Christian Parenting 101 Part 1 with Allen Nolan

this morning I'm starting a new sermon series entitled parenting 101 now the name of this series implies that this is an elementary sermon series designed to cover the basics of parenting and people that's true in this series I'm going to cover the basics of parenting but having been back in the children's department for a little over three months I've come to realize that that's what most of you need and I'm being serious bless your heart some of you need help and we're gonna help you that's what this series is about now I want you to know that that because is that we're covering the basics some of the things that I'm going to be sharing in this series I've shared before so if you've been a member of Cornerstone fellowship for over 10 years or more you're gonna hear some things that you have heard before but I'm also going to teach some things that are new some things that you've never heard so don't use that as an excuse well I've heard all of this before so I'm not gonna have to go to this series don't do that don't stay home because if you do that you're gonna miss out on some good information and some things that you've never heard Plus you need to hear the things you've heard before again notice what Peter told his readers in 2nd Peter chapter 1 verses 12 and 13 this is what he wrote to them therefore I will always remind you about these things even though you already know them I'll be honest with you Peter had the same problem that all pastors have today you get new people coming into your church so sometimes you need to teach things that you taught 10 years ago for the new people and yet when you teach that you have people who've been at your church so from the very beginning so they come up she said we've heard that before pastor Alan we want something new well Peter had the same problem so when he was writing his epistle this is what he said therefore I will always remind you about these things even though you already know them and are standing firm to the truth that you've been taught and is only right that I should keep on reminding you I usually only teach on something about twice every 20 years but not Peter Peter didn't live that long he said I'm gonna keep on reminding you as long as I live now according to Peter it's a good thing to be reminded of things that you've been taught because it grains it within your long-term memory and really that's the go we want to ingrained the Word of God and his principles within your long-term memory because if it's not in your long-term memory something was like I think I was taught something about that but I can't remember what it was well we want to put it in your long-term memory so let's start with the goal of parenting the goal of parenting is to raise your children to be godly and independent in other words you have two goals as a parent your first goal is to raise your children to be godly and nothing is more important than this nothing Mark chapter 8 verse number 36 says and what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but you lose your own so you see where we spend eternity is more important than anything else and as a parent it is your responsibility to lead your children to Christ and to instill God's Word within them it's not the church's responsibility it's not the pastor's responsibility it's your responsibility yes we are here to help you we have a great children's department we're going to make it even better we hired a wonderful children's pastor her name is Bobby Allison Bobby Allison Musgrove we have to call her Bobby Allison because her husband works here Bobby Wayne must grow so we have Bobby Musgrove and Bobby Musgrove but we hired Bobby Allison she has a doctorate degree she used to be a veterinarian but she's called in the ministry so she came in to take over our children's department and we're in the process of revamping it we're gonna take all year to do this but we're gonna have the best children's department in this area Barnett that's our goal we're going to make sure that we help you but even in doing this listen to me it's not the church's responsibility to lead your children to Christ yes we're going to give them the opportunity we're going to hope they do that but it's your responsibility to lead your children to Christ it's not the pastor's responsibility to still within them the Word of God that's your responsibility yes we're going to help you do that but it's not our responsibility it's your responsibility now I can tell you from personal experience that as a parent there is no greater joy in life than to see your children saved and living a godly life in fact that's what the Bible says look at 3rd John chapter one verse number four if you're a parent you should have this verse highlighted in your Bible because this is something that applies to you now of course John is talking about his spiritual children but that's an analogy to parents and their physical children notice what he says I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth people that is so true there is no greater joy than seeing your children saved and living a godly life on the other hand nothing is more heartbreaking than seeing your children lost and living in sin your second goal is to raise your children to be independent in other words when your children grow up they shouldn't be dependent on you either financially or emotionally if they are you have not done your job as a parent listen to me mothers I know that you want your children to be depended on you all the time even when they grow up that's not biblical trust me that will turn into a nightmare you do not want your children dependent on you either financially or emotionally look at 1st Thessalonians chapter 4 verses 11 and 12 and I'll prove it to you notice what it says make it your ambition to lead a quiet life you should mind your own business let's stop there mind your own business and work with your hands just as we told you so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody now notice that last part so you won't