everything wrong with dance moms...

yo here and say that my daughter looks miserable so maybe we should put Kalani in her place no I never said yes you must certainly no I didn't think that listen I said Brook is your mother you're in there do you hello everybody welcome back to my channel my name is Amanda this is your first time here welcome to my Beauty entertainment channel I'm about to have so much fun oh my gosh alright so before I start if you'd like to follow me on social media here is my Twitter and my Instagram for your enjoyment have so much fun with that okay and while you're here just check out some of my recent videos that I've done they are probably on your screen somewhere but that's not what this video is about so if you're new to my channel you don't know what series I do this is another installment of my everything wrong with blank I take a television show whether it can be anything I've done like kids shows and I've also done like the build shows so I take a TV show and I talk about it and i analyze it and I share my unwarranted and unwanted opinions on the internet so that's we're doing it again and I'm the most excited I've ever been for one of these so let's get in to this gig today's installment of the everything wrong with blank series is Dance Moms I am so excited I'm so excited cultural reset so in case you don't know what Dance Moms is probably I don't everyone knows a dance like I hope I hope by now dance mom is a reality TV show obviously focus around the Abby Lee dance company elite competition team so Dance Moms started back in 2011 and it's still going on right now but it's all new girls none of the original girls are there so I won't be focusing on that I'm really betting on the seasons where the original girls who made the show what it is because they made the show what it is I'm gonna be focusing on those season so this show focuses on the talents and the gifts of the Abby Lee dance company elite competition team so now on paper you might be like that sounds kind of boring it's not why it's called Dance Moms is because these super talented girl some of the craziest stage moms of all time yep I said it and it also doesn't help that the woman at the center of Elvis Abby Lee Miller is an interesting coach I'll talk more about her later but just to give you a little a little tease so in my opinion this is one of the best if not the best reality show of all time period there this show the other reality shows wish they had what Dance Moms have they wish they had the cultural impact that Dance Moms have they wish they were able to create the drama that was on dance oh it was so so well done this show is so tumultuous so get ready for a ride it's animal yeah it's an emotional roller coaster and just so you know if you haven't seen all the episodes of Dance Moms are on lifetime if you have a cable providers so that's where I watch the show so you know just wanted to let you know that's where they are all be all sides are there Hulu only has this new season so who cares but the old episodes are on lifetime if you would like to check those out so because this is a pretty I have to say disclaimer disclaimer people love to have my comments crazy disclaimer because this is a reality show I want to first start off by saying I don't know these people I don't know these people I have never met any of these people they all seem like nice people except for a couple but I'll talk about that more in a second I don't know any of these people I will probably never know any of these people I am going based off of what we received as an audience on the show so before anyone tells me I know reality TV is reality TV is faked that's why I kind of feel comfortable enough to do this because their characters were so obviously heavily exaggerated they turned more into characters and their actual probable personalities I just want to put that out there first I don't know any of these people all seem super nice except for a couple but okay I don't know any of them I'm just speaking from what information I received from the television show that I watch every single week for about five years yes Dance Moms Stan come on now [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] when we dumped Abbi it wasn't just a be going for dump tank she was a sea creature so first I'm gonna start with the dancers who are the actual talent of the show because let's not forget this show was about dancers I wouldn't like focus is on the mom and I'm like well the girls kind of made the show what it was and just before I started get another disclaimer all of these girls are super talented in their own right like come on please Claire I can see comments coming already and I'm like they're all talented all right all right so let's start with the girls who were brought in to this show that are not part of the original group of girls so first I'm gonna start with Jojo see wow what a journey we have taken with Jojo see I wouldn't have thought no I don't think you would have thought either she'd be the most famous dance on this girl and she went from being a B scapegoat because that's what she was to a multi-million dollar child superstar so good for her there's not much to really say about Jojo see what except for the fact that Abby treated her like garbage go back and watch the show Abby kind of honed in all her hate she had had people who she hated every single season but they kept on leaving and Abby needed a child to project on so JoJo's Jojo see WA in the later seasons was Abby's choice of a child to project all her childhood insecurities on okay okay next Sofia you don't remember Sophia Sophia was the was a dance that came on in season three and she was basically brought on to shake the world up she shook up a storm now she didn't shake it up as much as a girl but I'll talk about in a second but she really took the blinders off of Abby in terms of that talent doesn't just stop in Pittsburgh Pennsylvania she kind of took the blinders off of Abby and I think bringing Sophia on started Abby's whole mission and put the planted the idea in her that she can now start taking talent from other studios which had been something that was just Cathy's thing previously but Abby said I want to cut I want a percentage I want the talent so rather than utilize a talent in her own studio she decided to literally leach and steal and Rob her Studios and take their super talented dancers so Sofia super nice girl shucks up shook shook up the table tremendously Wow world record holder that enough said world record holder enough said moving on next is Kalani so Kalani and my opinion was too good for this team not just because she was too advanced and also she was like Brookes nah she wasn't Brookes age but she was like old compared to the rest of the girls so that was the reason she was so much better than the rest of the girls and the abbey where no one ever discusses that everyone's like Kalani one of the best dancers and it's like well obviously she's like two three four years older than most of the girls on the team her and her mother I mean they ship the team up a little bit not as much I the thing is um they shook up the team enough they didn't do it as much as the girl I'm about to get to you are in me or do you already know who it is but they shook it up enough because she was talented enough but the reason why they couldn't is because Abby made it her mission to make sure she did not want anyone to compete against Maddie she didn't she didn't Kalani was brought there as a prop to be used to make Maddie look not so far advanced and I'm the rest of the girls she need another girl who was at Maddie's talent level okay but when