CHANGE YOUR MINDSET - Motivational Speech Compilation

you have to make a choice either you're going to Resort back to your old place and remain comfortable and miss the opportunity or you're going to have to warn it bad enough to get out of your comfort zone I don't care who's doing better than me because I'm doing better than I was last year it's me against me there are many people who have the limitations in their minds who have lost that fire in their eyes think about the things that you tell yourself the lies you use to rationalize taking the easy Road you don't have time you don't have support you don't have the equipment or the gear you're too busy and you're too tired or you're too sore or you're just plain not feeling it lies lies lies there are some things that you're not going to get instantly you have to wear them down by continual pressure over and over and over again consistently consistently you got to be consistent consistency is having a goal and when you wake up that day and you don't feel like it you still do what you told your yourself you was going to do there's no easy way to the Top If you want to win in this life you got to do what you're supposed to and a little bit more and you can't ever stop in the Finish Line you know what you got to do to hit a golf ball like me you got to get up at 5:00 in the morning you go down you hit a, golf balls you hit to many golf balls that your hand starts bleeding then you run up to the clubhouse you wash that blood off and you go down you hit another thousand golf ball yeah you'd love to hit a golf ball like me if it was easy well nothing good comes easy it's you you're going to determine the outcome of your life you're going to determine whether or not your life is exciting or whether or not it's boring right then right now don't give in don't be like everybody else don't give up Don't Settle because things are hard you have to live your life with the expectation that great things are coming your way you have to expect it you cannot let your impulses govern and Rule your life so if you're at a place in your life and you ain't happy with it you have to change some things but you have to make a conscientious decision that you're going to change and it's not dependent on anybody else it don't matter what your mama think it don't matter what your children think it don't matter they have nothing to do with it this decision is yours and yours alone a lot of people never try anything differently because they have been convinced by people in their lives that they can't do it they're living within the context of the opinions that other people have of them the low expectations many people doubt themselves because when they thought about doing something at some critical point in their life somebody they respected and honored someone they trusted said you can't do that and they accepted that people want to find peace immediately you're going to find peace from going to war with yourself make a declaration to yourself declare all out war that you're going to get out of this R people's opinion of you is none of your business nor should you make it yours we are in control of our mind we believe it's the other way around no we put in our minds what we should do we have to reprogram it and tell us no no no we're good this sucks but it's okay you actually have a say so in how your life goes you have a determining voice into where your life can go there are moments that try the human soul so violently and so perplexing that if the truth were told all of us have had moments that we wanted to throw up our hands and walk away you don't have those many opportunities in life to take that Gamble and allow life to play you you must play Life Now will it be turbulent yes will it be easy no will you have some opposition yes will I make a lot of mistakes yes will I get hurt yes but guess what there's no gain without pain how do you stand the race less when you lost your money lost your car had no place to stay sleeping at people houses on the floor on their couch how do you handle the times when you borrowing money and couldn't pay it back you felt humiliated when people you love who didn't believe in you tell you you ain't nothing how do you keep on coming back again and again or you've lost your business or lost your job or lost your home and you've been completely devastated how do you come back people put out goals dreams and aspirations and what they want to accomplish but you very rarely hear people say what they're willing to sacrifice in order to make it happen they'll tell you the goal the Dream the aspiration they'll tell you they want to be elite they'll tell you they want to be great but they're not going to say I'm going stop going out on Friday night most people are not living their dreams because of fear ladies and gentlemen fear is the most subtle and destructive of all human diseases fear kills dreams fear kills hope fear put people in the hospital Fear Can agid you you fear ladies and gentlemen can hold you back from doing something that you know within yourself that you're capable of doing but it will paralyze you and I ask you a question what is the benefit what's the benefit of allowing fear to hold you back what's the benefit of giving up on yourself of not stepping out on life and taking life on what is the benefit for you what's the Plus in that you got to ask yourself how long am I going to allow this to hold me back it's not what they say about you that matters it is what you say about you that threatens your destiny you will never be defeated by what they say about you you will be defeated by what you say about you what would your life be like if