Why Men Date Abusive Women

I want to buy Chanel $3,000 I just want to money money money money money and that's a big-ass ring so you should feel like a damn queen with a rock like that but no you take advantage winning don't say that I would like to take advantage of the co2 disallows because of the vent what it's not millionaire I want 1 million dollars from coat I am fully convinced that TLC is the best channel on television it's called The Learning Channel for a reason and that's because it has a ton of different shows that are dedicated to teaching us all about pathological relationships 90-day fiance being at the top of that list for those who don't know 90-day fiance is a show where largely Americans with low sexual market value trying to get with a partner with a much higher sexual market value by looking in the third world this time we have two couples Larissa and cult and Nicole and as on I picked these two couples because I think they both exemplify the negative consequences of not putting effort into your life now there are two ways to motivate yourself to achieve something one is desire and the other is fear what am I going to gain by achieving this goal or what horrible thing is going to happen to me if I don't achieve it ideally you want both at the same time because then metaphorically it's like you have a goal to run towards but then also there is this horrible guy running behind you trying to kill you that fear forces you to run faster towards the goal if you don't bring these two powers together at the same time then you are not going to find the overwhelming willpower to get stuff done and there is a danger to that the danger of not getting stuff done is that you are doomed to live around low-quality people because they are the only people who will want you you will have no other options so this video is going to focus on what you should be afraid of when you don't try it life our first example is cult from Las Vegas he is the guy who doesn't really have any willpower people say he talks in lowercase which essentially means that he has no energy in his voice I feel really embarrassed right now larysa has no right to start a fight with me in front of my friends in public why can't we just save this for later if she ever does something like that again we will not get married he lives with his mom at 35 he is out of shape and he doesn't seem to have any high aspirations so if he wants a wife who is reasonably attractive he is going to have to make some sacrifices by shopping for a wife in Brazil and as a consequence this is how his fiance Larisa greets him when she arrives in America and sees him in person for the very first time please larisa has only been in las vegas for 3 hours and she's literally not stopped complain since he arrived here I gotta say that if she greeted me like that the very first time I saw her I would have sent her right back home not only did Colt pay for her plane ticket to America but because she didn't get her visa in time for the first flight she missed it and he had to pay for a second ticket after that the first thing she says to him is where are my flowers then she proceeds to complain for several hours screw that I'm not that good to cocaine you know when I speak to Colt I lied to him about my cooking skills because I thought what do me like sex yeah good food ok so she is a liar to understand that she's on a k1 visa so she can't work which also means she can't be paid for the show so the only way she can be a value to Colt is to take care of his home but she doesn't have the skills to do so which means she basically is going to sit around all day it's not like you could um maybe spend that free time learning how to keep a home how was your life he'll you have a man paying for you your man pays for everything your man pays for everything you don't do thing right now you have to understand how bad this all is cult is so trapped in thinking that Larissa is the best he can do that it doesn't matter what his friends or family say even though everyone in his life doesn't like the Rissa he won't listen I think that he's naive right now and is excited to have somebody in his life you know he hasn't a girlfriend in a long time but he's got his blinders on right now you could always break this off oh I just want you to think about it you're not just coming over here to marry my man for a green card are you no I think they're pretty much screwed you know I think that she's come into America to enjoy the you know high life so naturally they get married despite everyone telling him not to we haven't even gotten to the good part yet Larissa abuse is called quite heavily and she has a secret she's been keeping but first a word from this video a sponsor Sandman suck the [ __ ] drinks water like a duck but he also drinks your data so tell him and Google to shove your data up their Schwing Schwing by downloading the brave browser it's free blocks online advertising it protects your privacy and data from evil tech companies you only see ads if you want to see them and you give cryptocurrency for your attention don't let Zack use you to make a buck download brave by clicking on the link down below as if Larissa didn't have enough red flags already she's also extremely physically and verbally abusive before I give you examples though I want you to listen to this because it's a very common tactic that abusers use but I just would like that to think they go to think that this person made it she also hole in the back this is a diversion tactic from Larissa I'm not all bad I do good things too I want you to remember all the good times we had this is such an effective tactic that