, I'd probably tell ya like ten
things I'm gonna do tomorrow. And I'm not tellin' ya that because I love to talk about work. I know if I speak it, it will
become more real the next day. If I don't affirm it and
share it with other people and it's just in my head, I'm just not gonna be as productive. And I do know without question, this is a big issue for a lot a people. They're stay-at-home moms. They're work-from-home entrepreneurs. They're you know, the senior leader in their company who does
a lot of status things but they don't themselves get to talk through a lot of things. And I can't tell you how important it is to speak through the reality
that you want, right? These things you could
certainly do on your own but if you shared these
thing with other people and you socialize that agenda, all of a sudden you won't procrastinate because you know that
you've out it out there. Other people are gonna
hold you accountable. Or even just more. Sometimes talking something through makes you wanna do it more. Literally they found in
psychological studies, just speaking out your goals makes it more likely you
will take consistent action on those goals. You're literally just speaking it. And they've even done it where
they took out other people. They just made someone stand
in a booth with a microphone and speak out what they were going to do. They were more likely to do that than if they just kept it in their head and didn't speak it. So if like, Brendon, I got
nobody who believes my dreams. I'm like, well I bet you have a friend and you could FaceTime them or Skype them and talk through it. It is so important for you
to speak through your dreams than you can probably ever imagine. And a lot of people keep that stuff to themselves because what? They're worried how they look. So now, imagine all these things
colliding on the opposite? You're worried how you look so you don't tell anybody, so you're not socially accountable, and you have no social cheerleading. You're worried what
other people will think, so in your brain you go, well if other people are
gonna think I'm crazy why even do this? I mean that's a risk so I
might look stupid if I do. So now your brain goes, well why even imagine
this for yourself anymore? Then your brain says well
if you can't imagine it for yourself anymore, why
would you even plan it? And if you can't imagine
it you can't plan it and other people might
think you're stupid. Why don't you go find something
else to do like Netflix or shopping or hanging
out or indulging yourself in some other hobbies that aren't relevant to what you're trying to do,
a.k.a., let's procrastinate. Because we're worried. You see how these tie together? So the brain hacks are to set yourself up so that you have more
confidence and routine and structure going in. These are the three ways as a recap. Project Plan. Night before, week before,
day of, I don't care. But if you can do it the day
before it sets it mentally in your brain and you have a
little more confidence in it. Definitely visualize night
before or day of all the time. And then last piece is socialize it. You've got to start sharing your thoughts, your dreams, your agenda,
what you're gonna do with other people. And if you do those
three things your brain will be more optimized and
more likely to get in the game and get stuff done. (upbeat music)
