Khadeen & Devale Ellis Talk Monogamy, Petty Arguments, Free Passes + More

wake that ass up early in the morning the breakfast club morning everybody it's dj envy angela yee shalom in the guy we are the breakfast club we have some special guests in the building yi was hating he turned her mic off we had i don't believe it i don't believe it what's up everybody how are y'all i love that i love that they are collectively the dead ass podcast that we are yes sir don't get no more new york than that no i don't they pushed back on this too stitcher was just like i don't know if we can do dead ass that's a little risky well that is really short yeah i was like nah you gotta do that there's not gonna be nothing they didn't understand the sling at all yeah they didn't get it i wonder what they thought dead ass that's what they asked us what what do you mean exactly by dead ass right i think it's a new york term it's a colloquial term with you and to me truth seriously i love that you guys explain it at the beginning of every episode yeah we had to fight for that so so first of all shout out to y'all because um y'all are like big in our house every morning i take my kids to school when we lived in brooklyn and we he had to be in school by nine o'clock so eight fifty he had he hear andrew lee's rumor report he knows your voice my son knows y'all voice like if he hear y'all anywhere else he's like yo that's charlemagne that's envy and we heard other morning shows he was he was like no [ __ ] he was like this [ __ ] is whack this is not how old is he he's nine he turned ten tomorrow salute to that young king you can listen to us on the app die hard radioactive about the house hunting process and buying a house so how is everything are y'all all settled in and all that not at all no we still in boxes do you know what i mean you're still in boxes where the kids have a lot of space now so you know we're just happy to be able to have home base for them now where we could set them up they could run they have their own rooms you know and all that and slowly things will come together what made you all move was it dependent well now we um we moved to la initially because you know we were chasing the tv film thing you know what i'm saying and uh the minute we actually moved to la i ended up booking a job in atlanta so we was in la for 18 months so we moved to calabasas and um it's not brooklyn like it's not brooklyn it's a bubble um my son was the only black kid in the class and you know you're always trying to focus on upward mobility and then you get to that place and you realize like this is not the environment i want my son in because he kind of feels like he used to come home and ask questions a lot and he should be like man they say stuff to me that just don't seem right and i'm like why they're like oh you the cool kid cause you got braids and jordans and he's like i just feel like i'm just the only black kid and i was like damn like like i'm putting i'm thinking i'm putting my son in a better situation and i realize i'm not so we're like let's move back east let's you know say now that everything is remote you know i'm on two shows now so it's like let's kind of move back home to family and it just felt right so plus the property value was good you know i'm saying we could buy better bigger better house for the banks money yeah it affects the kids you know you know being a father having the same problem it's like you you try to put your kids in a better school in a better area where they can learn you think yeah then it really messes their mind up because now they feel like they're alone like they're the only black kids so for myself i put my kids in sports like my son plays football like this weekend he had a game in patterson in the north like so that way he gets both sides absolutely amazing that's where he came from you know yep yep no for sure absolutely that was super important for us what is the podcast the podcast yo yo it's funny bro it's story you got mad stories we do got mad stories but it really is just like our life like we we just two kids from brooklyn who hustle like everybody else and i met my best friend when i was 18 my wife here and we just live life together grinding taking chances with each other and we wanted to just show people like this is how fun marriage can be even though there's some tough times but it's just fun let's talk about the real time like i'll give you an example when i first met my wife this was in uh 2002 we were at a banquet of our our elementary school we was going to and uh pam oliver was hosting and pam oliver she was reading down the list of accomplishments the val ellis got a scholarship to hofstra aspire to play in the nfl uh if you want to do that you know you're going to have to grow and gain more weight and then she was like like like one of those cocky laughs it was real condescending you know and i was kind of like you're going to have to get your weight up and i'm like i'm like yo she laughing at me right so me and my wife wasn't together at that moment right that's the day we met though that's the day we met yeah so fast forward uh four years now i get to try out with the lions make the team my first home game starting was against the jets it all comes full circle yeah so it all comes full circle my first home game with the lions is against the jets my family's in the stands and the jets you know they looked out for me they got my wife down the time was my girlfriend she got her on the down there on the on the stadium and she's on the field with my mom and they're like yo your mommy your wife's down there tell her some pictures get up there right so um i'm down there as soon as i come down i see my wife my girlfriend at the time and she's like yo yo you see that [ __ ] pam all of us over there and i'm just four years later and i'm right there i'm like yeah i see i'm like yes yeah i was like you remember number 80. oh you pressed pam check this out she says to me she says to me i'm supposed to be returning punts and she calling me over i'm like she's she paying my oliver i'm like yeah [ __ ] you gonna go say something to her i'm like i can't i'm about to play a game she said you don't got to because i already did something so this is in the middle of metlife stadium three pounds bang bang me and her body bump in the middle of metlife stadium right before a game my coach is like devout get your ass over here but it's just too brooklyn like you got so many number 80 that you said needs to get his weight up that he would never make it to the nfl over there and i gave her the laugh too what did she say and she was like no way are you i never said that did i say that yeah you said that yeah what if she took her wig off and slapped you they've been shout out to pam oliver because she's a pioneer what she does she was being honest i was five right i was five eight hundred and forty pounds [ __ ] on somebody dreams that's how i feel but that's not but that don't mean never that just means like look constructive criticism is like you might want to find something else to do i can respect that i can respect it i can respect that i can respect that it's about davao you said you booked two jobs and i heard on one of the podcasts you guys are talking about how the dynamics of your relationship have changed because now you have to work right and you're gone and you get upset because kadeen gets really busy and wrapped up with what she has going on with work with the boys and sometimes she doesn't facetime you and call you when she's supposed to yeah it gets me tight it gets me tired here's a problem i don't wait i want yesterday to do my nails for three hours i'm like the funny thing is we okay we work together we live together we have businesses together so we're literally always together so we don't have any space ever really to just like be so if i leave to go do my nails for three hours i'm thinking all right i'm giving this dude some time to miss me he's calling me you took you forever to do your nails i'm like bro we're always together a lot of times women think that's about something else but it's really just us being concerned like it's a crazy world we live in shut up he's literally all in yo or my mother you're on my mother kale be like hey i'm gonna run real quick i'll be right back five hours later i'm texting you i'm like yo you ain't answering your text you ain't facetiming she's like i'm getting my nails done i couldn't i'm like you was going for five hours they really stealing people out here you ain't answering your phone you don't expect me to be concerned but you really can't answer the phone when you're getting your nails done that's what she said before i'm just like i gotta give this dude some time to miss me sometimes because then you know it just means so how is that because like you said you guys have always been together it's been 10 years and we're going to talk about that great anniversary that y'all had for your 10-year anniversary but before we get to that