Giving Up Luxuries To Be The Best Version of Yourself | Shaolin Master Shi Heng Yi

if I get drunk in the evening which happened I don't feel well the next day I don't feel clear the next day because of course just like every human when you are out and there are many friends of yours and then they invite you why don't you just stay a little bit longer it's just 4:00 stay until 600 but I can't I would if I could but I can't why because I have another priority welcome back to inspire change with Jordan willigan today we're looking at discipline with the Headmaster of the sholing temple Europe Master shaung Yi and we talk about his new structure on how to be more disciplined in your life today's video was powered by hu a quick affordable and nutritionally complete source of food with everything your body needs use code Jordan Mulligan 10 at checkout for a discount I'll talk about this more later in the video but before that how can we structure our lives for dis discipline well today Master Shahi tells us exactly how just a few years back I was also staying right here outside in the monastery all the time but as I also said meanwhile we have so many guests coming uh which made it necessary for me to actually leave out to a separate apartment leaving more space for the participants to come here the circumstances have changed for me the surroundings the environment let's say has changed for me what cannot leave me are the principles that have always followed my life so and just looking I mean I don't consider myself old but all of us inside of here this whole Community we are all young guys young people of course we enjoy going out listening to music talking to other people just socializing of course this is something which is also interesting and attractive to us of course sometimes when we are being invited because I grow up here I know the city I know the people so that means it's natural that I also have friends outside of the monastery but at the same time I know why because I felt it before I know that when I go out in the evening and I do not discipline myself I let myself go too much with whatever flow there is or with the dynamic of the group or with the or with the flow of the evening it's not that it's bad I'm not thinkinking in terms of bad I'm thinking in terms of consequence and that means if someone's getting drunk drunk in the evening if I get drunk in the evening which happened I don't feel well the next day I don't feel clear the next day my decisions are not the best the next day but meanwhile everything has become so let's say so big also on the one side people people also depending a little bit based on the actions that I'm taking that I just decide I cannot take decisions and I don't want to take decisions knowing that the reach of these decisions is going to affect everyone I don't want to take a wrong decision because I'm not clear in the mind so just based only on this fact for example I can go out but I don't drink if I know know I have some obligation the next day I set up all the previous days before in order to be ready for the day to come okay so and that means very clear that if I have put something upon my mind which for me has a priority which for me is nothing anymore to discuss about than all the actions now that I'm doing I just always compare does this action is it compatible to what I actually or where I want to go and that also means that you need to of course discipline yourself regardless of how inside you feel because of course just like every human when you are out and there are many friends of yours and everybody's laughing and the mood is good and the group dynamic is good and the energy is up and then they invite you why don't you just stay a little bit longer it's just 4:00 stay until 6 yeah and I know next day I have to go out of course there is a side of myself uh having this wish this feeling oh okay come on let's go on let's go on but I can't I hope you're enjoying this video so far today's video was sponsored by hu a quick affordable nutritionally complete source of food that has everything that your body needs I have used these for the last 2 years to be able to fly around the world and make these projects happen this is how our film crew are fueled but also this is what supports us to be able to make these projects happen so if you want to find out more about hu head to the link in the description and use code Jordan Mulligan 10 at checkout for a discount let's dive back into the video I would if I could but I can't why because I have another priority because somewhere I'm saying okay it was a nice evening until right now all is good for me I'm really happy already that I spent this time with all of you but I need to get back to Mission and this is the point where discipline for me for example comes in that despite the fact of your internal World your emotions your feelings maybe tell you something else yeah but but discipline is for me that is not listening in that in that case now necessary to your feelings but to call out again what was your priority that you have said to yourself while you still had the clear mind okay so and this I keep so discipline on the one side meaning you are keeping your commitment you are keeping your commitment so that means it is something about actively doing let's say you actively consciously keeping your goal but discipline at the same time also means you're leaving away the stuff that you know it's going to block you along the way so discipline in that sense is not just a one-way street it's about what you want this is what you do and what you know is not good for you you leave it so we have an active part a passive part yeah this is where it comes to discipline now for many many years all of this has been like it's like you would say it has been my child so what is the hardest [Music] thing it is to invest Your Love invest your time invest everything go through all the pain to make that child grow and develop but then you can see already you can sense it the time has come that it's not possible somehow anymore for you to still remain on the side of the child okay and it's really hard because you have built up such a such a strong relationship to all of this and now is time to let go understand so even that is difficult for me but then I actually went really inside and asked myself but why is it that what is it I'm afraid of about this child the only thing I want is that this child continuously starts to grow and actually that the child is always well of that the child is being taken care of okay and now I have to jump a little bit but you see this is how it's for me all connected sometimes I had the S already now I'm building up this this race bike okay which took me 5 years and sometimes I have these thoughts like okay what happens one day when like I'm gone where will this bike end up yeah am I going to give it to to a museum or who is going to take care of that bike in the way how I did it and there I came to the conclusion most probably no one no one is going to adopt this child and will take care of that child in the way how I did it why not because now in regards to the bike there is nobody else around who was involved in the process of building up that bike this is why nobody has that type of relationship and connection to the bike now I jump back to the temple I want this Temple to survive I want this organization to go on I want that somebody is taking care of this place just like their child how to do it they must be integrated in the process already of bringing up that child and that was the point where I said it's time to delegate it's time to let other people also start to understand the sufferings of the child the problems of the child and then let them figure out bys how to know which medicine is is it you need to give and I slowly just took myself out a little bit just overseeing just making sure it's your it's your responsibility everything right now just in case something goes very wrong I'm there then you can come if there if it's all okay I will just watch it okay so so this is the process which has been going on right now more or less yeah let's say since one year two in two years ago it's slightly started but since the last time that we saw each other this is like the process which is going on here okay thank you so much to master shangi and the sh in Temple Europe for doing this if you want to find out more there are more resources on shin. online down below and also I want to say a massive thank you to hu for sponsoring the video to get our film crew out to Germany to be able to film this project use code Jordan Mulligan 10 at checkout with the link in the description for a discount and thank you to everybody who supported us at Mulligan brothers.com with the journals and the posters if you're still getting ready for the new year use code 2024 at checkout to get buy one get one free across everything on the website guys it has been a great start to the year and we are off in uh two hours 3 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Published: Tue Jan 30 2024