Guess Who's Had an Abortion | Lineup | Cut

if i gave you a baby right now what'd you do with it where'd you get the baby a stork dropped it out of the sky i gave it to you because i'm 15. you do know the stork is not real right who are you and what do you do for a living my name is christina wilson and i am a medical assistant in an independently owned abortion clinic i am sophie and i work in business development i'm jaden and i'm 15 years old today you're going to be guessing who has had an abortion from a line of strangers okay what do you think about abortion well personally like if like let's say like my wife wants abortion i would lean towards keeping the baby but i it's her decision in the end what types of people get abortions people with uteruses people who don't really want to have kids or like don't like children have you ever had an abortion before yes i've had three last year i got pregnant i was unemployed and i immediately knew that i didn't want to keep it i'm so grateful that i had that option do you know if kids at your school are sexually active um maybe do you talk to your friends about sex we make sex jokes all right you ready to do this thing that's what she said hi hi so everyone looks like they have a uterus what's your name tiana i'm christina how old are you i'm 22. are you on birth control right now no i had the iud for like a year did you not like something about it i just feel like i gained weight on it so i didn't like it yeah that stuff messes with you man as i've gotten older i'm like what the heck are you a virgin no do you like children no okay i must say they did have an abortion because they don't like children and they're not a virgin i have had an abortion whales right yeah can you tell me about that experience it's very new to me i only got it two weeks ago wow good for you yeah so i decided to get the pill so you take one pill and then it stops the growth of the pregnancy oh and then the next day you take the second one and you're like miss carrie so like you bleed oh don't forget to do the follow-up they were supposed to call me and they had oh you can call them i'm gonna actually hi i'm sophie i'm erin how old are you erin i'm 47. do you have any children no are you a virgin am i a virgin no okay how do you feel about sex i was an escort for almost 20 years so my feelings are complicated i'm gonna guess no because you said you were a sex worker and in my mind you're probably doing your best to not get pregnant yes if you're having sex for your whole life and you're over 40. chances are you've probably gotten pregnant you don't have any children okay you probably had an abortion i don't know why but it's like you're not you didn't have one i've actually had four oh okay they were all over like 10 years ago i wasn't super careful at that time like i didn't really have a really strong method of birth control at work i always did but then with my partners i didn't how many abortions do you think is too many abortions i would say like maybe three i think it's like they're responsible enough i think like one or two is fine i used to feel kind of like similarly people are like why did you keep making that same mistake and then i realized i don't think an abortion is a mistake or like a punishment that makes sense the more abortions you get like affect you at all no i mean we've progressed a lot like medically so it doesn't affect fertility at all and there's tons of people who've had five abortions six abortions seven abortions well what the record is you look fantastic and happy and radiant thank you but there's something about you do you have children i do i also have children it's a it's a something it's something in the eyes what do you do now i actually work in reproductive health care oh do you like young young children at all i do yes probably my guess is no generally i think people who like children tend to not get as much abortions but i could be wrong i have not had an abortion oh okay what kind of reproductive health is that what you said yeah i actually work with cedar river clinics yeah he's also an abortion provider here in washington state is it easy to like sign up or like get an abortion depends on where you go sometimes in other states they will require that you have an ultrasound first and then you have to wait a day we don't require any of that if you need an appointment we can get you in today then we will hi hi what's your name i'm nina are you pregnant now i am pregnant and how many weeks are you i'm 25 weeks today what's your first impression can you just hold what cold vibe yeah yeah giant earrings i do have giant earrings this is true stamina is there anything else you notice about me hmm you have some colorful shoes i missed i feel like i'm pregnant i'm about 25 weeks pregnant do you have children i have two kids between your kids like were you on birth control yes do you think you're responsible to have a third i mean yeah yeah i do i do i do think i'm responsible enough to have a third child but thank you for questioning that i'm gonna say she has not have an abortion she has two kids right now and she's friended with one right now you've said you've always been on birth control unless