Hey Steve: Tired Of The Single Life

- So I'm single, I've never been married, I have no children but I've gotten to the point where I'm comfortable being single. Like I take trips by myself, I go to the movies by myself, I enjoy spending time with me but on the flip side of that it's like I don't put forth the energy or the effort into dating. Especially online dating. And when I do date, maybe one date there's never really a second date. Either I lose interest or I don't hear anything. I don't hear back, so I've also been told that I'm an alpha female so I had this older man tell me that my presence says, "I'm not playing any games," and a man doesn't feel needed. So I just wanna know what do I need to do to soften my exterior to become more approachable. - Let's just go over what you said. You don't have a man, you're single, you don't have any children, you've got comfortable with being single. So you like that. So you portray, "I'm good." Once you portray, "I'm good," to a man, he cannot be the knight in shining armor. 'Cause you good. There's nothing wrong with it if that's the way you wanna go about it but I'm just telling you how men are, men like to feel like they can be the hero. Now, if you take away the hero role from us then what you want us to be? 'Cause I wanna be somebody hero. I don't wanna save you and all like this but I wanna be there to make your life better and hopefully you make mine better. So I think what you need to do is you need to change your frequency. A lot of people don't understand how important it is. What you exude is what you draw back. It's like if you go home and you grab your remote, without thinking if you press the red button, you expect your TV to come on because that's the frequency. You have to change your frequency, your frequency is all off. You're putting out something and expecting something different back. How does that work? If you want more people to shake your hand, you have to extend your hand to more people. (audience clapping) If you want more people to love you, you gotta love more people. It's just your frequency, it's a real simple adjustment. You'll get what you exude and that's all your should do, just change your frequency. You're an attractive girl, see right there, that's the first time you've smiled. (audience clapping) It's a smile. It costs you nothing to smile. You're a lot more attractive when you smile. Kirk Franklin got a song out say, "You look so much better when you smile." That's the truth. (audience clapping) A'ight? All right, where's Charles, where are you? (audience clapping) (audience cheering)

Channel: Steve TV Show

Views: 400,634

Keywords: Steve Harvey, Hey, Steve, Tired, of, being, single, life, relationship, alone, energy, law of attraction, project, projecting, audience, question, advice, talk show, daytime, comedy, stevetvshow, comedian, funny, hilarious, hysterical, dating

Id: zR9J4F7nAEI

Length: 3min 6sec (186 seconds)

Published: Wed Aug 28 2019