her mother wanted was like when are we gonna go and when are we gonna go against Maddie I thought she wanted to bring somebody here to compete against Maddie and make her Betty Abby is a liar Abby had no intention of ever doing that she wanted someone else who could help raise the technique score of her team because it was falling rapidly okay next the last girl who was brought up and I'm gonna talk about Miss Asia cultural reset I'm sorry finally I finally when I was watching this show live I was like these girls are so boring sorry okay so before Asia came on then the team was of course incredible they're all pleased they're all incredible but there was an element of performance that was missing on the Abby Lee dance company elite junior competition team because that's their name they'd all have a shorter name for me to say Asia brought fire Asia brought perform the performance ability that all of these girls all of them were missing she brought life to the stage and I will save us with their chest with my chest this team was at its peak around season 3 season 4 and I fully hold it I think Asia is responsible for most of that because when she was brought in she was a she was able to perform in a way that that had the other mothers confused because Asia was like young and she also did not have the best technique and she also did not have the most skills on the team so why was she always winning because she was putting on a show and what it taught the other girls is like hey your technique can be great your skills can be great you can do 10,000 gazillion turns but if you're not gonna give on a show from the Audion to the judges it's useless it's completely useless and that's what Asia did I'm talking I'm chalking it all up to Asia this team's bread and butter the whole team's bread and butter was the pretty lyrical contemporary with the same like face and the super like super happy-go-lucky or like sad there was not a lot of depth think there wasn't a lot of depth to the dances that they did so they pretty much usually avoided jazz or if they did do jazz it was a heavy maddie lead because a lot of the other girls did not have that same ability to perform and when Asia came in she showed the ballast now I'm going to talk about the original girls because there's a lot to unpack here I just wanted to say it'll be obvious when I talk about them some clearly had better experience from likely an outsider's point of view had a better experience on the show then a lot of the other girls especially when I was writing this I was like some of these girls were treated like garbage garbage alright I'm starting with Kendall so Kendall is nice I guess but we've seen some like tell-alls from some like a bit later seasons Dance Moms girls who would say stuff like Kendall was a bit mean and I'm just like okay that kind of she would have some turn her mom mother glut Jill later some snide comments some snide comments and she was always crying she was always crying and I know but the thing is the thing that I that I forgot when I was watching this show again I think as a collective audience and viewers we forgot just how young Kendall was she was eight she was eight when she first came to Abby and I think it was more of like she was really tall she wasn't even really tell she was just tall so it made her look like she was Chloe's age but she was not she was eight years old when she first showed up there so I'll give her the benefit of the doubt and that aspect and maybe that's why she cried so much but she even started kept doing it when she was older and I was like okay but back to the dancing it matter Kendall got Maddie rejects for all of her so every single solo she got up until a certain point we're all of Maddie rejects and I would it was so infuriating only Chloe Maddie and Brooke got dense is made for them wait I'll talk about that more in a second she was given Maddie rejects step one and said in Kendall up to fail nobody can do a dance like Maddie because nobody dances like Maddie and that's okay Kendall dances like Kendall in my opinion I don't think Kendall did I think had no strong suit was leaning towards more jazz and it took them until pretty much season four season four to realize that when they had to do those 45 second auditions for the national solo and Kendall and Jill chose to do a / applause solo excellent choice that is what Kendall does well pretty girl jazz she does that well lyrical trying to be Maddie it's not working it's not it's not where it never worked it never worked and then Abby would use that against her and be like see you didn't do it as well as Maddie could have and it's it all boils down to mothers the mothers Jill was trying to push this new Maddie nonsense and why can't your daughter just be Kendall why can't your daughter just be Kendall I'll talk about that when I get to her and Kendall a piece of us in a pyramid in season three the end of season three Kendall's kind of inconsistent answer whatever she like dances to the best of her own ability it's perfect it's it's not perfect but it's like it's better it's very very good but that didn't happen all of the time she when she when Kendall hits a turn just hitting a turn and it's it's good it's good but it was never all of the time it wasn't that strong Kendall was one on Abby's hit list for a hot minute Abby was taking out all sorts of insecurities on this little girl especially because her mother was off mother was a look was a little I'm getting to Jill so the next girl I'm going to talk about is Paige Paige was what is a word that can describe emotional destruction in front of millions of people every single week whatever word that it is that's what I'm looking for this girl was attacked Abby hated I don't know why I mean I know it's Kelly that's why projection that's why Paige gorgeous girl could have been an incredible child actor could have been a print model but you know she wanted to be a dancer Paige is the one that Abby kept setting up if we're gonna be perfectly honest Paige got garbage garbage choreography she got Mackenzie rejects run that back Paige got Mackenzie as I'm the youngest child on the team she got Mackenzie rejects for all of her solos how does that make any sort of sense please I don't understand now the reason for that might be because Paige Kent could not remember a solo to save her life she was constantly forgetting solos so that might be a reason why but still I still don't understand why she was doing routines that Mackenzie wouldn't even do that makes no sense to me that makes absolutely no sense to me she was 11:11 going on 12 do it knows childish gymnastics routine that makes no type of sense and also we can talk about how in the Junior cut in any category pretty much stuff like that doesn't win so it was a double set up it was a double set up another thing is some time in like there's a group dancer that I'll talk about I'm going to suffer right now in a season 3 3 where it was a gold-digger routine and it was like it was like jazzy and sassy and snaps and Paige was front and center because that is what she excelled that where was that energy in the solos no it has it has to be it has to be front limber front limber front limber chin stand that's what it had why why that made no paid escort garbage decimate I have to move on wearing it upsets next I'm moving on to Brooke incredible once-in-a-lifetime talent once-in-a-lifetime talent and the flame was snuffed out by Abby and her mother I'm saying it I'm saying once in a lifetime here's the thing Brooke didn't care about this I think she cared just a little bit from an outsider's perspective it looked like she didn't care and she was