let's talk about that because it is different now right because davao is gone for periods of time and you are not physically together so how has that changed your relationship um it's it's kind of changed our relationship in in a little bit i mean we just came out of a pandemic where we couldn't do nothing so we was on each other all the time but i mean the time to miss each other kind of took us back to college in the league because when i was in the league i'd be going for weeks i'd be going for months and during those times we really really missed each other so when we came back it was fireworks right i think we need that i've been together for 18 years almost 19 years yeah we definitely need a space so him being away filming for a couple weeks at a time that gives me uh time to you know rejuvenate the sexy and whatnot and you know rebuild that you know wanting to see each other like it's necessary when you've been with somebody for so long it's very necessary how long are you in the league four years okay okay so you you don't you don't get the pension yeah i missed it about three games three games three games i learned a lot about i learned a lot about like ownership and and finances do the nfl bro like they find ways for example it's all about cheaper younger talent right so i played for the lions for three years i got picked up by the browns got released and my agent told me like it was going to be hard for you to get back into the league i was like what you mean he was like whoever picks you up now is going to be responsible for your pension from now until you're done so for them it's like i might as well just go get a rookie pay them the league minimum having rather than having to pay you a million dollars and from a business standpoint i get it right you know what i'm saying from a business standpoint from my ownership standpoint i get it but from a player's standpoint i'm like this is jacked up but um that's what the cba is always fighting for you know they're always fighting to make sure players are taken care of so uh at that point i made a decision i didn't want to play ball no more i wanted to focus on tv film my wife wasn't too happy about that at the time she was like what like i was like you're about to do what you about who leaves a bag on the table to me i felt like all right well they don't want to play play you in the nfl the canada i think has some interest in him she's trying to send me the candidate she's trying to send me the candidate you in detroit you might as well just like go to canada and play a year or two because to me i kind of felt like he also did not he wasn't able to live out his full potential playing in the nfl so i feel like he still had more to prove i cursed out pam oliver for you i understand that you have more to prove i understand that but this was my thing right i also had a functioning pain med addiction that playing football kind of that was dangerous for me because what people don't understand about football is you have to make it through practice in order to play so i wake up in the morning take four tylenol take four tylenol before practice take four times or after practice then take two vicodin and go to sleep and i'm doing that monday through saturday just to get through practice and then i'm taking pain meds on sunday night she knows to me too at the time i didn't know yeah the time she didn't know so and i didn't know how it was affecting me it wasn't like a pain medicine where i was like i need the pain meds on to get high i just needed it so my body was numb so i could play ball so i was like man i really don't want to do this no more and then um and that's another thing we talk about on the podcast when we talk about so many things that we've gone through since being together from 18 everything you see on instagram with us is the happy version right it's the highlights you know what i'm saying so on the podcast we get a chance to talk about those times when i had my pain medicine the time when i thought i was going to lose kadeen having our first son and she got rushed into emergency surgery and i had to learn about maternal health you know i'm saying we had to talk about mental health because after the nfl i was suffering from depression like i was getting off the payments i lost a lot of money in the stock market lost a lot of money on property and we and literally the podcast is like an audio sitcom when i decided that i wanted to get into tv film i said i wanted to have my own sitcom i wanted to have my own show and show like a positive a positive black family and people like based on what i said imagine if you had a pro athlete who retires in the prime of his career loses all his money and have to move back to gentrify brooklyn that sounds like a long line a log line for a show but that was our life in our late 20s and we had to pretty much build everything back from there and i had to do that with my best friend who was my wife and it's just a lot of funny stories but a lot of ups and downs and the podcast is a way for us to talk about those things and that's um have the things you're doing now filled that void that football left because i hear that from so many athletes like either they didn't make it pro or they made it pro and it was only it's only there for a short time bro that was never really your dream though playing football it was always a means to and when i first met kid 18 she was like yo what you want to do with your life and i was like that martin was on tv she was like that i was like y'all gonna be an actor i want to tell stories and she's like how you gonna do that and i told i was gonna use football as a means dope but what happens is when football becomes your whole life for ten years and people are constantly giving you a structure for what your life is gonna be when that's taken away suddenly there's no way to avoid depression bro they don't matter how much money you got i got boys who got 25 million in the bank who call me and just randomly be like yo d i'm not i'm not doing well like what you mean they're like yo it's me and my kids and my wife in the house i don't know what to do i'm like well you got money start some businesses you're like money ain't a thing to me like i don't i don't care about that i just don't have a purpose and that's when we also started you know talking about black mental men's health on the podcast because we don't talk about that like and i know you big on that charlemagne and it's kind of it's good to see it be normalized now you know um i am athlete podcast they talk about it all the time i did an interview with uh cam newton and cam newton was talking to me about it and i thought it feels good now to be able to say yo you hurt my feelings you know like this this this make me feel bad like i talk to my wife like my homeboy a lot of times it gets me in trouble you know a lot of times it gets you know did you hear the clip on monogamy y'all that went viral yes you know yeah i got dragged on twitter for being honest definitely sent me a dm like why did you put that up but yo i was like this is one of those things too now though where i feel like because people are so accustomed to things being sugar coated that if they see people having a very candid open blunt conversation it's seen as aggressive or seen as disrespectful yeah but we don't function like that we've always been very very completely honest that's gotten us in trouble sometimes even with each other but we've been going accustomed to it and just realized that we cut out so much time and aggravation just by being honest and people who see that in our podcast or even see that in our day-to-day interaction on instagram they they're taken aback by it and we're just like why don't more function why don't more relationships function like this yeah what was the monogamy clip i forgot i think i think i remember was that the one where you somebody said um you can no yeah so what happened was we were so there was there was a whole story behind it the monday the monday this we were supposed to be shooting four episodes of the podcast right that week yep kay and i have this thing with sex where i'm like yo i like when you get dressed up for example kate don't dress like this every day she knows she's coming on the the breakfast club she put her makeup on she got her 36 dollar wig on her head y'all know when you marry sometimes you're like y'all i like when my wife get dressed up so monday monday she dressed up and i was like yo let's you know tonight let's do something she's like i got you tonight you'll be in the moment you go to an event or whatever so you have my little hair doing and the ponytail he likes the ponytail so she had the ponytail and she's like i'm gonna take care of you tonight monday come and go she forget tuesday she get drunk you know how this is when you matter when you're married and then tuesday so she gets dressed again cause we had that we had the podcast she get dressed up again i got you tonight she talking hot tuesday night i