For the past four
years he's been shooting Greenleaf in Atlanta. And year number one, we
tried to commute with him so he could stay. Well, commute and let him stay
there, so he could be solid. Everybody loves
the bishop, right? Bishop got to be solid. But then after that it wasn't
working for our girls, right? And so we had to reevaluate. Sometimes things will
happen, and 9:00 PM, it's midnight in Atlanta. And he's worked
all day, you know. So and then sometimes
he's just stressed, and I don't want to
call him with something that is going to
be so upsetting, and maybe I can handle it. But that doesn't always
turn out the best. Because ultimately he'll say,
I needed, you should have called me in that situation.
- Well, you know-- But that, that has caused,
you know, a lot of tension. That, that can cause
a lot of tension. First of all, if
I don't know, you can't hold me responsible for
dismissing it or not paying the right amount of attention. And that has caused a problem,
because I'll be mad at him. - You know.
- Really mad. And it's like-- And he doesn't even
know what happened. What are you-- what
are you talking about? He's just not
here, so I'm mad. And, you know, I
mean, that's why I'm-- I'm very grateful to have
learned not to take stuff so, you know, certain
things so personally. I mean, pay attention,
listen, so I can begin to hear when it really is about me. And sometimes it just isn't. That doesn't always feel
good, but, you know, feelings are not facts. So just because I feel a certain
way about it, you know, and I-- I tried my best not to
take it out on them, you know, however
I feel about it. But you know, and I
have to deal, with know, with, you know, the difference
between Martians and Venusians all the time.