you decided not to care what people thought of you what would your life be like if you decided to give up some of your fears what would your life be like if you decided to become courageous if you do the work consistently if you invest in yourself consistently 1+ 1 is always going to equal two 2 plus 2 is going to equal four and 10 years A mother can work is going to pay off you can do this you've got to remind yourself I know I got what it takes to do this and it's necessary that you go at it with everything in you pulling deep down within challenging yourself I'm better I'm better than I was when I went down it was good for me that I've been Afflicted I'm better for it I didn't like it but I'm better for it I couldn't see down there but I'm better for it see I was planted in a dark place but I'm better for every time you go through something dark and you can't see your way out remember you've been planted not been buried I'm not buried in this mess I'm planted in it I'm planted in it and if I'm planed in it expect me to come back up again imagine you're on your deathbed and standing around your deathbed are the ghosts representing your unfulfilled potential the ghost of the ideas you never acted on and they're standing around your bed angry disappointed and upset they say we came to you because you could have brought us to life they say and now we have to go to the Grave together so I ask you today how many ghosts are going to be around your bed when your time comes in the midst of adversity when the storm clouds gather and the Winds of challenge cowl it's easy to feel overwhelmed to question our strength and resilience but it's precisely in these moments of struggle that our true character emerges it's when we're pushed to our limits that we discover the depths of our courage our resilience and our capacity for growth Hard Times may bend us but they do not break us true Champions are forged in the fire of adversity when the weights feel heavy when the road seems endless when doubts start creeping in that's when the grind truly begins there will be storms there will be Darkness you will be alone you will feel defeated you will feel like this is the end but those are the times when you need to grind grind when nobody's watching there will be challenges along the way there will be moments of Doubt moments when it feels like the world is conspiring against you each day is a blank canvas waiting for us to paint our dreams upon it it's up to us to seize the day to embrace the possibilities that lie before us and to create the life we envision for ourselves yes there will be setbacks yes there will be heartache but remember this every setback is a setup for a comeback some of the greatest moments in history the most significant achievements have come from individuals who dared to venture into the unknown who were brave enough to embrace the discomfort of uncertainty getting out of your comfort zone isn't just about trying new things it's about expanding your horizons pushing your limits and discovering the full extent of your potential it's about challenging yourself both mentally and physically there's been many many many many many many many days where I didn't want to work out I just didn't feel like I had the energy and I just forced myself and I think there's very few people out there that know how to force themselves my whole life I've seen people from every different strata and in all of those different groups there were some people that were successful and got the job done and some people that were unsuccessful and couldn't get it done it it is a a daily principle of life like what you must get done it's about Choice the people that are successful decide they are going to be successful they make that choice the reason you don't have the skills it's cuz you didn't put in the 20 years you didn't make the day-to-day decisions you didn't do the things that needed to be done when you didn't feel like doing them you didn't practice when you needed to practice instead you chose the easier routes and that's the difference that's the difference between people who do things and people who talk about doing things I sto saying I've got to wait for good things to happen to me and I said I'm a rind I'm going to fight I'm going to work I'm going to press toward I'm going to learn I'm going to do everything in my power every single day I'm going to do everything in my power to become a Victor and not a victim there's no longer any room for excuses excuses are tools of the incompetent used to build Bridges to nowhere and monuments of nothingness well we've got no time for excuses nobody is going to give you anything that you have not earned nobody cares how tough your upbringing was nobody cares if you suffered some discrimination and moreover you have to remember that whatever you've gone through it pales in comparison to the hardships previous generations endured and they overcame them and if they overcame them you can overcome them too there's got to be those days you push through and they're they're probably going to be more numerous than the days you don't and so the benefit of discipline in my eyes has always been that through discipline I get things done there is no passion to be found playing small and settling for a life that's less than the one you're capable of living person's character is not judged when they ride the wave of success when everyone chants their name and you want to be their friend no your character is put to the test when your back is against the wall when things go wrong they always seem to happen at once and they just Compound on top of each other and it's it's pretty easy sometimes to to feel [Music] beaten but if you can get through to doing things that you hate to do on the other side is greatest I just wanted to show the world that if mental health could bring somebody as big as me and as strong as me to me knees then it could bring anybody to the knees and I thought to me myself if I can show the world that you can come back from it and get back in shape and get back to the top then anybody can do it the most important thing is just to increase those goals dramatically I've found that most people fail in life not because they aim too high and this most people fail in life because they aim too low and hit the first step is the hardest one it doesn't matter how big that step is or more important how small that step is too often we fall into the Trap of thinking we need to have everything figured out before we act you don't have to have a road map before you set out you don't even have to know what direction you're traveling you just have to be willing to move and leave the past behind what happens when you start to feel like a grind and things get grueling and they get gritty and they get tough and it gets harder to move through the process every sing single day most people [ __ ] quit but I tell you there are some times in life where you fall down you feel like you don't have the strength to get back up and fear comes in just that fear paralyzes you and I just want to ask you today do you think you have hope discouragement can creep in secretly and tell you life is not worth living if you listen at discouragement you will wonder if you're ever going to get out of what you're into there are moments that try the human soul so violently and so perplexing that if the truth were told all of us have had moments that we wanted to throw up our hands and walk away you see I will try 100 times to get up and if I fail 100 times if I fail and I give up do you think that I'm ever going to get up no but if I fail I try again and again and again for as long as I try there's always that chance of getting up and it's not the end until you've given up it was hard ladies and gentlemen it was very difficult to pick myself up each day believing that I could do it there were times that I doubted myself some point everything's going to go south on you everything's going to go south and you're going to say this is it this is how I end now you can either accept that or you can get to work you just begin you do the math you solve one problem then you solve the next problem that's what life is about stretching and challenging looking for ways that you can begin to improve yourself nobody believes in you you've lost again and again and again the lights are cut off but you still looking at your dream reviewing it every day and say to yourself it's not over until I win I let my disappointments destroy my faith the invisible prison of disappointment keeps you from trying keeps you from giving keeps you from risking so if you've been disappointed lately this is what I want to tell you that can either be a prison or a [Music] portal a portal leads to something greater a prison keeps you where you are this is your decision to make to come out of what you thought God was going to do what you thought life was going to do what you thought you were going to be and that's the prison that keeps you from from seeing how far you've actually come life doesn't happen to you we all think that life happens to me life happens for you it happens for you opportunities will come to you every day it's either for you you can remain scared of your opportunities or you can embrace them and take them but I finally realized that if you give up on your dreams if you give up on your dreams what do you have left nothing I can't live that way the reason you're here is because there's something in you that says I can do more this just can't be it there's something in you there's a calling on your life there's something in you that tells you this is not it for you you have not peaked here there's more in you that you are expressing eye is not seen ear is not heard if you challenge yourself if you perceive exist and persevere fight weak emotions with the power of logic fight the weakness of logic with the power of emotion and in the balance of those two you will find the strength to save yourself I don't stop any goal that you want to achieve that's worthwhile in your life require all in effort for you to get where you're going you should be consumed with that path it is the process of the grind that shaped you and forms you is not the game you think you become a champion on the field you don't you become a champion when ain't nobody watching you you're doing your own drills and your own way you're doing what coach tell you to do and you're doing your own stuff you become a champion in the dark when ain't nobody looking you don't become no Champion when you put no dog on helmet on you become a champion the way you eat you become a champion the way you think you become a champion in your briide when nobody knows what you doing when you putting in those extra RS most of us fail in life because we're afraid of what everyone around you is thinking that's 100% truth so we live by The Narrative of other people I will fail my way to success part of the reason why we have have to continue to work on ourselves and Surround ourselves with quality people is because you're going to have a lot of failures somebody said that life is like an onion you have to peel it one layer at a time and sometimes you cry life's going to happen to you when you have a dream you're going to get slapped around and don't take it personal don't ask why did this have to happen to me