Homemaking motivation|9 Tips To Stop Comparing Yourself| How to make ghee

[Music] why do we compare ourself to others and how to stop that here are nine tips for that I will share some gluten and dairyfree cooking how to make ghee bloopers and many more stay until the end to see them [Music] all I could see this through I could wait and enough night one more night one more night I could fight it through till the darkness turns to light one more night one more night say it's going to be I started to go down on the rabbit hole of discovering why are we comparing ourself to others and this is what I find as I research yesterday often said comparation is a thief of Joy yet we still doing it back in the days we compared ourself to classmates friends now that the social media gives more Peak into other's life it is even more addictive to compare so why do we do it and how can we stop doing that I believe the truth shut the blinds I could deny one more one when individuals compare themsel to others as a way of measuring their personal development or to motivate themsel to improve comparation can be beneficial however we have to look out to avoid the pitfalls of negative [Music] comparation We compare for social connection and validation when we consistently compare ourself to others we start to lose our individuality we trying to do what we think it's expected from us rather to staying true to ourself we stop taking risks and trying new things for fear of not measuring up to others we do it subconsciously it can potentially impact you in ways you might not expect [Music] people compare thems to others to confirm their existing beliefs about themsel which can help them feel stable and predictable however comparing oneself to others can have negative effects such as wasting time resentment diminish sof birth and negative thoughts [Music] gold hair gold RS gold there's a social comparation theory there are two categories for that upward comparation we compare ourself to others that doing things we want or need to do that sort of gives a map to how to do it it can give motivation the problem with it if it gets out of control it hijacks the brain and it destroys the [Music] motivation the second one is the downward comparation emotional coping to feel better about ourself the problem is that people who criticize and pretend to be better actually gets stuck in their own own life in order to stop doing the comparation we have to dismantle the justification of the comparation we have to understand why we compare ourself to that specific person targeting the emotion that is feeding the comparation [Music] here are some tips that I gathered to stop comparing ourself to others the first one is awareness most often we do this social comparations without realizing it that we're doing it so the first step it is to recognize when it is [Music] happening develop self-compassion be kind to yourself understand that everyone has different strengths and weaknesses and making mistakes or facing setbacks is part of being a human reflect on your accomplishment regularly remind yourself of your your own achievements and progress no matter how small they [Music] seem count your blessings I like to start my morning to think about 10 things that I'm thankful for and one of them is the warm bed that I'm waking up in and the other one that I have this beautiful family I I have a house I have a refrigerator with food in there and such there's just some ideas but um this is what I like to [Music] do practice gratefulness that is close to tie to my previous point but you can actually go farther with those thoughts you can practice that what are you being grateful and what are the things that you appreciate in your life [Music] the next one is focus on your strength everybody has different strengths that they good about and and let's focus on that and that's why we have to have a community everybody can contribute to something and that's the beauty of that everybody can do something [Music] different be okay with imperfection I personally like like to do my best as I can but to a certain degree so if I make a party or I create a video I do all my best and try to enjoy the moments and I would do myself but I have no problem to let go of my all of my expectations as the time is approaching because I'm not comparing myself to others rather than to myself and I know I did my best [Music] and that doesn't mean I never compared myself to others in the past here's this video there's a reason for that I started to compare myself two other channels that did beautiful videos and I just felt like what am I doing here so this is what led to this video focus on the journey that is a very good way to gather our thoughts around what can we do better how can we enjoy and just live behind the Judgment of ourself to get compared with someone else because this is our own journey and we focusing on our own development where we came from where are we now and where are are we [Music] heading learning to love enough if we always want what others have we will never have enough we will always want more that's an endless cycle if we have the basics we have the safe home and the food loving people around us it is a safe base what we actually need and everything else on top of that can be solved with some creativity and learning skills [Music] a little different [Music] all