get home she forget again she put that head when she put that scarf on you know it's a rap bro she did it monday tuesday wednesday thursday night she promised me she was like bro i got you tonight she had this long tail she had the she had the rhinestones on her forehead everything was looking nice she was like yes she's like young cracker pepper baby i'm gonna crack the pepper for you if y'all don't see me crack the peppermint get it popping right so we get home that night i run to the bathroom i come back she got the stocking cap on and she got the stocking cap on with the little her little ponytail here she took she took it out i took the paper piss bro i'm like yo this is all weak you've been promising me that she was going to do this so now and i put on this cute i put on this cute little all-in-one bodysuit from savage fancy he was like look at you in your dry ass dusty bodysuits i said perfectly so now i'm pissed right so now we have sex that night we have angry sex but they ain't the type of sex i was trying to have right so we wake up the next morning good angry sex like tommy and belly uh yeah baby okay okay but my thing is you still put it off and you ain't do what i asked you to do so we wake up that morning now we gotta do a podcast so we get in there and we already submitted the the the terms we're gonna do for the podcast so we get there like hey the the podcast is about monogamy i'm like now we gotta talk about sex like we've been arguing about sex all week we gotta talk about sex so we're talking about sex right and it came to this point in about the podcast and i'm like yo let me ask you a question if sex is gonna be a chore for you as a wife why did you want monogamy right and she was just like you didn't want monogamy and i was like i did but i felt like you kind of pushed monogamy on me i said that and her response was oh so i forced you to marry me i didn't say that she moved to gophers i didn't say that but more or less what was he trying to say but this is where i messed up right i was so mad and i was being petty and we both petty that i didn't take it back and be like no babe you didn't force me to marry you i said because now i'm being mad because now i'm being petty and i'm like at the time when we was getting married we you know we weren't even agreeing on when we were going to get married because i had lemonade i lost my money playing ball i had said that at that time like i think we should wait to get married because financial among a good spot and she was like i'm not waiting no more i want to get married so i kind of felt like yeah like you wanted to get married at this point so now that you wanted to get married at this point when it comes time to do these things as a wife and you keep putting me off it kind of makes me feel like you didn't really want monogamy you just wanted me also sorry 27 year old kadeem at the time was thinking i want to be clear about what the intentions are what what am i expecting to gain from this relationship or not because at that point we've been together for nine years so i just want to know where we're going to get there so he took that as pressure to me i was just stating where i stood in that time i don't see anything wrong what happened after that conversation that now you said so now what happens for three more days so what happened was i said uh right and uh we end up having a full argument on the podcast great content yeah we had a full argument on the podcast and then um but that's marriage arguments y'all know how that go we get over it the podcast comes out like four weeks later we forget that we had this whole argument right back and now we now we arguing about something else and then people are hitting me on twitter like yo y'all trending on twitter and i'm like for what and they just like your monogamy comment and i said what monogamy comment cause somewhere in the comments i had also i said i said she had said to me sex ain't that important to me and i was trying to prove a point and i was like that's not fair because if sex ain't that important to you why you get so upset at the thought of me having sex with someone else and then she and then people just like he just want to have sex with other people i'm like i just was trying to make a point but y'all took it and y'all ran with it but i'm like that's i mean to be honest you know we people was mad it was men versus women agreed with me women agree with her and it created content but uh people was mad at us for a little bit mission accomplished this good conversation yeah i mean i get i get i see both sides you know what i mean because it's not like you want it you're not going to creep on your woman i'm not like that's something but you could you're desirable it's all you're trying to say appreciate that charlemagne i appreciate his wife i don't eat it is that it's just that all that old adage which you don't do somebody else will not saying he would follow me no i would never say that to my wife you know what i mean but it's a thought sometimes like i don't want it to be a choice that would say to me do that was just like women out there want me i am a sex symbol like he lets me know listen this is the truth this this and i agree that's why and women went and women went uh what uh could dean as well yo let me now here's the thing envy this is my point this is my point nvme when kate says she wants something or she needs something i make it my point to get it done because i understand that i'm like i'm not going to disregard your feelings and your needs because the same way you want monogamy i want monogamy too if my wife wants if i want monogamy and i'm going to say to my wife yo i want to be the only person you come to for all of this when she say she want to need something i'ma take care of it so when i ask for the same thing and you constantly saying later later later i'll be like why you always on me it's like damn like yeah why don't you do the same for me if i'm trying to do the same for you so it's not a thing where i'm like i could get mad chicks it's like yo let's serve each other and that's ultimately what the podcast is about we're talking to people about i had to make a decision in my life to learn how to serve my wife so i could be a better husband you know like even even the sex thing you know how we figured out what happened with her sex drive yeah because he hasn't had revelations over like the past five seasons it kind of started where we were like bitching about what we had problems we have problems oh wow let's hear more about this because i'm having the same issues and then we kind of felt like we had a breakthrough recently we figured it out bro yeah she and and this is part of me being a man and realizing my faults right i don't like wearing condoms she don't like when i wear condoms so she gets on birth control right it don't matter what type of birth control she got on she got on a non-hormonal it affected her sex drive it's unfair for me as a man to be like get on birth control then when your libido drops you like what's wrong with you that's right you see you see what i'm saying because then she was talking to me like yo we got three kids how about you get a vasectomy and that i kind of feel like damn i don't want to get a vasectomy but then i'm like it's unfair for me to constantly tell you to put hormones in your body and then when it affects you i get mad and that's that's a revelation that i had and i had to talk about it on the podcast like that conversation we had about monogamy made us sit down and be like yo let's figure out what's going on with your body and mind we spoke to a doctor we got off the birth control and it was like night and day august we was having issues she got off the birth control september i can't get away from me bro i cannot get her away from me i'm like i'm like i'm like i need a break and then talking about that we realized that there were so many people out there that were just like having the same issues and they don't even realize what it comes from and birth control pills can also make you gain weight they can make you dry too yeah and we didn't realize that that was an issue we thought if you on the iud and it's the copper iud non-hormonal there should be no side effects and it wasn't until we had the conversation publicly that we realized like yo that's uh that's part of the issue so we we ended up fixing it and we talked about it so you know what that's such a good convo because um men have fragile egos right absolutely so it's like if you don't want to sleep with me i start questioning myself like you'd be like will smith on freshman what about you you know what i mean like that's literally that's really how he was charlotte babe i tell you bro when i when i say i'll say to her like yo other chicks want me i'm the same type of dude that my ego i'd be like you know how this is [ __ ] with my ego that's right i go to my wife and i ask for something she's constantly rejecting me that makes me feel bad i don't mind being