Dad Is Suing Mom Bc She Let Sister's Kid Destroy My Stuff & Won't Pay It Back Bc I Can't Make Her To

i'm a boy one of my hobbies is collecting retro video games specifically the wii and gamecube era unfortunately my sister's staying with us as well as her little child i've no problem with the child watching me play today i woke up and checked on the collection and turns out my older sister gave my games all of it to her child the child ended up ripping the discs and throwing my consoles damaging it i'm utterly devastated as it took years for me to accumulate the games i calculated the total cost as i had pretty rare games like paper mario the thousand year door etc this was pre-global issue prices so my collection was worth two thousand dollars around ebay i demanded my sister pay up the cash my sister called me names and told me to get over it and be happy that her stupid kid is happy i told my mom and she agreed with my sister saying i should be happy with her i ended up calling my father and he decided we should sue my mom i told my mom my mom does not want me to because she does not have that kind of money lying around i told her i didn't care my mom said she would not be able to pay rent and her sister and child will not be able to stay i told her i did not care about sister's stupid child and i don't care about mom either since she's not supportive my mom grounded me for my language my sister is now demanding i let her child play on my switch in 3ds since he destroyed my game collection and her child has no entertainment we don't have a tv with good kids programs i refused and my mom has called me horrible names and she also called me flabby am i the idiot sister's child broke my game collection i demanded my sister pay up my sister refused and my mom stood with my sister i threatened to sue with the help of my dad and now mom and sister are yelling at me not the idiot get your money back i'm sorry i know it won't replace your years spent building your collection tell your sister to go kindly buzz off when she tries to get her hand on your other games leave them in the care of your dad or friends your dad is the real mvp stop arguing with your mom and sister and just tell them as a fact that the value is going to be replaced if they replace it right away or if they pay the 2 000 plus the lawyer it's none of your business besides this focus on your dad only and let him handle this good luck underrated comment let them know that one way or another you are getting your money back period whether that is through them coming to their senses or legal action is up to them so i have severe epilepsy and have a service dog onyx now onyx does have time to cuddle and relax and be at rest and just be a dog but when he's working he is working at keeping me alive he saved my life multiple times now my friend has been coming over a lot recently to visit i love her but have an issue with her husband he's one of those types who harbors the belief that having a stick makes him superior to women he also doesn't believe in invisible disabilities and because of onyx he's never seen me have a seizure last week they came over and her husband was being playful with onyx which was fine as he was at rest a little while later though the husband began asking if he could dog-sit sometime bring onyx to their place for a sleepover i said no and explained again that onyx is a service dog and i need him you know to stay alive her husband got an attitude and told me onyx wasn't a machine and i had no right to deprive him of fun then he pulled the i'm a man so i know more than ucard by explaining that i was wrong and he was right and i could go one night without onyx and control my seizures at this time my friend sat on the couch saying nothing i asked him to leave and after some huffing and puffing about how rude i am and what happened to manners and onyx would have had fun they both did now today my friend called asking if they could stop by i explained that i would love to have her over but her husband was no longer welcome she got upset and told me that he was just like that and it was hard to tell sometimes because he had never seen me have a full-blown seizure i got kind of mad and sarcastically asked her if i should purposely cause a seizure so her husband was comfortable she just kept repeating that he meant no harm and wanted onyx to have fun i just told her again that she is welcome but he is not am i the idiot i feel awful and feel like i'm creating an issue but that man is just toxic energy and i worry that his disbelief of my need for a service animal will cause him to do something completely crazy not the idiot you are totally in the right here your comment about purposefully causing a seizure so her husband was comfortable was spot on why is it so hard for him to believe you about your condition and your needed treatment your friend's an idiot for defending her husband and her husband is obviously a super nasty idiot he sounds like the kind of guy who'd get huffy and defensive if you did have a seizure and then act like you had a seizure just to inconvenience him or prove a point my 22 female nephew jack is 15 months old my brother and his wife are both 25 we are in a global issue bubble with them and my parents so we've seen more of them recently i'm concerned over my nephew's diet my boyfriend agrees there's an issue but says it's none of our business he agrees with me asking reddit i have always had slight concerns about jack my sister-in-law chose not to breastfeed him for example but recently i think they may actually harm jack with the way they feed him some examples from recent weeks we arrived one day as they were finishing lunch a yellow vegetable stew my sister-in-law had made jack had eaten hardly any of his food and my brother said not hungry buddy and took the dish away it didn't offer him anything different or dessert or anything after a couple of hours jack started saying he was hungry