now that I'm done with some housework I'm going outside and I have some rose bushes and I'm going to dehydrate these roses for tea and for some rose water last week I planted my Hawaiian strawberries into little containers and I'm just going to add some straw on the top because that will help to stop the rotting of the strawberries as the rain is coming and also it will keep them moist in the pot [Music] [Music] I will do the same to my other regular strawberries [Music] since the weather is beautiful we are going for a relaxing Stoll with J before we do other tasks and ear runs [Music] before we heading out to our air Rands I'm going to pick up a few orders so we can drop it off at the post office and thank you so much for the orders I so appreciate that [Music] I am currently working on some new designs so those are on the way to my shop [Music] look at those cute chicks we can't leave them there they have to come home with us [Music] I have to do some cooking and while I do that I'm going to show you how to make the ghee ghee is a clarified butter so if you are sensitive to Dairy protein not the lactose the lactose is the sugar part of it but to the protein then you can make this at home [Music] chopping some vegetables for the meal that I'm going to [Music] make usually I like to buy ghee at Costco but they were out of it it's a little bit less expensive if you make it at home the reason I like to buy them at Costco because they are a good deal and I use a [Music] lot I can use it on a high temperature and I love the flavor of the ghee also as I'm baking frying it makes everything more crispy the coconut oil keeps everything more I would say on the pale side and then we don't like the taste of it avocado oil it's better for Taste wise um we like it a little bit more but it still not have the same effect as I'm using the gate this clarified butter it makes everything more caramelized and more rich in flavor [Music] [Applause] [Music] that's when I know it's getting close to be the dawn stage when it's kind of more bubbly uh I can see more bubbles than this white things on the top but of course I cannot see the bottom so it's definitely not done on my up the number nine is the highest and I have this up on the fourth okay now it's even more see through because I can actually clearly see where all the protein has stick to the bottom so I keep continue to skim the top with these little Bubbles and then pretty soon it's going to be done it is kind of shiny on the camera so I don't know how much you can see it but in real life I really see the bottom so I can clearly see where the bottom has collected all the protein pieces so it's getting close to be done [Music] it is really getting seethrough at this point okay I'm going to try this little Sher maybe maybe that works better yeah okay guys if you have this type of this little thing use this one much easier and faster [Music] [Music] [Music] I'm done get over my shoulder look at this beautiful gam color to check your clarified butter if it's really clean and free from the protein you can just put your hands behind it and if you can see your fingers then it's a good indicator that it's clarified beautifully and it this is just oil without the protein the chicken breast roll turned out [Music] great I fried some peppers corns and parsley and this is what I'm going to mix with the cooked rice [Music] [Music] once the gay is chilled it goes into a cified texture and this is how it will [Music] look oh baby I love your Madness it's so incredibly beautiful oh you shine like [Music] gold this is the next morning I'm putting away the to their Cozy home games always hungry for more that's just how I was born take me somewhere I don't know give me your freedom oh you let me feel pieces yeah need it want you band morning life is so easy wo You Love Me To Pieces yeah I need it you on [Music] this recipe is so easy you only need three ingredientses cut the pork Into Thin stripes and it's very important how you cut it make sure you cut the meat across with the grain so that way it's not going to be chewy and then you will need some potatoes and peas and for spices you only need black peppers a lot and some [Applause] salt one of my favorite shortcut besides the oven is my waffle maker I mixed some cooked rice with some eggs cooking it in the buffo maker makes a shortcut in time and I have less mess to clean up [Music] yeah since the waffle maker it's already on I'm going to make some waffles with some eggs and bananas a little bit of a rice flour and some vanilla flavor and baking [Music] soda give me your fre [Music] wo pieces yeah need [Music] it if you enjoy the bloopers they are coming up [Music] soon the food is done for the day so I'm going to spend more time in the studio today say it's going to be okay cuz this winter is so long Feels Like It's haunting me say there's going to be a change cuz I feel like I'm just holding on to yesterday but if I wait till the summer summer [Music] [Music] problem there p in the [Music] bathroom uh okay I'm coming for future videos don't forget to subscribe and tap the bell for notification there's a more section if you click on it you can find additional information and links under the video

Channel: Scandish Home

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Length: 24min 1sec (1441 seconds)

Published: Sat May 25 2024