honest and saying that like i start looking at myself like my hair's thinning a little bit let me get back in the gym i get out the shower i'll be looking at her like am i looking good like what's up like you start to question yourself bro rf treatment you're all right cartwheels and all right not cartwheels at all yeah we have some revelations we're good and you guys also celebrated your 10-year anniversary last year so let's talk about that because that was an amazing i got to give it up to you for that one's about like can you tell us about the process behind the scenes of what was happening so um the whole time my wife is jamaican and vincentian she loves to go to jamaica and travel and we were supposed to have a big volunteer and i realized that damn we're not going to have the viral new because of the pandemic so i got to find a way to make this special and um the one thing about living in la is you meet people right you know we met jamie foxx and uh we became close friends of his so i was like yo jamie i need a favor and you're like what's up i was like i need you to sing this song it's my wife's favorite song i need you to sing it so he was like you know i got you right so um i was like could you swing by the house and sing it you know what i'm saying so he was like i can't do that because i got some things that i'm doing but he got on the piano recorded a video sent it to me and uh he made it an original song mentioned kadeen and it mentioned me in it and she had no idea this was happening so the morning of our anniversary you know i played it for and she cried and it was all nice and like i mean we were disappointed of course because we were playing a whole big thing um out in jamaica and whatnot but that totally made up for it ended up just being what it was supposed to be about us you know we got some time together the kids were in new york with my mom and my dad and you know it was nice and it was it's just uh it was an opportunity for me to get back to to what made us work in the very beginning which is just the gestures of showing each other we love each other like you get to a point in your life when you're making a lot of money and you can buy your wife whatever and then she make her own money so i go to baja stuff and she already bought it so i'm like damn what can i do to show how i'm thinking about what she want what she need what's important for her and stuff like that and that was a gesture for her and you know she bought me a watch and uh that night she put on the ponytail [Laughter] it was it was it was good it was a good moment i was a school girl that night actually yeah he was he was a school guy that night did you all expect the podcast to blow up the way that it did um i i didn't well first of all i'll say this i was not completely signed up for any of this from jump and my because i grew up in a very traditional west indian household where the first thing i was taught as soon as i can remember anything was you don't tell people your business like you you are you stay to yourself anything that happens in this household in this family stays in the house so at first when we started just even doing videos and stuff on instagram and just letting people into our household uh my mom like my dad everybody was just like i don't understand what you're doing but why are you telling everybody your business like why are you letting people into this space um and i wasn't signed up for it completely you know but deval and i started to do the videos they picked up some traction we were also trying to he had the foresight let me tell you bro but i was just not not with it in the very beginning this is my belief i believe that there's a delusional quality that all successful people have and um when i was in high school they was like how you gonna get to college or someone just go to school for free i'm gonna get a scholarship they say hi i said i guess i'm gonna play football made it happen she i told i was gonna go to the nfl to to buy us a property so that we can live in brooklyn and i can be i don't have to be a starving artist people laughed at me i made it to the nfl when i started this whole thing with with social media i told her i was like yeah i want my own sitcom i want to do tv i want to do this but i'm not going to sit back and wait for somebody to pick me you know i'm saying like i'm just not going to do that so i'm going to create my own content i created the social sitcom it was 15 second videos and i continued to stay consistent one of the big people who was was uh very inspirational in my life was 50 cent right i worked as a stunt double for power for three years that was amari stunt double and um i met 50 one day and this was after i did the funeral video i was a lead in one of his videos and this is one another story me and kay being partners i call okay i said yo k50 is on set today and she was like word i was like yo i'm about to press this [ __ ] he's like she's like what you mean i said y'all gonna talk to him about being in this bmf joint and then she was just like she was just like you're gonna do that i was like yeah yeah do it do it so when you go on these sets he's an executive producer you don't talk to the executive producer like he's 50 cent you don't just walk up on them right so i was on set he caught my eye core design he was like yo you know what i'm saying we talked about the funeral video he's like yeah we'll chop it up so now i'm thinking this is my opportunity to go holla at him the end of the night comes he's coming down the hallway and everybody's quiet because it's 50 cent he's intimidating dude he got the pa behind him and um i walk in he's about to get on the elevator i go to get on the elevator the pa put his hand out right i knocked that [ __ ] down like bow get on the elevator right so the pa he's looking at me i'm like what what right so then 50 is laughing right he's like what's up i was like yo you're a bully yo and he was just like yeah a little bit and i was like yeah i'm a bully too i'm from brooklyn so i'm let you know i want to work together i know you got that bmf project this was three years ago i know you got that bmf project and he was just like yo we gonna work get me with the hollywood you know we're gonna work he ain't gonna work but i know how that works i respect the game so i thought that was it i just wanted him to remember my face so that if i get an audition he could be like i know that guy he goes to get off the elevator yo rock with me walk i walk with him to his dressing room he was talking to me about the game and he was just like what you got going on i showed him my videos he was like yo somebody [ __ ] is funny he was like yo if you stay consistent you never know which one of these things will go viral if it go viral now you have a catalog of videos that people can go back and see your work so he said if you're serious about this don't stop no matter if you only got i only had 3 000 followers at the time so that whole summer i was doing videos three i went back home i said i spoke to 50. i'm gonna do three videos a day she was like yo you're [ __ ] wild but i was like yo just trust me i was doing these videos in september video went viral after that bro it went from 3000 to six thousand twenty thousand fifty thousand before i knew it had a half a million followers and in all my old videos was getting mad views and i always credit 50 cent for giving me the foresight to say let me continue to do this when i only got 300 people watching because he was the one that said to me if you stay consistent when something popped you got a catalog that's right and um i also respect 50 because you know he hit me with the hollywood yeah we gonna work and i got a story about charlemagne too i got a story about charlemagne i understand that when you're not a person with an opportunity people are going to come to you for stuff all the time you can't talk to everybody right you can't talk to about especially talking about let me tell you about charlemagne right we have to sorry to bother you uh the sorry to bother you uh before i say yo baby we about to do this podcast thing i'm about to get i'ma get this on a breakfast club y'all i'm not playing and she was like what you mean i said yo look who hosting it's like charlemagne hosting i'm about to run up on charlemagne when i get there right so she's like yeah yeah do that do that right so now it all ends right yeah charlemagne is on the stage she all ends he's coming off right i catch either charlemagne charlemagne catch either of me i can see in charlemagne's face that charlemagne already knew like this looked like the type of [ __ ] that's going to run up on me right now right or he thought she was cute from what he said earlier very desirable so charlotte may walk by me right now i was like yo show me what's good you gave me a pound whatever i said yo let me holler at you he was like all right all right so we walk outside i don't like his tone wow so i'm like yo charlemagne me and my wife got a podcast