and my brother fetched the same dish from the fridge warmed it up and made jack eat it we offered to babysit so they could walk to the lake with their dog one evening i asked about warm milk for jacket bedtime and my brother said just give him water if he wants milk he'll ask he's not even a year and a half old i made him milk anyway and he drank it straight away so i guess he did want it my sister-in-law made a curry that i could tell just from the smell was incredibly spicy they fed some to jack he straight away started saying hot hot daddy hot and my brother just gave him this white sauce to put on it i couldn't believe it i went shopping for them at one point we've been doing shared trips to reduce the number of times anyone has to go out and notice they didn't order any baby food i checked the cupboards and there is one microwave ravioli thing for toddlers in the cupboard it says on it specially formulated for under twos so they clearly need this kind of food until they're older my final example and the worst in my opinion this is what started the whole conversation about this lockdown rules are relaxed in our area so we all went out to eat six adults and jack the waiter offered my sister-in-law a kid's menu and she said no just bring a small empty plate please then they gave jack shrimp steak fries and vegetables from their own plates after a few minutes jack started to choke really choke i was panicking but my brother just casually laid down his fork tipped jack upside down and whacked him on the back my sister-in-law didn't even get up from her chair then my brother put jack down and says you need to chew better buddy that's what those new champers are for everyone laughed and he went straight back to eating the meal that almost just killed him i felt like i was losing my mind and we left not long afterwards that was just this past weekend and my boyfriend and i have been kind of arguing about it since so what do you think i know i would be the idiot for messing in my brother's business but i would never forgive myself if something happened to jack you are the idiot i'm not seeing anything here that indicates a health risk for your nephew the curry may have been a bit spicy but i see no problem with having him try new foods reheating a meal from earlier in the day doesn't sound like a problem the choking incident could honestly happen at any time with most foods unless you're an expert in child development and or nutrition you should probably just mind your own business [Music] you are wrong all of those foods are fine for babies and he does not need any special food those formulated for under two things are pointless in fact your brother and sister-in-law are doing a great job introducing jack to different flavors he'll probably be much less picky as he gets older the choking is scary but kids often take huge bites and your brother did exactly what he was supposed to i'm female when i was little i got meningitis not sure why i wasn't vaccinated against it but i have a history of getting vaccines pretty late because my parents always put off going to the doctor so i got meningitis and my parents pretty much ignored it they say they thought i was just pretending or exaggerating so i could skip school and that it was just a cold or something for the record i have no history of faking sicknesses ever to skip school my parents just never trust us kids that we're sick so untreated meningitis isn't a good idea and it went quite wild as a result i am now hard of hearing to the point of needing hearing aids to function in life i have other damages due to meningitis but the hearing loss is the biggest mind you my parents never apologized or even recognized that they played a part in me becoming disabled for life they also never tried to understand me learning sign language to communicate with me without the hearing aids trying to understand what hearing loss is like what tinnitus is like etc so for the record my family isn't poor we can afford stuff my current hearing aids are super uncomfortable for me they are uncomfortable in my ears the left one keeps slipping out they're also visible which is a bother if i had a penny for every time someone scolded me for not removing my earbuds in class or whatever i could afford hearing aids on my own they do not help my tinnitus at all when school is over i just want to rip them out it's making me hate hearing altogether honestly can't even take them off at home because family can't be bothered to learn sign language or even write or even just leave me be for a while i asked my parents for new ones and they said i was ungrateful and spoiled i can hear with those and that's all i need they say i just want fancy ones so i can listen to music in class with them they will also bring up how expensive they are they can go up to several thousands but then they'll spend almost as much on a holiday or whatever i even tried asking for it for a birthday my brother got a 2 000 euro gaming computer for his so i figured it was reasonable but they said no because i was just trying to guilt-trip them and make them look bad what i tried talking about it to my school psychologist i'd like an actual therapist but my parents don't believe in therapy she said i should see things from their perspective and i can't expect my parents to just spend several thousand on me like it's nothing i'm starting to hate them as much as i'm starting to hate hearing and now i don't even know if they are the problem or if i am i know several thousand is a lot but i wouldn't ask for something so expensive if i didn't really need it you are not wrong your parents sound like the utter worse they neglected you you got dangerously sick and defeated and now they won't even do the bare minimum that isn't surprising given their earlier behavior what could possibly be their perspective that they should be as cheap now as they were a decade ago when they didn't get you vaccinated though you