abusers use so allow me to use a metaphor to point out how dumb this argument is let's say you're in a relationship with a girl and once every 100 days she freaks out and beats the crap out of you every day during that period she is a perfect angel except for that one day she's not so bad once every hundred days is only one percent of the time she is almost always a good person except for that tiny 1% or let me say it this way once every three months or so your wife screams at you and beats the crap out of you is she a good wife should you remember the good times that is literally what happened with Larissa and Colt they were married for less than a year and she was arrested three times for domestic violence the most recent time she punched Colt in the face inflicted a bunch of wounds on herself and then called the police on him thankfully the Las Vegas police didn't believe her and they threw her in jail instead of cults here's a picture of her mugshot Wow having no makeup on makes a huge difference she also says things like this Bochy won't lose if Fanta loser mentally ill mother and she tries to isolate cult from family members that she doesn't like particularly the ones who point out that she is an abuser love is enduring for the other it doesn't matter if Larissa is capable of having good times your character is measured by what you do when things aren't going well when things don't go up for Larissa she gets violent and abusive now as I said earlier she has a secret which functions just perfectly as the cherry on top - this whole situation I have a cute yes you heard it Larissa is a single mother two kids by two different fathers two kids who she ditched back in Brazil so that she could get a million dollars from cults I don't believe she has revealed the ages of her kids but judging by the things that she said during interviews and during the show they're young she has been divorced from cult for over a year and she hasn't moved back to Brazil to be with her kids she straight-up abandoned them however she has started an only fans account if you don't get your act together then people like Larissa will be all over your life you will have friends like Larissa you will have girlfriends like Larissa you will have co-workers and management like Larissa and you will have family like Larissa they may not be as toxic as her but they will still have a very detrimental effect on your life on to our next couple Nicole and as on unlike cults Nicole is someone who has high aspirations and energy in her voice but at the same time has zero follow-through when it comes to carrying anything out with that said she doesn't really have any traits that any quality guy would want Nicole is morbidly obese she is physically abusive she doesn't know how to cook and she is a single mother so in order to find the quote man of her dreams she has to go to Morocco just to find a man who was willing to pretend to like her physically I'm talking to Nicole but it's not like and just like she's on 55% because I always want my off-the-road gym which can be held 55 percent that's an F as on gave Nicole the woman he deeply loves an F I'm surprised that she kept the straight-up poker face when he called her ugly just like Colts that lack of reaction is probably due to the fact that she knows she hasn't done anything to deserve a better partner and that's because she gives up on literally everything that would improve her life as soon as it gets difficult I tried to eat healthy for a little bit and it was going well but I got stressed out so I kind of stopped so I would love to see what her attempt at eating healthy food was like especially considering that she has no idea what real produce looks like [Music] this is definitely different when I'm used to if I even see fresh products it's usually in a supermarket in the frigerator section that's what I'm used to for fresh ingredients this is what I imagined when I see all the fat acceptance people saying things like I try to eat healthy but it didn't work I bet if you took them to a supermarket most of them would not be able to show you what a peach looks like outside of a dull fruit cup how am I supposed to believe that Nicole actually tried to eat healthy so the backstory to this visit to the market was a 22 year old Nicole went to go visit us on in Morocco he had trouble getting a k1 visa to America so she had to visit him keep in mind that she had a kid who was only a year-and-a-half old at the time of her first trip and that trip to Morocco was five weeks that's like an eternity to a child she abandoned her daughter for over a month so she could meet some stranger in a different country like holy crap these single mothers do not care about their kids then worse when her daughter was 2 she brings her to Morocco a country that Nicole blatantly stated that she did no research on to see if it was safe before her first trip do research on Morocco no I mean America is a very wealthy country but there are still plenty of places where you shouldn't take your kid did Nicole care to check to see if azan lived in the Moroccan version of that before she took her daughter there not to mention that she parents were killed with an iPad and when Azam was having trouble getting a visa probably because he didn't actually want one she was willing to abandon her child for more than a year so that she could marry as on in Morocco and get him a visa that way because just like cults Nicole knows that she can't get a guy as physically fit as as on in America and she doesn't want to self-improve so she ignores all the completely stupid [ __ ] that is going on in her relationship like the fact that she has been his