still that good all of her solos placed most one without a care in the world god-given talent that's that that's pure undeniable raw talent you don't care you have no sort of empty into it and you're still winning are you get so because the thing is her technique no matter how much you didn't care and didn't try the technique was always there cuz it's been there since Kelly always says she was the old Maddie okay Kelly and it's probably why her technique and beat her so good she has the ability y'all just snuffed out her flame yo are you kid all the shenanigans that happened on the show especially surrounded Brooke Paige from Kelly and Abby and that whole situation was an absolute disaster and it's single-handedly the reason why this flame was snuff whenever her mother and Abby got into fights though it was it was always the most tumultuous thing that ever happened on which oh look Kelly versus Abby ridiculousness whenever those happen Brooke there was what especially the last one that you know like ended and did it all brick was crying she was wailing so it's like clearly clearly she still wants to be it's I mean it she's been here for four years and longer but like on the show for four years she clearly still wants to be there she even would still do well not the best but she would do well in these group routines without a care in the world without a care in the world was still front front row that means there's undeniable raw talent there and it was snuffed out it was snuffed out by Abby and it was snuffed out by her mom what and she wasn't able cuz the reason everyone was like Brooke you don't use your face let me tell you why how are you gonna be able to freely express herself in your face when you can't really express yourself in your own life because your dance teacher and your mother all in constant disagreement tell me how you would have done that tell me how you would have expressed yourself emotionally freely in this sort of situation you couldn't have you couldn't have nobody could have because it would have been ridiculous okay moving on Mackenzie Asia was needed Asia was needed because Mackenzie was already extraordinarily talented but she needed to click it needed to click and when Asia came it clicked immediately she said oh shoot she said oh season three is when I start I already likes Mackenzie she's adorable she's an adorable little girl Howard he likes Mackenzie but season 3's her to like her a lot more and then when she when she did Maddie's cries solo became a Stan let's talk about it Abby set her ass up Abby this is my thing with Abby is such a vindictive little woman um she set Mackenzie up by doing Maddie's cry solo because that's a routine Maddie is well renowned for obviously it's the it's the cry solar so she was setting her up in the ability to be like Oh Maddie did it better Maddie's better than you in every sort of way clearly digging a tack on an insecurity a common insecurity of the younger sibling Const are you kidding me and when she did it when she went out on that stage and she held it I said that's it I said that's it Mackenzie stand because she / she was set up doing Maddie's cry solo out of dance competition how is that not a setup how is that not a setup and she went and she won I see literally shut everybody up she shut Abey Abey was prepared to come into the dressing room and yell she didn't get a little bit but not as much as she thought she was going to he says McKenzie said you know what you won't bring me down I am NOT like Maddie I am McKenzie I dance how McKenzie dances Wow no that made me ask and I was like you you are that girl you were that girl for doing nuts and then in season four McKenzie kind of came into her own she's like found her own style of Dance which I love McKenzie once Asia came McKenzie became an entertainer she became that a bunt aja aja did this all of them she brought on the entertainment aspect and all her routines are so like fun to watch you're so intrigued the whole - oh wow oh wow okay the thing is I want to get McKenzie Abby was a complete demon to this little girl are you kidding me are you just because her older sisters your favorite does not mean she's gonna turn into Maddie this is Mackenzie is this is Mackenzie different person Abby was taking out it's a be an only child or she a younger sibling because that there was a lot of projection issues onto Mackenzie every single day always always going where it hurts deep a be loved loved to pinpoint all of these children's insecurities and and use them to her own advantage these are these girls are all under the age of like you like 13 when the show started why would you do that Abby oh I know what and Mackenzie said I'm not I'm not I'm not I'm not the one I am not the one you cannot tear me down I stand I do stand her next I'm gonna move on to Maddie please stop denying the talent there's a reason Maddie was always in the front there's a reason Maddie was the favorite stop denying the cat stop denying the talent stop it stop it Maddie made it look easy and that's what made her the best performer these out of this um she made it look effortless everything flowed it looked effortless and weightless she's not frigid and she is not stiff which a lot of these girls were she flew she flowed through every single position and made it look breath-taking honestly I think he's one of nomen girls on there that has rhythm I think a lot of them are just really good at Rembrandt choreography and they're good dancers but the rhythm is lacking because she was one of the only ones who was able to hear and understand and move to the to music she was one of the only ones who had the ability to do that and as I rewatched to show at least five times by now I'm like Rick she's the only one who can hear music honestly truly and that's why she was always a lead stop being naive stop it stop everyone needs to stop it that's why she was always the lead and she also was Abby's favorite so that's what happened I also think she is the only dancer pretty much especially at the start who could do hard jazz routines a lot of the girls could do easy jazz routine so Maddie could do hard difficult jazz routines because she had the level technique the high level technique but she also was would be able to perform what she means in a jazz routine and see able to sell it to the audience lyrical you can kind of just be like oh happy happy happy but in order to like do a jazz routine you got to be a little get have some fire some fire but Maddie's fire was allowed to burn that is the difference between her and a lot of these dancers that's what being the favorite gives you that's what being well-liked gives you the ability to let your create an expression flow freak there was nothing hindering Maddie there was not a person hindering Maddie her mom wasn't hindering her he wasn't hindering her they were letting her flow three the only child that was allowed to freely express himself on the show now I don't know what it actually was in real life but I'm talking about Mike in terms of dancing ability that's what I meant and I have so much respect for Maddie because she kept having to apologize for her talents she kept having to apologize for her talent too forty-year-old women she kept having to apologize or being a talented child for what I don't like that I don't like how they always place the blame on her talk to Abby if you're so upset talk to Abby you're so upset the girl is talented why should she be ashamed of that now was Maddie cocky in season one yes but when she forgot her solo in season two and ran off the stage humbles her and made her a completely better dancer by far by far it was it was more I