it's called life suck it up and move on get over it at some point everything's going to go south on you everything's going to go south and you're going to say this is it this is how I amend when you feel like giving up don't when you thinking about giving up don't when it look like you ain't going to make it keep going when they tell you you can't who are they when they tell you you're not going to make it don't believe them man don't believe them you got to be relentless most people go so far in life and then they par they stop dead in their tracks why because they take some hits when you have a goal and dream you will have tribulations things are going to happen to you life will knock you between the eyes it will catch you on the Blind Side come out of nowhere stuff you can't anticipate that will knock the win out of you you want to give up think of that guys you guys are saying you're doing everything right you're giving your all come on come on your all is a lot more than you know you got more inside of you to give stop selling yourself so short where does the switch come from the overdrive it is the thing that allows you to go the extra distance to dig a Little Deeper to push a little harder it takes both emotion and logic to reach your maximum potential to really give everything you have to go beyond your limits because emotion and logic will both reach their limitations and when one fails you need to rely on the other when it just doesn't make any logical sense to go on that's when you use your emotion your anger your frustration your fear to push further to push you to say one thing I don't stop I want you to think about how much you're actually putting in how much are you actually putting in are are you putting it enough to get by and then pretend like you're going to win or are you really putting in your best effort are you really putting in your best intentions are you really doing the work to be better are you doing the cardio are you eating the proper foods are you putting the proper things into your brain or are you just telling yourself that you're going to win someday when your feelings are screaming that you have had enough enough when you think you are going to break emotionally override that emotion with concrete logic and willpower that says one thing I don't stop you don't stop when you tired you stop when you're done you stop when you complete it when you execute it greatness is in you but the problem is somebody's got to push you the problem is somebody's got to give you a reward somebody's got a project the problem is you're not self-motivated you have to stay in beast mode what do you do when somebody's not there watching you what do you do when you have to either do what it is you know you're supposed to do or you get to take the playoff cuz no one's going to know the difference because it's really easy for anybody to come to work on the days they feel like killing it and killing it but what happens on the days that you don't feel like killing it what happens on the days that you don't feel like getting out of bed because those are theing days that are going to Define where you end up in your life most of the time we don't have someone there to keep us in line to make us do push-ups and give us a good swift kick in the ass when we slack off what we have to do is we have to be our own Sergeant to hold the highest standards and allow no slack most of you what happens is when everything is favorable you a beast but when the conditions ain't right you get smacked in the face you got to grow up and you don't get here by quitting when you tired you get here by quitting when you finish when you done your problem is you start something you stop it you start something you stop it you feel good you do it you don't feel good you quit people who do stuff consistently and on time they surpass people who talented and gifted and the problem with some of y'all is you want somebody else to support your dream it's yours I don't knowe you a dive it's your dream if you want it to happen get your butt up and make it happen if you want it to happen rise and grind yep it's tough It's hard I'm not telling you it's going to be easy but I can tell you this it will be worth the sacrifice if you can drive your way through it you become a machine you don't think about whether you're going to write in your journal or not you do it because you already made that commitment every single day no matter what you commit once to the thing that you're going to do and then you do it every single day that everyday method is the is one of the most powerful methods for reconstructing your entire life picking something one thing it doesn't matter I can't emphasize this enough how important it is for you to commit to small things on a daily basis because that is what transforms you it's those tiny little actions it's not the grand Visions it's the tiny actions that move towards a worthy ideal I know that it can be very very frustrating to try and become disciplined and I apologize that I haven't talked about the fact of of what to do if you come from an undisciplined family or you have undisciplined parents and that is because you don't get discipline from your parents you don't get discipline from your parents from your grandparents from your older brothers and sisters you don't get discipline from an external [Music] Source you have to get it from you holding the line maintaining the standard giving no slack none that's the discipline that's the discipline and it is hard and what happens is we actually talk ourselves out of the things that we truly want in life because we're so overly concerned with what people might say not