I'm Fat, But I'm Sexy

i'm fat but i eat healthy i'm fat but i'm not a glutton i'm fat but i actually like going to the gym but i like to take the stairs but i'm a runner but i'm not lazy but i don't eat mcdonald's every day and i eat less than my skinny guy friends metabolism is a [ __ ] allow me to give you a lesson in manipulating statistics i eat less than my skinny guy friends metabolism is a [ __ ] someone might think hey that's so unfair she eats less than skinny people but she's still overweight that's not what she said she said that she eats less than her skinny guy friends one men have a higher metabolism than women welcome to science two she could be five foot one and her skinny guy friends could be six foot three so of course they can eat more than you this is not about her having a slow metabolism but that's how you manipulate people do i believe that she actually eats less than her skinny guy friends no and her size unless she is really short she definitely eats more than the average skinny guy obesity is an addiction and addicts lie all the time sure she might go out to eat with her friends and order a salad but on the drive home when no one is watching she is ordering five cheeseburgers from mcdonald's news corporations like buzzfeed who promote fat acceptance always want you to believe that being overweight is just bad luck or bad genetics look all these people eat is half a sandwich with an avocado and a tomato they eat less than you do no they don't allow me to show you a picture from a dr phil video where he goes over just how much a morbidly obese person eats who is not that much bigger than these people who claim they only eat half a sandwich and are still overweight we have four to five donuts a seven egg omelet with a cup and a half of cheese a full bell pepper a full onion and a full package of ham inside of it four potatoes worth of hash browns with a second full pepper and onion four corn dogs dipped in nacho cheese a full sized bag of potato chips a few strawberries three sandwiches with ham cheese mayo tomato cucumber avocado croutons bacon bits and ranch a large pepperoni pizza two bowls of ice cream with caramel and whipped cream a hand sized bag of m m's two bacon cheeseburgers one box of mac and cheese and three bananas six avocados one full size bag of tortilla chips ten fish tacos with rice and beans a full box of honey buns a full box of hot pocket loaded potatoes a bag of pepperoni one gallon of sweet tea and six candy bars my god this woman eats more calories for breakfast than i eat in two or three days not to say that every obese person eats that much but certainly they aren't eating salad all day and doing three-hour workouts i'm fat but i'm not glorifying obesity you are an obese person who is literally saying a bunch of positive things about obesity to upbeat music and in a light colored background with a halo pattern in the center how are you not glorifying obesity i'm fat and i look really good naked there's been no complaints let me tell you remember she is not glorifying obesity let me change the words around a little bit i'm a heroin addict but i'm not glorifying heroin i'm a heroin addict but i'm sexy i'm a heroin addict but i'm motivated if i can switch to a different addiction and suddenly there's a problem with everything they're saying then food addiction is not okay i'm fat but i'm not a skinny shamer i just feel like everyone is allowed to love their bodies don't think that me being proud of my body means that i'm putting down yours what exactly do you have to be proud of obesity is a disease being overweight is not an accomplishment also buzzfeed's saying that these feminists don't shame people for being thin is ridiculous what about the fitness mom maria kang what about the are you beachbody ready weight loss ad what about the peloton bike chick these fat acceptance activists never miss a chance to shame a thin woman who is proud of being thin and let's be clear when it comes to fat acceptance i'm talking about women i understand that there are men in the original video but nobody cares about a man being fat where are all you feminists shouting about how male fitness models create an unrealistic body image for men to uphold or how about this i went to a local target store a few months ago and i just so happened to notice that the female close section was full of plus size models mixed in with thin models however when i went to the men's section of the store all the models were fit and muscular not one of them was fat or obese try this at your local clothes store i have been to plenty of them and i have never seen an obese model in the mail section we know that fat acceptance is about fat women not fat people most of the people in these fat acceptance promos are women most of the people getting mad are women and i defy you to find a male activist group who shames a thin woman for portraying unrealistic standards of beauty like the feminist groups do i don't see any male activist groups shaming other men for being thin either feminists keep trying to push the idea that obesity is sexy that's because they know it's unattractive and men don't shovel a bunch of free stuff in front of unattractive women that's what this is all about jealousy and resources being obese is not sexy tell me is this sexy okay let's see and i am forever out of breath it's just my natural state of being regardless of what i do i sat here for like five minutes before i turned the camera on and i'm still out of breath this woman's body fat puts so much pressure on her lungs that she can't breathe even when she's not doing anything physically difficult that's attractive and she should be proud of that how about this woman this is tammy slayton from tlc's 1 000 