coming out we doing this we're doing that he's listening he's like he was like i was like yeah i was wondering you know i'm saying i want to give him a breakfast club so we can talk about it he was like yeah you take my let me get your phone and give you my number right so he takes my phone right and he puts all the numbers in there and i close on my good looking you know i want to keep him too much you know what i'm saying because a lot going on charlotte may walk away right we get outside i look at my phone he only put nine digits in there right and we needed this in here right so i was like did he do that on purpose i was ready to go back in there come come after you i was like you forgot a digit charlemagne can't go hit me with the cake going to be like yo he tried to stunner yo you played he tried to swerve you like he was a bad [ __ ] she's like i'm going back inside i'm like nah now who's the bad [ __ ] i definitely didn't do that on purpose so this is the thing no i said okay i said real talk charlotte may probably get people that do two minute pitches every single day i think i understand the game like you can't take a shortcut you got to grind you got to show your work you got people have to see what you bring to the table for you to get opportunity i said if this ain't our moment this ain't our moment so then things did take off though i'm definitely not that guy i pay attention to everything because you never know what's gonna be what yeah that's true which is true which is true but i was i wasn't mad but i was like he probably did kind of cover me a little bit and then uh kate was she always getting mad when she thinks somebody do something to me she gets because i was like my baby's a bad [ __ ] so what i needed to do for y'all to understand that she's my biggest cheerleader like she's my biggest child i like that everything she's like yeah go ahead go for it dude i'm like dude i'm always egging him on like listen we're gonna rob a bank we're gonna do it together yeah that's good i was gonna say another thing on another episode y'all were talking about that right it's about you being called this sam kadeen you being called submissive but that is important in relationships that's kind of how you should be toward each other at certain times yeah it's just it's funny on social media like i'll say something in men's favor and women will just be like oh he's sexist and he's misogynistic but then if i say something in women's favor then i'm a simp it's like you know people are going to be triggered by whatever you say but this is my truth like you know my my life is not a monolithic version of what blackness is like some days i feel like as a man i should stand up for my masculinity some days i feel like you know what i can't push the patriarchy too much like this ain't fair so i'm gonna say both when i think it's fair sometimes people be mad sometimes people love it but it's my truth i'm never going to run for months i mean i get women all the time that are just like what's your prayer what did you say what'd you do i was like yeah i have to understand that like this is like 19 years in the making so what you're seeing now the valencian that you see now have been through 19 years worth of [ __ ] so if we're not transparent about where we've been things we've had conversations we had at 27 and people want to hold us to that one six minute clip then be my guest but we at least know that we're sharing the entire thing so like i said before i wasn't signed up for it but now that i am i feel like it's our duty to be able to have to tell people this is the entire picture here and then the beauty behind it is that we pick and choose what we want to share and how we want to share it and i'm sure both of y'all are different individuals from when y'all first started oh hell yeah the fact like even if you had to give yourself a grace to grow like i listened i would hope it wouldn't be the same season one of the podcast and i was like i thought that then and that was two years ago right you know we're in season five now i look like i'm pretty sure i'm gonna look at this interview three years later and looking back and be like damn i thought that at that point you know what i'm saying like i'm constantly trying to evolve and working to be a better father working to be a better husband but i do know this i got married to serve like my wife is my life partner like if i'm gonna serve somebody i'm gonna serve my wife i'm gonna serve god right so if people view me as a simp because i'm taking care of my wife and i spoil her i buy her gifts and all right then i'll be a symptom but but typically the dudes that call me a simple the dudes who are lost who out here not understanding what they want out of life you know what i'm saying and they see me being happy and they got to label me at something you know it's the same thing as women we'll be like oh kadeem is too submissive and i'm just like i'm too submissive to your wife bro or just being successful in general and you know it's funny because i look at like people expect for for example when you have children they're just like you know the children come first the children come first and that's what i used to think for a long time my children came first and everybody thereafter but recently davao and i have been talking about focusing more so on each other like putting each other first and servicing each other first because then that family that entity that unit that we are everybody will feel the positive effects of that children included and i never thought like that i always just like i think maybe two because moms have a different connection to their children so you feel like all right this is my life right here and everybody else is secondary but we started now in these 10 years or the next 10 years our our focus is servicing each other more you think that happens when your children get a little older too because maybe when they're younger i don't know i'm just asking you i mean um i mean they definitely need more when they're younger i mean our kids are now jackson will be ten tomorrow four and three so they still definitely need us a lot or need me a lot but nah we still gotta service each other because i i'll admit the first five years our marriage i was a terrible husband bro and i was terrible because i thought i was doing everything i was supposed to be in a as a husband as far as checking the boxes you ever heard people say like when you talk about marriage you know i want to be a provider a protector i want to be this i want to be that i was doing all that i was making money i made sure my wife didn't have to work full-time i was working 14 16-hour days but i wasn't there emotionally and i wasn't there spiritually so i realized now how bad of a husband i was because with me checking the boxes i then wanted her to check the boxes i'm doing all these things you supposed to cook and clean and make sure when i come home i'm happy and we weren't happy together and i started to realize now that i got to wake up in the morning and be like yo what's what's going on with you today because some days like in marriage it's not 50 50. some days it's 80 20. i may wake up once someday and i may only be giving 20 because i may have something else going on in my life and she got to give 80. some days i got to wake up and be like yo i see k is tuned out for whatever reason i got to give 80. but i got to be in tune to my partner because if i'm not giving to her the kids ain't gonna get what they need anyway that's right you know what i'm saying so we just we just kids can feel that oh for sure yo remember oh my gosh the other day me and jackson were having an argument and would not mean well he was screaming at my youngest son and i said to him i said bro what makes you think you can scream at your brother like that and he was like well you scream at mommy whoa yeah and i was like oh my god that was just bro he had just done that like a couple days before that and the thing is we don't we don't scream at each other you're just from brooklyn the l train line but um in this in this particular story this is a months ago kadeem we had some people over and we're really big with covert protocols because i film a lot so we have people over a lot and um i always make sure people get tested for cover and stuff like that the one time that we did it we ended up contracting kovit and my son is a empath so he always thinks things are his fault so he got he ended up getting it first so i took him to the doctor i got him tested he ends up testing positive so he's crying in the calm like then i got covered everybody gets sick it's my fault mommy's gonna be mad so i'm doing damage control in the car and i'm like no your mother's not gonna be mad it wasn't you we invited people in the house i'm saying all these things and finally i get them to get off the edge you know as soon as we get to the house she go to mom protocol she's like all these times i told you get your damn hands out your mouth do