don't know she was coffee because she was like eight I don't know can an eight-year-old be coffee yes she was a little cocky in season one then as soon as she forgot her dance and was humbled leaps and bounds leaps and leaps leaps and bounds and my favorite Maddie moment ever it was in season four towards the end it was when those grown women those grown women from candy apples Dance who the hell cares we're walking past they were doing the chandelier routine losers losers you can't come up with an original idea Cathy loser they were walking past and trying to psych her out by playing her chandelier music her yes her she was the one in the video and then they were walking past on her psyche her out and then Maddie busts out the whole routine in the dressing room I you're trying to psych out an 11 year old you're a loser you're a loser I'm kidding there's no other word to describe how horrid you must feel about yourself so go try to psych out an 11 year old you're pathetic oh my god that actually busted up the whole routine seamlessly in the middle of the dressing room that's how you clear a [ __ ] that's how you clear up oh what a great moment in time next time we're talking about is my girl Mia period again with the Mackenzie rejects I don't understand I don't understand why her and Paige were continuing I don't understand why they were doing those five-year-old especially Mia because they kept on happening those five-year-old gymnastics front limber chin Stan front limber chin Stan yeah yeah ridiculous childless routines up until the age of twelve that makes no sense to me that makes no sense to me her best routine there were two of them one was the my Angela routine and in the other was their Broadway baby dedication routine Nia just does jazz well Nia can perform me don't deny this everyone loves everyone everyone's gonna be like well Nia is a performer have you ever watched Nia solo and been bored she's delivering you in the face she the face it is always there always there and does she get any credit for it no I didn't we're gonna get to why she got paid dust2 and the thing is whenever Nia was a lead in a group routine at one it won and she got no credit for it whenever Nia was the lead in the group routine it won I wonder why I wonder why Abby I wonder why why didn't he get paid us why didn't he get paid dust why didn't you get paid dust why I wonder what the reason could be let's we haven't yet I need to take a breather and then take a breather for a second so from Season one Neal was typecast every single time Abby wanted to do something ridiculous Nia was put in it just to be I don't know quirky funny doesn't make any sort of sense she was always in playing an animal in her solos with Mackenzie circus why was she always she was a lion why was she always playing an animal Abby was the reason what was the reason for that why sees it for was me a dog she had a solo where she was a dog she was wearing a dog collar Abbi early she was playing a dog how do you not see that how do you how do you not how do you not she was playing a dog and in the episode Abby made her bark made her bark on television what is that and this is the thing these are the only the things that we saw as viewers who the hell knows what Abby was doing when the cameras were not there who knows what they edited out bless Tania's heart bless me bless Nia's heart microaggression after microaggression after much it was just constant constant do we not remember the scene where Abby said to eight ten-year-old ten ten year old Mia said to her mother fix this hair because it is horrible talking about Nia's box braids because I remember that scene I certainly do remember that scene it's painful to watch now as an adduct painful I knew it was painful when I watching it the first time it's even more painful to see a grown woman talking to a ten year old child like that calling her hair horrible and that's just what we saw Nia was enduring microaggressions from Abby from the mothers and maybe from the girls I don't know they had probably added a lot of it out she was the bully in one dance and then Holly said absolutely hell not Holly said absolutely the help we're not doing this she was a kidnapper another dance and the thing that was the saddest is that when Holly would get upset at the fact that Abby was typecasting her she would be like I can't save because this is the only roles that Nia gets the only change this therapy featured are typecast roles with racist undertones and all I'd be like I don't want to take this away from Nia but it's like where would what wins what wins those are her only opportunities to dance Abby is nuts a dog collar she had her wearing a dog collar and barking on national television does that sit right with you it shouldn't it shouldn't it shouldn't at all and it still makes me angry visibly angry to this day I'm quieting down because I'm so upset and the other moms love to make little snide expecially Jill love to make little snide remarks on Nia and her dancing as if their daughters were good I could go there I could absolutely go there they wouldn't always make these snide little remarks but how Nia is bad I'm like do we want do we wanna do we want to go there do you want to go there Jill because I will I will absolutely have to and they would never understand while holly was like upset that her daughter was playing a bully or kidnapper or being typecast every six seconds they'd be like well why are you mad Holly at least she has a role are we serious that's why I don't do it I are you kidding me why'd it was and why was Abby always talking about the Lion King with Nia always she Lion King this Lion King not if they want to cast The Lion King I'm gonna send Lamia Lion King animals always animals Abby why is that and I well I will say this for later Rosa Parks episode that's enough set I want to say anything more the fact that Abby even entertained any other child to play Rosa Parks is inane in name it is ludicrous that she even entertained the thought the next child I'm gonna be talking about is Chloe Chloe deserved more Chloe deserved more and both Abby and her mother are at fault let's go yes I said both I really hope this show didn't affect her confidence in the way that it had the potential shoe because Chloe had a talent but none of the other girls had her dancing ability was the highest on the team I said what I said I said don't look at the evidence go look at the material dancing ability the technique is higher than any other girl on the team and Abby was too afraid to admit it that Chloe had the highest technique and the highest dancing ability on the team she was better than Maddie they was proves it was proved when they did the exact same lateen the exact same routine that was actually a pretty fair routine it had classic Maddie and classic Chloe steps that was one of Abby's um fairest routines and XI 1 XI 1 XI 1 XI 1 XI would look the happiest I think I've ever seen Chloe look on this show and then Abby ripped it away from her I fully believe she did I pay them proved that Abby the dozen said this isn't right are you kidding me Abbi you can't lose she was better Puli was better the routine was more entertaining she was better but dancing ability was better that's why she won she went to the judges and said you guys did this wrong I know better even though I'm not the judge of this competition I just know better Cousin Itt Miller in the confessional after Abby went and had the judges come in and change the score Chloe looked broken I'm the word I'm using is broken because it looks like she she was broke out he ruined it Abby had some sort of vindictive just tirade after this child and