fiancee for four years and has mysteriously failed to marry him twice she also sends him money she cheated on him you know before I cheated on him things were amazing after it she did it changed he cheated on her they argue all the time she is physically abusive and when she attacked him he had to run up some stairs just to get away from her there is likely far more to this story than we're being told Nicole has wasted four years of our youth on a relationship that is not going to work out she has fostered a terrible relationship with her daughter and her family has zero respect for her okay this is not a thing for me look at that she gives up on walking up that hill from the very start after a tiny bit of struggle the hill isn't even that big as on practically has to force her to go up eventually she makes it and does the camel ride but the whole time she just wants to quit if she stays on this path then she is never going to have anything good and that's how your life will turn out when you don't try you don't get good things out of life when you don't put any effort in instead you get to live with your mom at 35 and marry a person who abuses you or you get to be let on for four years in a toxic relationship with a guy who clearly doesn't love you what other options do they have if you don't work hard you don't get good options and this will affect every part of your life you need to develop the ability to push through challenges even if you think there is no way that you can succeed that's what creates successful people they push through tough times and defy all the odds now I know a lot of you play video games so I will explain this with video games because there are tons of things you can learn from them especially if the game is competitive one of the games I play a lot is smash ultimate and something that you learn when you start getting good is mental game your mentality has a very heavy effect on the outcome of the match if you are going to play at a high level then you need to have the mentality of I'm never going to give up no matter how far behind I am for those of you who don't know super smash brothers is a fighting game where you try to knock your opponent off the stage and out of bounds the more you hit the other player the higher their percentage goes and the easier it is to knock them off the stage online matches typically play with three lives there have been plenty of matches where I was down to my last life while my opponent was on their first life but I still ended up winning look at this match I am playing young link and this roy player has me completely beat after he hits me with the sword I know that there is no way I can make it back to the stage with link so basically I should just let myself fall and die right nope I still try to recover anyway and it turns out that he [ __ ] up missed the ledge and fell out of bounds before I did if I didn't try to recover I would have fallen first and lost there are tons of matches out there with things like this happen and we're giving up will cause you to lose a match that you could have won when it comes to mental game there are different roles to play if you are losing understand that very often your opponent will get arrogant and lazy because they are ahead that's your chance to fight harder and catch up even if you think that there's no way you can win you say to yourself I might lose the match but before that happens I'm at least going to take one of his lives I'm not going to let this guy embarrass me that mentality very often leads to a victory that you wouldn't have otherwise gotten if you were winning then your goal is to intimidate and demoralize your opponent so that they give up don't even give them one second to catch their breath you want to make them completely hopeless with that said what do you think the media is doing when the local ABC News Channel almost exclusively reports rape murder and robberies why do you think their narrative is always negative no matter how good things get every year is the worst year everything is unfair and you will never get ahead no matter how hard you try why do you think they do that it's because they want you to give up and they want you to stop trying so they can obtain more power and a lot of people fall for that that's the black pill man some things are a little bad so I'm just going to give up great mainstream media in all the corrupt people in the world didn't have to do anything because you just quit without a fight they were bluffing and you didn't call it well you should have because they are losing look at what has happened in these past four years the ferocity with which they are trying to cheat shows their complete desperation so don't make the mistake of going black pill or giving up keep pushing through difficult struggles that's how you win nothing worthwhile is going to come to you without a fight but I think that will be enough for this video so if you liked it hit the like button subscribe if you're new comment and share if you would like to support this channel then you can do so with Pay Pal patreon or subscribe Star you can find all of those links in the description last if you haven't checked me out on Facebook bit shoot or Twitter you can also find those in the description otherwise thanks for watching and I'll see you in the next video

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Views: 445,171

Rating: 4.8869414 out of 5

Keywords: Larissa De Los Santos, Colt Johnson, Nicole Nafziger, Azan Tefou, TLC, The Learning Channel, 90 Day Fiancé, Super Smash Brothers Ultimate, Smash Ultimate

Id: 4vnF3pgVjSI

Length: 18min 50sec (1130 seconds)

Published: Thu Jul 09 2020