be dependent on anybody in anybody includes parents so as a parent you have two goals your first goal is to raise your children to be godly your second goal is to raise your children to be independent if those two things don't happen then you've not done your job as a parent yeah now I'm not saying this to embarrass you if you have grown children and they're not godly and they're not independent I'm not saying this to embarrass you I'm saying this for the benefit of those who still have small children in the home and for those who plan on having children in the near future you say I can't worry about sparing your feelings if I'm going to help them and I hope you realize that now if you've been coming for a while you've heard this before so let's go a little bit deeper and let me explain what it means to be godly because it's not enough to say that we want our children to grow up to be godly we have to know what that means and we have to know what that looks like so let me give you the definition for the word godly godly is a term that's used to describe a life that is pleasing to God so if I say that someone is godly what I'm saying is that they live a life that's pleasing to God and that's what we mean by godly we don't mean perfect many of you think that godly and perfect are synonyms they are not synonyms let me just explain something to you you cannot raise a perfect child you can't do it you want to know why because you're not a perfect parent no one is a perfect parent we can be a godly parent and we can raise godly children but we can't be a perfect parent who raises perfect children that is not the goal the goal is to raise children that are godly what do we mean by that we mean that they are living a life that's pleasing to God it doesn't mean that they won't screw up from time to time but if they screw up they have an advocate with the father they confess their sins and their sins are forgiven and they continue to live a life that's pleasing to God that's what we mean by godly in fact look with me if you would in the book of 1st Thessalonians chapter 4 verse number 1 and I'll show you what I'm talking about notice what it says finally dear brothers and sisters we urge you in the name of the Lord Jesus to live in a way that pleases God in other words to live a godly life to live in a way that pleases God as we have taught you you live this way already and we encourage you to do so even more now here's what's interesting you can live a life that's pleasing to God but you can keep taking it up a notch that's what this is saying and that's what we want with our children we want them to live a life that's pleasing to God but we want them as they grow in the Lord they keep doing things that are more and more pleasing to God so that's the number one goal of Parenthood to raise your children to live a godly life to raise your children to live a life that's pleasing to God now if you want your children to be godly you're gonna have to instill within them certain convictions and values now does everyone know what I mean by convictions because sometimes we talk about convictions but we don't really don't know what they are well dictionaries usually defined conviction as a strong belief but it's more than that that's really not a good definition in fact when Howard Hendricks was trying to explain the difference between a belief and a conviction this is what he said but belief is something you will argue about a conviction is something you will die for that's the difference between a belief in the conviction a belief is something you will argue about a conviction is something you will die for you see convictions are what caused us to stand up to peer pressure and say no even if it means that we have to stand alone then we stand alone let me tell you a little story about a pastor who lived during World War two his name was Dietrich Bonhoeffer how many have heard of Dietrich Bonhoeffer well if you were a pastor you would have heard of him he was a scholar and he was teaching in his church things that were against Nazism because the Bible teaches those things and when he saw Hitler rise to power he began teaching against it and he started teaching what the Word of God says well if you don't know this Hitler came in and said this is what I want the churches to teach you need to fall into line if you don't fall into line if you don't sign a loyalty pledge to the Nazi Party then you're going to be arrested and he couldn't do that and he continued to teach things and of course he was arrested and let go and they were trying to force him to do that well he came over to America and he started teaching what he believed and he could have stayed in America all during World War two but he got the feeling guilty because his parishioners were back in Germany and he said I deserted them just so that I won't die so he went back to Germany took over his church World War two hadn't begun and he started preaching against Nazism because of what the Bible teaches just teaching them the Word of God he was arrested he was sent to a concentration camp and he was hug that's the difference between a belief and a conviction and the Bible is full of examples of young people taking a stand because of their convictions Shadrach Meshach and Abednego we're willing to die for their convictions look at Daniel chapter three verses six 16 through 18 I'll show you what I'm talking about Shadrach Meshach and Abednego not AB Indigo that's how I always learned it in Sunday school because that was easy to say it's a bid nago but a bidding ago replied o Nebuchadnezzar we do not need to defend ourselves before you we only have to defend ourselves before God as the implication if we are thrown into the blazing furnace the God whom we serve is able to save us he will rescue us from your power your majesty but even if he doesn't we want to make it clear to you your majesty but we will never serve your gods or worship the gold statue that you have set up Wow people that's a strong conviction but that's the difference between a belief and a conviction most of