how to be attractive as an introvert

how to be attractive as an introvert today we're diving into a topic often overlooked back then I was really quiet and I don't know how to talk to people and I realize now that I'm still an introvert but I can talk to people and I'm confident so let's dive into these five main points that you can Implement in your life the first one is to smile and have a sense of humor research has consistently shown that a genuine smile is key sign of attractiveness and I don't know if it's because I'm Asian or even if you're not Asian but smiling with your eyes and just squinching eyes um appears like a genuine smile so even if you don't feel genuity if you don't feel happy you should squint your eyes so don't hesitate to let that natural shine shine through and guess what a good sense of humor is your secret weapon laughter is a great way to connect you you and the other person to create these positive interactions so you got to embrace laughter and whether you have a loud laugh a quiet laugh just laugh and let it be a magnetic force personally for me when I find something not that funny but I just want to support people I'm like ha so funny but when I'm actually laughing when I actually think something's funny you can't even hear me because I'm literally crying because of how funny it is number two be a magnetic listener personally sometimes I just don't want to listen to people I don't want to hear people's boring stories and I have to nod and be like that's so interesting when it's literally not when you want to be a good listener um you have to be genuinely interested in people people love talking about themselves it makes them feel better it boosts their ego and you have to practice active listening and paying attention also it's important to make eye contact so there's something like 8 20 rule where you look at them 80% of the time in the eyes and then 20% Look Away you don't even have to look at them in eyes but look at them directly in the middle of the forehead another thing is to mirror their body language so if they're crossing their legs you do that too if they're like facing this direction you do that too so makes them feel more comfortable okay so the third thing that you can do is to be genuine and authentic so being genuine is universally attractive you don't have to be conventionally attractive to be attractive because if you're just yourself and you're authentic people will like that don't be afraid to show yourself um I'm not scared I just say what I want and I think people just appreciate because I'm honest about my flaws and I'm honest about what I have authenticity creates a sense of trust and connection and people are drawn to those who are authentic and true and unapologetically themselves okay the fourth thing you can do is to respect yourself and be confident and what I mean when I say respect yourself is to take care of yourself and give yourself the credit when you deserve that means having good hygiene showering if that means getting a new wardrobe or changing up your style if that makes you feel better then do it you got to put yourself first um take care of yourself physically and mentally and invest time into self-care another good thing is to maintain good posture and Body Language this is something that I issues with I've always slouched and personally I'm like 56 so I do feel like I'm taller than most of the most of the students at my school you know Stand Tall relax your should shoulders take up more space than you need to if you do those things you'll naturally project confidence and um you have to give yourself the credit that you deserve so don't minimize your talents don't minimize your skills and what you can bring to the table number five the fifth thing that you can do is to don't be a negative Cloud nobody likes the people who are just bringing their negative energy into the room whenever they walk in I don't want to see that type of stuff you probably don't want to either you got to resist the urge so if you're going to be negative and stuff keep it out of there positivity is attractive and it's magnetic and that's what people like to see so focus on the good you know Express gratitude and be optimistic about everything you know when you hit hit rock bottom the only way to get up is to just get up the only way you can go from here is to just keep on going higher and this creates a enhanced positive environment for everyone around you thank y'all so much for watching if y'all have any video suggestions please comment down below if yall have any criticism or things that you want to say hate comments even just please put it down and I will try to improve I have some big things coming up I'm working hard and as always um stay healthy stay humble and stay grateful and I hope y'all have an amazing rest of your week this mic isn't plugged in because Apple for some reason keeps on changing and making random updates but I'm just using this as a prop cuz I can speak better

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Length: 5min 53sec (353 seconds)

Published: Mon Nov 06 2023