DAY 3 AFTERNOON: INTERNATIONAL PRIESTHOOD SUMMIT || Live || 25th Sept 2021

[Music] okay you may be seated media team are you ready are you ready there is a prophecy that came forth in abuja one of the members of the board of intercessors for africa gave it um okay i will tell you to put off the light i think the broadcasting the these things are bright enough engineering tests everybody listen everybody listen very carefully and from there we go into this session on marriage okay yes go ahead woke me up which is not strange these days and because the lord said to say she said that you are turning 70 because israel was in captivity 70 years you are turning 70 in for niger but a divine timing has come upon us thank you so much for being sensitive god bless you and cause people also to honor you but hear me people of god uh i i and your kind of your birthday kind of marks a turning point for nigeria [Applause] i mean i remember when brother mecca was 70 we couldn't celebrate but a divine timing has come upon us thank you so much for being sensitive god bless you and cause people also to honor you but hear me people of god i i came all the way not just because one of our closest friends but the lord said you will prophesy this bed there just like israel was 70 years in captivity this is a turning point for nigeria and the lord gave me a word and i would just read it and pray this is jeremiah 31 it's a word for them but much more i mean you you sit here and head this number of years i can tell you that they have lived and carried nigeria it's not only the move ahead in university days about praying for nigeria but there is something about election of grace when you say yes this is jeremiah 31 i read from verse 2 thus says the lord the people who survived the sword have found grace in the wilderness israel when i went to give them rest i could add nigeria when i went to give them rest the lord has appeared of all to me saying yes i have loved you with an everlasting love you can take that personal sister body and of course we can extend it to nigeria therefore with loving kindness i have drawn you again i will build you and you shall be rebuilt o virgin of israel but i put nigeria you shall again be adorned with your tambourines and you shall go forth in the dances of those who rejoice you shall yet plant vines and i resist to preach sister body began to plant things in her compound not just because she loves horticulture but is a prophetic sign of planting something you shall again plant you shall yet plant vines on the mountains of samaria the planter shall plant and eat them as ordinary food for there shall be a day when the watchmen shall cry on the mount of ephraim mount of nigeria arise let us go to zion to the god to the lord our god finally let me jump to verse no no verse 7 4 god says lord sing with gladness for jacob and shout among the chief of the nations proclaim give praise and say oh lord save your people the remnant of israel remnant of nigeria and i jump to verse 13 then shall the virgin rejoice in the dance the young men and the old together so i will turn your mourning to joy will comfort them make them rejoice rather than sorrow i will satiate the souls of the priests with abundance and my people shall be satisfied with my goodness says the law lord we come before you the god of our flesh you are the one who moved a brother pastor barely to set the stage for you to announce a season of rejoicing not just for sister buddy she more than deserves to be honored and for us lord you know that many of us have cried for a long time we have mourned we have wept and in some sense if we look in the natural it looks that there is still mourning in the land but by the spirit of the lord i hear him say the day of rejoicing has arrived for you will yet rejoice says the lord of hosts yes i the lord will bring great rejoicing and celebration this time is just a sign of the day that is upon you and so father we thank you we thank you for everything that you have done in sister about his life as a role model uh lord i can because i'm speaking to you that she could marry brother i make her is a grace of his own and and and you you did something inside of her uh oh god oh god rest for us lord build us in this nation women with capacity to love god holy women virtuous women who will complement the man and the servants you are raising in this generation a prophesied to this audience that grace will come grace grace to be builders grace to be builders builders of themselves builders of homes and builders of nigeria for the lord says when i will build zion she will appear in her glory oh that the new nigeria will appear that men and women here hearing watching will arise to become this company of builders we thank you we thank you we thank you we thank you announce a season of rejoicing and celebration for nigeria not just for the vampires who more than deserve it lord you are you your reward system is is fair very fair and lord we are still waiting for more reward for this family because of the years of sacrifice now you know this is what me and my wife have talked about again and again that the season has come when you begin to reward and to say thank you help each one of us here to position ourself and to know that it is worth to do it god's way for yet you will say thank you we glory the lord is saying to me where [Music] is that company and generation willing to take the battle [Music] he raised a generation [Music] the sacrifice within the grace of god where is that generation for i the lord i'm ready to do what i have said but where [Music] where is the company of men and women who don't only like to hear what others did but who can say here around my lord sent me [Music] i don't know i don't know who is here but god knows you may brought god knows who is watching online the cry of heaven is where where where where