for what Abby what are you mad at Chloe turns like a top the girl no one is touching Chloe come when it comes to turning have we ever seen a bobble of turn maybe once maybe once in this entire show we've seen Chloe bobble a turn it's called being excellent at your craft that's what it's called I a be emotional abuser I'll say it why what Chloe's lights was taken out of her eyes every single season constant constant ridicule and embarrassment and for why cuz he didn't like her mom nobody likes Lex Abby never cut Chloe any sort of slack but she did it for a lot of the other girls I will take you back to the Arabian Nights routine that acro routine that they did how Abby was hell-bent on putting a standing back tuck in that routine when Chloe could absolutely not do it but for many many many other routines she gave other girls passes when it came to I don't know important things like turning and jumps she would give them path as the winner standing back tuck that was not necessary to the actual horrible routine now there was an issue she didn't put it in because she had maybe one one one ounce of common sense left but that that made me mad you get grace to every other girl when it comes to actual important dancing turns and jumps and leaps not when it comes to us and a back tuck that wasn't necessary the routine to begin with and then this is where I wrote in season four a bee-like turns into she already was um rude to Chloe she turns pretty much evil in season four to Chloe it was she was doing a lot she was doing a lot and I think it was to emotionally hurt the girl I'm like what else who are who are you really mad at because I know it's not this eleven year old child who has done nothing but when you national title out the national title I know it's not her who were you really mad at she beat her at when they brought in the nude scene she beat her placement twice she beat her replacement tight and Abby when judges went to the judges uh Jen OH gang to ask if they had their head screwed on straight are you kidding me Abby are you kidding me she's trying to break her every single season starting up at Kendall versus Chloe shenanigans absolute shenanigans are you kidding me Chloe versus Kendall are we do I need to say it do I need whining to say it Chloe versus Kendall all right all right it was clearly that whole like um who's going for number two was clearly something to make Chloe feel insecure it was clear that was clearly what it was it was ridiculous ridiculous Abby always picks someone someone to just project every single angry feeling she has towards the world instead of going to therapy instead of going to therapy she projected on to little kids what is the issue what is the issue until those are the kids until it's clear that the kids um some kids had better experiences than other kids and some had nearly terrible ones and you know they're not the issue the kids are not the issues with the show in fact I hope they're doing all they're all doing well I hope the show didn't affect them the way that it had the potential to but yeah let's move on to the actual issues of the show the moms know I am NOT going to leave I can't talk about everything wrong with Dan Tom without bringing up these mothers some of them are ludicrous let's start Kristie ray that's Asia's mom I loved her she was not with the ship she was not with the [ __ ] she was the only mom who called Kristie out on her hypocritical [ __ ] the only mom who ever did it and she was the only mom who ever who never really changed and made about herself she was kind of like I'm here for my daughter you all suck I didn't she admit she left so I like Kristie ray next is Leslie the reason why I'm putting it I didn't put Payton in the other girls because there isn't too much to say she was a good dancer but she was like six feet tall and she had a smart mouth Leslie is um I can't say that Leslie creates and incites a lot of mess for no reason so it makes the show good everything it's the same this show is the same issues a America's Next Top Model everything that's bad about this show is what makes the show good Leslie incited a lot of mess for no frickin reason she can't shut her mouth always always talking and I'll always the consequence always falls on the Payton the consequence always fall onto her child so I don't know why she couldn't just be quiet and half the things happen Hills most of the hills that Leslie was trying to die on made no type of sense she was in the wrong in most of our arguments but she was always trying to die on hills and it's like Leslie nobody cares get up and move on to your next hill okay next is Melissa Melissa's a pushover we all know that this is my thing I don't know why she didn't just own it but the fact that she wanted her kids to get ahead or your kids have a gift your kids are a gift your kids have a gift you should do anything you can to push them ahead however when she Melissa just was like kind of wishy-washy because she wouldn't choose the wrong times to own the fact that she was a stage mom she like for example when Kalani and Maddie did that secret duet and Maddie lied to Chloe's face and Melissa lived' Kristi's face that was the hill she chose to die on not when she was not when these other mothers were clearly jealous of her nine-year-old child she didn't want to she didn't want to argue there but she wanted to argue when she was clearly in the wrong I don't know I don't know what's not I don't know what's not clicking there were times where both Christi and Kelly were adamantly jealous of Maddie a nine-year-old and Melissa didn't want to fight then but when she was in the wrong that's when she wanted to die on the hill and because say I'm doing this for my kid not then girl what's going on girl let's go that doesn't make any sort of sense that makes no sense I have to move on no I can't these moms to Melissa because they were so jealous of her nine-year-old child would always cut deep they go for her carriage every time they go back to like marriage affair cheating and I look for what what did that bring to the conversation Christie it was always Christie what does that bring me the conversation next mother is Jill here's the thing Jill is confident in her mess she knows she's messy she knows she's shady and she doesn't care I like that I like that I'm not Becky home a key when she brought an old costume and like the first season that she was there an iconic line I love that line my little Kendall she has a little she's cute one-liners so we know that go her going to candy apples was faked we all know that right so like I can't really talk about that so Jill is funny I think she's funny I think she's at food and she's a instigator of most of the mess on my show so without her being there most the mess on the show wouldn't happen Jill was always talking into people's ear she was talking into Christy's ear trying to make her start mess talking into Kelly's area trying to make her start mess talking into Melissa's ear just talking to everybody's ear Oh Jill was messy I liked it however why I don't like Jill always snide remarks always snide remarks about Nia always since the since the day she got on the show went the day she got on the show she had made it clear that she thinks Kendall's better dancer than Nia no comment Nia beat Kendall multiple times although Kendall beat Nia so if anything they're in competition with each other one's not better again no comment whenever they did duets Jill was always mad that she didn't get a duet with Maddie but when she got the duet with Maddie she was mad again because she thought would do it with Maddie was too hard until that Kendall couldn't handle so