you want your children to be able to stand up against peer pressure and to say no even if it means they stand alone even if it means and it will break your heart that they don't have many friends but in order to do that you have to instill those convictions and those values within them now as a parent you need to know what convictions and back as you want to instill within your children so when temptation comes they won't give in to peer pressure and if it means they have to stand alone then they stand alone so here's what I wanted to instill within my children first I wanted to instill within them that were saved by grace through faith and not of works lest any man should boast look at Ephesians chapter 2 verses 8 through 9 and I'll explain why I wanted to put this conviction err and steal this conviction within them notice what it says for by grace are you saved through faith and that not of yourselves it is the gift of God not of works lest any man should boast you see I wanted my children to know it's not by what we do that we're saved it's by what Jesus has done that we're saved it's by grace it's by believing that Jesus died for your sins that he descended into hell to pay the penalty for your sin and when all of your sins were paid for God raised him from the dead that's why we're saved it's by grace but I also wanted to instill within them that grace is not a license to see it look at Romans chapter 6 verses 1 and 2 notice what it says well then should we keep on sinning so that God can show us more and more of his wonderful grace of course not in other words what this is saying is grace does not give you the license to sin and even as adult Christian sometimes we begin to think that well I know I shouldn't do this but God will forgive me let me tell you what that means it means that you think that grace is a license to sin now again we're not saved by what we do we're saved by what Jesus has done but at the same time that grace that we have for our salvation does not give us a license to sin and I wanted my kids to know that I also wanted my kids to know that true grace teaches us to deny ungodliness a worldly lust and to live a life that's godly a life that's pleasing to God look at Titus chapter 2 verses 11 through 12 I'll show you what I'm talking about in this verse notice what it says for the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men teaching us that denying ungodliness and worldly lusts we should live soberly righteously and godly in this present world so I kept it pretty simple when it came to instilling certain convictions within my children I wanted them to know that God's grace is wonderful but God's grace does not give us a license to sin instead it teaches us to live a life that's pleasing to him let me say that again because that's so important that is though that those things are the convictions that I wanted to instill within them grace is wonderful we're not saved by what we do we're saved by what Jesus has done but that grace does not give us a license to sin instead it teaches us to live a godly life to live a life that's pleasing to God and those are the convictions that I wanted to instill within my children I also kept it simple when it came to my values the values I wanted to instill within them I taught my kids that in our home we value three things God family and education God is number one family is number two and education is number three I've told my personal assistant which is surely before surely it was Rosita and if I'm in a conference with someone or if I'm in some type of session where I'm meeting with someone and my children call or my wife calls you interrupt it because my children and my wife aren't more important than you the only one they're not more important than is God and I wanted my kids to know now they knew better to interrupt if it was unimportant and I was meeting with someone they learned that at an early age but if it was important what was important to them then it was okay to interrupt me why because I value God I value family and I value education my kids never questioned whether or not they were going to college it was understood we value education and I drilled into them when they were really little when they were just toddlers you don't get married until you have a bachelor's degree and then if you want you can get married by would rather you wait until you have your master's degree and every time that my children have graduated and we've celebrated the graduation I've always given the toast and I've always told the people who come because my kids already know this then in our family we value three things we value God we value family and we value education and then I would tell my children how proud I am of them I kept it pretty simple now your convictions and values might not be the same as mine they might be different and that's all right but you need to know what convictions and values you want to instill within your children and then you need to drill those into your children from the time they're toddlers to the day they leave home you speak it you live it and you expect them to embrace it let me tell you something about children it takes a rare child for this to be an exception children will live up to your expectations children will live up to your expectations I grew up in a home where I was expected to go to college just expected that's one that once did I went to college I raised my children with the expectation that that's what you'll do now I'm not saying that you have to go to college in fact let me just say this there's a lot of jobs where you can make a lot more money than those who go to college teachers you won't say Amen yeah yeah so I'm not saying you have to do that I'm just saying you need to know what convictions and want values you want to instill within your children and then you speak it you live it and you expect them to embrace it now if you want to know what's really in your heart when it comes to parenting let's do a little exercise what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna start a