with what they actually say with what they might say that we convince ourselves that we have all this fing hate and you don't people aren't talking about you and if they are it's because you're doing something great that's the [ __ ] truth and if you're doing something great you really don't care if people are talking about you person's character is not judged when they ride the wave of success when everyone chance their name and you want to be their friend no your character is put to the test when your back is against the wall the sun doesn't shine every day the storms will come there are times times when the nights will be long and dark and you will be alone there will be times when the darkness seems to consume everything but don't let it consume you even in the darkest times even in the strongest storms even when the sun is blotted out and the world is falling apart the darkness cannot extinguish your light you have the power you to do more than you can ever begin to imagine to control your destiny to make a difference in our children to make a difference on the planet to make an impact you have to know that this thing is going to work come hell or high water whatever it is that I set out to do it may not happen in 6 months it may not happen in a year but at some point my dream is going to become a reality you take one second when your mind and your body are saying we're done we need to quit you get remind yourself hang on a second I've willcome a hell of a lot more than this and I have the strength to persevere to move on to not settle for what's in front of me you have to remind yourself of how badass you really are the boredom of normality and the numbness of mediocrity stiffens your passions what that meant was I was so sick of myself I was so bored in my life man I was so tired of being mediocre I was just tired of it and it was all my fault I was mediocre because I wasn't doing the things to be exceptional you ever say to yourself man it's got to be more to my life than this if you've ever said that that's because it is and you got to get after that man you got to you got to go and get after that if you don't do it life becomes real normal and real mediocre to you now there's nothing wrong with being normal but if you if normal is getting on your nerves then you got to change something wisdom will come to you in the unlikeliest of sources a lot of times through failure when you hit rock bottom remember this while you're struggling Rock Bottom can also be a great foundation on which to build and on which to grow I'm not worried that you'll be successful I'm worried that you won't fail from time to time being scared to fail won't do anything in fact when you love success and you start going for it guess what happens you're going to fail you're going to fail 10 times 100 times maybe even a thousand times but that's okay failure isn't permanent falling isn't permanent you get right back up and keep going and this time you're going to be stronger wiser and you'll be more driven than ever and for every 10 failures you'll Land one success you have to love success so much that you're willing to fail 10 times before you can succeed one that's how a winner does it if you going to be successful in this game you got to have a dog within you you got to know it's a dog fight and you got to go get that fight life ain't going to be easy ain't nobody going to hand you nothing I need you to take control over every single area and we going to do it one day at a time and you going to get control and then someday going to be your day you know the war that you have to really fight is the war against yourself you have to fight a war against yourself now is not easy to look in a mirror and to change your own life it's hard as hell you have to take responsibility you have to learn new things you have to feel uncomfortable good because discomfort is how we grow that's how we become strong if you run away from discomfort and resistance your whole life you will always be weak everybody want to be a beast and tell time to do what Beast do everybody want to be a beast everybody got lie tattoos are lions but when it's trying to practice you ain't on beast mode sometimes life will take you to your knees sometimes you have to cry sometimes will hurt deep inside in time of adversity you don't have an obstacle to deal with you have a choice to make you always want to blame other people you want to hold other people to the fire but you're not holding yourself to the fire you need to look at yourself in the mirror and say why are you only giving 50% what's wrong with you and you need to get rid of them excuses you need to start pointing fingers at people and you need to start pointing fingers at yourself what did you not do and you keep saying you're not there because of something else because it's easier to blame somebody else all you got to do is look in the mirror all you got to do is deal with yourself and then we going to get to a whole other level you mind and your character are no different than your body and your muscles if you want to grow as a person you really have to make friends with pain embrace the discomfort enjoy a struggle you have two path in front of you right now one of them is going to be the harder one today it's going to be down right painful you will have to force your brain to think in new ways you might lose some friends but as you pull yourself away from that anger that hate eventually you will start to feel imp powered you will realize that you have the greatest power of all the power to change your own life you will be stronger than you ever known the other path is easy much easier you don't have to