pound sisters by her early 30s she was so overweight that she was confined to a walker until she started exercising for the show what is healthy or sexy about that i'm not obese i'm a plus size curvy lady say it however you want it doesn't change the reality of your situation but certainly someone must be the voice of reason here let's watch what is the most effective way that people can lose weight well experience as a doctor right one of the things eat less food do more exercises am i wrong no you're not doesn't it really just boil down to better healthy eating less food than your gullet and deuces my god the outrage of telling a bunch of obese women to eat less is unbelievable despite the fact that piers so rudely talked over the female doctor he's correct if you want to lose weight then you need to eat less however it's not entirely that simple i'll get to why but first let me tell you about this video's sponsor dr b real and his book surviving fourth wave feminism surviving 4th wave feminism is a great insight into how feminism operates and how it is taking control over western politics if you want to go into depth on how their tactics work then dr b real has made it easy for you this book is 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perforated his stomach and so what does that mean basically there's holes in the surgical lining of his stomach and so he's literally he eats when he eats he's dumping stomach juices and food so he's almost worse right so like the chances of him dying any day is like happening and i'm like i'm learning from him i'm like how do you how do you why are you doing that because i don't know listen to that the doctor says that because of the weight loss surgery if you smoke again you will die the guy doesn't care he can't stop smoking he knows it's bad for him but he still can't stop knowing that cigarettes put holes in his stomach does nothing even though it's the right answer to keep him from dying the reason this smoker can't stop smoking is because he's using that to manage negative emotions until he does some thinking and figures out what causes those negative emotions and then learns healthy ways to manage them he is going to keep smoking uncontrollably unfortunately for him it sounds like he was too late but it's the same thing with food some sort of negative stress is occurring in your life you don't like the negativity so you use food to manage that emotion until you deal with the source of that negativity all of your diets will fail long term the way you start figuring some of this stuff out is by going to things like overeaters anonymous or by going to therapy it's not a food problem it's an emotions problem the real evil here is that there are a whole slew of psychological problems that the fat acceptance movement is telling people to ignore for example a common reason that women become morbidly obese is because they were molested as children they got sexual attention as children that they didn't want so their brain says how can i make it so that i never get unwanted attention again i know i'll overeat the overeating solves two problems it helps them avoid their memories of their past trauma by numbing the negative emotions and it prevents the trauma from happening so great both problems are solved people come to these conclusions because they fix the problem and they're effective they aren't the best way of solving the problem but they do work so their obesity could be for that reason or a number of psychological problems it can even be a suicidal wish like it was in boogie's case i think i was just trying to eat to die i was just suicidal and i'm like this is they would tell me when i was like 25 they'd be like if you keep eating the way you eat you'll be dead at 30 and i'd be like awesome there's a buffet on the way home because i'm gonna [ __ ] hit that [ __ ] because i would like to be that conscious about it yeah it's like straight up i was like that's awesome news thanks doc i appreciate you um i'll see if i can get that done boogie is not the only one to have ideas like this here is another fat acceptance feminist like the ones from before glorifying the fact that she doesn't care about her life 46 i'm like not worried about not living a full life i'm you know i've already lived a lot of life trust me and if i were to die tomorrow i wouldn't regret it she's 46 that's only a bit more than halfway done with her life and she already wants to die is that mentally healthy she sounds like she has just given up right but you see my i would respect you more with respect to you if i saw you doing a fitness campaign were you trying to lose 100 pounds why wouldn't you aspire to do that because that's not going to work it's not going to work for me diets are 95 failure rate why would i do something that's going to fail yeah diets have a 95 failure rate so why bother trying to eat healthy you would think that when it comes to saving your own life you would try to figure out why people on those diets are failing to see if you can work past it but no instead it's this is just the shape of my body and there's nothing i can do about it not to mention how inconsiderate that is to the rest of the population who are paying your medical bills they are either paying extra because of you through socialized medicine or they are paying extra because of you through increased insurance rates it costs way more to take care of an obese person in a hospital than it does a thin person they require things like expensive special double wide kci beds their skin folds have to be washed frequently or they will get an infection and they have to be moved more frequently than other patients so they don't get bed sores speaking of which moving fat people is a very