sentence and I want you to complete it I want you to finish it I'm gonna leave the last part of this sentence blank and you fill in the blank everyone with me how you finish this sentence will determine how you raise your children so here goes finish this sentence for me nothing pleases me more than to see my children what did you put in the blank happy nothing pleases me more than to see my children happy successful nothing pleases me more than to see my children successful what about popular some of you have a problem of popularity I don't know maybe you weren't popular in high school so you want your kids to be I don't get it I don't get it but nothing pleases me more than to see my kids popular what about good in sports nothing pleases me more than to see that my kids are good in sports or living a godly life for the Lord nothing pleases me more than to see my children living a godly life for the Lord now if your answer didn't involve the Lord in some way your priorities as a parent are wrong and you're not raising your kids the way that you should be and I guarantee you you will live to regret it trust me now let me give you a principle to help you reach your goals as a parent if you're taking notes I want you to write this down to reach your goal as a parent you have to spend the time and energy to form a strong bond with each of your children let me say that again so that you can take notes and our new app where it says notes this should be typed in there to reach your goal as a parent you have to spend the time and energy to form a strong bond with each of your children and let me tell you it takes time and energy to form the type of bond that I'm talking about but this is more important than anything else when it comes to instilling your convictions in your values within your children and let me explain why by giving you two axioms everyone knows what an axiom is right an axiom is a self-evident or universally recognized truth so let me give you two axioms here they are axiom number one the stronger the bond with your children the more likely they'll be to embrace your core values and convictions axiom number two the weaker the bond with your children the less likely they'll be to embrace your core values and convictions I knew as parent early on that if I wanted my kids to have my values they had to bond with me both of my girls had to be a daddy's girl and to this day when they write me cards they'll say your little girl daddy but I knew that I knew if I wanted them to embrace my convictions that I had to bond with them and Lisa knew that also now to be honest with you it's easier to bond with certain children than it is with others that's just a fact if you have more than one child you know that now I I didn't see that because I had two girls and it was easy to bond with both of them but what's kind of interesting I grew up in a family with five kids and I saw my parents work very hard to bond with each of us and yet it was easier for them to bond with some than it was for others it was easier for me to bond with my mother than it was for my father now I did bond with my father I'm not saying that but I'm just saying my mom spoke my love language we'll talk about that next week but because my mom spoke my love language I'm here to tell you I bonded with my mom you would have never known this growing up but I was a mama's boy I believed I was perfect not godly perfect my mom used to say my son Alan is perfect if he wasn't I would know I mean his mama and he's perfect I could remember being at school in sixth grade and the girls calling me conceited but I didn't know what that meant so I went to the teacher I went to miss Shan was it miss Joan the girls called me conceited I didn't know what it was but it had to be bad because they were laughing when they called me that and I can I'll never figure Dismas Jung said well Alan you aren't conceited why don't you go look that up in the dictionary we wouldn't look that up my senior year all the cheerleaders were playing songs for the football guys and the song that came up is you're so vain in the school assembly that's what they played I didn't get it I thought everyone grew up with a mother telling them you're good-looking you're so talented you're perfect I didn't realize that a lot of people didn't have mothers they did but more importantly that was my love language and so my mom spoke my love languages result of that we bonded and I'm here to tell you her convictions and her values were instilled within me and they eventually became my convictions and my values I'm a pastor today because of my mother now as I said I watched though because my parents had five children I look back and I I see these things I realized that it was easier for my parents to bond with certain children than it was with others and that's just a fact but if you want all of your children to grow up to be godly in to embrace your core values and your convictions and you have to spend the time and the energy to bond with each of your children so how do you develop a strong bond with your children well the first thing you have to do is you have to take advantage of every available opportunity to bond with them and to instill within them your convictions and your values turn with me if you would to the book of Deuteronomy chapter 6 verses 6 through 7 notice what it says you must commit yourself wholeheartedly we could stop right there most of you as parents are not committed wholeheartedly if you're going to be a parent you need to throw your heart into it because it is not an easy job you must commit yourself wholeheartedly to these commands that I'm giving you today repeat them again and again to your children talk about them when you're at home and when you are on the road and when you are going to bed and when you are getting up so according to Deuteronomy chapter 6 we need to take advantage of every available opportunity to bond with our children in order to instill within them our values and our convictions and let me give you the two most opportune times to do that now I can