I'VE HAD ENOUGH.

I think as women in this current ERA we're not very good at listening to our own Cycles I'm not going to micro analyze why because that's not what this video is about but I think we're not very good at understanding our Cycles I'd like to hope that the new generations are getting better at this the kids the Gen Z please tell me that you you are getting into your Cycles my girls you need to get into your Cycles but I think even if we are tuned into our cycle um we still live in this masculine World maybe today you feel exhausted and depleted for many reasons but you're still going to persevere stuff still needs to get done I'm self-employed and I can play around with how I use my time but if you're traditionally employed then um you know you can just say goodbye to even thinking about taking a break I'd like to think you could take a break or at least work less but now I'm swerving off into a tangent there are times in the month where I have plenty of energy there are times in the month where I don't have any energy to give the days where I can only give 5% I I need to be able to just give the 5% and then just you know not feel like oh I should have done this or I disappointed cuz I didn't get enough done or whatever XYZ I guess I've had enough of trying to do things when I don't feel I can do them I've had enough of beating myself up when I can't get stuff done but equally something I've had enough of is trying to run a business that's simultaneously my creative expression because well it's a business because I make a living from it it pays the bills the cat King Gary who recently graduated to king um you know he's got needs he needs to be looked after realistically it's a business um but on the other hand realistically also you you come here because um not because I'm a robot business but because you want to hang out with me maybe you like the way I make my videos and maybe there's something about my work that speaks to you that comes from my creative Essence that comes from my meanness yes like my ability to express me or whatever I'm seeing that's what you come for that's got nothing to do with business that's finding a way to express myself which is driven by my my Artistry my Artistry there's a cycle involved in that as well part of why I got very disillusioned with the previous career pathway I was in was because there was no space in the Arts curriculum for boredom for messing around for for just sitting for not working obviously School can't teach a kid to be bored but quite early on I realized hang on this isn't how the creative process really works like you can't just constantly have stimuli and constantly be creating and processing real creativity true Artistry needs space you need space to sit and switch off to get board that's part of the creative process it's an undeniable part of the creative process and I guess maybe you know this conversation about creators your favorite creators getting burnt out which is you know like how many of these videos have you seen already where someone I've made videos like that I'm burnt out I need to take a break I think that comes in part from denying this this truth about creativity that you can't just continuously spit stuff out like your brain your creative brain needs to rest it needs to switch off and it needs to just do nothing it needs to be inactive when I go away and I take a break and I actually really switch off that's when the creativity comes back that's when the new stimuli can come in they bring something new to me and that's when I can I can create again so this business needs to breathe like like me it needs to breathe with my creativity it needs to inhale exhale travel is a genuine thing that keeps my creativity alive I cannot tell you how inspiring those trips last year were for my creativity it was a combination between completely switching my brain off it's about taking your brain off the little details of all the you know the accounting the this and that all the practicalities in combination having new things new stimuli new pretty things to look at and that's 100% what makes me Thrive creatively that's what I need to thrive creatively so why am I telling you this um because I'm going away now I don't know if there'll be a break built into this little Adventure I don't know I might make this video and put it in a spot where a break could be but basically I need to take a a sour I did get some really cheap airf fars to New South Wales so that's where you find me preparing for now I'm going away uh in the next few days I think you might enjoy me packing for that because this is a no-brainer this is me sitting down chatting about the stuff that's already happening in my head I haven't strained my creative pore to make this piece of content for you and sometimes it needs to be this so in a second I am going to get into the things I'm bringing but if you are enjoying this video join me in my patreon community a new video will go live there this Friday as it does every week and and that video will be about preparing to leave but hey let's get into what I'm bringing Along on this trip with me I have to say that I am already worried about the weather it's been raining a lot over there and it sort of feels like New South Wales has been flooded for the last few years that's the Western Australian's perspective anyway cuz we've had barely any rain they've got rain all the time I don't know how to deal with that I've forgotten had a winter I think what I'm going to do is I'm going to bring a pair of sandals because I'm just these are just my favorite shoes that I'm wearing in Western Australia at the moment right now pair of sneakers I think I do need to bring a pair of winter boots I think these ones because what I also wanted to bring was a pair of going out shoes but I I don't want to bring four pairs of shoes I'm going to bring this slightly more elevated boot with me I am packing in my tiny carryon as always now in terms of bags I'm probably just going to bring my cheapy unique Clow white bag and I am definitely going to bring my fancy little Gucci she's so light she finally gets to hit the road she has not been traveling yet she's the perfect travel accessory now in terms of the basis of my wardrobe I intend to go to leisurely places yeah I just want to soak in the vibe bringing two Leisure sets well I don't know if they're Leisure sets per se I'm definitely bringing my black Fitness two-piece top bottom set these charcoal yoga pants do go really well with this charcoal Marino sweater definitely going to bring this white boob tube and I have a black boob tube that's exactly the same I think I'll bring that as well another thing I'm going to bring is this pair of pants I will link them below they're just a very simple kit flare that I'm super excited about I haven't really had time to play with them much yet I just literally got them in the last few days they will pack easily and they're perfect for an urban setting but you know they're cute they can be dressed up or dressed down probably bring my black turtleneck yeah I haven't had the chance to wear that much and I'm super excited about it now I think I will bring this skirt SL shorts my whatever you know what it is this thing that looks like a skirt but is actually a pair of shorts with like a little security flap in front of it this is kind of my go-to leure outfit at the moment and I think this shirt will look cool with the shorts skirt shorts let's try that yeah great combo with a bag as well I'm also definitely going to need to bring a rain coat unfortunately because it looks like it's going to rain a lot while I'm there my God I literally have not worn this in close to a year cuz I was I was away for a chunk of Western Australian winter oh and you know what this raincoat will actually go with um the DI Monte shirt quite nicely I have to say I'm very indecisive I I not fully resolved this pack which doesn't usually happen when I make a video about a pack but I think I guess that's part of the point I'm trying to get across to you it doesn't have to be perfect and sometimes it's fun to connect with people over indecision so if you are watching this video and you feel like you have some ideas about what I should and should not be bringing please chat with me in the comments I mean honestly by the time you see this video I probably already would have left but still it it'll be nice to have a chat I'm loving this coat I forgot how much I liked it this is great I get to play with it why isn't it focusing okay this looks cool I'm also tempted to bring the leather jacket that goes with this um I'll show you I am thinking though it might be a bit too much to pack uh so another one for the question mark section oh yes this is definitely a warm wintry Vibe for sure and now aside from all that I'm definitely going to bring some tops some simple cotton tops and maybe another net or two and that's that's basically it 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this video it's uh it's important to take breaks it's important to listen to Cycles thank you so much for joining me today I'll chat with you in the comments [Music] bye

Channel: Patricia Mycyk

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Length: 12min 33sec (753 seconds)

Published: Wed Apr 24 2024