this all this other stuff you probably got it to yourself i lost it because i'm like i i did all of this damage control and then jackson's looking at me for help you obviously the videos where y'all like stop looking at your father the minute she start going on him he's looking at me like and i'm like i'm like i was just trying to deduce where the hell this [ __ ] coven came from because i was i'm that mom that's like yeah on my p's and q's with it so we end up having an argument i'm screaming at her she's screaming at me and then i'm not realizing i'm screaming at her in front of the kids because i'm trying to protect jackson from feeling this way and then two days later he's having an argument with his brother he's screaming and i asked him that and he said to me well you scream at mommy and i had to at that point do some reflection and be like you know what i said you know what you're right and i shouldn't do that right so you and i got to be better together i got to be a better husband you got to be a better big brother so let's let's hold each other accountable you and i i'll practice on not you know raising my tone but um these are also things that we discuss on the podcast we talk about parenting because we want people to understand that you're going to make mistakes like you see our highlights on social media you know it's all fun and games but in life and marriage you're going to do some things you got to reflect and say you know what i handled that wrong let me uh let me fix that and i don't mind saying that to people because i don't there's no pedestals for me the minute people put you on the pedestal and you you the greatest thing they need to knock you off that's why i was fearful in the beginning because i was just like people you put stuff out there that's relationship based then people feel like well you think you're an expert you think you're always giving advice people think that we're on this imaginary pedestal so i was very apprehensive at first because i feel like there's we don't that leaves no room for error but i think the good thing with us with the podcast and just even with our content in general is that we really try to try to show the entire picture like we did a whole episode on cheating because we're like we're gonna put ourselves out there before anybody tries to put us out there you know what i mean nobody can come to us with stories now because everything's out there yeah both of them cheated so yeah yeah yeah me and my wife that's when you've been together that long yeah we've been together since 18 yeah since 18 like and we've we've healed still a hard conversation to have though oh definitely that episode was a hard episode it's never it's never an easy conversation to have but i will say this though if you learn to to accept people and accept them to have changes in life you don't hold people to that moment and what happens is people want to and even with cancer coaching now they want to hold you to one moment like you have so many moments in the course of a day you have one bad moment people want to say that's who you are all the time that's right and i've learned to not not hold people to that especially my wife you know what i'm saying because i hope she doesn't hold me like that and give me grace absolutely i'm gonna give you grace i was like after 19 years if you wasn't cheating somebody lying so i was like from 18 to 30 18 years we've been through a lot through the nfl all this stuff we had our ups and downs y'all rowdy ass brooklyn people press the people y'all i'm gonna press that girl i'm gonna press that [ __ ] one afternoon yes yeah you don't want to be that good ran up on somebody i did and um was something old gross yeah this was yeah this was yes this was yeah like mad long ago but she ran up on she ran up on this girl and i was like yo it was my approach that morning though because i got up that morning i got dressed and everything and i was like what you got planned today because we was in the middle of an argument he was sleeping in one room i was in another room he's like what you got planned today i was like he's like oh nothing i'm like yeah i'm about to go to this i gotta run to target and i'm about to go there and [ __ ] her up and then i said like in my routine for the day is my target charlemagne i'm gonna get some groceries very important and then she's leaving out some very important parts right period prior to all of this right me and i had a conversation i said yo we having mad issues with sex we don't want to get separate like we don't want to get separated i just have a side check and she was like yeah she was like yeah and i was like i'm i ain't gonna do it though so no but so i asked that i'm asking you seriously i'm not saying i'm not saying this as a joke i'm asking you like if if sex with me is too much for you like can i just go get my knocks rocked off my rocks knocked up by somebody else and she was just like the vow do what you got to do you're a wild boy y'all brooklyn [ __ ] so i asked her so i asked him she said yes so i was like yo you said yes i'm gonna go and do it i meet a young lady right we don't even have sex we don't have sex we started talking i said yo this this actually is already cool and i said part of the problem is if i like you this can be too too dangerous i don't want to have sex with somebody that i like i want to have sex with somebody and let it be transactional so me and the young lady just became friends she found out me and a young lady was talking right ended up taking a shift at the young lady's job so that she can confront her at work woke up in the morning mad mad regular just woke up mad wrestler just like yeah i'm gonna go i'm gonna go to target i'm gonna drop jackson to school then i'ma just go [ __ ] this [ __ ] up and i'm like what i'm like i said i asked you if i could do this you said yes why'd you say yes i didn't think he was gonna do it um it was kind of in the heat of the moment we're arguing and i'm just like whatever that's why you got you got to have homies because if you would have called me i'd have been like [ __ ] she don't mean yes she's testing you that was the last angela said it angela said the truth right here i asked the question because i really wanted her to be like hell no i'mma handle my business i never expected her to say yes when she said yes it hurt my feelings that was my ego because i'm like now you don't even you don't even care if i'm [ __ ] myself what the [ __ ] now i got to go out and [ __ ] do it like that i didn't even really want to do it he didn't want to do it and then after i found out about them just even talking i was like i don't want you talking to her anymore and that made him want to talk to her that cause then i'm like and then she went on for months where he was just like cause he was like you're not gonna forbid me you're not the warden you can't forbid me and the funny thing is we had these conversations on the podcast because i want people who are in relationships to realize that sometimes you go through stuff in relationships and you can't just throw a relationship away because someone doesn't meet the standard exactly all the time or in them you know what i'm saying and we have bishop t.d.j up here last week he was saying the same exact thing you got to give people grace you know what i'm saying like back to this young lady so what did you tell her was your situation was she i was honest with her i was very honest where i said i said listen you know i'm married um my wife said i could have a pass me and her been going through some things you know sexually she's like i have a pass that's too much information she was like you had to tell her that you know what i shouldn't have but i'm gonna be honest bro i didn't even know how to maneuver in this situation because i didn't really want to get the pass i wanted my wife to step up the same way i step up every day and say you know if my wife needs this i'm gonna find a way to do it i wanted my wife to step up and say yo my husband's not going out here and doing nothing i'ma figure out a way to make it work but when she said go ahead and do your thing it hurt me so now i'm like now i got to go out here and do it so i met this chick and then i told her what it was we started talking and she was actually just a real cool person so then i was just like if we have sex and we like each other it's going to be a problem and she was like yeah and she was just like i don't think we should have sex at all i don't think we should have sex neither so then we just was talking like we were just cool peoples and that was my outlet enough you know what i'm saying unless you wants to swing on you now she probably is when we get in the car it's going to be in the car but when she said don't talk to her anymore how come you didn't listen to that because that's the if somebody tells him do not go left he's gonna go left yeah let me tell you let me tell you something right now ye if somebody came in here said davao you couldn't play