change anything everything in your life that you're aren't happy about can be someone else's fault but the end of that road is bring you will end up broken searching for ways to numb your pain and you Miser let's say you want something really bad and you keep trying and you keep trying and you keep trying and on the 10th try you don't get it still and then you say uh okay it must be a sign that I need to stop doing what I need to do but what if you didn't know that on your 11th try you would have made it you will fail in your comfort zone success is not a comfortable procedure it is a very uncomfortable thing to attempt so you got to get comfortable being uncomfortable able if you ever want to be successful start putting some pressure on put some pressure on yourself you got to come out your comfort zone because your comfort zone is the deadliest place you will ever be if you're going to do a job do it right I've always been told how average I can be always been criticized about being average but I want to tell you something I stand here before you before all of these people not listening to those words but telling myself every single day to shoot for the stars to be the best that I can be good enough isn't good enough if it can be better and better isn't good enough if it can be best what you do at night matters what you do in the morning matters what you do on Sunday matters the success clock doesn't give a [ __ ] what day it is it's going to run no matter what we get what we're looking for we filter out everything else in our life you're going to get what you're looking for even if it doesn't even exist even if it's not even there if you're looking for negatives if you're looking for setbacks if you're looking to be looked over you will find it even though it's not supposed to be there but if you're looking for victory for winning for recruits for people to change your life for magic moments you will find them if you're looking for them I promise you that's true in life [Music] I know that it can be very very frustrating to try and become disciplined you don't get discipline from your parents from your grandparents from your older brothers and sisters you don't get discipline from an external Source you have to get it from you holding the line maintaining the standard giving no slack none that's the discipline that's the discipline and it is hard and if there's one thing I would say that does make it easier it's to Envision what what it feels like when you're done when they're done they feel good contrary to that Envision what you will feel like later when you let the discipline slack you know the feeling feel weak and defeated and you know that you're falling [Music] behind people want to know know where I find my strength at where I get my strength I get it from a lot of places but right now this morning I'm getting it from there's not a look at that's up there's not a car there's not a person everybody's in their bed sleep dreading that it's a Monday hate it's a Monday and I'm loving it I'm loving that where everybody's getting weaker I'm getting stronger it's not about the running the swimming the push-up to situps that's about what those things do for your mentality you don't get better on the dad on C you get better by coming out here and getting the after every dag on day ask yourself which one you want to feel in 10 minutes when the thing is done when the discipline has been implemented remember what that feels like and then remember that those minutes and those hours they turn do weeks and months and years and holding the line in those critical minutes will put you in an infinitely better place physically and mentally if you maintain the discipline it's time to stay focused it's time to decide clubs partying trying to fit in and socialize rub elbows with everybody so people can stop calling you weird why are you so antisocial because I'm trying to get it why are you staying on the basketball court so much because I'm trying to get it why are you out there practicing in the hot sun when ain't nobody else out there because I'm trying to get it these clubs these parties all this [ __ ] ain't going nowhere the more weird you are is a reflection of how committed you are to focusing on your [ __ ] molding and shaping and developing your ideas and your craft so that when it's time for you to make your rounds you going to fly you still got work to do stay on that basketball court stay on that football field it's grind season H take the call to Adventure into the unknown and risk everything for what's merely a dream the man who loves walking will walk further than the man who loves the destination and when you love the journey the goals just happen you hit Milestones as a side effect cuz it doesn't matter at that point I don't care if I can lift this much weight or run this fast I mean that's cool but I don't love it as much as I love the journey I love the journey what does the journey consist of sucking at something failing getting better if you don't know what your path is if you don't know what feels good if you don't have inspiration dragging you down a path then you must experiment go with the hunches go with the feelings go with the nontraditional path go where you can be a Pioneer do something new do something revolutionary be a leader be a wild man make crazy decisions but make them grounded in your heart you've got to be dangerous you've got to take action you've got to ignore everything everyone else and you got to love yourself trust yourself listen to yourself and follow your gut

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Length: 42min 41sec (2561 seconds)

Published: Wed May 01 2024