tell you right now you're not gonna like them but I promise you if you take advantage of these two opportunities it will pay huge dividends and you probably already know what they are but just in case you don't you're taking notes write this down number one eating dinner at the table for most of you it's a it's not eating dinner in front of the TV it's not eating dinner in the car as you're going somewhere and eating dinner at the table number two tucking them in to bed at night those are the two most opportune times to develop a strong bond with your children and to instill within them your core values and convictions so let's talk about them first let's talk about eating dinner at the table eating dinner at the table is meant to be a time of fellowship for the whole family and it opens up lines of communication between family members it is the perfect opportunity to talk with your kids and to find out what's going on in their life it's the perfect time to discover what they think how they think and why they think that way eating at the table and talking creates family unity and it instills within them the importance of family I cannot emphasize enough how important it is to eat at the table and to listen to your children in fact you need to think of your family as a small group seriously you need to think of your family as a small group and as the parent you are the small group leader your job is to facilitate the conversation at the table so that everyone gets a chance to speak everyone knows what the word facilitate means right it means to make it easy you're trying to get everyone involved making the discussion go easily it just flows so your job is to facilitate the conversation at the table so that everyone gets a chance to speak and so that everyone gets to know each other and I mean really know each other and to help each other now if you've never been in a small group shame on you every parent every parent needs to be in a small group in order to learn how to disciple their children because they both use the same methodology and the same techniques for facilitating discussions let me let me kind of explain this if you go to a small group you're gonna find out it's not like it used to be today there's all type of videos out there in fact we are a part of right now media we make it free to you every one of you can be watching some of the greatest messages in the world by using right now media but if you go to small group you're gonna watch a 15 to 20 minute little teaching on a certain subject after you watch that video the small group leader is going to come out and he's gonna facilitate a discussion on what you just watched he might start off with the question he said well you know after we've watched this let me ask you a question and he asked a question someone in the group answers someone else goes well yeah but I see it this way and they say something and pretty soon you've got this discussion going on about what was taught and how to relate that to your life now a good small group leader will watch for someone's dominating you always have someone in the group who will speak up first and after everyone talks they have to talk so it's they talk someone talks they talk again someone else talks they talk again someone else talks so small group leader has to know to go just that Carrie I noticed you haven't said anything what do you think about this and they draw everyone into the conversation well you need to understand your job as a parent is to facilitate the discussion at the table now listen to me if you don't spend at least four nights a week at the dinner table because you're running from one activity to another then you need to drop some of those activities eating together at the dinner table is morn than all of the things that your kids are involved in now I know that some of you think that your kids are going to grow up to be professional athletes but let me just be honest with you I've seen your kids I've watched them most of them can't chew gum and walk at the same time so you need to wake up and smell the coffee playing sports is good but being on the road and eating fast food in the car six nights out of the week is horrible it's bad people you need to eat dinner at the table at least four nights out of the week let me just tell you something about our church we're in a crisis mode right now in our church not numbers-wise and we're running great numbers we have people coming we have the finances or well we're able to be generous we're giving to ministries God is doing great things here at Cornerstone fellowship but let me tell you what the crisis mode is the crisis mode is our society our society has come to the place that everyone is so busy they don't have any free nights out of the week and here at Cornerstone fellowship we expect you to be in church three times a week we expect you to be a church on Sunday morning you need to be here Hebrew says not forsaking the assembling of yourselves together as a man or some yes you need to be here in fact assimilating yourself actually coming in and what that's talking about is soon agog a it's where the word synagogue comes that means you need to go to the synagogue for us is the church you need to be at church on Sunday mornings we also expect you to come on Wednesday nights and we expect you to be in a small group that's three times a week so if you come on Wednesday nights the minute majority of you aren't in small groups if you go to a small group you don't come on Wednesday nights we'll run six and seven hundred adults on Sunday morning 150 on Wednesday nights where are you well I know it's our society your kids are in dance they're in cheerleading they're in soccer they're in base bother and basketball they're in football and you're on the road six nights a week so we're kind of in crisis mode what do we do being in a small group is more important than coming on Wednesday nights so if you have a choice and you say I just can't do one more thing I'd rather you've been a small group than come on Wednesday nights and because our society is