what do you want Jill what do you want do you want but duet with Maddie or do you know on it because you can't pick a pick a side but what do you want Jill what if she truly want Jill was always this is the thing Jill is an instigator that would need an instigator on every single reality show so I'll leave it alone however we're not done my little Kendall would be perfect for the role of Rosa Parks your little Kendall would be perfect for the role of Rosa Parks okay Jo okay Jo that comment I don't know I don't know if I don't know if that was faked didn't sound fake she sounded pretty genuine to me very serious Jill are we silly are we serious not even gonna blame it on her because the fact that I'd be even entertained that is insane in and of itself but why would you why would you do that show Jim no comment next dr. holly Frazier duck I'm gonna say doctor every time she has a doctorate so she's a doctor dr. holly Frazier the only good mom on the show we know that we owned we all knew that we all knew that clearly my favorite by Howard I spoke highly of her cleared my favorite mom clearly the best mom out of all of that come on now but what sort Sonia had to go through ridiculous [ __ ] obviously and also so did Holly let's discuss whenever Holly spoke back to Abby which was pretty rare and when it did happen it was always pretty respectfully Abby immediately immediately would always take the dances away from Nia Holly has never cursed saghafi in fact Holly has never cursed on this show at all but all of Nia's dances get taken away like that the second she even speaks back to Abby I just Abby has some sort of control over her isn't that interesting isn't that interesting why was that Abby all of the other moms most of the other moms have cursed Abby out as in cursed her out multiple curse words and a visa Christie yelled the F word 17 times 17 times it's sick and nothing nothing to Christie she still came back was still sitting up there but next day Jill had multiple rampage that's where she was like Kendall is the best one here and none of you none of you deserve or had multiple of those cursing everybody out nothing happened to her nothing happened to her and well gets the Rosa Parks episode we're getting here right now Amy was hold Abby decided that she was a fashion icon and should give Holly a makeover and she did that because she knew that Holly obviously wanted her daughters be Rosa Parks obviously she was holding it over her head why would Abby do this why would Holly be taking fashion advice from you Abby doesn't all your jewelry is organized by color that's Christie's line iconic line in Craig's poop Pig plastic rhinestone crap green plastic rhinestone crap blue plastic rhinestone that is what your jewelry looks like Abby who are you to get fashion advice somebody else that makes no sense and she did it because she knew Holly wanted me to play Rosa Parks trauma and give her the role she played games mind games why was that only done to Holly Abby why does that only done to Holly the thing is a Polly Holly read could read whenever Holly read a girl whenever Holly cleared a [ __ ] it was done with eloquence and sometimes the moms wouldn't even realize that she has read them the moms wouldn't rip Leslie whenever Leslie was on the show Holly clearing her it would fly over Leslie's head she had no idea she was even being dragged that's hilarious that's hilarious Leslie wouldn't even know she was being right Holly also never she was an instigator she never created problems when there wasn't a problem now when there was a problem typecasting racist microaggressions Holly said I'm not doing it I'm not doing it she was the only one who was truly there for the kid I said okay do whatever you want but when it comes to my kid and her sanity and you treating her like a respect with respect because typecasting or every six seconds was not treating her a suspect now we have an issue she would never yell at me imagine would I be what sort of how they would have twisted it racially wises Abby Holly had ever true had yelled at Abby the way any of all of the other moms had imagined the way they would have twisted that I don't even want to I don't even want to because Abby is it's ridiculous I'd be scared of a purse catheter in the purse and IV loss won't ever get over it imagine what they would have done imagine what that show would have done my dad would have done it woulda been ridiculous and I'm glad it didn't happen and I feel bad cuz Holly could never really just like read her visa would have been twisted every line would have been twisted Abby commenting all types of nuns about Nia's hair every six seconds for no reason next Kelly um so did Abby take out a lot of frustrations onto Brooke and Paige yes because she was mad at Kelly but I don't but like why do you think advocate letting you come back why do you think after you had broken your contract over like ten thousand times Abby was still allowing you back into our studio because she loves her kids she does take out all her frustration on you on to her kids but she genuinely enjoys her kids Paige lights up the stage when she comes onto the stage lights up the stage why would Abby be putting up with your absolute shenanigans your shenanigans jealousy and vengeance for no reason she didn't like your kid why do you think every time Peyton came on to this team the second Brooke came back Peyton was gone gone brooke has a once-in-a-lifetime god-given ability god-given ability why do you think she kept taking her back Paige draws her attention why would you why do you think she didn't do much with met wits and trios with Maddie and Chloe Kelly there's a reason for that there's a reason for that at the end of season three when she liked when they her and Abby at that break down crying moment it was like a good moment but it didn't last long because Abby is Abby and Kelly as Kelly that was a good moment um what you guys need is therapy it'll never happen obviously what they needed is therapy because they caused some irreversible damage to the relationship between Abby Brooke and Paige irreversible damage due to the shenanigans on the show last mom is Christi so Christi is very funny Christi has excellent one-liners but jiggy at the nicknames all the new mom in season four was Flair as Christi is very funny Christi is also messy but she never stands behind her mess and that's why she pisses me off I'm like you why are you always backtracking your mess be confident your mess you're a messy girl that's okay it's okay to be a messy girl stick behind it but she was funny she like made me laugh she's one of the most enjoyable moms I'm about to read her this is the thing she's always projecting always always projecting unto Melissa on to Maddie on to multiple different mom she was always projecting I don't know what it was cuz I don't know her but there's something wrong there she fights dirty and she likes to act that she doesn't fight dirty every time she's a narc named Melissa somehow marriage always comes up somehow affair always comes up why is that Christy why are you always going for that can't understand argument with her really and here's the thing Abby did set Khloe up a lot especially in later seasons but towards the beginning I seasons 1 & 2 Abby is not stupid Abby knows that Chloe is the most technically sound dancer on that team she knows that she stopped caring in seasons three and four because she started to have a vengeance towards claw I don't know why I don't know why but at the beginning she's not stupid she knows that Chloe is the most second technically sound dancer and that's why it's that she created because it was created she created