where is that generation who will say we heard what you did as he said in the psalms our fathers have told us but we will arise where is that generation i would i really just like to pray i don't know god knows you can you make some kind when we had god earlier on you didn't need to think what would this cost me when you heard it and the spirit said something you said lord write my name write my name i believe this season we're talking about the bet of a new nigeria in heaven it has already happened god is waiting for the air to to respond to respond god doesn't want to wait again god wants to move but who will i sin and who will go for me who will i say i don't want to say we can't say come out it doesn't mean anything can you in the quietness of your heart in the seriousness say lord oh you are looking for somebody i'm not talking about the next person lord put my name record my name let heaven know that on this day when we gather to celebrate its faithfulness the god can say i found i found a found found i found enough numbers for the work of the rebuilding of the of building the new nigeria is not for one man for a company [Music] i like to pray father we thank you because known unto you are all your works from the foundation of the world you spoke to me early this morning and said why this whole event is happening is because you choose this moment and somehow in your election of grace over sister body brother mecca [Music] you choose this celebration to make an announcement that just like israel stayed in captivity 70 years the time has come for nigeria the new nigeria to arise don't clap please hold so lord you are ready abba abba god [Music] is ready heaven is ready god's problem is not the pharaohs who are parading themselves god problem is getting that moses and joshua generation so lord somehow you you lord you know how to undertake for yourself you know it [Music] you said to israel not for your sake do i do this but for my name's sake lord nigeria is one place before any of us look for you even even came to know the lord you chose us not because of who we are but your sovereignty who will have mercy on those whom you'll have mercy none of him that we let of him that are running but of you that shows my so lord somehow i reacted to what you have stirred my spirit find for yourself you yourself when you found david said i have found it with my server find for yourself not only people here people hearing us over zoom on around this wall around this world jehovah find yourself for yourself for there is no more time to wait and find that generation who will give you pleasure so that the older generation sister body brother maker wouldn't be gathering for us to tell stories they will see of the travail of their souls and be satisfied we celebrate you are king who knows the end from the beginning the beginning and the end in between nothing takes you by surprise we glorify your name thank you our father do what you have proposed to do that time that day has come we give you praise our father in the name of our lord jesus christ [Music] i give it i give it all and aside everything that has hindered me in the past all the bla all the things that have been stumbling but i laid them all outside hell my take me cleanse me and use me for your glory what is going on here since is not normal since this meeting started even this morning is not normal we have entered god's kairos moment [Music] mm-hmm [Music] whatever it is that has been the obstacle the sin the weight lay down lay down take up the cross pay the price generations gone i've done it we cannot be different tell god i'm willing to pay whatever price i'm willing to do whatever it takes to be counted in your last days army [Music] this october 1st everybody pastors different churches and i'm also calling on churches across nigeria hold a day of prayer for nigeria that instruction of sec festivity chapter two to pray for those in authority to pray for all men so that we can live a quiet and peaceable life let's observe it this is first october this first october if it's possible extend it to the sunday that will follow it this first october i think is either friday or something hold a national service pray for this nation there is going to be a major shift things are going to happen the politicians are no more in church god has taken stepped in but he needs a crop of men he needs a joshua generation he needs a generation that will be willing to step in and count the course and say here am i use me my soul say yes say yes say yes [Music] wherever you send me whatever you call me [Music] when you call me [Music] [Music] will [Music] yes [Music] [Applause] [Music] whatever it is [Music] [Applause] whatever it it takes [Music] [Applause] [Music] is [Applause] [Music] [Music] be [Music] oh all over [Music] is [Music] [Applause] [Music] m [Music] foreign [Music] yes [Music] [Music] god bless you you may be seated yeah good afternoon everybody in the period that will be sharing with you we'll be discussing a few things about marriage and particularly our own marriage well there are frequently asked questions about marriage the first one is what is marriage and somebody might ask you look at your wife why did you marry her look at your husband why did you marry him and the next question is what is love and the next question is what is the purpose of sex in marriage and so on down the line but let us i would speak for some time she will speak let us give you our own homemade definition of marriage there is a lot of aspects of definitions which if you read through the bible you bring together and you can have a whole picture but don't laugh my own homemade definition of marriage is marriage is life imprisonment you decide whether you serve it with love or without labor that's up to you but it is life imprisonment that should get your attention what did you do to get into