and you couldn't do the wwe right i don't even want to be in the wwe you know what i'm gonna do i'm gonna train for ten years to be in the wwe and then i'm gonna go to the wwe right i'll probably get my ass kicked and i'm gonna come i said but you said i couldn't do it and now i did it right yeah what if kadeem would have befriended a guy that she met that was real cool and started having conversations with him that's what happened well i did yeah yeah i did a table start and i got into a whole situation with a dude and then but here's the thing though i didn't forbid her i said i said do you really feel like you need to do that in order to exist in this relationship and she was just like no i don't so i said why you did it she said well you made me feel insecure and i had i stepped out and i didn't became tit-for-tat and we were young we were in our 20s and but my thing was i always wanted her to choose me i didn't want her to feel like she she was obligated so i didn't want to be like you forbid to talk to him i was like yo if you feel like you need to talk to him we need to have a conversation about that and move forward accordingly because maybe it's something i'm not doing that and that's and to me i'm all about accountability maybe it's the athlete i mean you say that yeah i can take accountability for light and he'll reflect yeah i had to learn that from him because a lot of time i'm ready to deflect and be like well all of the forces that be around me made this happen and then uh he said no i said that we got to be accountable for our i said what did what what did i not do i said what what did i not do like what what was the problem and we had discussion about it that's all right that's fair i i messed that up i messed that up my for my fault now we should find that and are we good yeah and we shake on it so i mean my thing is i'm i'm never going to hold her to a standard i'm not going to hold myself that's just not fair you know what i'm saying like i wouldn't do that now has it been physical cheating um i i've cheated before i have that figure i have never asked her i don't ask her because i really don't want to know but i physically cheated before and it was you know young we was in college uh there were times we were supposed to be together we were together sometimes we weren't together and i was just like same thing in college because when we first got together when we were 18 i told her i didn't want to be a boyfriend i said i was just i said i don't want to be a boyfriend and she was like well i don't want to be number two to nobody else and i was like damn like i'm really not john we met each other at like a really fragile time because i came from a very like strict west thinking household so i couldn't go out i couldn't do anything i couldn't date i couldn't do anything so when i got to college i was ready to have fun you know and he had just gotten to college too and he was ready to have fun and then we met each other and like just couldn't a lot of times it was like trying to put a square peg in a triangle hole because it's like we're trying to make this work because we want to be together but it just wasn't it just wasn't it wasn't working and enough for nothing i was trying to be honest and tell her what i what i didn't want but i wanted her more than anything else so more than me getting my freedom and sewing my wild oats i wanted my best friend and i realized i couldn't have my best friend only on my terms and that was when i had to make a decision of you know what i value monogamy with her more than i value all the other aspects in life and that's one thing i do tell when young ladies ask me like you know how is it that you don't cheat on kadeem i said well you got to find a man who wants to be monogamous that's right like you can't you can't find a man and say i'ma make him do anything and i tell guys cause i got dudes and it's the crazy thing women feel like men and dogs you know how many men hit me up like my girl cheated on me and i don't know what to do because it happens and i'm like well it's cool cause k has stepped out on me so like when you took her back i'm like yeah i stepped down on her like what you want me to do like i can't be be the judge the jury and executioner you know what i'm saying so i'm like you have to find a woman who wants to be kept a woman who wants to be monogamous if she don't there's nothing you can do you can buy everything that's right she's still gonna be out here you know it's crazy too though i wish men especially when you've lived both lives if you realize how much more peaceful and how more prosperous your life is when you are being monogamous to your woman and doing it right by your woman like it's literally night and day charlemagne bro you are speaking do i not say that all the time people ask me all the time like why are you monogamous i said look at my life because i'm monogamous bro every time i focused on my business my goals and just my woman i am successful that's right every time i was trying to balance something else i was all over the place but that's just me because i know some men who can balance women in their business that's just not me me neither i just i just can't like i just be all over the place but um i feel like kadena and i have a like there's a divine aura that brings us together that we work better collectively and individually when we're together right like i'm the best version of myself and i can do everything i want to do because i never step out in the world feeling alone like all of these things i do all these chances i take when i'm like i'ma roll up on charlotte man i'm gonna roll up on on 50. you know what i'm saying i do this because i know i got my my homie here i got my homie like if it fail if i fall flat on my face and charlemagne i'm gonna go back home we can get a call we're gonna laugh you know what i'm saying if 50 kicked me off the show i'ma laugh you know what i'm saying like that's i just i feel like i got my homie here and you know she feels like it's just a great i was going to say just as individuals too the way that both of you carry yourselves and you can you're amazing people individually but i think that's important too when you talk about that as an individual how you have to be able to be an independent individual before you can even be whole in a relationship no that's true that's true and like that was saying like some days you show up at 80 some days at 20 but like we show up 100 for each other we try to at least yeah you know what i mean and i think the whole like oh 50 50 coming into a relationship to find somebody to completely complete you is setting yourself up for failure because you have to come with a total completion and not for nothing i think y'all have to give yourselves a lot of credit for what you've done for the culture because i've heard your stories about your marriage and everything you've been through right i've heard envy stories about his marriage cases you should send me the 12 days of christmas ye you being a businesswoman and doing everything that you do y'all really for me what like set me up to realize like yo i could do everything i want to do because i watch these people here do everything they want to do i remember when um things happened with you charlemagne you came on here and talked about it was accountable for the things you felt like you did wrong and i was like yo you know how hard it is for somebody to do that to themselves but i said but that is what we need more of like we need people to be like hey i might have made a mistake here but i didn't do this but i'm gonna talk about it i ain't gonna hide from it you know what i'm saying we me and kay listen to um gear and envy's podcast and they talk about the things that they happen in their marriage and the financial decisions they make and i'm like yo okay we can openly talk about this people can it might cost you it might you know what i mean it might be it's better just to have it out there and i i feel like you you guys on the breakfast club not only that but y'all have provided information for people and and y'all inspired me well my son matt's like i actually brought you all three books because i wrote a children's book i remember the ellis and it was um and this is the truth bro being a black content creator people feel like you can't make content for black people speaking about systemic oppression and i look at the breakfast club and i'm like they have people up here all the time talking about what we go through when they thriving so it made me feel like it made me feel like yo i feel confident in doing this i feel confident in bringing this up and talking about it my son asked me a question about black lives matter and i answered it a lot of people were excited about my answer so i decided to write a book self-publish my man hedrick who i think you know he did uh my son's book but in fun things i learned about my son and hedrick on them through the breakfast club so i think y'all really need to like