Older Sister Is Envious Of My Pregnancy But Acts Like She Doesn't Want To Get Pregnant Ever

those who can't get along well with their sisters what is the reason I'm 28 female 6 months pregnant and the first in my family to be pregnant my family has reacted weirdly towards my pregnancy so far but this is a whole new level being this far along I'm constantly feeling the baby moving inside me she presses on my batter and makes a ruckus in there I found that gently rubbing my belly up and down over my clothes calms her down and keeps her from jabbing my insides with her feet my sister's 30 and 28 came over to visit while I was at my parents house we were sitting around and chatting when I felt the baby start to act up so I absentmindedly began to rub my belly my sisters both gave me a look like I was doing something disgusting they asked me why I was rubbing my belly and told me to stop after I explained they said it made them uncomfortable I obliged and stopped thinking they were just being weird an hour later I was grilling with my fiance and was rubbing my belly again my older sister saw and snapped at me she told me to stop it was weird and I looked like Buddha robbing his gut it was offensive that I stopped to keep the peace I just wanted to have a good time later we went out for ice cream before I got in the car my twin sister who is also pregnant but not showing yet stopped me and made me promise not to rub my belly in the car she said loudly to make my older sister laugh I guess no belly rubbing Buddha's in my car I said okay I just wanted ice cream while standing in line for ice cream I began absent-mindedly rubbing my belly again my sister saw snapped and shouted stop that's so weird everyone at the ice cream joint turned and stared at me it was so embarrassing before leaving for home I asked my mom what my sisters problems were with me my mom said it was the belly rubbing and it was weird my fiance had my back and said explained that it comes the movements and it's completely normal for me to do that my mom said I was being overly active and to imagine how hard it must have been for her when she was pregnant with twins this still didn't answer my question but my mom told me to be normal around my sisters and to stop being so sensitive I feel weird because I thought I wasn't doing anything wrong so rude it am i the big bellied idiot my sister is obsessed with her Instagram like she posts 3 to 4 times a day she's got an appearance and standards my daughter has struggled with her weight for a while she's 1.8 meters tall and 13 stone our goal is to get her down to 11 stone my sister took a picture of her and my daughter and posted it on Instagram my daughter was really excited but when she checked it she got really upset she hasn't left her room yet my sister had heavily edited the picture so my daughter looked skinny I was extremely angry and phoned my sister to tell her to take it down / post the unedited photo she refused telling me that she just wanted to show the world what a beautiful girl might also was and that she promotes health my daughter is trying to lose weight it isn't her fault and she's a beautiful growing girl my sister has crushed her so I commented I'm ashamed my daughter is beautiful without the heavy editing going on in this photo be ashamed sister for body shaming a young girl take this down immediately and apologize my sister didn't see it in time and got a bunch of negative comments she took it down but phoned me and tears saying I hurt her and that she's sorry but she didn't mean it etcetera my husband thinks that I went overkill i-22 female I'm super allergic to dogs like oatmeal baths and peeling skin days later allergic my sister 24 female knows this and yet constantly asks me to dog-sit her little Cujo a 4 years old border collie I always always say no well today she asks I say no and think it's the end of it nope 1 hour later I hear my front door open close and a car drive off I go to see what's happening in theirs Cujo completely tearing apart my mudroom so he's essentially contained in this room where you're meant to take off your coat / ooo / umbrellas blahblah before you get into the house the first door doesn't have a lock it's kind of like a screen and the second door that leads into my house does she leaves him in between these two I immediately call my sister who says she just needed to leave them with me for a week and that I can just put him in the backyard and feed him once a day she didn't leave any food I tell her that she has 30 minutes to come back and get the dog or I'm calling animal control she says she's on her way out of town on a freaking bus and can't make it I just hang up 30 minutes later no sister I call animal control and they take cue gel away he has wrecked my entire mudroom probably five pairs of shoes a couple jackets and an antique bench thing my sister calls three hours later to ask about dog who is obviously no longer there I tell her as much and that she'll be paying me back for the damages as well she screams at me for a second before realizing she needs to go get Cujo and hangs up to try to get someone else to pick him up the shelter has a 48-hour policy so he could be adopted out if someone doesn't pick him up soon she refuses to pay me back and I'm honestly thinking about just cutting her off entirely I female have an older sister who for the past few years has been nothing but a complete witch everything has to be about her and she always makes up problems to try to get my parents to waste money on her therapy because my mom started going it's all been very cumbersome she yelled at a kid at school to the point of getting suspended because he offered her a cupcake she spent hours exercising in the basement and screams at anyone who goes down there while she's using it and she gets all irritated whenever we cook something with an ingredient she can't eat she's very vain and obsessed with herself and all eyes have to be on her at all times all these little things built up over time but today was the last straw it's my birthday today and my parents got me a cake when they brought it out she literally took it off the table and slammed it on the ground ruining it I asked her what's your problem and she said nobody told me there was gonna be a cake I didn't have time to prepare she and I started arguing I told her that I'd had enough of her crap and can't