life imprisonment well you got married that's what it is but marriage is when two people are led together by the lord a male and a female by his will and they come together to live together according to the scriptures and according to the will of god fulfilling all the biblical requirements as time goes on because you don't fulfill the biblical requirements on day one why did you marry him or her well some people because the girl is tall you're short or because you are tall and the girl is shot or because the father is rich and your father your family is poor so or she has a phd and you don't have or whatever you marry you you kind of like mix two uh together in order to make sure that everything is okay no that's those are not the proper reasons you are led by the lord you're led by the holy spirit you heard from god and there is a purpose remember i lifted my voice there is a purpose for that marriage and the purposes may even enlarge as time goes on depending on how well you're doing and you find out that the question of what is love in marriage you could go on forever but love is taught by the holy spirit and acted out of experience you don't just sit in one room and say i love i love you you you no one else could ever do i'll always be good and true because i love you you you it's not possible you can you are you love somebody by the help of the holy spirit and as you live by experience times different seasons different occasions call for acts and responses of love so you don't just sit in one corner and sing and say i love you it's not going to work now you need truth in marriage t r u t h in capital letters you need truth in marriage you need truth in marriage and listen to me you need absolutely total disclosure in marriage because you're going into a marriage with somebody and you have only one shot at it and if you don't disclose to the other party who he or she is really marrying you're asking for trouble so there has to be total disclosure and just one more and then i'll hand over to her you cannot command love i command you in the name of jesus to love her it's not done it's not possible that's why even god even jesus they because they created the heart they know love grows in the heart yes there is impartation but when it comes to marital love you work it out and you cannot command submission submit yourselves to one another wives submit yourselves to your own husband you cannot command it it's not possible you can push somebody to do something but inside the person's heart the person is still looking backwards the person is in disobedience but love begets submission love begets a mission when you love a woman and she has the spirit of god she can submit more than you will ever imagine and in marriage forgiveness is very necessary from day one forgiveness is an essential part of marriage you need to forgive 24 times 24 times 24 7. you need to forgive because in if in five minutes you could offend the person three times while looking at me like that why you looking at me like that that's an offense the person hasn't even explained what is rubbing what is worrying them in their heads why looking at me like that that's an offence so forgiveness is very necessary then the other one that is necessary is repentance repentance is necessary marriage very necessary somebody says i don't like this thing sorry why are you saying sorry to me like that you see you're laughing you see you can see how difficult human beings are you know some human beings are nearly impossible but yet they need to get married because you make your own small kingdom the rules here this is this this is this here and it becomes nearly impossible to get along with you so i want to stop here please carry on praise the lord [Applause] thank you very much i'll start with the purpose for marriage a home please if you don't have a purpose yet and you're already married you it's not too late and if you are about to get married and you don't really know the purpose why you are getting married you can begin to ask but for those who are not yet married they are not into it yet congratulations because you are starting on a clean sheet now thank you very much now there is need for a for purpose for marriage if you don't know the purpose of anything even if it is this um the face mask you will misuse the thing it will be subject to misuse so if you don't have a godly purpose for your home you are not going to have anything to live for in the home anything to hold you so that you don't you don't break the home but if you have a purpose then the home has a reason to to live to survive now how do you get it very simple simple in the sense that all of you here you are in the right place and at this very moment god is the spirit of god is moving life so when it's happening like this it's very easy to get answers from god just ask god what is the purpose for this home why have you brought us together in this home what do you want to get from it and it won't take time god will answer i tell you i asked we were taught when we were in the university we had older women who were there before us and they told us you don't just get married to anybody that is wearing trousers and says he's a christian every christian is not meant for you so you have to ask is this the right person number one you're asking your father and then number two what do you want to get out of this and i ask god i mean this an inter tribal marriage here and um i didn't know at all that the yorubasa and the ipos you know where there was this war and we were on the other side the europa side we didn't know what was going on and there was that acrimony that i didn't i was not i didn't know it i was not complicit to it we don't know anything i'm not close to our world i don't know him his family or anything so when grove brought him pandemonium broke loose my parents hit the roof his parents