becoming busier and busier our church is looking at what can we do to help you because the Great Commission is to disciple you and to disciple your children what can we do so again you need to eat at the dinner you'd eat at the dinner you need to eat dinner at the table at least four nights a week and people that is a hard fast rule hard fast rule no ifs buts or maybes listen to me you think that you're sacrificing for your children but in reality you're sacrificing your children and by the time you find that out it's going to be too late don't be stupid don't be stupid now let's talk about tucking your kids into bed tucking your kids into bed is the most advantageous time to bond with your children now I know that you're tired at the end of the day and all you want to do is put them to bed so you can have a little bit of me time before you have to go to sleep but this truly is the most advantageous time to bond with your kids and all it takes is 30 minutes of quality time this is when you get the chance to lay down with them and to hug them and to kiss on them and then you need to read a Bible story and talk about how it relates to them and then you need to talk about God's plan for them and for their life and you pray together listen to me this is where intimacy occurs and the bond is formed and you don't have to do this every night but you do need to do at a minimum of four times a week one time mommy does it the next time daddy does it and you alternate why do you alternate because both parents need to bond with the children and it needs to be on consistent nights when you can build it up to be something special because it is special and on all those nights this is what you say let's get ready for bed so we can spend some time together and they need to see that your excited about it because this is your special time with them your time to bond with each other now what happens when they get too old to tuck in what do you do well that's when you transition from tucking them in to a morning quiet time in other words when your child no longer wants to be tucked into missing mom they're not too big to tuck in well then it's time to transition from a nightly devotion to a morning quiet time now if you've been doing your nightly devotions when you tuck them in the way that you're supposed to then the transition becomes smooth because they understand that you value spending time with God what's my number one core value God what's my number two family yeah and they should value spending time with God too because you do so they get to talk about the principle of firstfruits everyone knows the principle of firstfruits right by virtue of who God is he deserves the best of everything in the first of everything and that includes our time and money so the first part of our day belongs to God and during that time we read our Bible and we pray so they need to get up 15 minutes earlier than they normally do and this is what you tell them now that you think you're too old to be tucked in you're old enough to start spending time alone with God so I expect you to get up 15 minutes earlier like your mother and I do to read your Bible and pray and then you explain the first-fruits principle and then they pick a place in the house where they go to have their quiet time but it cannot be their bedroom anyone know why because the temptation to keep staying bad go right back to sleep is too great so what do you do you say go to living room and you need to check in on them because probably what they'll do is lay down on the couch and go back to sleep if that happens you'd go in there say hey this is not time sleep God is the most important thing in our family I'll tell you what let's do quiet times together so you read a short passage and then you say well you know how I'm gonna apply this to my life today you know what God's telling me about it and you explain and say do you think you can apply that to your life and then you say well today I'm gonna pray for this in my in my business I got it this I have this meeting or I have this to do I'm gonna pray that God moves what do you need prayer for and then you pray one day and then you let them pray the next day and you might tell them what you pray that's where they learn so you turn it from a nightly devotion into a morning devotion all right now this is the way you obey Deuteronomy chapter 6 verses 6 & 7 as a barre look over 7 again repeat them again again to your children talk about them when you're at home and when you're on the road when you are going to bed and when you are getting up so those are the two most advantageous times to disciple your children at night and in the morning when they're small it's tucking them in at night as they get older that's when they get up now listen to me when they get older it doesn't mean that you stop going into their bed at night now or their bedroom but the purpose is different the purpose is to talk and you'll be surprised at how much the talk with you if you form that bond they'll give it let me give you one piece of advice do not let them take their telephone into their bedroom at night in fact when you are at the dinner table all telephones including parents need to be collected put in a basket but a different room after they do their homework or you spend time together if it's game night or whatever you do if they need a little bit of time with their telephone that's up to you but you collect it before they go to bed at night they don't need to have it in front I made that mistake and I found out since my girls have gotten older they told me at 2 o'clock in the morning and they were getting text and I had no idea now next week I'm gonna give you 7 specific ways to form a strong bond with your children because remember the stronger the bond with your children the more likely they'll be tuned to embrace your core values and convictions the weaker the bond with your children be less likely to be to embrace your core values and principles but that's next week

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Published: Wed Aug 29 2018