wait until the day I never have to deal with her again she kept making excuses and I finally said something like you're the one who creates your problems you're such an attention-seeking witch that you can't handle anything that isn't about you so you do this stupid diet and health nonsense so mom and dad will waste their money on you at that point my parents broke up the fight because my little brother was crying and I got sent to my room my parents have been allowing her nasty behavior for too long saying she's being a normal hormonal girl but she's just a piece of crap I honestly cannot wait until the day I never have to speak to her again but was I too harsh she is still my sister and my parents never take my side so I feel like I could be wrong today was my day off and I decided to whip up a batch of adults cookies cookies that had special herb extract in them so I can snack on them for the weekend after they finish baking I left them out on a cooling tray so they can set just as I finished cleaning up the kitchen I hear the doorbell and went to answer and surprise surprise it's my sister with little niece and husband it's been a while since I've last seen them too it was a happy surprise I let them in and the smell of cook is still in the air and niece goes bolting towards the kitchen I instantly go chasing her and as I round the corner into the kitchen niece had just grabbed a cookie and was about to eat it quick on my feet I swooped in and grabbed the cookie out of her hand saying that these were adult cookies which cause nice to start freaking out my sister followed in and I explained to her that these cookies had herbs in them and assured her I was able to take the cookie away from nice before she had ate any she instantly blows up at me saying I shouldn't have such cookies out when there are kids in the house I explained how I had just finished baking them and they were setting and the fact that I didn't expect any children to be around I'm a single man kids she asked if I had anything that wasn't laced and unfortunately I didn't by this point niece has locked herself in the bathroom and is crying and my sister gave me a big old lecture about having it in reach of kids while I stand on the premise of there wouldn't be an issue if I had even known they were planning on dropping by today she called me a huge irresponsible idiot and I responded well maybe if you taught your daughter to not just grab stuff we wouldn't be at this mess she left to try to get nice out of the bathroom and I'm sat here typing this am I really the idiot here also before I get any flak I'm in Canada during the situation that is currently happening in the world my parents asked my husband and I to stay with them and my sister who is currently home from university my husband and I accepted since the two of us are working from home so we are not a danger to anyone and also because my mom really wanted to stay with me while I was pregnant I'm for almost five months along now my sister is a very spiritual person she constantly goes to fortune tellers burns essence and a lot of other things which I personally think is just a bunch of nonsense but she loves it a few days ago my husband and I went to the doctor for an ultrasound where the doctor told us the gender of our baby when we got home we began to tell our parents what it was when my sister suddenly shushed us grabbed my belly and then said that she was 100% sure that I was having a girl because she could sense its aura then my parents looked to my husband and I and asked us if she was right and I shook my head and told her that it was boy what you have been a happy moment was ruined when my sister burst into tears and started to scream at me saying that I was just trying to embarrass her and then she and into her room and slammed the door later she texted me a long angry message calling me every name under the Sun and that she had told my parents she wanted to drop out of school to become a physic and I had ruined it for her then she told me that if I was a good sister I would have told her the right gender beforehand so that she could prove to my parents that she had the I now I feel really bad was I really the idiot here I'm a dude my sister I cibele been playing a lot of animal crossing don't judge is older and we also have a little brother link let's go out here our mother is very into the fact that girls shouldn't be ashamed of their periods which I'm all for gay equality but she is a bit extreme and is dragging izybelle with her there have been two incidents where they have dragged me for being mean to my sister about her periods and making her feel gross I don't want to make her feel bad but it's making me uncomfortable eisah bell paints and has recently taken up painting with her period blood not my liver cup of tea bleached to their own I guess now's a good time to mention I hate blood makes me feel ill I Sibel decided to frame her creation and put it in the study where we do our home school I told her to put it in her room where I can't see it and she refused and called me extremely rude I asked again she refused the picture was placed in a place where I can't avoid looking at it it made me ill looking at it so after my sister refused to remove it I took matters into my own hands and I put on some gloves and put the painting a5 size in the bin she found it when she was emptying the bins and she started crying and my mother yelled about not accepting Isobel's womanhood and how if i went on disrespecting women like this i will not find a girlfriend when i explained about my phobia blood which my mother knows about and she said that period blood was different and i should accept it so my sister felt happy in her body and how i had no idea about how hard it is to grow up as a woman the second incident was when i Sibel was complaining about links poor aim and she and my mother were telling him about how gross it was i felt that this is unfair as whenever it's that time of the month she doesn't wrap pads up has no concerns about leaving the divock up on the kitchen table and often leaves the toilet looking grim she doesn't clean it up because her cramps are too bad and if you can't handle it you're never gonna get laid I then said bit rich coming from you the person who basically smears her bodily fluids around the house it's equally gross and you can't act all high and mighty when