hit the roof why do you people want to in fact my father was crying from pillar to post he said even if you don't get married i don't mind i don't want you to go far away from me and i had asked god whether i should get married and he had said yes we start from that basis do you want me to get married because i can do without it and god said no um yes so i okay all right bring the person and then when he came along is this the person and god gave the answer and i asked i said i don't want somebody i don't need money i can make money if i want to all i need is somebody who will love you first and then love me that's all i want and god answered and said i have raised him up in righteousness i will direct all his ways he will build my city would set my captives free not for price of the world he brought it from the scriptures i read it when i finished reading it i said okay so this is what you will do i subscribe to it but is it this person that we do this and god said yes on the basis of that i went to him and said this is what god has said concerning you and that's why i'm saying yes so that from the very beginning there was a purpose for the home every time we look at that passage is the bedrock of the home if you don't have such foundation you can you can lay it you can break the old one you have and relay one as god what is the purpose and at this time like i'm saying the purpose god will quickly give because he's looking for homes where people will serve him and do his will so i would leave that that's when it comes to purpose now there is need for total disclosure the last time we spoke together to you we spoke about this but i want to say that now if you don't know the person that you are marrying that you will not know why he or she is behaving sometimes the way he behaves for one he was separated from his his siblings his family and lived with teachers in those days you take your children to live with teachers so that they can be formed properly they can have proper manners and things and so his parents were being transferred from one place to the other he lived with teachers and you know how teachers are in those days maybe now they are not like that very strict so he lived in that atmosphere when he told me three teachers i knew i was in for a strict person so when he said he fought in the army and he was shot here and he came out from here and he nearly died 40 something times i knew that know military people so i had to consider that i'm not telling you so that you can i have to consider it do i want to live with an ex-military person do i want to live with somebody has been a teacher's boy for three consecutive teachers i needed to circulate in my mind and then do i want this type of ministry so when i said yes i said yes to the totality so but if he did not disclose and you know military men have loud voice they it doesn't mean that they are angry with you but they can say things loudly and if he shouts at you you wouldn't know that is this military side that is react so i didn't find it difficult at all because i had i knew what i was going in for and i said yes so you must disclose even to his relatives he told me about each one one by one by one and on my own side i did the same so where i knew most of them before i met them so when i met them and some of them now paraguay you know doing what revealing their characters its way to a new bride you have not seen anything she speaks even the local oh my god she speaks with more than personal seller that is from oh my nobody is the truth it is facts yes so i i knew them before they they knew me and that removed quite a lot of offenses and things so that's the reason why we say proper disclosure true disclosure because if you have had 10 girlfriends and people young people run after you and so on before you now set two for one you need to tell the one you have settled for because somebody can be winking at you and then waving at you you say oh i forgot to tell you he she used to be one of uh how many and then and you go somewhere else another different one is waving so you don't want your wife to keep getting shocked and be discovering strange things so he has talked about love in marriage if you love me show it act it you know for us many women are not expressive outside i don't know whether i'm correct but inside they can express themselves very well so you may not expect him to be holding you outside and doing all sorts of things while some other tribes they can do that so you go outside the country the white people are doing it and if you come close your eyes like a delilah is coming close so you don't do that because you know he's not made like that so you don't get offended so that acting it you have to and he says love what it leads to submission if you love a woman in fact the best gift you can give your children is to love your wife if you love their mother that's all you need to do the children will respect and love you forever so as for the women when you are loved don't be spoiled you have to submit to your husband some people ask me how do you get him to do what you want him to do you earn it you earn it when you when you submit when he says let's do it like this but you think like this is better you discuss it and he still says it should be done like this let us do it the way he wants it done because he's the head of the family he has to learn how to be in charge if you don't let him have to be in charge then you will have a baby as your husband forever so you leave him you make your mistakes when he has made a mistake even and you've gone into something early on in marriage it will continue to happen forever you don't say didn't i tell you no you don't say it like that because you already knows that you said so so don't rub it in and then you now trace your way back to what you have said should be done it is done and it is right don't say