that rivalry between Maddie and Chloe because they were supposed to make each other better competition is good for you know competitors to do but Christi always had an issue with everything some of it was warranted something for something that was justified but she always was like she was always feeding in the idea that Maddie was better than Chloe into her own kid's head she wasn't I'm pretty obviously she thinks her kid is good but I also saw that like that whole idea so Abby did put that onto Chloe Maddie is better than you but it also came from her mom it also came from Christi the idea that Maddie is better than you so you just so it's just like it's like whatever no your daughter is gifted your daughter is so talented and you're not confident in that I don't wonder I don't understand that I don't want Abby is not stupid there's a reason clothes I'm always in the front I want it to jazz or hip-hop routine there's a reason she's always in the front she is the most technically sound dance on the team she was keeping your technique score afloat while the sequel in the back or dragging it down what's not I don't understand what's not clicking I don't get what's not clicking she's always been the top two dancers Abby knows that Abby knows that she's season four is a different story season four and poses a different story why do you think she's always there it makes no sense to me Christy was just always projecting I don't like that I don't like that the moms in general just as a whole canon to have a little bit of a mean girl mentality like whenever new moms came and he could argue that it's because I didn't want a new person to take their spot which is understandable but they were always setting these new moms up tell them to go talk to Abby why would you ever send someone to go talk to Abby that's rude telling I'm gonna talk to a we couldn't stand up to Abby tell them to question Abby as if any of that has ever worked for any of you who've been here 12 years it was always they were just rude during season three when Abby had that open call at the beginning and I think it was Shelley and Ally who won the open cold and I drove her away they've been driving mom's away forever cuz they're mean mean it all stems down to jealousy I don't know turn all seven sounds of jealousy and of course we can't talk about everything wrong like dance home stop talking about the one the only Abby Lee Miller mom what money I don't have her money oh my god so Abby took it too far you could say Abby the tough love teacher Abby took it too far all the time she took it she took it too far she would say things that's just like why would you say that to a child so she had her tough love mentality and looks like that's okay but it to be going after kids and securities to be taking out your frustrations on their mothers on the child makes no type of sense and she would always go back to hopeful it's my teaching style and it works let's go back to season three there was a whole section of season where Abby was not there she was like judging at competitions so Gianna and James were the coaches and they were winning they were winning so clearly your teaching method is not the only teaching method method that works and when the moms bring it up and they're like hey you are bringing the rest of our kids down in order to bring one up why do you think why do you do that it's always turned into a defense it's always a defense because she can't admit what is wrong with admitting that Maddie is her favorite she is it's obvious just to just admit it Maddie is my favorite okay I'll look at I see what you guys are saying but how I bring her I bring other girls down to bring her up instead of just bringing her up I'll work on that no Abby doesn't do that Abby doesn't do that and the thing that gets the most I'd reduce I'll taking out your frustrations on adults on the children is a thing that has never sat right with me about Abby why are you taking out your frustrations with the mothers mothers should not be allowed in the dance studio period period should never be allowed anywhere near where kids are ever ever kicked them out but I know it was for the show but in real life check them out okay oh I thought that was a bird came way to go so I went oh I'm so sorry now let's get to some common issues come an argument sorry on Dance Moms and the issues of so candy apples versus the Abby Lee dance company Cathy is a joke why can't you choreograph your own routine Cathy why do you not know how I don't think she knows how she would bring in all these guest choreographers who were bad I'll say it I'll be the one to say it I'm not sure if the choreographers the choreographers were actually bad but I do know they did not know how to choreograph for those kids and for those skill sets Cathy got some of the most talented dancers in the country on her team I don't know how money but the choreographers didn't know how to choreograph for them they sucked they sucked all the routines were bad candy apples that something worse which means I had ever seen in my entire life and she had super talented dancers I was like what's not clicking oh it's because you don't know how to coach or choreograph or do anything she just plucks super talented kids who happen to have crazy stage parents and it's like let's create a team her team seemed like its own production it seemed like its own show it seemed like it there was a show focused around the candy apples I wouldn't watch it but I feel like you would be constant turmoil she was changing the team every five episodes everyone kicked out come in kicked out again come back it was chaos Cathy was a load of chaos and a loser I'm saying it I'm saying it it was always a gimmick and it never worked I'm not tied to able to see always one that's why they were better they also had good choreography so that probably helped a little bit and also Cathy's um she never the choreographers never went with the strength of the kids they want the strength of themselves especially Anthony that choreographer that came he went for the what his own strengths were and not bus reins of the all dancers it was ridiculous it was ridiculous next is the new team so in season four Abby Lee made a whole new competition team it was a joke the reason why that never worked is because no other studio in the country has their dancers learn a dance learn like three new dances every week and compete every single weekend with the new dance nobody does that it's why it was so hard for you to find people who could do that that's it that's that's ridiculous and the new team that she made was a bunch of 15 16 year-olds in two ten-year-olds that's why they were winning Abby oh my god oh my it's like you have for 15 year olds on your team and then to ten year olds to bring the age down to the junior division and they kept winning why do you think that way why do you think that happened because you have all these old people on your team Abby come on now come on now and the moms did the same this is the thing how I said the moms are all Mean Girls they would do the same thing they accuse Melissa of they would just do it to these other new girls they were setting them up sending them down to talk to Abby's if that would ever ever work that never ever works mean girl mentality and it told me like well you they didn't want them to replace them on the team okay why we're introduced confident your kids ability your kids the three-time at that point three-time national title winner why weren't you just comforting your kids own ability why did you have to be a vindictive bully to these new moms and their girls they would have seen themselves out eventually two