(upbeat music) - [Narrator] Hey, Psych2Goers, welcome back to another video. Thank you all so much
for the love and support that you've given us, enabling us to make
yet another exploration into everyday psychology. So, let's begin. They like me, they like me not. They like me, they like me not. Does it feel as if you're plucking petals trying to decipher
whether someone likes you? Or do they avoid you? Or are you overthinking it? You may think someone can't stand you and that may not be the case at all. It can be hard to figure out someone's true thoughts about you but there are some subtle
signs that you can pick up on to get to the bottom of it. Whether it be romantic or just
general feelings about you. Here are six signs a person likes you, even if you don't think so. Number one, they try to get close to you. You must've thought this obvious, right? But don't be surprised because even so it's actually quite easily missed. Yeah, truly. Have you ever noticed
anyone always around you, perhaps out of the corner of your eye, you always see the same person. You may not think much about it but people try to get physically closer to the people that they like. Whether it be by moving
objects separating you two such as a plate or a pillow, or taking the same walking route as you. People try to get close
to you in many ways. After all, if someone
truly doesn't like you chances are you wouldn't
see them very often. Number two, they walk beside you. Any guesses as to why this may be a sign? Here's the thing. It's easier to talk to,
maintain eye contact and get physically closer to someone when walking next to them. So naturally people who like you will wanna walk beside you
and maintain your pace. However, someone may also
like you and walk behind you. This means they're too
shy to walk beside you but still wanna be near you. If they walk in front of you they're probably more concerned
with where they're going than talking to you. Basically someone who likes you will try to be near you
in any way they can. Number three, their body
language is open to you. Did they tilt their head towards you, or lean in when you were laughing in your recent conversation with them? Were they playing with their hair while talking to you? In a conversation, body
language is everything. Seeing as most people don't
know how to control it, it subconsciously gives away
how a lot of people feel more specifically the way
people point their feet is a big indicator. If they're pointing at you, it probably means they're subconsciously
wanting your attention. The feet are the first things that move when going somewhere. So the direction they're facing also hints at where the
person would like to be. If they're facing you, the person may be wanting
to get closer to you which is a big sign they like you. Similarly, if someone has
their hands on their hips exposing their stomach to you it's a good sign that they're open to you. As overlooked as body language is it can tell you a lot about whether someone likes you. Number four, they sit
up straight around you. Did you know someone sitting
up straight around you isn't necessarily a sign of them being on edge and uncomfortable? It can also mean they're
trying to look their best in front of you. When sitting up straight, you show off all your strong
features and look a bit taller. So people often set up straight around people who they want to impress. Therefore, when someone sits up straight, they may look rigid and like they're trying to
put distance between you two but they may be simply
trying to impress you. Number five, they blink less around you. Sounds bizarre, right? But hear this out. Your blinking rate actually
does say a decent amount about how you're feeling. According to a study,
cited by Psychology Today, people tend to blink more
when they're anxious. Blinking also serves as a way to subconsciously block
out things we don't like. So if a person blinks less around you chances are it's a good
sign they like you. It's their subconscious way of trying not to miss anything about you. All eyes on you, watch out. And number six, they raise their
eyebrows when greeting you. What's a weird thing you've
noticed about people being happy and their eyebrows? Hint, it has something
to do with going up. People tend to raise their eyebrows when they're happy and excited. So you often subconsciously
raise your eyebrows when you're happy to see someone. It's easy to overlook and if someone doesn't raise
their eyebrows around you it doesn't mean that they hate you. However, it is a sign that they like you, if they always raise their
eyebrows and smile at you it's never easy guessing
others' true feelings about you. It's always a flip-flop between considering you're overthinking or perhaps they do actually like you. You are not alone in
this struggle for sure. Almost everyone has spent many a nights staying up late and replaying little interactions and scenarios. But the important thing to remember is that whether someone likes
you or not is not your fault. What matters most is
that you love yourself. Do you have anyone in mind right now? If not, do you think
these signs will help you in the future? Feel free to leave a comment
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