anything you have learnt that lesson it goes like that at a point you will end that how do i call it that respect so that when you say something in fact before he does anything he will ask what is your opinion about it that's how to do it it's not rocket science now so you cannot command love you cannot command submission no you end you you when you give you receive if you want somebody to love you you begin to serve the person you men love people who serve them you look at the dress yeah this one is not very good let's wear another one you know you look after him don't submit your kitchen look after your husband what he will eat and look after him sexually and then look after him spiritually that is what the virtuous woman did and end respect both with her husband her children her maids and everybody you uncheck it she served them her husband was wearing the best clothes in the in the in the in the gate and he wasn't producing this the virtuous woman that was doing it the man may not know where to sow very nice things but you know now so you do the right thing and when people look at him and say ah hey you are looking very nice today they say tomorrow they say na this ah he will come home and tell you that you have done a good job so give what you want to get he has talked about submission and repentance don't hold people down if you hold people down and you don't want to forgive them you are holding yourself down wherever you hold somebody on the ground like that that's where you yourself will be so quickly be forgiving one another and let i am sorry not depart from your mouth anything if he says you have done something i don't like it don't say if it is me i don't mind that being done it is not you i i suffered from that for some time because what offends him doesn't offend me so if he says you have this thing ah he's sensitive very very sensitive to certain things and for me you can do that i don't mind but he says it is he doesn't like it i had to come to terms with that that that is him that's not me so i have to respond when he says i don't like this and not just saying i'm sorry the next day you do the same thing the next day you do the same thing no when you are sorry when you repent you depart from doing that thing so repentance is very very necessary and when somebody has said i am sorry what is you want you have to forgive ask for my women my ladies honorable ladies beloved please always forgive your husband when they say they are sorry even if you have to go to god and say god i will trust you for this man to do the right things trust god for your husbands trust god for them sometimes some of you can't trust the man maybe because of one or two things he has done but you can trust god for him i'm telling you you can and tell god that make a small pact with god i will do my own part in this room but i trust you for for my husband that you will do the right things praise god i hand over to that now you must both show a level of humility to succeed in marriage no matter what the age gap is no matter what the financial gap may be no matter what whether he comes from sokoto and you come from degema there must be yes some people are laughing there must be a level of humility for you to succeed in marriage and you see many of you may expect a particular thing in marriage but you may not have invested enough you see my voice went up to get it god told one of my friends that he kept quarreling kept and god said you have not invested enough to get what you want that calmed him down so invest prayers invest in forgiveness invest in love invest in humility before you get what you want because the woman or the man is not a machine that you don't know a car that you switch on no you've got to give something to get the other thing back now many things in marriage take time to mature you see we have been married for 46 years now i think 46. yes yes we married for 46 years now and we're still growing to be honest where some of some of you are we you know we kind of like looking at me and trying to be sure yes you saw she was 70 the other day and i'm 74. so at that that's 140 something years of marriage so many things take time to mature so that's why i gave you that time now your original intention in going into that marriage is going to come out one day yes trust me if i didn't tell you any other truth take this one your original intention that one that is hidden at the back of your heart which even you forget sometimes will come out one day so be careful if your original intention in marrying the lady or marrying the man is not pure is not good is not correct it's not even biblical better repent here or you're not going to get married you want to get married you're going to get if your original intention is not pure it's not godly better repent and just go back because whatsoever a man saw it whatsoever that shall he reap now ultimately marriage is not about your pleasure because some of you there is this scripture that god has given us all things richly to enjoy and so when you get married now god has given us all things richly to enjoy no marriage is ultimately about the purpose and the will of god your marriage has to produce something for god yes if your marriage is not producing anything for god then you're in there you are not you are in trouble put it that way you will never enjoy that marriage i can tell you even if you clothe yourselves with gold and eat with gold plates and drink with gold clubs and sit on gold chairs and write on golden tables and sleep on a golden bed it's not going to work so make sure that your marriage is producing something for god your marriage has a purpose in god's plan in god's will make sure the bible talks about in ephesians chapter 1 verse 18 it talks about the riches of the glory of the inheritance in the saints god has to get the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints that's what god gets now if you do not love god it is virtually impossible to love your wife the way the bible describes it because whose love do you then use to love your wife if you don't love god it's either it is the will of god or it is not now some of you may need to ask god the question why did god bring both of us together why did god bring both of us together why and god will give you the answer he will answer and please be very careful about your secret thoughts towards one another oh yes yes yes and look please all the men here whether you have your bird in your hand or something just just lift up your right hand to me all the men or there are lots of men here okay put your hands down you see whether you're right-handed or left-handed never ever beat your wife never don't even try it don't even think of it let it not pass over your head at all and one of the promises you must make your wife is you must tell your wife i will never beat you i will never don't even think of it because if god were to beat you you are the man and you beat your wife and christ is the head of the church or the husband of the body if if jesus were to beat you what would you look like i'm asking a proper question so don't those of you who think now you are the master of the house and you must be respected therefore and some men think that their wives are little children be tattooed for just you know just cast that out of your your head completely don't ever do it and some some men compare their wives to their mothers they want their mother has been very good and they want another mother now that they are getting old your wife is not your mother and your wife can never be your mother even if you know we are named my brother you know some of you you love your wife so much they are my mother no now the reasons forget about the emotional ones you're you're taking over the place of god god wants a new man god wants to make that woman unique make her the mother of your children make her excuse me somebody will be disturbed who washes the feet of the saints and so on a child of god tom your mother you're just trying to own another person you're being selfish and forgive me you're just being childish and stupid yes because the world doesn't exist for you god doesn't exist for you to to now make your wife your mother so that you carry after your first mother then this other one will send you to the grave now so don't compare your wife to your mother my mother used to do this my faith was my mother she is not your mother full stop she's somebody's else's daughter all right let me open one subject and then i hand over to her sex is not just a physical activity sex is first a spiritual activity that's what it is and if you know the things that come out through sex then you you would you would you would be very careful in handling it now sex is not necessarily only for enjoyment even though most people think it is sex is an act of love sex is for having children sex if you going to eat illegally commit adultery or fornication you could get stds sexually transmitted diseases and you could get any of those diseases that could kill you so sex is an is a gate if you really study it spiritually it's the sexual organs are gates and gets into areas that the human mind cannot enter so try and understand that sex is for preserving purity in marriage and it must not be used for punishment or discipline okay i'm going to i'm going to refuse my wife or refuse my husband's sex for one week so that his head will come round well you probably end up causing more trouble demons can enter into the human body into the human life through the sexual organs i'm sure you know that the doctors will tell you that if you slept with two women the other one not being your wife you could be sleeping with four men that he's she's left with that's medically biologically so it's not it's not a it's not a it's not something that you joke with so when you see a prostitute when you see an uncharted prostitute a non-chartered prostitute a part-time prostitute you better you know you bet you you know feel for them because they are working with devils all right praise god yeah on the let me start from the last one he stopped on the issue of sex he has said you must not turn it into something else you must not weaponize it it's not to be weaponized against either your husband or your wife it is to show your love act of love preserving purity and it is spiritual and some people some people ask a lot of questions in this area number one why is it that the man is asking for sex so many times is it food and i i say to them yes it is food because the bible does not dictate how many times so don't ask whether it is food if that's the way he enjoys giving and sometimes a woman has finished preparing food what he likes you know it was what isaac liked that was prepared for him and he brought blessing upon the person who prepared it so when you cook what your husband likes most and he finishes eating it and wants to have sex with you and you feel i have been laboring to cook this i'm tired and so on please reserve part of your body part of your strength and expect that that is what is going to happen i hope i am getting through to women in fact when you have planned because for me i do plan what i want to cook for my husband in my head because you know i studied pharmacy and we produced drugs and so on so i'm used to planning in my head what i want to do so what i want to cook i plan it in my head and i cook very nice when he says i don't like something then i don't cook it and most of the time that's it in the house we don't like that so don't force him to like what he doesn't like give him what he likes to eat and then know that when he has finished it in it prepare yourself for the other food you have to before he even comes you know prepare yourself i have a bad you know just