kids are actually very talented while we're talking about arguments the best fights on Dance Moms so Christi versus Kelly so this was it doesn't make a lot of sense this argument that's why I think it was sort of kind of staged because it was all projection Central Station like Christi was not that Kelly didn't call her but then Kelly I said no I did call it it made it was very middle school it was very petty for no reason but I was team Kelly Christi was off a rock Christie was just saying stuff was caught up in life she ended up going down and screaming at a child showing down him screamed at page that I said cuz I used to like Krista Chris he's gonna Christie's to be one of my favorite moms that went went down and screamed in Paige's face I was like no no who does that to a child because you're in an argument with her mother you go down and scream and a child's face that makes no sense to me that makes no sense to me next best fight Cathy versus Abby water and purse enough said enough said and then Leslie versus Christy in season three Nationals and New Orleans this is how I knew Christy was all talk because Leslie was coming at her and Christy was running away that's what happened in that fight correct Leslie all of the pent-up aggression that Leslie has had for the past three seasons came out in that fight she wanted to kill her she wanted to kill her and it ended in an absolute disaster Abby had to send home her most technically sound dancer 24 hours for nationals and then of course the best site in danceon's history Kelly versus Abby get your face get your finger out of my face the dingbat argument what a time what a moment absolutely detrimental to the children but what a great moment in time for the audience to love okay and that brings a time the major issue with Dance Moms it's the same thing that was the issue with America's Next Top Model the things that make this show great make it horrible could you imagine being on this show I want you to take a step back could you imagine being one of the children on this show I definitely had an entire plan to get on the show but I'm glad I never went through with it because I could not imagine being on the show this show has the potential I don't know if it actually did I don't know any of these kids have the potential to absolutely destroy the mental health of these children absolutely destroy you are on national television every single week in front of millions of people people that don't even know you are picking up picking you apart people that don't even know you are picking you apart people are picking sides between children ten-year-old children you have a lunatic teaching you dance your mom and your friend's moms are constantly getting into fights for this television show that can't be good that can't be good for their men that can be good in my opinion not in my opinion it's probably fact it can't I hope the show didn't affect them in the way that it could have I really hope and pray but the potential damages that this could have done that's the major issue at this show is everything that made it good everything that made it probably the best reality show of all time seasons 1 through 5 made this show terrible that's everything wrong with Dance Moms is that that could have this whole video could have been 5 minutes long and I could have been just like could you imagine millions of people watching you every single week that people know reality TV is fake but they don't real but lay we're all we're all aware that reality TV is fake but we're not able to put that into our real lives and be like this is probably a facade and now you're creating arguments between people pitting two children Maddie and Chloe against each other contents friends up an entire TV show that constant argument Maddie versus Chloe two children you're seeing if it's all staged I don't know but either way whether it's staged or not you are still ruining these children you have this crazy person yelling screaming digging after all their insecurities every single week your mothers are adding to the problem not helping none of these mothers were helping adding the problem that's not good that's not good so I hope all the kids are doing well I hope for it I hope I hope I hope and pray because this show could have done some serious damage and then let's and that's on the happy note um what did Dance Moms do for society everybody wanted to dance everybody wanted to dance when danced on this game are you kidding me I know dance studios if dance videos didn't capitalize on the fact that danceOn was a cultural phenomenon that wasn't you thought about the bag he felt in the back everybody wanted to dance when Anton was on everyone's dance please Dan film is also I think the last reality show that I was a tuned in for I watched every single week every single week I was there watching Dance Moms I'm done I haven't done that in years I know that any year's cultural reset that's what I'm saying it I'm saying it everyone remembers Dance Moms everyone had a clear favorite everyone a clear favorite mom cultural reset and then none of my favorite dances Maddie and Chloe duets were always good always good there's not a bad one but my favorites were we're all right and the Swan one from season 1 and then Mackenzie doing cry what a moment it made me stand her because I'm like are you kidding me you got set up and you delivered like that I love it I love it another one just a B which was choreographed by Jeon that whole chunk actually when Abby was not there was very very good Nia's Broadway baby obviously was incredible then the gold digger dance were paid was finally front and center when like that Rachel girl she came in she choreographed from them the whole like bossy stuff I love that Brooks Garden of Eden dance go watch it again and watch in a while the girl has a gift the vamp and the last one is that vampire dance with Nick when it was Brooke Chloe and Maddie and Nick did it as like a group dance their best group dance ever ever and you notice the three pearls she chick she picked Maddie Chloe and Brooke and that's it whoo I've been talking for like an hour and a half I'm pretty sure so I'm not along with videos gonna be sorry if it's long in advance I talk a lot I'm sorry so yeah that is the end of this video that was everything wrong with Dance Moms I pretty much got to it all there's something that didn't wasn't able to get to because catalyst video is very very long but yeah that's everything wrong with Dance Moms so let's have a conversation in the comments tell me who your favorite girl was and who your favorite mom was let's talk and yes if you'd like to see any of my other everything wrong with I have done ones I've done victorious icarly Glee 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Channel: amandabb

Views: 620,079

Rating: 4.9399481 out of 5

Keywords: dance moms, abby lee miller, tik tok, dance moms girls, Maddie, Mckenzie, Chloe, Maddie vs Chloe, abby lee dance company

Id: 6iygLECHGpQ

Length: 72min 9sec (4329 seconds)

Published: Wed Apr 15 2020

Reddit Comments

[u/HappyHippyToo]

I like the point how Brooke basically didn't care and she STILL placed most of the time, proving she had a god-given talent.

[u/redoveryellow]

She was 100% right about the racism against Nia

[u/ddfence]

Racist Jill - the truth

[u/TheCirieGiggle]

I loved this video. I agreed with every single take she had. That hour FLEW by. She knows how to make a good video.

I’m really glad to see someone talking about the racism on the show. Every person of color on that show was typecast and treated in a way that was not okay.

[u/tyracampbellcharles]

I don’t like Jill and Jess.