you didn't want to yeah i'm gonna say no you haven't i have had an abortion we had been trying for a while it was very much a wanted child the friday that we all got sent home in the pandemic yeah i found out i was pregnant i didn't go into the doctors initially because you know it was covered i went in at about 12 weeks and the fetus was like malformed it like looked weird i started miscarriage so i started like bleeding and i just wanted it to stop so i had what they call a dnc i had a surgical abortion did it feel like you had a miscarriage yes and like i got to have make a choice to be like i'm [ __ ] done with this like my heart is broken in half and i don't want to feel this way anymore that makes sense i said goodbye to the byproduct or whatever was you know in the trash can which i think creeped the nurses out and docked her out but whatever but it was a great experience honestly i just want you to know that it's not weird that you want to see it or say goodbye to it really not at all thank you for saying that yeah thank you for sharing your story nina thank you for listening do you like children at all i don't mind children i prefer not to share space with children though so judging by you said that you don't really like children you have not had a kid no i have had a kid oh what's his name maverick that's a good name that's a really good name how are you talked to about sex if at all it was very weird because i um knew when i was nine that oh yeah i'm non-binary i'm trans okay well you just said you were trans so i'm going to say you haven't had an abortion simply because you don't have a uterus um i do have a uterus and i have had a proportion twice actually [Music] just cancel me now please oh my god no canceling it's just a learning process yeah so i identify as non-binary but i was born i was assigned female at birth not all my non-binary people identify as trans um for the longest time i didn't identify strands either but um i do now but yeah i've had two abortions my pregnancy was very high risk i was also experiencing houselessness at the time and i was just like um i don't want to do that if i gave you a baby right now what'd you do with it where'd you get the baby a stork dropped it out of the sky i gave it to you because i'm 15. and said it's yours now ah i probably hang out with the baby do you have any children currently i do i had him the day before my 17th birthday oh wow and what made you choose him because to me that's such a young age um he chose me and i just worked out that way i think that's great no i feel the same way about my first my guess is that you have not gotten abortion because you said you have your kid you have not had an abortion you're right okay i mean i think that if i got pregnant today probably flushing it oh you know like i don't know okay it's probably gonna go what are your feelings around virginity does it hold weight i don't want to have like lose my virginity before i'm like 18 because i don't think that's when i should be doing it are you still sexually active i wish are you currently partnered i have a baby daddy that i like occasionally have sex with but i shouldn't well it's attractive when they're a good dad you know yeah he is a good dad what was growing up for you like in your family my mom's side is catholic so i was like baptized catholic and went to mass are you religious no i'm spiritual okay i'm gonna guess yes that you have you have had one most time when i've asked people if they have kids or not and they said yes that automatically made me think oh they did not have one but now i'm gonna change that so i guess that's my final guess you're right i also had an abortion after aldi having two children but what was the reasoning for you i was having a terrible time in postpartum my mental health wasn't good and i felt like it would be so unfair to myself and my kids and my partner at the time i hate going into doctor's offices so i was so relieved to find out that i could do it like just in the comfort of my own home yeah nice i send you the medication to your doorstep i had like new comfy pajamas and i took it and it was like super easy well i'm so glad you're able to take care of yourself because i think a huge factor for a lot of women including myself is where are you at not just financially but mental health wise thank you did you learn anything new today i've learned that i'm semi good at guessing if they have an abortion or not my opinion has always been kind of been like i would prefer like to keep the baby my opinion now is kind of like it's their decision and especially if all the stories i've heard like about like the miscarriages and stuff abortion would really be needed and stuff why do you feel like people don't talk about abortion more people have a lot of shame about having abortions and guilt about it being not a bad experience i just really appreciate that people like myself and all of these people as well we're able to share this should be the norm are you going to talk to your bros about abortion um i'll show them this video thank you jayden thank you bye bye

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Length: 11min 1sec (661 seconds)

Published: Thu Oct 28 2021