prepare yourself and more often than not that will happen so um if you haven't been very good in that area i want you to be good so that's what i will say about that and he has said enough we have been in deliverance administrations many many times and we found that you are praying for somebody and a man is speaking with a female voice the voice of somebody maybe he's left with demonic voice you are doing deliverance and a woman is speaking with a guterres voice your voice of a man and it came through that the organ like our sister mentioned it that one of the things you must submit to god is the sexual organ did you hear her say so yes because it's a big big gate all opener demons are sexual demons the the rape incest all sorts of things go and read leviticus you will see how god prescribed all of those things that they must not be done because they bring demons into the body so you have to watch and keep that gate very pure praise the lord um oh as for beating your wife you shouldn't do that what he said if you don't love god it would be very difficult to love your wife i will put it like this if you don't love your wife then you don't love god he said if you don't love god it will be impossible for you to love your wife i will say if i see a man who doesn't love his wife that man doesn't love god [Applause] 15 more minutes okay if you allow god to get the riches of his inheritance in you and and in your husband and you live together in such a way that god can get a lot from your family from your union from the two of you then he will extend it to the children he will extend it to the city he will extend to the nation how he can use you because a family is the first unit that god made and like he said yes you will if you if you decide to serve that imprisonment with love you will enjoy it but god is to be allowed to enjoy the most you you you to to to get some wonderful things from the family praise god the time for this is gone but i'm going to allow pastors because especially you know pastors we sit on so many things and sometimes make it look like everything is fine so i'm gonna allow pastors pastors to ask questions it's only three because we only have about um 12 minutes or something like that to go so please can i need three guys a mike here somebody with another mic he has somebody another mic here if i can get three different questions from past after that then i will see if i can if there is time to take three from the congregation okay if you're a minister if you like you can introduce yourself and if you want to ask very serious thing you don't want it to look like you say you are asking for somebody the important thing get the question so that we can get the answer yes uh yes where the hands because remember that is okay let me take one guy i'll take a lady yes thank you daddy uh this question i want to ask has really been is the question that came to us and i really want to ask is a question of oral sex and anal sex whether it's right whether it's right scriptural people that are married yes so it's something that we don't know how to attend to it in the church so to ask is oral sex and anal sex is here in marriage oh let me let me let me okay take care of this then i will get listen god made the mouth for eating [Applause] listen please sir nothing else you see when you go into the physiology of the mouth and the physiology of the sexual organs and you see certain things under the microscope at the natural level you wouldn't even think of that but spiritually this is the place through which the word of god proceeds and this is where food is supposed to go into you're not supposed to swallow spam and all of that and it's if you look at it even look at the psychology of it i'm sorry the the science of it it's totally out of work lgbt something those who are rebellious against god doing things that god did not create to be done that's one of the things they do is all this anal sex and horror sex if you watch the movie of what happens to them when they do these things you will not you we know what to say to the people because it's demonic [Applause] you're looking at me you want me to say something look at this guy there is even in the airport there is entrance there is exit exit so don't enter through exits enter through entrance it is over yes let's hear from madam praise the lord thank you sir thank you sir thank you ma you said something about what happens inside the marriage that it is do inside the marriage that after a while original intention what you had in mind that is not seen that is hidden will begin to show up and i think i'm a victim of that because i discovered that when i started having problems in my marriage was the day i got married i came in i began to discover that the reason why we come into the marriage is being taken away one way or the other i'm not seeing future in it anymore and so many things started happening i try to endure but it's not working so now when the marriage is now a problem is not working how can we restore that because the original intention is no longer there then and the original intention is the most important thing for the woman because it was felt out now when it is not there and there is tendency of coming back again or not coming back let's say there is tendency of coming back again how can we correct the original intention that i know the the lady so she was married they were in a crowd but her husband they've separated she's the one that packed up and came back to nigeria because certain things she didn't so now they are talking about possibility of coming back how do they relay a foundation and i also throw it generally maybe people who have gone through problems they want to now relay a new foundation for their marriage how do they go about it you see you're very fortunate in that now you're beginning to talk about coming back so let's take it from