you're just as guilty my sister and my mom were saying that I'm being disrespectful to women and can't I handle just a little bit of blood I then said that the only difference between Lincoln dice Abele's behavior is that link is a little kid and we'll learn why lysa bill is aware of how gross she is being and refuses to stop I Sibel cried in my mum sent me to my room I really don't see any issue in the way I behaved but my parents and sister do and I asked a female friend and she agreed that I shouldn't have put up a fight or Chuck the painting as it is a sensitive topic for girls my sister is in her third trimester of pregnancy and she's about ready to pop any day now we are all excited about her new baby ever since the pregnancy began my sister and brother-in-law have kept their name choice a secret from everyone even their closest friends and family my sister and I are pretty close we can be nasty to each other every now and then but at the end of the day we'd still take a bullet for each other so last night she decided to share her baby name with me the name is Portobello and yes she did give me permission to share it here like the mushroom at first I thought she was joking but then she started saying how he could just call the kid Bella for short there's obviously nothing wrong with Bella but I think naming your kid after a mushroom is weird I told my sister that she can name her baby whatever she wants as long as brother-in-law is on board but she did not take this well she got really irritated pointing out how I have my weird obsession with fried chicken it's kind of true so why can't she have a weird obsession with her favorite mushroom I told her she can be obsessed with whatever food she likes but you don't see me making plans to name my firstborn the colonel this just made her explode I keep telling how the name is fine and I don't care what the baby is called as long as she's healthy but she's insisting I was being an idiot was I the I don't care what the baby's name is I'm just excited to be an auntie my older sister and I have always been best friends but completely opposite my sister is also extremely insecure which is crazy because she's beautiful she also recently got a divorce from her husband as she was unfaithful and they couldn't work through it she ended up going a bit off the deep end after the divorce but nothing crazy except lip injections neither of us had small lips but she chose to inflate her top lip to a huge size and she refuses to admit she got them done to me or any family that's fine and I don't care her body her choice but I think it's dumb to deny it anyways she had a bad habit of putting me down to make herself feel better I don't think she realizes this I usually let it roll off my shoulders because I love myself and I'm okay with the way I look however when we went to the bar together and got to talking to a group of people she would not stop bringing up how small my lips were compared to hers I have no idea why it was obnoxious over and over again I kept trying to steer the conversation away but she kept coming back to it finally when she said can you believe we are sisters look how small her mouth is tiny I don't know where I came from my lips are so full compared to hers it's crazy I turned to her and said I know where your lips came from and it's called Juvederm can you please stop I feel like such a bad person now we don't have the kind of relationship where we attack each other but I was so tired of the years of constant put downs am I wrong for telling her off so my sister borrows my clothes all the time I use that word in quotations cause it's full-on stealing I tell my parents and they just tell her to stop but have never punished her I have started to put my favorite stuff in a drawer so she can't get into there there are these three bras I really like and are really expensive the cheapest of the pair is an IKE sports bra that was around 115 dollars it went missing for a week my sister had a couple friends over and they all DB JJ so they were sparring in the backyard lo and behold she is wearing my sports bra I didn't even care if her friends were over I went over to her and didn't cause a huge scene but basically said in a stern voice for her to change and take off my bra she said if it could wait till they were done but I said no after a couple minutes of fighting with me she went to go change after they all left my sister was really mad at me for embarrassing her I told her to not steal my stuff and this wouldn't happen she told my mom and now I'm grounded for embarrassing her and making her feel sad so I 26 female have an older sister 28 when we were very young our parents dad is from Spain mom isn't divorced and I decided to live with my dad while my sister decided to live with more as a result I grew up fluent in Spanish while my sister did not dad moved back to Spain to retire and sister decided to join him for a while since she didn't spend a lot of time with him growing up she spent a few months there got a boyfriend and came back home with him she introduced me to him a while ago and it was very clear he was struggling with English so I decided why not strike up a conversation in Spanish I'm fluent and it did give him a break from having to speak English all the time while he's here my sister was preoccupied so I started talking to him just general things how'd you two meet and so on she comes back into the room and seems put off that I'm not speaking in English with him after dinner they go back home but I get a long text from my sister it basically says I'm not comfortable not knowing what you're saying to my boyfriend so please speak only English to him from now on even when I'm not part of the conversation you know I'm very insecure about these things because of my last relationship so don't do this to me she's only recently started picking up my calls we have dinner plans next week and I'm not sure how to respond if he asks me something in Spanish I know if I say I'm not allowed to speak anything but English it will not go over well I didn't know that her last relationship was rocky and she did tell me that she was having trust issues with new partners I didn't expect that to extend to language bands now I feel bad since I did unintentionally make her feel self-conscious [Music]

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Published: Tue Jun 23 2020