live in europe so that's likely that they were lazy not cheap they would have saved thousands of more euros if they had gotten you vaccinated when you were younger it's totally on them i don't think it's about the money they spend on holidays and expensive gifts for their other child it sounds like they have weird medical hang-ups background i 30 female lived with a long-time friend 30 male we lived together for six years and had known each other for 20 years close families he was very accepting that i came with a cat i paid for everything and legally owned her he adored her though and would spend hours cuddling her i owned everything all the furniture and the white goods because i had lived out of home before but he had not he got a girlfriend at the three and a half year mark and she practically moved in immediately i still paid half the rent though she was always very rude to me and clearly didn't want me alone with my friend there was only one lounge attached to the kitchen so he and i would previously watch tv together just be in the same room while another cooked worked etc when she moved in that had to stop because i was interfering with their couple time her attitude towards me got worse over time and my friends started treating me badly they would leave intimate toys all over the place watch movies late and loud when my bedroom was right there glare at me if i cooked during their couple time even though they hogged the tv between four to nine pm i got a boyfriend and started spending a lot of time with him after this things got worse my friend began locking my cat in small cages and putting her in the shower he also began talking differently to me and leave the kitchen in an absolute mess moldy to make it difficult for me to cook i found used protection in the lounge it then got to the stage where we wouldn't talk but all the tormenting was still going on i decided to leave and started looking for somewhere else the lease was up in four months but we had not discussed what we wanted to do i found out through a sister and a close friend of mine that they had been saving up this whole time to move out and would be moving in a few weeks this was news to me i couldn't afford the rent by myself i found a place before they did spoke to the real estate agent and advised them of the situation turns out he had not been paying his full share of the rent and she was not listed as living there the agent did not hold me accountable for any of it i paid four weeks leave before i left i didn't tell them when i was leaving and on a day when they were not home my friends helped me pack up and leave the house was cleaned spotless i also took all my furniture white goods and kitchenware so basically everything but his room i took my cat after i left i received hundreds of missed calls and messages from them mistreating me for not notifying them and taking everything and my cat most of his family also messaged me telling me what an idiot i am my parents knew what i was doing supported me but have also called me an idiot because our families are still not exactly on speaking terms not the idiot let me get this straight your friend was harassing you hurting your cat and planned to up and leave you with a massive bill for his rent and his unpaid rent and people are telling you that you're the idiot for getting out of there and leaving him with all of the problems of his own making he and his girlfriend have made their bed now it is time for them to lie in it it also sounds like your parents are supporting you because they know you're in the right but calling you the idiot because his family is taking out their issues on them they need to deal with the family instead of telling you you're the idiot because they have to deal with the other family's bowl update whoa did not expect this much of a response thanks for the support peeps the reason i made this post was because of how close our families are or were i'm talking barbecues every sunday in addition to other catch-ups and holidays that's how family members had my number in social media there was no issue with the landlord in australia we communicate through agents and they were fine i paid my rent direct to the agent by bank transfer so they could see that he was two months behind meaning as a collective we were one month in arrears we were about to receive a formal warning he's actually a triplet and his siblings sister and brother still support me on this move it's the parents his older cousins aunts etc that are mistreating me the four of us started out living together but the other two siblings moved out before the two and three year mark respectively the sister is the one that found out the friend and his girlfriend were going to leave they both helped me move out and encouraged me not to tell him they no longer talk to him over this again feel bad my parents fully supported me when i told my reasons but i don't think they thought his parents would react the way they did every time my parents reach out his folks ask when i will apologize this happened six months ago i live with my partner very happily and my kitty adores him i didn't intend on being petty or an idiot i left without notice because he has been very temperamental at the end and i was actually fearful of losing my stuff or my cat whether due to theft or damage i think the white goods question has been answered but to confirm it was fridge microwave washer and dryer you took the fridge to lmfaop i am living for this story i wish i could have taken all that stuff when i had to move out in a similar fashion but i did leave the fridge open because i bought all the food and i knew she wasn't going to be back for a while and it would all go bad i'm not off and petty but if you push and push me i will make it my life goal to inconvenience you at every chance good on you op glad your cat is okay [Music] you

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Published: Sun Apr 04 2021