there god is the god of truth bring repentance confess exactly what was on your heart when you began to get married the first time and ask god you're fortunate that is the same person who is coming back again ask god for his own purpose his own plan now you see god is a very very strict god and if you confess before god and say lord a was my intention but now we want your own intention and wait for god to listen to speak to you except i didn't hear you properly and god will tell you this is the reason or this is what i want you to do and you begin from there and i'm hoping that on the other side it is the same thing the only thing i will add is because we're not going to give you another whatever there is just a small complex part bring orga you will come to abuja and sit with them for a day that's the answer okay you can get both sides because you are the woman even if you get to know what it is he doesn't get to he is still a walhalla so the two of you need to and if you come then the doctor can okay yes yes i see a hand here a guy then i'll take a lady ah so many hands are coming up this thing is very important yes good afternoon sir okay this is a situation where a woman is subjected to domestic violence she's always been battered by domestic violence she's always been battered by her husband beaten by her husband in fact as a matter of fact twice she escaped strangulation from the man and she has run out of the house and out of that trauma she has developed fear for marriage and now the question now is you know why going through you know trying to get her to seriously you know to restore her back again now the question now is can she go back to that same marriage number two if not can she be married another man okay can she go back or can she divorce i remember that question i want to get two more from this man so that when i switch yes there is a pastor there okay yes thank you sir for the privilege mine is very close to this as a pastor you have people under you the husband is not a christian and there is this domestic violence what do we advise the woman that is in church to do constant beating and beating is that a ground for separation okay yes the last one percy gentle yes thank you sir please i'm into this um um i've been to ministry of ministry of marriage um i have a pastor who also stayed lives in a sexual scene you know he stays in a sexual scene they have prayed we are prayed about it but the the man doesn't know what to do to come out of it and also doesn't want also the wife to know about it at the same time you know he struggles with it he can share with you know like somebody like myself or somebody else who can help so one day in our minister's meeting we brought him to the altar prayed for him and um you know he left but i have not seen him for for some time but i know i can reach him but i don't want to know what exactly could be the solution after all that we thought we have done and he continues in this thank you okay somebody is involved in sexual sin as a man and he came to talk to him he does marriage family ministry and all of that and the situation seems to be chronic what can be done to help him deliverance deliverance simple is a demon deliverance casting out demons that's it listen you can't you cannot baby or watch that situation call the man two ministers ask a few questions and begin to command the demons to come out you will see what will happen there simple that's the answer to that one the next one there is domestic violence two people ask about that so what is the way how do you handle that domestic violence domestic violence now it depends on what the scale is you see domestic violence there is violence but then there is domestic and you cannot you know you cannot just judge it with the word of mouth you need to open the scriptures between the two of them open their bibles and let them see what sexual i mean sorry what domestic violence really is violence and then the two of them will need to go through deliverance especially the man because violence is violence some of you may not understand but look if sorry if you hit a woman something in you hits her and when you finish whatever it is will tell you you didn't hit her very well next time increase it or next time decrease it that's a spirit so please when you get such issues don't be beat there has to be deliverance and let me say something about deliverance one of the things that jesus said he said and this sign shall follow them that believe in my name they shall do what they oh you see now only five people in my name they shall do what cast out devils say it again cast out devils you ought to cast out devils in fact if that man came into my office you will knee down and i begin to cast out the devil straight away some of you you know this is one area where pastors have disappointed god yes you need to cast out demons you need to cast out demons sometimes we try to use counseling to solve the money problems it doesn't work it doesn't do what it doesn't work can't sell it that's ordinary counseling to solve the money problem most of the time you people are wasting time with counselling i'm telling you you're wasting god's time you're wasting your time with counseling ask the person to kneel down and say you're in the spirit in the name of jesus come out and see what happens [Applause] and applied both sides though sometimes it's also a demon provoking the man demon of stubbornness marines will be talking so both sides once you discern that decision is more than normal bringing delivers both sides anyway this is where we are going to stop it for today give the lord praise give him praise you see we need to do this more often shouldn't we everybody say thank you sir and thank you man god bless you we'll see you in the evening personal amen please let's give our offerings

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