get y'all flowers while y'all here because years from now when the breakfast club is over hopefully it never ends because i feel like this is like something that we need people will be like remember when they talked about this remember when they talked about that we had biting on our podcast yeah and the first thing i said was like yo the breakfast club would do this that's the first thing i said to kay because we people like oh y'all a relationship podcast you shouldn't talk about politics i was like no no no we're gonna talk about everything and then we had them on there and i'm just like yo i feel like we we are serving our purpose as far as helping our community learn and educate i mean just being an example of a strong black family unit that's revolutionary within itself that is true that's true that's very true so when we've had people come to us for deals for like reality shows and you know things that they potentially saw in our family um they always wanted to infiltrate it with some kind of drama like yes what's there to lose here what's there to lose and i'm like there's nothing to lose here we're trying to gain it all yeah you know and i guess that it wasn't appetizing for these companies that wanted us on reality shows you know um a couple reality shows since that move reached out to me and i'm just like just it's not on brand with me and what we're trying to portray um so that's one thing you know we've had to leave some bags behind but it's all right because the right ones come along yeah absolutely and as they should talk about that all the time that you know they come and they want to throw drama and i'm like this is my family yeah this ain't no show like this i got five kids i'm like no so yeah it's the funny that they look for the same thing and i'm glad we didn't take it of course because i don't we don't need it i don't need that drama [ __ ] the money you guys didn't do it but i'm sure some family did but i'm like nah this this is more than just a check this is my family's my babies yeah we we sat down and had that conversation and we we met with a producer you know and producer promised us that everything was going to be there and i was like you know what you have one job and that's to make sure that the ratings is high that job is never going to entail protecting me and my family that's right we're going to have to pass on that like and we'll stick to creating our own kind we'll create our own content you know right but i mean i feel like if you did a show you guys should be the executive producers of it and bring it to a network yourselves really because you've been doing this well i mean that's that's really what we're we're at that point now where um you know we signed a deal with i heart radio for our podcast so we excited about that um season four and season five on ihop radio we just we're closing on a book deal now yeah and including a book down so things are happening for us i've been pitching my my sitcom had some meetings with some you know important people so oh that's gonna happen though as long as the podcast keeps growing the book sales oh that's gonna come right yeah i had no clue about it i didn't understand the strengths behind the podcast either at first because when we were approached with the idea of it i was just kind of like really you know i wasn't into podcast at the time i wasn't listening to them and man like we didn't expect for this this to happen yeah all i saw was creating content but then when all the all the other stuff came i was like what i'm like y'all doing this with podcasts i was like yeah sign me up now it's big business yeah it is it is it's huge business especially if you put out good content so kadeen have you ever used uh devos uh i guess i don't know what you would call it like the need i'm gonna prove you wrong against him like to get him to do something whoa what was that that's the you ain't gonna eat no ass laughs no all the time bro all the time like like anything just anything that you need to get done you just make it seem like i you don't believe i can do it to get me to do it that is a person you have to use reverse psychology with a lot like it'll be something as simple as for example we have these chairs that came to the house that needs to be assembled right so devout if i ask him to assemble the chairs he's not gonna assemble him he's gonna wait until he's good and ready to do it so i just put the the the chairs just like by the pool table where i know he likes to do and he will kick around the boxes and play pool and not put the chair together so at this point i just kind of leave it where it is and i'm just like all right well he'll do it kicking around this question what about the wedding in the house charlemagne in the house when in the house we when i first got out the league right i told you i was in financial hardships right my girl over here i believed in you though the girl over here was like was like i said listen i can't do a house right now and a wedding you gotta pick one right well she was just like all right well i guess i'll do the wedding so i was like you rather get a wedding in the house she said yeah because we already own the property we'll get the house later in her mind she was saying to herself she only said for me to get the wedding because she thought i was going to find a way to get both and that's a perfect example of what you just asked that's a very valid story because in my mind i was like devout was the kind of guy like i said he says i'm gonna do this i'm going to do it so i was like well knowing that i can get both i can get the wedding in the house like so i said let me go for the first half the wedding get that out the way because at that point we were going on a year and a half engaged and then um but this is the crazy part though she told me she wanted she told me she wanted the wedding right in a timely manner we went and got the wedding gave her a wedding called 75 thousand dollars stupid invest stupid investment 325 people there half the people i don't even know we come back from our honeymoon we move we come back from honeymoon going to the apartment the night we're in the apartment she goes i hate this apartment i don't want to me into stay grandmother's old apartment that she was in for 30 something years in crown heights i gave you that i broke into my car charlemagne like the first night that i was there welcome to crown ice and i me me being the shelter girl from canarsie with a driveway i was like damn i didn't know that they were doing this out here in these streets so it was that was pissed it was just like you really mean we can't get this house too yeah 2010 no 2009 when we moved back this is right before the barclays center went up so i gentrification gonna say that crown heights house is worth about three million right now so now now this is a crazy thing i look every time we drive by crown heights i'm just like you know i can own one of these right now they were selling brown stones around the corner for my building for 250 000. i was like that's 75k i could have put down that 20 for that 50k we could have lived in a basement we could have rented out the upstairs two floors we would have been good and she was like i know that but we good now so stop reminding me i'm like you're good now you never know sometimes things change the course of life things happen the way they're supposed to be and look at where y'all are now that's true that's why i don't be tripping you know what i'm saying sure you're about to get yeah debbie's whole house angela's old block oh yeah my my uh i ain't gonna shout out my aunt debbie's house in the in in the block right right she lived two blocks from you on flatbush everybody knows where you live you might not want to say that i grew up not where i lived now oh god you guys are you know on on uh cortelli between cortelli and clarinet yeah i'm gonna i'm gonna go try to get that crib yeah well listen man make sure you check out the dead ass podcast make sure you get the children's book the ellises and the time machine yes why do we have to say black lives matter make sure you check out the ball on uh tyler perry sisters yes and everything else y'all got going on man yeah you got bigger coming out soon yeah bigger on bt plus will packers show bigger one or two episodes too okay and we know what big it was about okay make sure y'all subscribe to the podcast everywhere you listen to podcasts what's your twitter's instagram handles and all that good stuff uh kadeem i am and uh that's i am davao i am d-e-v-a-l-e we appreciate y'all so much i have no idea we love you breakfast club we appreciate y'all too it's the dead ass podcast on the breakfast club thank you for joining us [Music] foreign

Channel: Breakfast Club Power 105.1 FM

Views: 1,239,378

Keywords: the breakfast club, breakfast club, power1051, celebrity news, radio, video, interview, angela yee, charlamagne tha god, dj envy

Id: I1LyiCXsNjQ

Length: 63min 30sec (3810 seconds)

Published: Tue Apr 20 2021