5 Ways to Keep it CLASSY in a TRASHY Society

if you clicked on this video you've probably noticed things have gotten pretty trashy in our society trashy behavior trashy language trashy dressing and trashy attitudes what is a classy lady to do in today's video I'm going to share five tips to keep it classy in a trashy society welcome back to the daily connoisseur my name is Jennifer L Scott and I am the author of the madam chic series as well as the new book connoisseur kids I have a passion for living well living beautifully and living with class so if you have the same passion I invite you to subscribe to my channel and don't forget to hit the bell for notifications in today's video I'm going to share five tips on how you can keep it classy in this trashy society let's jump right in tip number one always take the high road always this of course is much easier said than done when someone angers us it's totally natural to want to appeal to our baser instincts and lash out at them we naturally want to defend ourselves but to keep it classy you should always pause before reacting and react in the most gracious way imaginable take the high road people seem to have no self-control these days full-on brawls are taking place everywhere from Disneyland to cruise ships to the airplanes up in the air what is going on here people are lacking the self-discipline that it takes to take the high road if someone angers you instead of lashing back out at them just don't even react at all say something nice to them instead watch how this disintegrates a heated situation you can't fight with someone who's not willing to fight you back you might be fuming inside but watch how this dissolves the situation if the brawling people at Disney the cruise ship and the airplane had heeded this advice they would not be in the news today in such a negative light tip number two keep your language clean swearing has gone mainstream not only do you hear it out and about on a regular basis but advertisers publications even quote-unquote journalists are swearing in their work as well what has the world come to in order to keep it classy we must keep our language clean it is never okay to swear in a public place where children are present it's also never okay to swear in a business setting in front of other clients or customers set yourself apart from a trashy Society by keeping your language clean tip number three maintain an air of mystery we are living in a social media age where people love to share aspects about their daily life I get it I'm a youtuber and I'm a blogger and I do the same thing with the hopes of helping other people but truly we should be cautious about what we share we don't need to share absolutely every intimate detail of our daily life including romantic interludes or details about our children that don't necessarily need to be shared in order to keep it classy in this modern day trashy society we should guard ourselves and maintain an air of mystery always question when you're about to share something what the purpose is of sharing it is it private information that should be kept between you and your family or is it information that is going to better the world that's one way that you can choose what you share and what you don't share tip number four look presentable always in this tip I am going to focus on dress we have become extremely casual as a society and people don't really put too much thought into how they present themselves anymore I recommend finding your unique individual style whatever that is and expressing yourself beautifully through clothes this does not mean that you have to wear expensive clothing it simply means that you put thought into your wardrobe this also doesn't mean that we all have to look the same whether your style is bohemian classic preppy sophisticated sporty it doesn't matter just put thought into your appearance and present yourself to the world beautifully you will set yourself apart from all of the trashy dressing that is going on in today's society tip number five cultivate your mind one of the hallmarks of a trashy society is dumb down entertainment and lots of it Milas niss proliferates people are content with laying down on the sofa and watching hours upon hours of reality TV that has trashy arguments and behavior instead elevate your entertainment cultivate your mind at the same time return to reading good books or at least listening to the audio versions of them choose classy music to listen to music that's not laden with profanities and vulgar expressions I love classical music but I know that's not everyone's cup of tea there's beautiful music and almost every genre that you can seek out and listen to to elevate your everyday life enjoy poetry take up a new hobby like painting or play an instrument that you haven't played in a long time in short cultivate your mind and never stop learning and loving life veer away from trashy entertainment that involves dumb down mindlessness for more on this I do a chic assignment every single month on my channel where I assign beautiful music beautiful poetry and artists to study and that is a wonderful way to jump back in to cultivating your mind I hope you enjoyed my five tips on how to keep it classy in a trashy society I would love to hear your thoughts and your tips down below give this video a thumbs up if you would like to see part two and I thank you so much for joining me today on the daily connoisseur I will see you in my next video bye [Music]

Channel: the Daily Connoisseur

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Keywords: Keep it classy, classy girls, classy behavior, trashy society, yoga pants society, classy, trashy to classy, 5 tips, Daily Connoisseur, Jennifer L. Scott, Madame Chic, how to be a lady, etiquette tips

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Length: 5min 44sec (344 seconds)

Published: Thu Oct 10 2019