common cause of injury to nurses my mother is a nurse and she has been injured so many times from moving 800 pound obese people that her shoulder is permanently damaged obesity is not a wonderful thing but maybe this will help before i end this video allow me to introduce to you david goggins david goggins is a guy who went through three navy seal hell weeks in one year he did 4 000 pull-ups in 17 hours and most impressively he ran 101 miles in 19 hours with zero conditioning then two weeks later after destroying his body in the hundred mile run he ran the las vegas marathon in three hours and eight minutes this guy has an incredible amount of mental resolve the best part is though that he was a complete loser at 24 before he started he was a victim of severe child abuse he was a liar he was a cheater and an all-around terrible guy one thing you hear a lot from what causes motivated people to do amazing things like lose an incredible amount of weight is that they become completely disgusted with how they are they start to hate the things that make them weak i had two options to either be that 300 pound guy who's prayed for cockroaches and made a thousand dollars a month and at 24 years old knowing when i'm 50 [ __ ] years old i can reflect on this and think about what guy i never became or i can totally just sack it up and fail and fail and fail until i succeed so i started calling recruiters up i said i'm gonna be a [ __ ] navy seal which are you going to be are you going to be a loser because you never want to do anything difficult or are you going to be an adult and actually start trying listen to this though david goggins called every recruiter imaginable and all of them said no because he was too fat until he called the reserves they said he had to lose 106 pounds to join and he said [ __ ] that and quit so i tried to get the reserves and i called this guy named steven saljo recruiter up he said hey come on in he saw me put me through the weight standard all this sort of stuff and to get into the class i had to get into how to lose 106 pounds in less than three months so i was like [ __ ] that i can't do that i grabbed my chocolate milkshake and went back to ecolab i'm going back to work man this is my life his job was at a pest control company and the next night he went back to work and found the motherload of cockroaches he got disgusted by his job set his equipment down and then quit what it was and it's kind of funny i was obsessed with rocky rocky one in particular and when i was a kid i come every day and i watch this [ __ ] show rocky and i would fast forward with the little vhs tapes to round 14. when apollo creep beat the [ __ ] [ __ ] out of rocky beat the [ __ ] out of him he kept fighting he was a dumb fighter couldn't read couldn't [ __ ] that was me couldn't read couldn't write just punchy everything about him and rocky beat this or i probably should have been he was in that corner everybody was saying stay the [ __ ] down and him getting up him getting up apollo creed raised his arms up in the [ __ ] air turned around thought he won the fight he turns around and sees this guy getting up and it was the face of apollo creed that changed my life the face of apollo creed it was like just by that [ __ ] getting up not winning just by him getting the [ __ ] up apollo creed was his champ he's the best rocky had taken his soul hero stories are very powerful that's why we've been telling them for thousands of years your brain knows what's wrong with you when you can't put it into words your brain will cause you to idolize people who have solved the same problem that you have that being said pay attention to the people you look up to or the heroes you like when you watch tv or read books i bet those people have problems that are similar to yours and their story describes how they solved it rocky was a loser he was 30 he lived in a shitty apartment in the bad part of town he failed his dreams to become a professional boxer but when he finally gets a shot at being a professional boxer he succeeds because he never gives up even though he lost the fight with apollo david goggins was able to figure out the answer to his problems because of that story david was a guy who quit at everything who became someone who quits at nothing he took it to the extreme and now he's doing all kinds of ridiculous things even though he has no idea what he's doing he jumps in and figures it out he isn't lying around waiting for the perfect moment there is no perfect moment start now and figure it out as you go failures wait to be successful successful people jump in and deal with the problems as they come i was a [ __ ] pathetic [ __ ] man people cannot say that to themselves this we have to choose these great [ __ ] magical words that that makes that make people feel good tell yourself the truth if someone calls you [ __ ] fat they may be bullying you but you might be [ __ ] fat someone calls you dumb it's mean but you might be [ __ ] dumb it's life man take it for what it's worth and change it but i think that will be enough for this video so if you liked it hit the like button subscribe if you're new comment and share if you would like to support this channel then you can do so with paypal patreon or subscribe star you can find all of those links in the description last if you haven't checked me out on facebook bitshoot or twitter you can also find those in the description 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Channel: Think Before You Sleep

Views: 301,935

Rating: 4.8729148 out of 5

Keywords: Buzzfeed, Good Morning Britain, The Feed, Piers Morgan, Target, David Goggins, Joe Rogan, Rocky, Apollo Creed

Id: hRhDg6Ouxg8

Length: 19min 39sec (1179 seconds)

Published: Thu Aug 06 2020